FabSwingers.com forum: Condoms in clubs

By *leetwo OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cleethorpes

What’s everyone’s views?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Its amazing how many men in clubs don't carry condoms expect to play and use yours

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By *ustlookingaround2021Man
2 weeks ago

Loughton

Would you feel comfortable letting him use one that he’s bought over using one of your own?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

little house on the praire

"Would you feel comfortable letting him use one that he’s bought over using one of your own? "
I always preferred my own the point was the expectation

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By *leetwo OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cleethorpes

We all prefer without but when swinging we only play safe, have been tempted not too xx

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By *leetwo OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cleethorpes

We have played with men who have brought there own xx

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By *leetwo OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cleethorpes

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By *leetwo OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cleethorpes

"Would you feel comfortable letting him use one that he’s bought over using one of your own? "

Do you play safe or bare? Xx

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By *ustlookingaround2021Man
2 weeks ago

Loughton

Safe only

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By *ino Meravilla 2Man
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

Always safe...

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By *leetwo OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cleethorpes

"Always safe..."

You ever tempted to play bare? Xx

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
2 weeks ago

honeysuckle lane

"What’s everyone’s views? "
I take my own if I’m going just in case as I have a latex allergy & use skyns brand

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I've never been tempted to play bare

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By *ino Meravilla 2Man
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

Yes I did but my health it's more important.... I would play bare only if I really know the other half

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By *leetwo OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cleethorpes

"Yes I did but my health it's more important.... I would play bare only if I really know the other half"

Do you go to clubs? Xx

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By *ino Meravilla 2Man
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

Yes I been in clubs few times ...what about you

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By *irestone123Man
2 weeks ago

When me and my ex went to Townhouse we carried condoms with us and insisted they use ours, surely nobody is that reckless

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By *leetwo OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cleethorpes

"When me and my ex went to Townhouse we carried condoms with us and insisted they use ours, surely nobody is that reckless"

Lots are from what we have seen many play without xx

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By *irestone123Man
2 weeks ago

Nah, shows a lack of respect I reckon

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By *leetwo OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cleethorpes

"Nah, shows a lack of respect I reckon "

Yes it does , I love being fucked bare , it’s not worth the risk when playing with others not using them xx

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By *irestone123Man
2 weeks ago

"Nah, shows a lack of respect I reckon

Yes it does , I love being fucked bare , it’s not worth the risk when playing with others not using them xx"

Of course, cumming in a condom is an awful waste lol

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By *leetwo OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cleethorpes

"Nah, shows a lack of respect I reckon

Yes it does , I love being fucked bare , it’s not worth the risk when playing with others not using them xx

Of course, cumming in a condom is an awful waste lol "

Haha your right it is xx

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
2 weeks ago

Down the back of the sofa.

For me as a penis owner, it carry my own. I believe it’s part of swinging etiquette for the penis owner to carry the condoms. The ones I use, I’m used to, I know fit me, and haven’t been banging around at the bottom of a play bag for months. My wife Kittydagger believes everyone wanting penetration during sex should carry them. I see her point! But for me it’s the person with the penis that is more responsible.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
2 weeks ago

Down the back of the sofa.

"Nah, shows a lack of respect I reckon

Yes it does , I love being fucked bare , it’s not worth the risk when playing with others not using them xx

Of course, cumming in a condom is an awful waste lol

Haha your right it is xx"

I rarely do, normally cum on tits, arse or face! Receivers choice!

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
2 weeks ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We have only just started the club scene and although normally we play bare when we meet couples, usually we have chatted for a good while 1st, we would expect to mainly need to play safe a clubs

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By *roxhotwifecpl4funCouple
2 weeks ago

Broxbourne

We always insist on using our own condoms, always better to be prepared.

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By *leetwo OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cleethorpes

"We always insist on using our own condoms, always better to be prepared."

