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"I'm a police station lawyer. Regular occurrence, mainly males, in for indecent exposure or gross indecency. Only takes one person to be offended!" so there is no difference between a couple "playing between themselves" and a single male playing with themselves, it all depends on the thoughts of the person coming across them? | |||
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"I'm a police station lawyer. Regular occurrence, mainly males, in for indecent exposure or gross indecency. Only takes one person to be offended! so there is no difference between a couple "playing between themselves" and a single male playing with themselves, it all depends on the thoughts of the person coming across them?" Put it this way, if I was walking along minding my own business and not looking to see people fucking, I would be pretty pissed off about it and shouldn’t have to see that if I wasn’t looking for it. It doesn’t matter if it’s a man, woman, couple etc, it’s an intrusion on the rights of others. I could have my kid with me or anything. Nudists are, in my experience, very much about the nudity being a freedom, not to get aroused. So I imagine despite being naked themselves, they probably felt the same way I would | |||
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"We have never been caught but I think J and I have had sex, oral or some form of sexual touching in every castle across Wales. We went for our honeymoon and damn we made the most of it. " And it appears you live in a place that is very appropriate. | |||
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"We recently had the pleasure of trying a UK nudist beach, which was quite deserted and we enjoyed it so much, it lead to more. UK law does not make nudity illegal anywhere unless you are doing it to offend. Sexual acts in public on the other hand are. Which is a real shame as it's really enjoyable. Has anybody ever been caught by the authorities doing something more than nudity and what were the consequences?" I'd personally be overjoyed to catch you playing and watch you. If you are in a reasonably secluded spot away from families then no crime. I understand comments re children seeing it... But if you are a lone/paired adult and you are traumatised by the site of a couple playing then you are working hard at being offended. The world has much worse to offer in terms of the real atrocities going on every day. We are privalaged to be in a position where all we have to worry about is choosing what to be offended about next | |||
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"We recently had the pleasure of trying a UK nudist beach, which was quite deserted and we enjoyed it so much, it lead to more. UK law does not make nudity illegal anywhere unless you are doing it to offend. Sexual acts in public on the other hand are. Which is a real shame as it's really enjoyable. Has anybody ever been caught by the authorities doing something more than nudity and what were the consequences? I'd personally be overjoyed to catch you playing and watch you. If you are in a reasonably secluded spot away from families then no crime. I understand comments re children seeing it... But if you are a lone/paired adult and you are traumatised by the site of a couple playing then you are working hard at being offended. The world has much worse to offer in terms of the real atrocities going on every day. We are privalaged to be in a position where all we have to worry about is choosing what to be offended about next" This is an absolutely abysmal take. | |||
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"We recently had the pleasure of trying a UK nudist beach, which was quite deserted and we enjoyed it so much, it lead to more. UK law does not make nudity illegal anywhere unless you are doing it to offend. Sexual acts in public on the other hand are. Which is a real shame as it's really enjoyable. Has anybody ever been caught by the authorities doing something more than nudity and what were the consequences? I'd personally be overjoyed to catch you playing and watch you. If you are in a reasonably secluded spot away from families then no crime. I understand comments re children seeing it... But if you are a lone/paired adult and you are traumatised by the site of a couple playing then you are working hard at being offended. The world has much worse to offer in terms of the real atrocities going on every day. We are privalaged to be in a position where all we have to worry about is choosing what to be offended about next" But we're not quite privileged enough to have the audacity of thinking that if others see us having sex in public it's a them problem  | |||
