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By *aughty twenties OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Hey I’m pretty new on here and still trying to get used to it lol

Would greatly appreciate some advise on my profile if you don’t mind?

Like what can I do to make myself stand out, what should/shouldn’t I be putting on here?

Not sure what people are really looking at on profiles

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15 weeks ago

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By *ucka39Man
15 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

Profile and bio seems good but I'd adjust the age bracket and figure out what the sexualitie is as it seems confusing which may effect your chances just be honest

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
15 weeks ago

Tamworth

I don’t think it’s bad as profiles go.

You might want to explain a little about what your kinks are so people can gauge compatibility.

A small point, but you don’t make someone enjoy themselves (yes I’m finicky).

Your age may not be helpful - don’t be tempted to change it, just focus on finding those who are happy to meet your are group. And be aware it may take that little bit longer.

You’ve not been here that long in the grand scheme of things.

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By *aturewomanloverMan
15 weeks ago

staffs/cheshire

So callum how come your on here to find girls?

Are you not of the age to go out?

Obviously when I was younger (20-25) I had to go out every drinking and clubs every weekend to get laid. Best I did was around 14 girls in one year. But that's still only around 1 girl every 4 weekends of going out.

Genuinely interested, is that not a way to get laid at your age now?

Is it all online and dm's?

And is it a lot harder because girls phones are full of messages of lads??

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By *uenevereWoman
15 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

It's not bad but could definitely be better.

More variety of photos and fewer taken in a bathroom would be good.

Would you really want to meet an elderly lady? Also most women don't want long periods of oral, or long periods of any single act... this along with some other phrasing, indicates that you may have limited experience.

If you're genuinely interested in the kink side of things, you may find more success on different websites. Stating what they are is also helpful.

If you're just looking for sex, I reccomend a traditional night out in Manchester city centre. Alternatively try one of the many swinging clubs in your area.

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple
15 weeks ago

brighton


"So callum how come your on here to find girls?

Are you not of the age to go out?

Obviously when I was younger (20-25) I had to go out every drinking and clubs every weekend to get laid. Best I did was around 14 girls in one year. But that's still only around 1 girl every 4 weekends of going out.

Genuinely interested, is that not a way to get laid at your age now?

Is it all online and dm's?

And is it a lot harder because girls phones are full of messages of lads?? "

Good questions! I'm never sure what brings really young men to fab. Don't you go out on the pull? That's what your 20s are for. I had the best hook ups of my life in my 20s from men I met in pubs and clubs. Seems a shame if young people don't do that anymore!

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By *aturewomanloverMan
15 weeks ago

staffs/cheshire


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Good questions! I'm never sure what brings really young men to fab. Don't you go out on the pull? That's what your 20s are for. I had the best hook ups of my life in my 20s from men I met in pubs and clubs. Seems a shame if young people don't do that anymore!"

Yeah I honestly want to know. I want to know if it's easier to hook up since the Internet for young lads or harder.

Like I say you'd think it's easier, but if a girls phone is full of lads in her inboxes, and they never take there eyes off their phone, you've got to compete with the 100s in her phone....

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By *nytime2023Couple
15 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Profile says straight yet looking for TV/TS? Small point but worth changing one way or another. We agree with others, expand what you can offer because ‘kink’ is a huge world with many varieties V&K x

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By *ootnootboopCouple
15 weeks ago

Cheshire


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Good questions! I'm never sure what brings really young men to fab. Don't you go out on the pull? That's what your 20s are for. I had the best hook ups of my life in my 20s from men I met in pubs and clubs. Seems a shame if young people don't do that anymore!

Yeah I honestly want to know. I want to know if it's easier to hook up since the Internet for young lads or harder.

Like I say you'd think it's easier, but if a girls phone is full of lads in her inboxes, and they never take there eyes off their phone, you've got to compete with the 100s in her phone.... "

Honestly, knowing what I do about university aged young people, going "out on the pull" is definitely something that still happens but it's becoming more and more rare. Cost is cited alot alongside the "clientele" of clubs being "less savoury".

I think times have definitely changed and wether that's for the better or worse, who knows!

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By *carlettxWoman
14 weeks ago

Essex


"

Good questions! I'm never sure what brings really young men to fab. Don't you go out on the pull? That's what your 20s are for. I had the best hook ups of my life in my 20s from men I met in pubs and clubs. Seems a shame if young people don't do that anymore!

Yeah I honestly want to know. I want to know if it's easier to hook up since the Internet for young lads or harder.

Like I say you'd think it's easier, but if a girls phone is full of lads in her inboxes, and they never take there eyes off their phone, you've got to compete with the 100s in her phone....

Honestly, knowing what I do about university aged young people, going "out on the pull" is definitely something that still happens but it's becoming more and more rare. Cost is cited alot alongside the "clientele" of clubs being "less savoury".

I think times have definitely changed and wether that's for the better or worse, who knows!"

It’s a completely different generation of dating / sex to when I was younger

Most seem to start online texting before meeting

However back to the OP - your profile is fine , sexuality is a tad confusing you are straight but looking for a TV/TS ?

I’m doing to say what I always say - if you really want the swinging experience than get yourself to a swinging club

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By *hisguysfilthMan
14 weeks ago

whyteleafe

Hey guys, I've been on here a while I'm on and off of here randomly and don't put a lot of time in to it but it's time to change. Can I have some advice/opinions on how to make my profile better

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By *WANDTGCouple
14 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich


"So callum how come your on here to find girls?

Are you not of the age to go out?

Obviously when I was younger (20-25) I had to go out every drinking and clubs every weekend to get laid. Best I did was around 14 girls in one year. But that's still only around 1 girl every 4 weekends of going out.

We agree with all the above, also why are 20 somethings hitting on someone like us who are old enough to be their parents/grandparents !!

That's why we have 36 as our lowest age preference.

Genuinely interested, is that not a way to get laid at your age now?

Is it all online and dm's?

And is it a lot harder because girls phones are full of messages of lads??

Good questions! I'm never sure what brings really young men to fab. Don't you go out on the pull? That's what your 20s are for. I had the best hook ups of my life in my 20s from men I met in pubs and clubs. Seems a shame if young people don't do that anymore!"

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By *endalshaggersCouple
14 weeks ago

Kendal


"So callum how come your on here to find girls?

Are you not of the age to go out?

Obviously when I was younger (20-25) I had to go out every drinking and clubs every weekend to get laid. Best I did was around 14 girls in one year. But that's still only around 1 girl every 4 weekends of going out.

Genuinely interested, is that not a way to get laid at your age now?

Is it all online and dm's?

And is it a lot harder because girls phones are full of messages of lads?? "

The difference is in your day (without making you sound old!!!) sites like these probably weren't around, there was no Tinder or other "dating/hookup" sites so the only way you'd get laid is if you went out and actually seeked it.

Now people can sit in their rooms and swipe away and basically find a fuck on thier phones, and don't have to go out clubbing or bar crawling and hope you'll find someone.

C xoxo

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