That’s the best way xx

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By *leetwo OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cleethorpes

"We have only just started the club scene and although normally we play bare when we meet couples, usually we have chatted for a good while 1st, we would expect to mainly need to play safe a clubs"

That is understandable and sensible as it’s definitely better without them but it’s a must to feel comfortable that there ok to do that with xx

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By *eparated_galWoman
2 weeks ago

Salford

I think its each to own, def think its rude if they dont bri g condoms, i do prefer bare, but always have a condom on me, although if guy doesnt want yo play bare ill tell them to cum on me

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Condoms should always be used. If someone doesn’t carry them then that has to be a huge red flag.

To those who demand that theirs be used - I wouldn’t do that. It is very unlikely that they would fit properly and unless they fit properly it is just increasing the risk.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
2 weeks ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"We have only just started the club scene and although normally we play bare when we meet couples, usually we have chatted for a good while 1st, we would expect to mainly need to play safe a clubs

That is understandable and sensible as it’s definitely better without them but it’s a must to feel comfortable that there ok to do that with xx"

Absolutely everyone must feel it is what they want or it will not work well. Janine loves to feel a guy explode in her and I love to explode in another lady

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By *iddle ManMan
2 weeks ago

Walsall

It's a tough one, on the same basis, people want you to use theirs, can be the same reason I would like to use my own, I know they are in date, fit well and have not been tampered with. If there are issues with latex allergies etc then it is different story then.

The point is everyone is different and there are two sides to a story.

Would I use one someone has given me, yes, but if the choice is there, I would be using my own.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I wont use anyone else's. The best way to protect myself is so use something I've sourced myself and know hasn't been tampered with.

And from a fitment perspective, I know what works best for me.

Those demanding you use theirs, it isn't gonna happen.

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By *incolnshire gentlemanMan
2 weeks ago

louth

So in a club wot percentage do u think play bare compared to covered?

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By *ootnootboopCouple
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

We're only going to be using condoms that we provide due to Ess's interesting allergy/comfort situation.

Although we've never met anyone who didn't offer to use their own, which is greatly appreciated!

It's the offering that counts, and by having them on your person, it shows a level of personal responsibility and prior planning

A 🙂

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By *ootnootboopCouple
2 weeks ago

Cheshire

However if there's size/ fitment/ other issues at play that make ours unworkable, then we would obviously discuss between everyone and come up with a plan.

After all communication is important in any sexual encounter!

A 🙂

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By *ikeValentinaCouple
2 weeks ago

London

We would always use condoms in a club meet, no exceptions ever. In private meets you have a chance to get to know a person a bit, see their test results and perhaps meet a few times with condom and eventually play bare. No condom feels much better so it’s the preference but needs to be managed and compared to risk of catching any nasty infections.

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By * F 2018Couple
2 weeks ago

shropshire

Always safe and take our own

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 weeks ago

Bedford

"When me and my ex went to Townhouse we carried condoms with us and insisted they use ours, surely nobody is that reckless

Lots are from what we have seen many play without xx"

Have you not considered those are long term partners that play bare in a club? I am not going to expect my partner to put a condom on just because we are in a club.

With anyone random, if they're not willing to glove up, they are not going inside me, though most of the time, I prefer no penetration with a random guy in a club. And I prefer to use my own condoms as then it's the brand I like and trust, one that does not cause me any discomfort afterwards. Some of the cheap ones, my body doesn't like them.

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Ilkeston

If its someone ive never met before i absolutely use condoms as i cant trust that they are clean however if i know them and have trust i will plat bare

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
2 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Condoms should always be used. If someone doesn’t carry them then that has to be a huge red flag.

To those who demand that theirs be used - I wouldn’t do that. It is very unlikely that they would fit properly and unless they fit properly it is just increasing the risk."
we always insist and have various sizes... I need latex free...

That's why we insist on our own... if a guy has his own latex free then we would be okay with that. We are never tempted to play bare..that's something strictly for each other x

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By *abioMan
2 weeks ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Why would you ever jump in a puddle if you were not wearing wellies!

The only person who can look after your own health is you…. And it’s about weighing up risks (before people shout “but you don’t use them for oral” )

If you are “that person “ who when they say condom you look around at all the other guys as to say “can I have one of yours!” (And yes it does happen) you are an idiot!

Second only to the guy who only goes around with one condom, keeps it on and expects to go from person to person! (Yes! Seen that happen, nasty fucker!)

