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By *latinumKing OP   Man
29 weeks ago

Kidderminster

Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
29 weeks ago

A town near you


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't."

Often heard the quote "once you go black you don't go back" but to be honest It's a case of once you go big it's hard to go back.

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By *latinumKing OP   Man
29 weeks ago

Kidderminster


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Often heard the quote "once you go black you don't go back" but to be honest It's a case of once you go big it's hard to go back."

Makes more sense I think

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
29 weeks ago

Wolvo

If its just about size of penis, then the colour of the person its attached to shouldn't matter. People like to push the BBC narrative for the myriad of reasons from porn to preference.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
29 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I love the contrast between a BBC and my white face and red lips

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By *egoMan
29 weeks ago

Preston

The colour?

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
29 weeks ago

Reading

the black on white contrast is exciting

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By *exxyyDy11Man
29 weeks ago

North West

I don't think most people give a shit about the colour apart from a few who find the contrast exciting.

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By *un Times 1Man
29 weeks ago

coventry

What about the Asian Cock. Every one seems to go on about Black or White Cock.

Asian Girls and Black Girls for that matter I prefer.

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By *T2022Man
29 weeks ago

Manchester


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't."

people seem to go the idea of BBC . But find BWC just as good .

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By *BCBWCCouple (MM)
29 weeks ago

Manchester


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't."

Well this is a question for us two to answer .

nope . but ladies do really like the idea of both together .

We get a lot of looks and enquires.

And we are always happy for more .

Any questions anyone ?????? do ask

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By *iss DevilWoman
29 weeks ago

Bedford

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
29 weeks ago

bolton

Don’t get me wrong the size obviously helps but for my wife it’s the colour contrast that she loves the black skin on a white body is such a turn on for her

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By *iss DevilWoman
29 weeks ago

Bedford

I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
29 weeks ago

North West


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future. "

I love that little side note at the end. Made me chuckle. A lot of guys are disappointed now 😂

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By *anonfire96Man
29 weeks ago

Mansfield

Definitely count me in on that one.

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By *anonfire96Man
29 weeks ago

Mansfield

You are not the only woman to say this, my last meeting was a 40 year old black goddess, she said she would never meet another black guy because of the attitude, and one guy wouldn't slow down when she asked and it took her ages to get over the bruising.

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
29 weeks ago

Rotherham

I've had 2 cuckoldress gf the first would have bwc or BBC , the second only bbc. Both only took big and Dom bulls. The main difference is basically the contrast of the bbcs

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By *igBoyJay2021Man
29 weeks ago

london

Absolutely 💯

😈🔥

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By *BCBWCCouple (MM)
29 weeks ago

Manchester


"Don’t get me wrong the size obviously helps but for my wife it’s the colour contrast that she loves the black skin on a white body is such a turn on for her"

Yes the contract.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
29 weeks ago

A town near you

The contrast between skin colours is very erotic, be in black guy/white girl or vice versa also interracial girl on girl is very erotic.

Going off on a tangent but we both find asian incredibly beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Does it really matter

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By *essTTWoman
29 weeks ago

Birmingham

I prefer a big one, race irrelevant

I actively avoid men on here and in real life who are overly focused on race, I find it really strange

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By *enelope2UWoman
29 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Often heard the quote "once you go black you don't go back" but to be honest It's a case of once you go big it's hard to go back."

Once you go white you finally get licked right

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By *ssexBlkMaleMan
29 weeks ago

Essex


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Often heard the quote "once you go black you don't go back" but to be honest It's a case of once you go big it's hard to go back.

Once you go white you finally get licked right"

Offended as I go down like my life depends on it and even take a spare knife and fork and bib with me to savor the flavour!

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By *enelope2UWoman
29 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Often heard the quote "once you go black you don't go back" but to be honest It's a case of once you go big it's hard to go back.

Once you go white you finally get licked right

Offended as I go down like my life depends on it and even take a spare knife and fork and bib with me to savor the flavour!"

😂 Lol not a bib lol, a gentleman and not a dine and dasher... I don't care in regards to race but I did find it funny when my preference changed 15 years ago.

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By *cubasteve007Man
29 weeks ago

Peterborough

My preference for women is Asian or black but all are welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

One of each works for me please lol

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By *BCBWCCouple (MM)
29 weeks ago

Manchester


"One of each works for me please lol"

wink 😉

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By *tsallreal11Man
29 weeks ago

wherever you want

Bwc here

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By *teveandrocMan
29 weeks ago

Southampton

Happy to take both. And also try both at the same time

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By *ikesEmBigMan
29 weeks ago

Herts


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't."

Well I don't have a black one

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By *ungthickmkMan
29 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

I'm happy with both, and have experience with both too

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By *latinumKing OP   Man
29 weeks ago

Kidderminster


"I prefer a big one, race irrelevant

I actively avoid men on here and in real life who are overly focused on race, I find it really strange"

I like the sound of that .

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By *rincess_nikki_transgurlTV/TS
29 weeks ago

salford


"I prefer a big one, race irrelevant

I actively avoid men on here and in real life who are overly focused on race, I find it really strange

I like the sound of that . "

I think we know that it's wrong to stereotype or tar everyone with the same brush, nut my lady 2 experiences have been with black men and I found it highly enjoyable. It's definitely the attitude that matters to me.

Plus, a few more of the same and I'll be qualifying for a certain tattoo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

BBC/BWC…. all depends on how to use it effectively.

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By *ountrygirl360Woman
29 weeks ago

Bolton

Not found a lot of guys who are BWC but there are a lot who are BBC on the scene. Also the colour contrast, girth, way most can truly pound etc

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By *tuvyMan
29 weeks ago

bedford

BWC here

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
29 weeks ago

Reading

BBC always wins over BWC not because it's better but at least for us because the contrast of black on white pussy is much more exciting than white on white

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By *latinumKing OP   Man
29 weeks ago

Kidderminster


"BBC always wins over BWC not because it's better but at least for us because the contrast of black on white pussy is much more exciting than white on white"

Seems to me everyone talks about the same thing - contrast! Might be deep rooted in preference or could also be a hidden fantasy agenda for some.

