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By *rJandMrsJ OP Couple
26 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Hi guys. MR here. I'm Bi, no doubt about it. I thoroughly enjoy oral with men and want to go further. I need some advice receiving cock for the first time and first few times after. Is there something that will make it easier? Any guides or links would be massovely beneficial. I'd love for the first time my ass is taken, it's going to be more fun than painful. 😅

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By *arahfromwarringtonTV/TS
26 weeks ago

warrington

Clean yourself out first

Practice with toys

Plenty of lube ( I prefer silicone)

Start on top and lower yourself onto his rigid member so you can ease into it gradually. Give yourself several minutes to open up and relax, then change positions to let him have control.

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By *om5699Man
26 weeks ago

Rayleigh

Douche a couple of hours before meeting. Have plenty of lube.

Try to relax. Some people use p*****s.

Do not go for a big or girth penis for the first time.

Communicate with your lover. Tell them to take it slowly. A good lover will take their time. When they eventually arrive - wow!

My first time was sideways missionary followed by missionary. It took some time getting use to the feeling but again wow!

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By *cooby5555Man
26 weeks ago

galway

Found spoons position best as advised by my much more experienced lover also if you can get someone who is clean and tested to take your virginity it makes it so much more pleasurable when he orgasms inside you hope this helps

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By *omRachCouple
26 weeks ago

Wirral

"Hi guys. MR here. I'm Bi, no doubt about it. I thoroughly enjoy oral with men and want to go further. I need some advice receiving cock for the first time and first few times after. Is there something that will make it easier? Any guides or links would be massovely beneficial. I'd love for the first time my ass is taken, it's going to be more fun than painful. 😅"

Get yourself a S,M,L 3 sized butt plug set. I did this and over the course of 4 weeks it prepared me perfectly for my 1st time - with a 7 inch relatively girthy guy.

Lots and lots and lots and lots and lots of lube though, good luck & enjoy

Tom,

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By *dz69247Man
26 weeks ago

Manchester

Prep, prep and more prep.

Clean as much as possible, no matter how clean you are, it’s going to be a little messy, so prepare for that. Douching is a good way, but I find the best way, is to take the hose from your shower, and pop it up gently, the water will stay there and after a couple of seconds take the hose away and push the water out.

This will be messy, but will clean it really well. You will want some bleach on hand to clean your bath after though lol.

Also learn to have something in your arse, some have mentioned different sized butt plugs to work up to, myself found the aluminum once’s worked a treat as the cold shock helped me prepare for the surprise of a real one.

Finally find the right partner, you want someone who will be gentle at first and understanding. This is key, they will take their time and easy it in.

I’ve tried it once, and it just wasn’t the right person so wouldn’t try it again, don’t let a bad experience spoil it.

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By *aramel.desiresMan
26 weeks ago

Laleham

And HepB vacation.

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By *heonixrising500Man
26 weeks ago

Barnsley

I fancy trying anal for the first time women i had it with have loved it

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By *heonixrising500Man
26 weeks ago

Barnsley

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By *pthemanorMan
26 weeks ago

Abingdon on Thames

Control the pace and depth yourself first - pushing back slowly will be the key to a new world

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Get yourself clean, practice with toys etc and get use to things.

Start on top reserve cowgirl and only move to a different position when you are ready.

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By *hyguy187Man
26 weeks ago

Maybe near to you!

Thank you for asking this, I'm in the same boat!!

I've been struggling to connect with someone who can help me through and be patient with me. X

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By *aven3Man
26 weeks ago

Stoford

I started with toys.I was originally totally bottom.I use a gadget for abstracting fluids from vehicles as a douche.Its like a fatter bicycle pump.Works better then the little rubber bulb things.Need to be relaxed and let guy ease in,with water based lube,gradually going deeper.Best of luck.

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By *abba44Man
26 weeks ago

Broadstairs

Lovehoney used to have a tutorial for butt plugs which is worth watching,or just ask google for a tutorial.

Water based lube are best some have a desensitiser in them.

Personally l find small cocks thin and under 5 inches are more painful than 7-9 inches long and girthy,men who give anal a lot are more considerate for first timers.Practice with a series of different butt plugs and dildos,try not to clench your muscles when having it first time.

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By *sxboy69Man
26 weeks ago

Rayleigh

It's mostly about the prep. Firstly clean yourself out with proper douche tool or gentle shower attachment befor bum fun. Next is practise with lube and fingers working up in size with dildos or prostate massagers. Lastly it's important to relax your bum muscles to prevent damage (don't use numbing lube - the pain is there for a reason!), it's usually best to push a little (as if you wre having a shit) as you insert into you. As I don't get to do this very often either I would try to get a warm up/loosen up just before the real event to get my arse in the zone so to speak

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By *unhungguyMan
26 weeks ago

leeds

My first time was very amazing tbh

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By *omRachCouple
26 weeks ago

Wirral

"My first time was very amazing tbh "

Mine was very good too.

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By *ryton 123TV/TS
23 weeks ago

Chatham

I start experimenting with a six inch dido. Still hurt at first. So I take it out, then put back in and its not to bad. Will the pain subside.

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By *bitofaslutWoman
23 weeks ago

Cannock

"I start experimenting with a six inch dido. Still hurt at first. So I take it out, then put back in and its not to bad. Will the pain subside."

It should with perseverance and practice.

I started with a little prostate tickling plug and moved on to a very basic 7" vibe which I can take to the hilt easily now.

It's about girth more than length. 1.5" is pretty easy to accommodate. After a while with the basic one in I can graduate to my slightly more girthy one.

Oddly it was much easier to take a real one that was about as big as my bigger dildo. After an hour with a cock ring on and failing magnificently and more lube than I've ever used by myself, he took it off and was straight in.

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
23 weeks ago

Dartford

Europa very gently lubed me and then slowly slid just one finger in , once I felt comfortable with that a few times we progressed to two fingers

After a few tries n totally relaxed we then used a small dildo and over a few days progressed to a bigger one but making sure I was comfortable each time.

Always plenty of lube , for us a water based one works really well

A nice warm bath before and after helps especially with the muscles in that area

Good luck and enjoy

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By *riendly BiMan
23 weeks ago

One thing to remember, no matter how clean you think you are, with anal sometimes shit happens. Yes you will feel embarrassed and mortified by it but it's nothing that can't be cleaned up.

And LUBE BY THE BUCKET LOAD! Well for the first few times anyway

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