Piss poor preparation….. piss poor preformance!

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
2 weeks ago

rochdale

"For me as a penis owner, it carry my own. I believe it’s part of swinging etiquette for the penis owner to carry the condoms. The ones I use, I’m used to, I know fit me, and haven’t been banging around at the bottom of a play bag for months. My wife Kittydagger believes everyone wanting penetration during sex should carry them. I see her point! But for me it’s the person with the penis that is more responsible. "

You're right of course, but as someone who receives a penis I always carry them. That way at least one of us has them & I can insist.

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By *_Mia_XTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Ilkeston

You're right of course, but as someone who receives a penis I always carry them. That way at least one of us has them & I can insist."

Agreed as the number of people who dont carry them and look at you to provide is crazy

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

If you are “that person “ who when they say condom you look around at all the other guys as to say “can I have one of yours!” (And yes it does happen) you are an idiot!

I was at a party once and someone asked that question. He kept giving it the chat about his size. He was given a king size. To say the fit was wrong would be an understatement. Apparently he wasn’t the size he thought he was. It looked like a baggy jumper on him. He left almost straight away after that

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
2 weeks ago

Highbridge

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By *ikesEmBigMan
2 weeks ago

Herts

I usually bring my own as they fit a little better. But it's good to have the option

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By *lice AgainTV/TS
1 week ago

Bristol

Fetish club I go to has them free at the bar and also in the playrooms.

Carry my own 'cause hey, I'm a little larger and maybe someone I meet will be too...

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By *oiluvfunMan
1 week ago

Penrith

Kiss of death; if you take some with you, you’re guaranteed to not need any….

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By *ypersoonMan
1 week ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

I always have a kit bag handy and so far I haven't come across any bare backers

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
1 week ago

Leeds

"What’s everyone’s views? "

Essential if you value sexual health.

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By *acky RacersCouple
1 week ago

Lincoln

I even put them on my strap on dildos especially if they're going to be used on more than one person...

I think it's about the indication of a clear intention to use one by having your own supplies. Some of our regular friends do tend to be on the larger side so having their own to ensure fit is essential...in a club, or at a party we would always rather use our own because we prefer latex free but like to see people who come prepared too...

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By *hubbychase372Man
1 week ago

high wycombe

I prefer bare and most people like skin contact . I carry my own comdoms in the club unless the girl latex free then use her

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By *WB85Man
1 week ago

Staffordshire

I will only use my own, no exceptions.

Im not using an unknown condom and getting a message telling me someone's magically pregnant. Thats 18 years of payments I dont need.

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By *raverage2025Man
1 week ago

Surrey

I'd only use the ones I've brought

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
1 week ago

Stockport

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
1 week ago

Stockport

We've had guys only having 1 condom

So we're then thinking , climb on , pump away , shoot your load , and then your off ?

We go through lots , and we mean lots , on a play meet

We have a play bag full , and expect them to be used

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
1 week ago

Wolverhampton

I take my own,latex free, in sizes regular and large. I keep about 10 in my kit bag. Not because I intend to fuck 10 cocks (although nothing wrong with that), but because you might pause, restart, swap between people, use toys etc etc - all reasons to need another one. I'd rather be over prepared than need one and not have it!

I also bring latex free gloves too.

If a guy had no condoms with him,I'd likely think twice about playing because I'd have concerns about an elevated risk level.

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By *tag and HellcatCouple
1 week ago

Notts/Derby

We always play safe. Normally we would expect the guy to provide his own, mainly as he’ll know what fits him.

However, we both carry them and also have vegan & latex free ones, as some of our friends are vegan and/or have allergies, as has been mentioned above.

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
1 week ago

Highbridge

"I take my own,latex free, in sizes regular and large. I keep about 10 in my kit bag. Not because I intend to fuck 10 cocks (although nothing wrong with that), but because you might pause, restart, swap between people, use toys etc etc - all reasons to need another one. I'd rather be over prepared than need one and not have it!

I also bring latex free gloves too.