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By *BCBWCCouple (MM)
29 weeks ago

Manchester


"BBC always wins over BWC not because it's better but at least for us because the contrast of black on white pussy is much more exciting than white on white"

totally.

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
29 weeks ago

Wolvo


"BBC always wins over BWC not because it's better but at least for us because the contrast of black on white pussy is much more exciting than white on white

Seems to me everyone talks about the same thing - contrast! Might be deep rooted in preference or could also be a hidden fantasy agenda for some. "

Its said a lot, but don't get the contrast thing. Im not trying to be obtuse, i genuinely don't understand it.

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
29 weeks ago

London


"Don’t get me wrong the size obviously helps but for my wife it’s the colour contrast that she loves the black skin on a white body is such a turn on for her

Yes the contract. "

Love the contrast!!!

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
29 weeks ago

Glasgow


"BBC always wins over BWC not because it's better but at least for us because the contrast of black on white pussy is much more exciting than white on white

Seems to me everyone talks about the same thing - contrast! Might be deep rooted in preference or could also be a hidden fantasy agenda for some.

Its said a lot, but don't get the contrast thing. Im not trying to be obtuse, i genuinely don't understand it. "

I guess that could be said about a lot of peoples kinks and turn one though what does it for one person might do nothing for someone else 🤷‍♀️

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
29 weeks ago

London


"BBC always wins over BWC not because it's better but at least for us because the contrast of black on white pussy is much more exciting than white on white

Seems to me everyone talks about the same thing - contrast! Might be deep rooted in preference or could also be a hidden fantasy agenda for some.

Its said a lot, but don't get the contrast thing. Im not trying to be obtuse, i genuinely don't understand it.

I guess that could be said about a lot of peoples kinks and turn one though what does it for one person might do nothing for someone else 🤷‍♀️"

Absolutely true - also though a big cock might look great, an average sized cock is probably more practical.

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By *x cplCouple
29 weeks ago

North of Oxford

If any we prefer BBC. Not only contrast (which is much better than white on white when the lighting isnt often great in clubs) but also attitude. Found with a number of white guys once you have played with them once they have almost taken it for granted it will happen everytime we meet, or they have the right to just join us even when socialising with others at clubs..maybe it's just us we don't know. But BBCs tend to know it's just sex. Not an incite into our lives and all..

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

wont be long just off to fake tan my cock 😂

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
29 weeks ago

Reading


"wont be long just off to fake tan my cock 😂 "

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By *bi HaiveMan
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29 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"BBC always wins over BWC not because it's better but at least for us because the contrast of black on white pussy is much more exciting than white on white

Seems to me everyone talks about the same thing - contrast! Might be deep rooted in preference or could also be a hidden fantasy agenda for some. "

Certainly seems to be a popular porn category.

Given the number of photos appearing on some profiles that may/may not have been 'borrowed'. 🤷‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

We much prefer black guys they seen to fuck a little harder than white guys

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

I’d love to see my wife with either.

A big cock is a big cock and would need to be attached to a great body and good looking guy too.

Although the skin contrast between white and black skin for some reason is pretty hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Makes absolutely no odds. T doesn't entertain black guys who use the phrase BBC

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
28 weeks ago

wonderland.


"Not found a lot of guys who are BWC but there are a lot who are BBC on the scene. Also the colour contrast, girth, way most can truly pound etc"

See I've found the opposite.. found that there seem to be more bwc around... and the hardest poundings as you put it have been from white guys

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By *elly1012Woman
28 weeks ago

houston

Prefer bbc, fuck harder and deeper, keeping me stretched.

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By *Xtriple7Couple
28 weeks ago

N Peterborough.


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future. "

GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.

GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present. "

Prep is supposed to be taken before sex not afterwards. Hence the name PRE-exposure prophylaxis...

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By *asycouple777Couple
28 weeks ago

bristol

Wife doesn’t mind the colour long as vwe and can get rock hard

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"Wife doesn’t mind the colour long as vwe and can get rock hard "

Drops the mic!

I like this answer ⭐️

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By *usty KnightMan
28 weeks ago

Istanbul


"The contrast between skin colours is very erotic, be in black guy/white girl or vice versa also interracial girl on girl is very erotic.

Going off on a tangent but we both find asian incredibly beautiful "

As a decent British Asian guy with zero attitude, I find I meet more horny British white playmates than British Asian or British African-Caribbean playmates. I also find it the contrast of my chocolate into a creamy milk very horny.

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By *egasus NobMan
28 weeks ago

Wandsworth


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't."

Well, I wouldn't know, but the colour contrast and the variety of roleplay options you can explore can be much more dynamic.

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By *essTTWoman
28 weeks ago

Birmingham


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.

GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.

Prep is supposed to be taken before sex not afterwards. Hence the name PRE-exposure prophylaxis... "

Can also be taken after.....

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By *essTTWoman
28 weeks ago

Birmingham


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.

GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present. "

The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why

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By *bboredguyMan
28 weeks ago

montrose

Let the ladies pick... it's their choice and you can only use the one you have

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28 weeks ago

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By *exanthemMan
28 weeks ago

North


"Wife doesn’t mind the colour long as vwe and can get rock hard "

That’s the answer - openly calling Black males as BBCs coz only they have one attached to their bodies really tells a lot. I lived in US, never seen such skin fetish there…we need people from South Americans here in UK..this will definitely help in removing a lot of bias and creating a balance.

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By *ocoaTemptationMan
18 weeks ago

london

Speaking as an orally bi male with an addiction to MMF threesomes I'm always happy when I meet a woman who doesn't restrict herself to just black or white cock.

I too love the contrast, especially when I have threesomes with a black woman and a white guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I love pleasuring a BBC and I get a feeling of being really inferior and I love that as I’m on my knees with his cock in my mouth

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By *eparated_galWoman
18 weeks ago

Salford

I dont find theres much difference, if there big then they are big, always comes down to how you use it, had as much fun with a tiddler as much as a whopper, im a cum queen rather than a size queen more than anything and how mig it is doesnt effect the anount of cum i find

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago


"I dont find theres much difference, if there big then they are big, always comes down to how you use it, had as much fun with a tiddler as much as a whopper, im a cum queen rather than a size queen more than anything and how mig it is doesnt effect the anount of cum i find "

I love cum too but some cocks can be a bit too small to proper work with

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By *e and him 2021Couple
18 weeks ago

stoke on trent

I have enjoyed both over the years and found only one bbc that i would play with again.

