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By *iscreetstokecouple OP   Couple
24 weeks ago

newcastle

One that's always confused me. If I'm joining a couple I like us all to play, if anything I get his cock. What do you ladies do when he's not allowed to play with you? Especially after you've just given him the hardest cock watching you with his mrs.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
24 weeks ago

There and Here

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By *e and him 2021Couple
24 weeks ago

stoke on trent

We met a couple once so yes a little different to what you mention.

But when we started playing my partner(the female) wasn’t aloud to touch the male of the other couple she could play with her but definitely not him. She wasn’t happy has in the social before hand that hadn’t been mentioned. She just got up and we just stopped play and said this isn’t for us.

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By *ill37Man
24 weeks ago

cambridge

I think you would definitely give any man the hardest cock ever with your body but to answer the question seems a little pointless my option as it’s not sharing all the fun , however we all have different kinks

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
24 weeks ago

Epsom

Yeah each to their own but we play like this all the time and the male half as he’s own partner and I have my own so really no one is “left out” plus it’s not always about this kinda dynamic.

It’s the kink and what drives you in a mix so even don’t I don’t play in what is considered “traditional swing” (with other males) never had an issue or complaint with who we interact with which is why is pays off to be picky

Plus our girlfriend is also very happy with the set up as pleasure isn’t always straight up cock in vag right…?

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By *iscreetstokecouple OP   Couple
24 weeks ago

newcastle

Yes we've had similar. She only plays with her own partner but experts me play with her hubby while mine sits and waits.... no thanks

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
24 weeks ago

Epsom

Yeahhh doesn’t sound like a great match. Even though I don’t play with other males me or my partner would never expect the lady of the couple to play with him. You give what you get

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By *oxy jWoman
24 weeks ago

somerset

if i play with a couple its both or not at all i refuse to be a toy so the male can watch ... both play or not at all...

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By *herrybakewellCouple
24 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Run a mile....that's what I'd do.

It always comes over as an insecurity in their relationship....and quite frankly I don't need the drama.

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By *jk1978Couple
24 weeks ago

Cheshire

We get were some couples say they both want to play with k while N just watches when we clearly state we play together get it’s hard for all 4 to like each other don’t get it at clubs when we go but just block and move on

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I'm straight, but can't see what would be in it for the lady joining the couple, if she can't play with both.

She may aswell just meet the fem alone.

Some ladies don't like their fellas playing with other women though, but want to play with both.

I've met couples like this at socials, she plays with men and women and he isn't allowed to play with ladies as she's jealous.

As someone said above it looks like too much drama, but as half a couple I enjoy watching my man play with a lady, whilst I'm with her man.

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By *ill37Man
24 weeks ago

cambridge

If jealousy is the reasoning behind not allowing for play then I guess they are in the wrong life style

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By *ay W. BeauWoman
24 weeks ago

Wolvo

In my experience, i had to remember to always ask what the dynamic was. If im just there to put on a show with the F for the M and the toddle off home then i dont involve myself with that couple. We’re all involved or I'm out. I get why people do it but i pass.

The attitude of ppl when contacting regarding this dynamic often stinks too. ‘you’ll come round and play with me, you wont be touching my fella apart from maybe to suck him off. If you want a shag find your own bloke’ was what i was told once. Lol.

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By *tticusukMan
24 weeks ago

Formby


"Run a mile....that's what I'd do.

It always comes over as an insecurity in their relationship....and quite frankly I don't need the drama. "

Or it’s called soft swap

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
24 weeks ago

Stoke


"Run a mile....that's what I'd do.

It always comes over as an insecurity in their relationship....and quite frankly I don't need the drama.

Or it’s called soft swap"

No, soft swap is when all 4 play, not just the guy and 2 women

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By * and R cple4Couple
24 weeks ago

swansea


"Run a mile....that's what I'd do.

It always comes over as an insecurity in their relationship....and quite frankly I don't need the drama. "
It's not nessasaraly insecurity everyone has different dynamics, and it's up to the couples involved to have a discussion before hand.

If one couple decide to change the dynamics last minute then just walk away.

I remember once we had a meet we had a discussion about dynamics we chatted to them on the journey to their house then when things started up she said she was on and couldn't play,

they knew we only played bi and as a couple we understand stuff happens but she didn't just come on in the 5mins we started taking our clothes off.

We politely told them it wouldn't be happening and left we would never change our dynamics to suit someone else.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
24 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"Run a mile....that's what I'd do.

It always comes over as an insecurity in their relationship....and quite frankly I don't need the drama. It's not nessasaraly insecurity everyone has different dynamics, and it's up to the couples involved to have a discussion before hand.

If one couple decide to change the dynamics last minute then just walk away.

I remember once we had a meet we had a discussion about dynamics we chatted to them on the journey to their house then when things started up she said she was on and couldn't play,

they knew we only played bi and as a couple we understand stuff happens but she didn't just come on in the 5mins we started taking our clothes off.

We politely told them it wouldn't be happening and left we would never change our dynamics to suit someone else. "

So many different situations. Our reply was what we've found in our experiences.