If a guy had no condoms with him,I'd likely think twice about playing because I'd have concerns about an elevated risk level. "

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By *herryEatersCouple
1 week ago

East Cheshire

"What’s everyone’s views? "

So much can be caught from oral sex alone it makes you wonder what use condoms are at all other than to help prevent pregnancy. Chlamydia, syphilis, genital warts, herpes, gonorrhoea etc all passed via oral (NHS website). Something is better than nothing I suppose but much better to limit sexual contact to a chosen few regular friends as we do, hence nothing these days lol

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By *teinsGateDuoCouple
7 days ago

Newcastle under Lyme

We're open to fucking bare with couples but not as a matter of course. In a club specifically we'd be far more inclined to use condoms as you don't know who else somebody has be with that night.

Yes, some might say 'what about who else they've been with in the last week or month'. Those same people probably swing even less than we get chance to which is the real irony. Not everybody is full swapping every weekend ffs.

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By *erry bull1Man
7 days ago

doncaster

I always carry my own condoms

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
7 days ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"We're open to fucking bare with couples but not as a matter of course. In a club specifically we'd be far more inclined to use condoms as you don't know who else somebody has be with that night.

We usually play babe but would play safe in a club. We don’t meet often as playing bare obviously carries increased risk of having several partners in a short time period

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By *eDirtyThirtysCouple
7 days ago

shrewsbury

We all ways bring our own skyn large . We find that they cover all the bases latex free for those that need it and comfortable to wear.

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By *enelope2UWoman
7 days ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"When me and my ex went to Townhouse we carried condoms with us and insisted they use ours, surely nobody is that reckless

Lots are from what we have seen many play without xx"

No less reckless than fucking someone solely on looks alone..

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By *enelope2UWoman
7 days ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

"What’s everyone’s views?

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By *maginitivemindMan
7 days ago

east mids

Always take some what the point in risking yours or their life

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By *inkystar1Woman
7 days ago

Heathfield

"I think its each to own, def think its rude if they dont bri g condoms, i do prefer bare, but always have a condom on me, although if guy doesnt want yo play bare ill tell them to cum on me"

Playing bare is not safe...even if they don't cum inside you. Pre-cum carries viruses too

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
6 days ago

wonderland.

"What’s everyone’s views?

Exactly this...giving BJ's and eating ass or pussy ABD kissing yet drown at someone fucking bare... Same diseases are swapped in both instances so no one is mightier than the next... I don't play bare but I don't kiss or do BJs to strangers either.."
kissing and oral are considerably lower risk though.. I'm way into the thousands of guys I've sucked without a condom over my 30 odd years as a swinger... often 3 figures a week in my hey day.. but have always had negative tests.. yes I'm aware that there are risks.... but the only safe sex is no sex xxx

So I choose to use condoms for full sex and do oral without. I don't really kiss anyway

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By *entleman JayMan
3 days ago

Wakefield

Always.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 days ago

Staffordshire

Surley we all accept some element of risk as swingers?

Otherwise you'd wrap yourself up in clingfilm before walking into a club.

*ps. Cling film is not a guaranteed way of staying safe.

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By *itygamesMan
3 days ago

the machine i bought some out of last week , somebody had written in marker pen.

"For refund press baby in slot"

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By *onnoisseur100Man
3 days ago

Woking-ish

I always knit mine the day before so they are fresh!

No serisously, when in a club, i always have a condom with me. Although towels dont have pockets so im worried about what message it sends naked under a towel condom in hand...

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By *allySlinkyWoman
3 days ago

Leeds

" Although towels dont have pockets so im worried about what message it sends naked under a towel condom in hand...

You can buy a band with a zipped pocket that goes round your wrist. Runners use them for keeping their keys in. Perfect for condoms.

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By *appyDays64Man
3 days ago

Yorkshire or Lincolnshire

"Always safe...

You ever tempted to play bare? Xx"

Everyone prefers bare.. it boils down to trust if not using condoms. Always take them to clubs as often it's sex with complete strangers.. I have played bare in a club but only as I previously knee the lady..

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
3 days ago

near you...

"Its amazing how many men in clubs don't carry condoms expect to play and use yours"

This. And if you are allergic to latex, BRING YOUR OWN Lx

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