Like others have said its not the size it how they use it.

Me x

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By *randmrs 1st timeCouple
18 weeks ago

bolton

With wife it’s not just the size of the BBC although she loves it , its more the colour contrast so sexy

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
18 weeks ago

wonderland.


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.

GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.

The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why "

I'm a regular gb attendee but been told as I only play safe. I cant have prep anymore

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By *e and him 2021Couple
18 weeks ago

stoke on trent


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.

GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.

The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why I'm a regular gb attendee but been told as I only play safe. I cant have prep anymore "

Since the new year we’ve only had a few visits to clubs and the amount of guys who just don’t have any protection with them and just assume bareback is fine is shocking. She was touched in club over the weekend by a guy and she moved his hand has the week before the same one had played bareback and had nothing with him when the couple realised and told him to put something on first he had to ask other if they had a spare condom.

Come on guys first thing should be to play safe unless you are told otherwise or you want to risk things.

But we make a mental imprint and they won’t get a chance to with us if we’ve seen them play bareback before.

Maybe clubs need more signs to remind guys of this. X

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By *ynergyMan
18 weeks ago

Manchester

No! All white men and black men are the same. Some are small , average, big . From pics I've seen on here too ! We are seeking a black guy for a mfm but Purley based on skin contrast not the size of the cock that's just a bonus for wifey

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Chichester


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.

GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.

The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why I'm a regular gb attendee but been told as I only play safe. I cant have prep anymore "

Just buy it privately and event dose. Prep us cheap to buy tbh

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
18 weeks ago

wonderland.


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.

GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.

The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why I'm a regular gb attendee but been told as I only play safe. I cant have prep anymore

Just buy it privately and event dose. Prep us cheap to buy tbh "

its not the point. I took it as an extra layer of protection but due to the fact i don't bb, I can't have it. Yet if I was being frivolous with my sexual health I could have it x

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By *eanShaziaPk85Couple
17 weeks ago

Nottingham

We prefer BWC to be honest especially the ones without foreskin. BBC are to aggressive and its not Shaz type of men she normally go far.

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By *fun88Man
17 weeks ago

Shropshire

There is 0 difference between bwc and bbc..just the colour. B mean black w means white. White guys can be Hung 9 inches etc and black guys can be average.

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By *fun88Man
17 weeks ago

Shropshire


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.

GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.

The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why "

Is it because they may of come from another country? Fo eg sex with a spanish person or french, hungarian..etc.

Surely the colour doesnt mean anything? But links to other countries that have a higher rate of deseases?

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By *fun88Man
17 weeks ago

Shropshire

If they are straight Men who are they contractung it from?

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
17 weeks ago

Cambridge


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future. "

How do you view mixed heritage blokes?

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
17 weeks ago

Cambridge


"We prefer BWC to be honest especially the ones without foreskin. BBC are to aggressive and its not Shaz type of men she normally go far."

What about mixed lads in terms of approach and ways of being?

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
17 weeks ago

Cambridge


"I have enjoyed both over the years and found only one bbc that i would play with again.

Like others have said its not the size it how they use it.

Me x"

Is this different to your opinion of mixed heritage blokes?

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
17 weeks ago

Cambridge


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.

GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present. "

Is the consensus any different where participants are of mixed heritage?

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
17 weeks ago

Cambridge

Curious as to how mixed raced men are viewed in all of this? Not just re sex, but also the opinions re "having an attitude" etc.

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By *ust_FlynnMan
17 weeks ago

st neots

No difference, it’s all race play!

Singling a person out for the colour of their skin no matter which way round is gross. There’s plenty of reference material and discussion out there on the harm it’s does and the racial stereotypes it perpetuates.

Definitely a subject to do your own research on and then see if your viewpoint on the matter shifts.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
17 weeks ago

A town near you


"No difference, it’s all race play!

Singling a person out for the colour of their skin no matter which way round is gross. There’s plenty of reference material and discussion out there on the harm it’s does and the racial stereotypes it perpetuates.

Definitely a subject to do your own research on and then see if your viewpoint on the matter shifts.

"

The vast majority of black guys on here seem to use the BBC angle to great success to dip their wicks!

People have preferences, interacial, big boobs, small boons, redheads, blondes etc etc

Leave them to it if all consenting adults!

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
17 weeks ago

Cambridge


"No difference, it’s all race play!

Singling a person out for the colour of their skin no matter which way round is gross. There’s plenty of reference material and discussion out there on the harm it’s does and the racial stereotypes it perpetuates.

Definitely a subject to do your own research on and then see if your viewpoint on the matter shifts.

The vast majority of black guys on here seem to use the BBC angle to great success to dip their wicks!

People have preferences, interacial, big boobs, small boons, redheads, blondes etc etc

Leave them to it if all consenting adults!"

BIG BOOBS; Yes please xxx

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By *inkywife1981Couple
17 weeks ago

A town near you


"No difference, it’s all race play!

Singling a person out for the colour of their skin no matter which way round is gross. There’s plenty of reference material and discussion out there on the harm it’s does and the racial stereotypes it perpetuates.

Definitely a subject to do your own research on and then see if your viewpoint on the matter shifts.

The vast majority of black guys on here seem to use the BBC angle to great success to dip their wicks!

People have preferences, interacial, big boobs, small boons, redheads, blondes etc etc

Leave them to it if all consenting adults!

BIG BOOBS; Yes please xxx"

Don't objectify me, I'm more than just big boobs lol

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Chichester


"No difference, it’s all race play!

Singling a person out for the colour of their skin no matter which way round is gross. There’s plenty of reference material and discussion out there on the harm it’s does and the racial stereotypes it perpetuates.

Definitely a subject to do your own research on and then see if your viewpoint on the matter shifts.

The vast majority of black guys on here seem to use the BBC angle to great success to dip their wicks!

People have preferences, interacial, big boobs, small boons, redheads, blondes etc etc

Leave them to it if all consenting adults!"

