FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone notice less and less couples/females on local updates?

By *ootnootboop OP Couple
9 weeks ago

Cheshire

As above really.

Our local updates seem to be devoid of any couples or single women. They are obviously out there as we meet them in clubs and such, but is it a pattern where you are in the world?

Our local update has 11 posts from couples or women in 24hrs and 67 from guys.

What's yours? And why do you think that is??

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
9 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

Maybe there are six times as many single guys on here?

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By *rpeggioCouple
9 weeks ago

Baughurst

We block single guys. We get 100% updates from couples and women

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By *ootnootboop OP Couple
9 weeks ago

Cheshire

"We block single guys. We get 100% updates from couples and women

We have them blocked too. Justakimg an observation on our local feed when all the filters are lifted

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By *oxycouple28Couple
9 weeks ago

bexley

We have found that most couples we meet, while they may have an account on here dont actually use the site.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
9 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Posting anything like photos or statuses results in an inundated inbox of banality. It’s easier and way less stressful to hunt than farm. We approach chaps/couples that we’re interested in. No need to be found.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Local updates are triggered by uploading photos, posting status updates and displaying verifications.

Maybe couples just do this less than men, so you see less in your feed? 🤷‍♂️

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By *hechonkyduoCouple
9 weeks ago

Café Leblanc, Stourbridge

Our local updates are about 80/20 in single males favour.

I would assune its because couples are less likely to post updates looking for fun and pictures.

Also a staggering amount of single men openly looking for drugs.

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By *enelope2UWoman
9 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

I don't want to meet single women as I'm straight not fab straight. Your feeds based on the things you've selected as an interest.

If you want to see everything then change your settings. I don't care to see what or whom I'm not interested in, or compatible to.

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By *rdere OpusCouple
9 weeks ago

Brum - ish

"We block single guys. We get 100% updates from couples and women

Same.

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By *ootnootboop OP Couple
9 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Local updates are triggered by uploading photos, posting status updates and displaying verifications.

Maybe couples just do this less than men, so you see less in your feed? 🤷‍♂️"

True! Think it's more of a male thing posting updates and the like

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By *ootnootboop OP Couple
9 weeks ago

Cheshire

"Our local updates are about 80/20 in single males favour.

I would assune its because couples are less likely to post updates looking for fun and pictures.

Also a staggering amount of single men openly looking for drugs."

We have alot of guys looking for drugs too.

Also one female that is extremely persistent... We're sure there's other avenues that probably get a better result?????

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By *bi HaiveMan
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9 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Our local updates are about 80/20 in single males favour.

I would assune its because couples are less likely to post updates looking for fun and pictures.

Also a staggering amount of single men openly looking for drugs.

We have alot of guys looking for drugs too.

Also one female that is extremely persistent... We're sure there's other avenues that probably get a better result?????"

If this is seen please report. Definitely not allowed on Fab.

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By *w funwifeWoman
9 weeks ago

near taunton

yes there are less couples /women now than ive ever notice before but its not just online some clubs are ive notice less couples /women with the numbers of men increasing...

also at least half the couple /women online are not players / fake male run profiles..

so we stopped looking online for couples/women years ago and just meet at clubs / private parties..

also gogging seems to be gathering speed again h more couples just doing that rather than online

men well 1 women per 100/200 men depending on where youi live is always going to make it very differcult for you

the only way to suceed on this scene is not to put all you eggs in one basket

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By *elkieWoman
9 weeks ago

Durham

It’s Saturday morning. All the single blokes are posting statuses trying to arrange last minute plans

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By *issmorganWoman
9 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Probably down to numbers.

I'm only looking for single men, so that's all the updates I see.

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By *teinsGateDuoCouple
8 weeks ago

Newcastle under Lyme

It's the same old same old as opposed to less.

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By *entdingdongCouple
8 weeks ago

Gravesend

we areon here

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By *an1978Woman
8 weeks ago

Wales

Ratio when I came on said 150 updates in "local"

2 women, 16 couples, rest men

(Though none within an hours drive)

Perhaps they just use the site differently, they don't need to be "pick me" on the status updates.

They can browse and choose who to contact.

Most interactions are not public.

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By *randMrsLPCouple
8 weeks ago

london

as a couple - all we need to do is put out an advert and the messages come roling in

like any site like this or dating sites, many, many, many more single guys than females/couples.

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By *w funwifeWoman
8 weeks ago

near taunton

on our couples progile or my single profile getting messages is easy as soon as the meet sign goes up its overdrive as its all guys as said above couples and women are easier to find in the real world ie clubs /parties/real world and bi women gay clbs/gay nights/realworld and one real good lesbian site..

couples and women have taken a decline since covid plus add in all the fake men run womens/couples profiles there seems to be no new couples/women coming in swinging wise loads of content makers / ££££ earners who in my mind ruin the scene with all the falseness

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