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"I'm a police station lawyer. Regular occurrence, mainly males, in for indecent exposure or gross indecency. Only takes one person to be offended! so there is no difference between a couple "playing between themselves" and a single male playing with themselves, it all depends on the thoughts of the person coming across them? Put it this way, if I was walking along minding my own business and not looking to see people fucking, I would be pretty pissed off about it and shouldn’t have to see that if I wasn’t looking for it. It doesn’t matter if it’s a man, woman, couple etc, it’s an intrusion on the rights of others. I could have my kid with me or anything. Nudists are, in my experience, very much about the nudity being a freedom, not to get aroused. So I imagine despite being naked themselves, they probably felt the same way I would " Couldn't agree more ....it's the same in public loos ...If I had a kid and they walked into a loo to see a guy or guys mutually wanking I'd be really annoyed . I know it's a thrill to some but there's a time and place as they say . | |||
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"We recently had the pleasure of trying a UK nudist beach, which was quite deserted and we enjoyed it so much, it lead to more. UK law does not make nudity illegal anywhere unless you are doing it to offend. Sexual acts in public on the other hand are. Which is a real shame as it's really enjoyable. Has anybody ever been caught by the authorities doing something more than nudity and what were the consequences? I'd personally be overjoyed to catch you playing and watch you. If you are in a reasonably secluded spot away from families then no crime. I understand comments re children seeing it... But if you are a lone/paired adult and you are traumatised by the site of a couple playing then you are working hard at being offended. The world has much worse to offer in terms of the real atrocities going on every day. We are privalaged to be in a position where all we have to worry about is choosing what to be offended about next But we're not quite privileged enough to have the audacity of thinking that if others see us having sex in public it's a them problem "More the idea that people having sex is such a big deal. People are starving, oppressed, at war..someone somewhere is being starved, tortured, pimped, set on fire,forced into servitude, blown to bits in the name of someone elses morals..blah blah. It's about perspective. And yeah. Someone being offended by something others are doing consensually .that doesn't hurt or impinge them pretty much is their problem. | |||
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"We recently had the pleasure of trying a UK nudist beach, which was quite deserted and we enjoyed it so much, it lead to more. UK law does not make nudity illegal anywhere unless you are doing it to offend. Sexual acts in public on the other hand are. Which is a real shame as it's really enjoyable. Has anybody ever been caught by the authorities doing something more than nudity and what were the consequences? I'd personally be overjoyed to catch you playing and watch you. If you are in a reasonably secluded spot away from families then no crime. I understand comments re children seeing it... But if you are a lone/paired adult and you are traumatised by the site of a couple playing then you are working hard at being offended. The world has much worse to offer in terms of the real atrocities going on every day. We are privalaged to be in a position where all we have to worry about is choosing what to be offended about next But we're not quite privileged enough to have the audacity of thinking that if others see us having sex in public it's a them problem
More the idea that people having sex is such a big deal.
People are starving, oppressed, at war..someone somewhere is being starved, tortured, pimped, set on fire,forced into servitude, blown to bits in the name of someone elses morals..blah blah.
It's about perspective.
And yeah. Someone being offended by something others are doing consensually .that doesn't hurt or impinge them pretty much is their problem.""There is war on so I should be able to watch people fuck in public dont be a snowflake" | |||
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"We recently had the pleasure of trying a UK nudist beach, which was quite deserted and we enjoyed it so much, it lead to more. UK law does not make nudity illegal anywhere unless you are doing it to offend. Sexual acts in public on the other hand are. Which is a real shame as it's really enjoyable. Has anybody ever been caught by the authorities doing something more than nudity and what were the consequences? I'd personally be overjoyed to catch you playing and watch you. If you are in a reasonably secluded spot away from families then no crime. I understand comments re children seeing it... But if you are a lone/paired adult and you are traumatised by the site of a couple playing then you are working hard at being offended. The world has much worse to offer in terms of the real atrocities going on every day. We are privalaged to be in a position where all we have to worry about is choosing what to be offended about next But we're not quite privileged enough to have the audacity of thinking that if others see us having sex in public it's a them problem
More the idea that people having sex is such a big deal.
People are starving, oppressed, at war..someone somewhere is being starved, tortured, pimped, set on fire,forced into servitude, blown to bits in the name of someone elses morals..blah blah.
It's about perspective.
And yeah. Someone being offended by something others are doing consensually .that doesn't hurt or impinge them pretty much is their problem.