Pretty much my experience in it as well

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By *ortyairCouple
17 weeks ago

Wallasey


"No difference, it’s all race play!

Singling a person out for the colour of their skin no matter which way round is gross. There’s plenty of reference material and discussion out there on the harm it’s does and the racial stereotypes it perpetuates.

Definitely a subject to do your own research on and then see if your viewpoint on the matter shifts.

The vast majority of black guys on here seem to use the BBC angle to great success to dip their wicks!

People have preferences, interacial, big boobs, small boons, redheads, blondes etc etc

Leave them to it if all consenting adults!

Pretty much my experience in it as well "

What's 'event' dosing of Prep? Mrs x

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By *infordMan
17 weeks ago

London

You might have been going to wrong events if the guys had an attitude.

I have a very chill and relaxed vibe which is how the vast majority of other black guys that attend the same as events as me have.

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By *urvyLady4BlackMenWoman
17 weeks ago

Norwich


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future. "

You obviously didn't meet the right black men then. Perhaps it was you who brought it out in them.

If you go for the bull type of men that's what you'll get.

Black men can be amazing lovers you just need to know what you're looking for and take time to find it.

All men can be amazing! We're very lucky to have the good ones.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
17 weeks ago

North West

I think all men, White, Black, Mixed Race can have an attitude. Just like some women can.

Judging from the comments and previous threads, I don't think skin colour is a big factor with most women. Of course some, do prefer Black or White men over others. Which is fine, but most I find, don't put an emphasis on seeing one group of men over others.

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By *ocoaTemptationMan
17 weeks ago

london


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.

GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.

The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why I'm a regular gb attendee but been told as I only play safe. I cant have prep anymore

Since the new year we’ve only had a few visits to clubs and the amount of guys who just don’t have any protection with them and just assume bareback is fine is shocking. She was touched in club over the weekend by a guy and she moved his hand has the week before the same one had played bareback and had nothing with him when the couple realised and told him to put something on first he had to ask other if they had a spare condom.

Come on guys first thing should be to play safe unless you are told otherwise or you want to risk things.

But we make a mental imprint and they won’t get a chance to with us if we’ve seen them play bareback before.

Maybe clubs need more signs to remind guys of this. X"

If I'm at a club with a partner and a guy asks for a spare condom that tells me everything I need to know. All possibilty of play ends at that point.

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By *rystal_Brazil69TV/TS
17 weeks ago

Telford

For me the colour of one’s skin is unimportant, but I just adore holding a big cock in my hands, feel the weight of it and know it m going to get well railed

Krystal x

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By *ikesEmBigMan
17 weeks ago

Herts

Have I won yet? 🏆

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
17 weeks ago

Chichester


"Have I won yet? 🏆 "

afraid not chap ,, but you are in the toppy 10

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By *upanovaMan
17 weeks ago

Sheffield

An interesting thread. My ex, ex wife and another partner all hated large dicks as they are often attached to large dicks. Plus 2 of them said large dicks hurt them. All 3 also found that black men with large dicks were the worse as they thinks that's all they need to do, no foreplay etc. Each to their own I guess.

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By *am1Man
17 weeks ago

runcorn

Main difference is ones black and ones white

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By *ommy4600Man
17 weeks ago

leominster

It's great to see this posted to say that a normal sized penis is absolutely fine and there's more too it than that.There is definitely a lot of pressure in this world about penis size

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By *ractorlad3800Man
17 weeks ago

derbyshire

Each to there own every body has preference but you can only piss with the prick you’ve got

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
16 weeks ago

near you...


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't."

Sizewise and how it feels inside - no difference

Black guys tend to be more dominant, white guys more creative (generally). YMMV

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By *JCRoseWoman
16 weeks ago

Caversham


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future. "

Totally agree large cocks don't do it for me, they usually seem to only have that going for them and they don't know how to use it!! I know that is not everyone I'm not tainting all with same brush. I enjoy a normal size that fits and hits the spot

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By *eavenscentitCouple
16 weeks ago

barnstaple

My recent new friend has a large white cock, more importantly he is very sexy, creative, gorgeous and his masculinity is so hot 🔥

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By *ambridgezwingerMan
16 weeks ago

Cambridge


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Sizewise and how it feels inside - no difference

Black guys tend to be more dominant, white guys more creative (generally). YMMV"

What about men of mixed heritage?

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By *oveandfastWoman
16 weeks ago

Bromsgrove

I love cock, as long as it’s attached to a fun, respectful, sexually imaginative and dirty minded person.

Couldn’t care less if it’s big/ small/ black/ white.

Also, on the whole “contrast” love thing, if that’s the case, why aren’t Black women admired for the same thing within the lifestyle?

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By *ightDriverMan
15 weeks ago

Peterborough

For the nice ladies who are interested in contrast, may I tempt you with an MCC ( Medium Color Cock ) ? I know a tattoo artist who can make it look like an LGBT flag if there's enough demand. You'll be able to calculate the depth after the stripes, using the same system canal boats use )))

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By *lim_bbcMan
15 weeks ago

barking

It's probably no difference apart from colour

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By *pringbok95Couple
15 weeks ago

Limavady


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future. "

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By *hippy57Man
14 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Interesting subject,big white or big black,when mention big as in length girth or both,I shared my first wife 40 yrs ago ,with both bwc and bbc not at same time, both were older than us,we were both 23,they early 40s ,met through contact section of magazine ,both were about 8” ish,the white guy was bigger girth cut,black guy uncut ,both of us were nervous and excited more by thought of her having a black guy,back then attitudes were not as liberal as today,Wife’s dad told her not to ever bring a black guy home,so to her I think is was like sticking her fingers up to parents,both meets were very erotic,for me seeing her with black guy I found more exciting,because it was different as seen her with white guys before,the contrast of her pale white skin against his black body was truly fantastic,he was more dominant than any guys we met,more vocal to her,treated her like a slut ,which she absolutely loved ,not saying every black guy is like that,asked her after her thoughts ,she said it was the most erotic sex she ever had,it was not so much about his cock but more about his attitude ,it was something we repeated but not often,she preferred big girth white cock in general,but bbc was like a treat occasionlly ,sadly divorced after few years ,she got in relationship with black guy,only lasted about 6 months as I think she liked to be in control ,not all the time