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By *orphia2003Woman
24 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I've experienced this from the other side. Joined a couple for a FFM only to find that I'm only allowed to kiss her, or that she receives but doesn't reciprocate.

I think it's about clear communication and deciding if all parties are happy.

I have no qualms walking away if I find that things aren't as I was led to believe.

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By *assageVirtuosoMan
24 weeks ago

SouthEast

I love women so much that if I were a woman , I'd be a lesbian. Wouldn't give a toss about not playing with the hairy bloke.

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By *lossomTreeWoman
24 weeks ago

Ipswich

If I'm in a threesome it has to be FFM where all are fully involved

Not interested in soft swap, I'm a single lady I want to get fucked by him as well as playing with her

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I've done this spontaneously as a single F joining a couple. LOTS of fun things to do!

It wasn't their rule; we're all three quite experimental people. And I was invited back for completely different activities later. But what we did then was chill and fun xx

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By *lairephil89Couple
23 weeks ago

Warrington

If I join a couple I'd want to play with both

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By *he couple nextdoorCouple
22 weeks ago

grangemouth

So would a female not join a couple play with f while husband watches

Or mm ff

Then own partners

Not all guys will play with m

So why does all guys need to go with other

F

We met a mf couple

Mm FF then we went bk to own partners

And then next time

Oral swap

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By *eyeYCouple
22 weeks ago

Nr Leicester

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By *eyeYCouple
22 weeks ago

Nr Leicester


"Yes we've had similar. She only plays with her own partner but experts me play with her hubby while mine sits and waits.... no thanks"

Experienced this a couple of times once in a very underhand way! 😕 I felt absolutely used, and awful for him after! I do get swept up in the moment but have vowed that will never happen again!

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By *om and JennieCouple
22 weeks ago

Chams or Socials


"Yes we've had similar. She only plays with her own partner but experts me play with her hubby while mine sits and waits.... no thanks

Experienced this a couple of times once in a very underhand way! 😕 I felt absolutely used, and awful for him after! I do get swept up in the moment but have vowed that will never happen again!"

This seems to be happening a lot, i think because couples are chasing single women when they get no where with it they turn to other couples and use various tactics to cut the male half out. You have to be on your guard all the time.

T

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
22 weeks ago

your head

I don't meet couples anymore but if I'm having a threesome, I want everyone to be involved or I'd rather meet the woman on her own.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
22 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"Yes we've had similar. She only plays with her own partner but experts me play with her hubby while mine sits and waits.... no thanks

Experienced this a couple of times once in a very underhand way! 😕 I felt absolutely used, and awful for him after! I do get swept up in the moment but have vowed that will never happen again!

This seems to be happening a lot, i think because couples are chasing single women when they get no where with it they turn to other couples and use various tactics to cut the male half out. You have to be on your guard all the time.

T"

Agreed. It's happening more and more lately and it's so annoying.

We were in a club once and a couple approached asking to "borrow" my wife.

It's just so rude.

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By *ootnootboopCouple
22 weeks ago

Cheshire

It's just disrespectful isn't it.

It almost sounds like the woman is being poached.

We'd do an about turn pretty damn quick if we got a whiff of that kind of behaviour. We wouldn't poach someone else's partner so we won't have it done to us!

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By *andPextraCouple
22 weeks ago

North West

We do play this way, but make it clear from the get go.

I like to play with other ladies. Hubby likes to watch.

He will join in but with me only.

Obviously this limits our play partners, but some ladies are fine with it (as are indeed couples where males only join in with own partners)

But we are always clear about it before play, we would never sprung it on anyone.

And for asking to “borrow” someone’s wife in a club thats plain rude.

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By *rangesmartieWoman
22 weeks ago

Devon

I always check beforehand that everyone can play with everyone. If one of the couple can't play with me or vice versa then I respectfully decline to play. For me it needs to be equal all ways round.

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By *neeyedwillieMan
22 weeks ago

Darlington

My wife loves to watch me with other ladies, be told about it afterwards if shes not joining OR making it a full on mff (couples account name in my profile).

Call me kinky but having my wife guide my cock into another woman or making another woman moan in ecstacy together....best thing ever.

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By *heIndianladynEnglishguyCouple
22 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

We will soon be looking for a female to play with my partner. But would be happy with the females having one on one time then myself joining in

We would also like to meet a couple with ff play and the guys play with their own lady.

That’s just our preference currently and one we have openly displayed for others to see.

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By *ragonbaitCouple
22 weeks ago

Reading and Aberdare

I'm more the other way - I'm not that into girls* but I love to see H with his cock in another woman's mouth or pussy, or going down on someone else.

* That said, I do like tits and I'd definitely be interested in fucking another woman with one of my strap ons

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By *rtfull-doggersCouple
22 weeks ago

mowcop

We often just let guys cum on my boobs with no full sex ..

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By *alcon43Woman
22 weeks ago

Paisley


"if i play with a couple its both or not at all i refuse to be a toy so the male can watch ... both play or not at all...

"

I had the opposite. Even after a social I thought both would play. Instead she watched while her husband played with me. Put me off playing with couples as I’m bi.

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