"There is war on so I should be able to watch people fuck in public dont be a snowflake""I don't think you grasp what a snowflake is ...but ok.  | |||
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"There was a case a few year ago of two female PCSO's who followed a car on a single track road to a secluded beach car park in the dead of night There were only two cars there ..the "suspect car" and the patrol car ..after a few minutes the two female PCSO'S approached the only other vehicle and confronted the two adults who were clearly engaging in a sex act and promptly booked them and reported them for prosecution. It transpires that the two adults engaging in the sex act were both married but not to each other,when it got to court and the details of the incident came out..the judge dismissed the case and ordered the two PCSO's senior officer to instill some common sense into the void where the PCSO's brain cell would have been...had the two PCSO's not approached the car then no one would have been " offended" case dismissed ." What's your point caller? | |||
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"There was a case a few year ago of two female PCSO's who followed a car on a single track road to a secluded beach car park in the dead of night There were only two cars there ..the "suspect car" and the patrol car ..after a few minutes the two female PCSO'S approached the only other vehicle and confronted the two adults who were clearly engaging in a sex act and promptly booked them and reported them for prosecution. It transpires that the two adults engaging in the sex act were both married but not to each other,when it got to court and the details of the incident came out..the judge dismissed the case and ordered the two PCSO's senior officer to instill some common sense into the void where the PCSO's brain cell would have been...had the two PCSO's not approached the car then no one would have been " offended" case dismissed . What's your point caller?" I would guess the point is sex in private is OK. Given the circumstances there was no one (other than the PCSO's) to be offended, outrage or to provide anything close to a public for public indecency and its hardly a busy wide open public space. Considering those PCSO willingly followed the couple and willing went to see based of no complaint or in protection of any member of public hanging around all bets are off in terms a criminal case in the public interest. I mean no lawyer but surely the only criminal act here is a willing act of voyeurism from the PCSO's | |||
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"I'm a police station lawyer. Regular occurrence, mainly males, in for indecent exposure or gross indecency. Only takes one person to be offended! so there is no difference between a couple "playing between themselves" and a single male playing with themselves, it all depends on the thoughts of the person coming across them?" That is basically the lay of the land there. The offence relies on the observation of that sexual activity by a member of the public. If your in a public place, there's no expectation of privacy, so it's a really hard one to wiggle out of. Only advice is just don't get caught! | |||
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"We recently had the pleasure of trying a UK nudist beach, which was quite deserted and we enjoyed it so much, it lead to more. UK law does not make nudity illegal anywhere unless you are doing it to offend. Sexual acts in public on the other hand are. Which is a real shame as it's really enjoyable. Has anybody ever been caught by the authorities doing something more than nudity and what were the consequences? I'd personally be overjoyed to catch you playing and watch you. If you are in a reasonably secluded spot away from families then no crime. I understand comments re children seeing it... But if you are a lone/paired adult and you are traumatised by the site of a couple playing then you are working hard at being offended. The world has much worse to offer in terms of the real atrocities going on every day. We are privalaged to be in a position where all we have to worry about is choosing what to be offended about next" I've read this multiple times to try and understand what your trying to get at here. Bottom line is, if someone is walking in the woods, they probably don't really want to stumble across people with their cock out banging away at the Mrs. It's not about "snowflakes" or trying to be offended. It's about courtesy and common decency. People in general don't want to stumble across sex in a public place 🤷🏻 | |||
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"I'm a police station lawyer. Regular occurrence, mainly males, in for indecent exposure or gross indecency. Only takes one person to be offended!" Take a note from the Royal Family, do your best not to get caught but when you do, deny deny deny and keep your stupid mouth shut. | |||
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"This thread has talked more about what people consider acceptable or not, which is very subjective, as illustrated by the diverse range of opinions. Although in relation to the original question, it's irrelevant as it's illegal to partake in sexual activity in public (of course what constitutes sexual activity could be another topic of debate with hugs being deemed non-sexual on one side and intercourse obviously being sexual on the other but somewhere between you have to draw a line). The actual question was trying to find out if anybody had been caught by the authorities and if so what were the consequences?" Personally know of no-one who's been prosecuted, however the likely consequence of a prosecution would be signing the sex offenders register.... | |||
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