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By *ike12thMan
14 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Interesting

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By *nglishdelightMan
14 weeks ago

mansfield

Is it true lady’s

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By *ikesEmBigMan
14 weeks ago

Herts

I'd like to take this opportunity to thank the black lads for taking up some of my workload. Unfortunately there is not enough of my penis for everybody

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By *mma and ChrisCouple
14 weeks ago

Greater Manchester

I agree. I love a long cock inside me and race doesn’t make a difference to that. However I prefer sex with vwe blk guys largely due to the contrast on skin colour as they fuck me

Em x

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By *mma and ChrisCouple
14 weeks ago

Greater Manchester

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
14 weeks ago

North Wessex Downs Ares


"I have experienced big cocks and I might be in minority, but I prefer my cervix intact. Also, most of the black guys I have been with had quite an attitude so now I choose to give black guys a very wide berth. Give me an average white guy who knows how to pleasure a woman without the need to engage his dick first any time! Someone who knows how to ignite my senses up to the point where I am almost begging them to fuck me!

As a side note: anyone reading this post, please don't bother sending a DM as I am very lucky, already have 2 of such guys, and not looking for anyone else in the foreseeable future.

GUM clinic put us on prep after hearing we'd been at a gb with bbc present.

The amount of straight black men testing positive for HIV is rising, that may be why "

Sadly it has been on the incresse for some time, but there are some proactive programmes in place. Much of the increase is due to cases contracted overseas, rather than in the UK, although if these cases are sexually active in the UK the risk increases dramatically.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
14 weeks ago

Cheshire


"I love cock, as long as it’s attached to a fun, respectful, sexually imaginative and dirty minded person.

Couldn’t care less if it’s big/ small/ black/ white.

Also, on the whole “contrast” love thing, if that’s the case, why aren’t Black women admired for the same thing within the lifestyle?"

You raise the question we were going to ask 🤔

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By *ocoaTemptationMan
14 weeks ago

london


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Often heard the quote "once you go black you don't go back" but to be honest It's a case of once you go big it's hard to go back.

Once you go white you finally get licked right

Offended as I go down like my life depends on it and even take a spare knife and fork and bib with me to savor the flavour!

😂 Lol not a bib lol, a gentleman and not a dine and dasher... I don't care in regards to race but I did find it funny when my preference changed 15 years ago."

OMFG my biggest weakness is sexy black women who crave both black and white cock. In fact this applies to other women too. It's way more fun being with a woman who doesn't just restrict herself to one or the other....more for us both to suck together then

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By *ocoaTemptationMan
14 weeks ago

london


"I love cock, as long as it’s attached to a fun, respectful, sexually imaginative and dirty minded person.

Couldn’t care less if it’s big/ small/ black/ white.

Also, on the whole “contrast” love thing, if that’s the case, why aren’t Black women admired for the same thing within the lifestyle?"

In my case they most certainly are. It's my go to for interracial porn

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By *ordy73Man
14 weeks ago

lancashire

I’d love my wife to play with a bbc or bwc

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By *fun88Man
14 weeks ago

Shropshire

Sorry if I didnt read all replies and all you replied to but mixed is hot as fxk!

Olive skin/tanned, Beautiful.

Thats my opinion.

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By *atch0101Man
14 weeks ago

Here


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Often heard the quote "once you go black you don't go back" but to be honest It's a case of once you go big it's hard to go back."

Yeah..great. That very statement blows the " size doesn't matter" out of the window. Which i always knew

It's like having the skill of driving a rally car with a poxy 1 litre KIA

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By *fun88Man
14 weeks ago

Shropshire

There was talk about hiv and skin colour but if Women used protection nothing would be spread or contracted..I understand desensitivity to a guy & not caring in the moment but whats a girls excuse?

I also seen comments about guys with big cocks having an attitude..actually the guys that are small claim to be doms bulls and hung..and crap people.

Hung men are usually more normal!

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By *rankie bricksMan
14 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

As hub I like the thought of wife having bbc,she likes the thought.

Anyone care to chat

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By *fun88Man
14 weeks ago

Shropshire

Must be bbcin wolvs?

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
14 weeks ago

Glasgow


"There was talk about hiv and skin colour but if Women used protection nothing would be spread or contracted..I understand desensitivity to a guy & not caring in the moment but whats a girls excuse?

I also seen comments about guys with big cocks having an attitude..actually the guys that are small claim to be doms bulls and hung..and crap people.

Hung men are usually more normal!"

Are you seriously blaming women for the spread of sexual diseases? I should be surprised but I’m actually not 😒 It’s not a woman’s responsibility to protect men. Everyone should be responsible for their own sexual health and protecting themselves

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14 weeks ago


"There was talk about hiv and skin colour but if Women used protection nothing would be spread or contracted..I understand desensitivity to a guy & not caring in the moment but whats a girls excuse?

I also seen comments about guys with big cocks having an attitude..actually the guys that are small claim to be doms bulls and hung..and crap people.

Hung men are usually more normal!

Are you seriously blaming women for the spread of sexual diseases? I should be surprised but I’m actually not 😒 It’s not a woman’s responsibility to protect men. Everyone should be responsible for their own sexual health and protecting themselves "

Well said it’s everyone’s responsibility

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By *ugby 123Couple
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14 weeks ago

O o O oo


"There was talk about hiv and skin colour but if Women used protection nothing would be spread or contracted..

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So it is a womans fault if anyone gets HIV?

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By *fun88Man
14 weeks ago

Shropshire

I seen a post blaming men of xolour for spread or increased hiv risk..but it dawned on me if the Women had safe sex..wouldnt they protect or lower that risk/stop spreading.

No I wasnt blaming Women but defending men of colour against women blaming them being a risk. Seemed like racism? Use protection??

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By *ugby 123Couple
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14 weeks ago

O o O oo


"I seen a post blaming men of xolour for spread or increased hiv risk..but it dawned on me if the Women had safe sex..wouldnt they protect or lower that risk/stop spreading.

No I wasnt blaming Women but defending men of colour against women blaming them being a risk. Seemed like racism? Use protection??"

What protection can women use for safe sex?

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
14 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I seen a post blaming men of xolour for spread or increased hiv risk..but it dawned on me if the Women had safe sex..wouldnt they protect or lower that risk/stop spreading.

No I wasnt blaming Women but defending men of colour against women blaming them being a risk. Seemed like racism? Use protection??"

But why just single out women? If everyone used protection then it would lower the risk/stop spreading

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By *fun88Man
14 weeks ago

Shropshire


"I seen a post blaming men of xolour for spread or increased hiv risk..but it dawned on me if the Women had safe sex..wouldnt they protect or lower that risk/stop spreading.

No I wasnt blaming Women but defending men of colour against women blaming them being a risk. Seemed like racism? Use protection??

But why just single out women? If everyone used protection then it would lower the risk/stop spreading "

I sigled out Women who claim men of colour are hiv risks and reduse to sleep with them now..

A woman can supply a condom or tell the male to wear one? That would help?

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By *fun88Man
14 weeks ago

Shropshire


"I seen a post blaming men of xolour for spread or increased hiv risk..but it dawned on me if the Women had safe sex..wouldnt they protect or lower that risk/stop spreading.

No I wasnt blaming Women but defending men of colour against women blaming them being a risk. Seemed like racism? Use protection??

What protection can women use for safe sex? "

A bag over her head and a condom.

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
14 weeks ago

Glasgow


"I seen a post blaming men of xolour for spread or increased hiv risk..but it dawned on me if the Women had safe sex..wouldnt they protect or lower that risk/stop spreading.

No I wasnt blaming Women but defending men of colour against women blaming them being a risk. Seemed like racism? Use protection??

But why just single out women? If everyone used protection then it would lower the risk/stop spreading

I sigled out Women who claim men of colour are hiv risks and reduse to sleep with them now..

A woman can supply a condom or tell the male to wear one? That would help?"

Why is it a woman’s responsibility to supply condoms to other people? Yes we always have condoms whether at a club or meeting privately but we do also expect the other party to also have brought their own isn’t that just common courtesy?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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14 weeks ago

O o O oo

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By *ugby 123Couple
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14 weeks ago

O o O oo


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A woman can supply a condom or tell the male to wear one? That would help?

"

Would the man not be aware about safe sex and to use a condom?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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14 weeks ago

O o O oo


"I seen a post blaming men of xolour for spread or increased hiv risk..but it dawned on me if the Women had safe sex..wouldnt they protect or lower that risk/stop spreading.

No I wasnt blaming Women but defending men of colour against women blaming them being a risk. Seemed like racism? Use protection??

What protection can women use for safe sex?

A bag over her head and a condom.

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To be fair the condoms do stretch with water to go that big when they are being tested but I don't think a condom over a womans head will help with safe sex

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By *fun88Man
14 weeks ago

Shropshire

Are u insane? Expecting a male to turn up with condoms and blaming them instead of having some your self is outragious and is not taking responsibility.

I did not mean a condom on your head I meant on his Penis..this is why things get spreading and Women blame men. Its both their responsibility if your going to say silly things like acting like a mans mother offering protection..something is going wrong. You obviously think a Man should supply a condom not a Woman. If a Woman dont have a condom she should never have sex!

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By *herrybakewellCouple
14 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Were all supposed to be adults in a swinging lifestyle. If as a man you can't turn up with condoms, you're a bit thick really.

Also ask yourself, would you rely on a condom given to you by someone else?

I know mine havent been tampered with.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
14 weeks ago

Herts


"Were all supposed to be adults in a swinging lifestyle. If as a man you can't turn up with condoms, you're a bit thick really.

Also ask yourself, would you rely on a condom given to you by someone else?

I know mine havent been tampered with."

More fun if they fit correctly to, so I bring my own if they're to be used

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14 weeks ago

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By *fun88Man
14 weeks ago

Shropshire

Ooh lala

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By *ugby 123Couple
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14 weeks ago

O o O oo


"Are u insane? Expecting a male to turn up with condoms and blaming them instead of having some your self is outragious and is not taking responsibility.

I did not mean a condom on your head I meant on his Penis..this is why things get spreading and Women blame men. Its both their responsibility if your going to say silly things like acting like a mans mother offering protection..something is going wrong. You obviously think a Man should supply a condom not a Woman. If a Woman dont have a condom she should never have sex!"

I am not sure which person you are answering here because if all of it is to me you are putting words into my mouth.

I just followed your lead with the silly bit after you said put a paper bag over a womans head.

To the rest.

We are responsible for our own sexual health. A man shouldn't be told to use a condom or how to use it, nor should he need help to put it on. It is his responsibilty to protect himself if he wants to practise safe sex.

A woman doesn't use an aid to have safe sex so if she is wanting safe sex ( or safer sex as they are not 100% safe ) then she would need to make sure there was a condom being used by the male and that it wasn't out of date.

We used to have our own supply to use and I am sure there must be women who do this too but I would expect a man to supply his own.

Even though we used to have a supply , if a man had turned up without any condoms after discussing safe sex then the meet wouldn't have gone ahead.

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By *oiluvfunMan
14 weeks ago

Penrith


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Why is it a woman’s responsibility to supply condoms to other people? Yes we always have condoms whether at a club or meeting privately but we do also expect the other party to also have brought their own isn’t that just common courtesy?"

I always have my own condoms with me, after ‘incidents’ over the years;

All condoms aren’t the same size, neither do cocks come in standardised sizes, so as far as I’m concerned, having condoms which fit me comfortably are as much about my pleasure, as they are my sexual health…

I once took advantage of the free condoms available in a swinger club, and regretted the rash they gave me afterwards! The irony of getting a rash on your cock by using condoms….. can laugh about it now

A meet with a new lover, if she doesn’t have condoms with her, I would question her sexual health…

We are all adults, but some are more adult than others. Be safe out there

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By *oiluvfunMan
14 weeks ago

Penrith


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't."

Buy the right condoms, and they’re all the same colour, right?

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By *fun88Man
14 weeks ago

Shropshire

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By *fun88Man
14 weeks ago

Shropshire


"Are u insane? Expecting a male to turn up with condoms and blaming them instead of having some your self is outragious and is not taking responsibility.

I did not mean a condom on your head I meant on his Penis..this is why things get spreading and Women blame men. Its both their responsibility if your going to say silly things like acting like a mans mother offering protection..something is going wrong. You obviously think a Man should supply a condom not a Woman. If a Woman dont have a condom she should never have sex!

I am not sure which person you are answering here because if all of it is to me you are putting words into my mouth.

I just followed your lead with the silly bit after you said put a paper bag over a womans head.

To the rest.

We are responsible for our own sexual health. A man shouldn't be told to use a condom or how to use it, nor should he need help to put it on. It is his responsibilty to protect himself if he wants to practise safe sex.

A woman doesn't use an aid to have safe sex so if she is wanting safe sex ( or safer sex as they are not 100% safe ) then she would need to make sure there was a condom being used by the male and that it wasn't out of date.

We used to have our own supply to use and I am sure there must be women who do this too but I would expect a man to supply his own.

Even though we used to have a supply , if a man had turned up without any condoms after discussing safe sex then the meet wouldn't have gone ahead.

"

buy condoms.

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By *andK999Couple
14 weeks ago

Loughborough

Mrs loves both and SPH on Mr

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By *eet the Fuckers 69Couple
14 weeks ago

Kingston on Thames

Either is great in our view, but can you find one that’s always in a condom? Can you hell !

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By *ortyairCouple
14 weeks ago

Wallasey


"Either is great in our view, but can you find one that’s always in a condom? Can you hell ! "
Surely as long as they wear one whilst they are with you then you are covered, for want of a better phrase, Mrs x

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By *herrybakewellCouple
14 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"Either is great in our view, but can you find one that’s always in a condom? Can you hell ! Surely as long as they wear one whilst they are with you then you are covered, for want of a better phrase, Mrs x"

Agreed.

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14 weeks ago

I wear a black condom

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By *eet the Fuckers 69Couple
13 weeks ago

Kingston on Thames


"Either is great in our view, but can you find one that’s always in a condom? Can you hell ! Surely as long as they wear one whilst they are with you then you are covered, for want of a better phrase, Mrs x"

So if a guy has an STI as long as he wears a condom your letting him fuck you and I assume sucking his dick bare ?

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By *ortyairCouple
13 weeks ago

Wallasey


"Either is great in our view, but can you find one that’s always in a condom? Can you hell ! Surely as long as they wear one whilst they are with you then you are covered, for want of a better phrase, Mrs x

So if a guy has an STI as long as he wears a condom your letting him fuck you and I assume sucking his dick bare ? "

No of course not, that's why we use SH24 and expect playmates to test to. So how do you know a guy who's wearing a condom hasn't got an STI unless you test? The answer is you don't.

I was merely pointing out that in this case a condom is providing some form of protection, not 100% but some. Nothing, testing or condoms is totally safe, you just have to find a level of 'safety' you are comfortable with that's all,

Mrs x

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By *mma and ChrisCouple
13 weeks ago

Greater Manchester

I totally agree with you

Em x

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By *idnight_Express69Man
13 weeks ago

Rochdale


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't."

Fetishisation.

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By *ortyairCouple
13 weeks ago

Wallasey


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Fetishisation. "

It's not fetishisation, that only applies to non sexual parts of a person.

Mrs x

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By *anyaTgirlTV/TS
13 weeks ago

manchester

The colour and the size

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By *anyaTgirlTV/TS
13 weeks ago

manchester

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By *idnight_Express69Man
13 weeks ago

Rochdale


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Fetishisation. It's not fetishisation, that only applies to non sexual parts of a person.

Mrs x"

Partly correct; it also applies where a person is objectified.

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By *ortyairCouple
13 weeks ago

Wallasey


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Fetishisation. It's not fetishisation, that only applies to non sexual parts of a person.

Mrs x

Partly correct; it also applies where a person is objectified.

"

So how are they objectified here?

Mrs x

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By *ustforfun1759Couple
13 weeks ago

IRVINE

Once you've tried a big one there's no going back mrs

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By *ikerdude2017Man
13 weeks ago

Rotherham


"You are not the only woman to say this, my last meeting was a 40 year old black goddess, she said she would never meet another black guy because of the attitude, and one guy wouldn't slow down when she asked and it took her ages to get over the bruising."

who is the 40 year old black goddess, love to meet her

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By *otMediterraneanWoman
13 weeks ago

MK

BWC !

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By *idnight_Express69Man
13 weeks ago

Rochdale


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Fetishisation. It's not fetishisation, that only applies to non sexual parts of a person.

Mrs x

Partly correct; it also applies where a person is objectified.

So how are they objectified here?

Mrs x"

A big cock is a big cock.

Fetishisation is the fascination with the particular skin colour of that big cock.

It’s not ‘preference’. It’s skin tone.

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By *etitehotwife4uCouple
13 weeks ago

wirral

A few of both for a gb would be hot

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By *aughty-oneMan
13 weeks ago

Nazeing


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Fetishisation. It's not fetishisation, that only applies to non sexual parts of a person.

Mrs x

Partly correct; it also applies where a person is objectified.

So how are they objectified here?

Mrs x

A big cock is a big cock.

Fetishisation is the fascination with the particular skin colour of that big cock.

It’s not ‘preference’. It’s skin tone.

"

Exactly this.

If you think that you can justify a contrast between skin colour is just a preference and not you objectively making a judgement into a kink that is based on race and ethnicity then you’re probably quite unaware that you are possibly unconsciously aware that you could be seen having negative thoughts about race?

I think there is definitely something deeply wrong and inappropriate feelings with white cuckold couples that actively seek out dominant bbc bulls……

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By *ortyairCouple
13 weeks ago

Wallasey


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Fetishisation. It's not fetishisation, that only applies to non sexual parts of a person.

Mrs x

Partly correct; it also applies where a person is objectified.

So how are they objectified here?

Mrs x

A big cock is a big cock.

Fetishisation is the fascination with the particular skin colour of that big cock.

It’s not ‘preference’. It’s skin tone.

"

It might be fetish if it was concerned with a cock but it is so it can't be.

Also what about a white person looking for a BWC or a black person looking for a BBC, is that fetishism?

Mrs x

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By *ortyairCouple
13 weeks ago

Wallasey


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Fetishisation. It's not fetishisation, that only applies to non sexual parts of a person.

Mrs x

Partly correct; it also applies where a person is objectified.

So how are they objectified here?

Mrs x

A big cock is a big cock.

Fetishisation is the fascination with the particular skin colour of that big cock.

It’s not ‘preference’. It’s skin tone.

Exactly this.

If you think that you can justify a contrast between skin colour is just a preference and not you objectively making a judgement into a kink that is based on race and ethnicity then you’re probably quite unaware that you are possibly unconsciously aware that you could be seen having negative thoughts about race?

I think there is definitely something deeply wrong and inappropriate feelings with white cuckold couples that actively seek out dominant bbc bulls……"

Because racists obviously do 'nice' things with those they are racist about, makes perfect sense haha,

Mrs x

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By *WB85Man
13 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I must be racist then, because to me someone's skin tone is classed as a preference.

Just like someone's height and weight.

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By *ucka39Man
13 weeks ago

Newcastle


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't."

Each one is going to be either big or small as not everyone is big

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By *otMediterraneanWoman
13 weeks ago

MK

I prefer BWC

I’m more then happy playing with ladies of any colour

And Iv watched on a few occasions my husband with ladies from other races

Black,mixed and Latin South American 🔥

And you will see me playing in my profile with a lovely black lady 😈

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By *aughty-oneMan
13 weeks ago

Nazeing


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Fetishisation. It's not fetishisation, that only applies to non sexual parts of a person.

Mrs x

Partly correct; it also applies where a person is objectified.

So how are they objectified here?

Mrs x

A big cock is a big cock.

Fetishisation is the fascination with the particular skin colour of that big cock.

It’s not ‘preference’. It’s skin tone.

Exactly this.

If you think that you can justify a contrast between skin colour is just a preference and not you objectively making a judgement into a kink that is based on race and ethnicity then you’re probably quite unaware that you are possibly unconsciously aware that you could be seen having negative thoughts about race?

I think there is definitely something deeply wrong and inappropriate feelings with white cuckold couples that actively seek out dominant bbc bulls……Because racists obviously do 'nice' things with those they are racist about, makes perfect sense haha,

Mrs x"

Never thought that these “nice things” come with a weird dynamic of a power play dominant and slightly sinister nature?

White sluts and big black studs?

Maybe not for everyone but some people do enjoy a very odd interpretation when they fetishise or objectify a person into a kink.

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By *ortyairCouple
13 weeks ago

Wallasey


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Fetishisation. It's not fetishisation, that only applies to non sexual parts of a person.

Mrs x

Partly correct; it also applies where a person is objectified.

So how are they objectified here?

Mrs x

A big cock is a big cock.

Fetishisation is the fascination with the particular skin colour of that big cock.

It’s not ‘preference’. It’s skin tone.

Exactly this.

If you think that you can justify a contrast between skin colour is just a preference and not you objectively making a judgement into a kink that is based on race and ethnicity then you’re probably quite unaware that you are possibly unconsciously aware that you could be seen having negative thoughts about race?

I think there is definitely something deeply wrong and inappropriate feelings with white cuckold couples that actively seek out dominant bbc bulls……Because racists obviously do 'nice' things with those they are racist about, makes perfect sense haha,

Mrs x

Never thought that these “nice things” come with a weird dynamic of a power play dominant and slightly sinister nature?

White sluts and big black studs?

Maybe not for everyone but some people do enjoy a very odd interpretation when they fetishise or objectify a person into a kink."

So as a woman looking for a powerful bull to fuck me, to cuckhold my hubby, maybe humiliate him, makes me a dominant? Is that what you are saying because thats very wierd.

Surely that makes the couple in this scenario submissive, certinly seems to fit that definition by relinquising control over to a powerful bull.

Whats sinister about that? Are you saying that black guys cannot meet white girls and if they do are they wierd and sinister? Are the guys fetishising white woman? Or is it you that has a problem just with white woman?

And choosing to have sex with anyone is a 'nice thing', its only wierd if you are doing it wrong.

Mrs x

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By *ortyairCouple
13 weeks ago

Wallasey


"Is there actually a difference between a BWC and BBC? You either go big or you don't.

Fetishisation. It's not fetishisation, that only applies to non sexual parts of a person.

Mrs x

Partly correct; it also applies where a person is objectified.

So how are they objectified here?

Mrs x

A big cock is a big cock.

Fetishisation is the fascination with the particular skin colour of that big cock.

It’s not ‘preference’. It’s skin tone.

Exactly this.

If you think that you can justify a contrast between skin colour is just a preference and not you objectively making a judgement into a kink that is based on race and ethnicity then you’re probably quite unaware that you are possibly unconsciously aware that you could be seen having negative thoughts about race?

I think there is definitely something deeply wrong and inappropriate feelings with white cuckold couples that actively seek out dominant bbc bulls……Because racists obviously do 'nice' things with those they are racist about, makes perfect sense haha,

Mrs x

Never thought that these “nice things” come with a weird dynamic of a power play dominant and slightly sinister nature?

White sluts and big black studs?

Maybe not for everyone but some people do enjoy a very odd interpretation when they fetishise or objectify a person into a kink.So as a woman looking for a powerful bull to fuck me, to cuckhold my hubby, maybe humiliate him, makes me a dominant? Is that what you are saying because thats very wierd.

Surely that makes the couple in this scenario submissive, certinly seems to fit that definition by relinquising control over to a powerful bull.

Whats sinister about that? Are you saying that black guys cannot meet white girls and if they do are they wierd and sinister? Are the guys fetishising white woman? Or is it you that has a problem just with white woman?

And choosing to have sex with anyone is a 'nice thing', its only wierd if you are doing it wrong.

Mrs x

"

Just for the sake of clarity this is a hypothetical dynamic and not ours, hubby wants to make that clear.

Ffs now he is ascertaining dominance over me haha,

Mrs x

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