FabSwingers.com forum: Debate... period sex or not?

By *aughtyandnaughtiest OP Couple
26 weeks ago

Midlands

Seems I (mrs) have a bit dodgy luck this year, for majority of the events we have lined up to attend I'm due on.

I always use protection, regardless but I just want to know the general scope as to whether men are still happy to play with women who are menstruating or whether they find it mega off-putting?

(Personally I LOVE it

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By *r SmartypantsMan
26 weeks ago

London

Day 1 can sometimes be a bit much,but days 2, 3, 4 are game on.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
26 weeks ago

Leeds

I wouldn't expect someone to give me oral if I was menstruating

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By *herrybakewellCouple
26 weeks ago

Staffordshire

It would he a no from me.

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By *arley QuimWoman
26 weeks ago

Somewhere

Sticky 🤢

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
26 weeks ago

Cambs

I personally don't mind either way, if I'm not in pain and he/she isn't squeamish I'm game, I'd just keep oral off the table,

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By *herealdavidjonesMan
26 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

Yes from me I find it kind of sexy

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By *ularliWoman
26 weeks ago

Worcester

I couldn’t do it unless it was right at the end and with someone I’ve already played with.

Mine are heavier now than they’ve ever been.

It’s so frustrating as you can guarantee I’m always really horny at that time too

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By *asterMeliodasMan
26 weeks ago

Newmill

Happily have, would again.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Just... No.

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By *enelope2UWoman
26 weeks ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

I have more than one hole so yes. But I'm on an birth control implant so don't have to worry about a period popping up so win win..

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By *Xtriple7Couple
26 weeks ago

N Peterborough.

Short answer, no. But has happened once when playing with guys we knew well and they were ok with it.

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By *essTTWoman
26 weeks ago

Birmingham

With a stranger? Oh no.

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By *elboy1978Man
26 weeks ago

Jarrow

I have had period sex with the ex wife it was ok I used a condom I would try it again

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By *acky RacersCouple
26 weeks ago

Lincoln

When I used to have periods, if I came on unexpectedly when playing then that really can't be helped...

But I would never have played with strangers or swinging partners when bleeding...quite apart from the potential risks even though i am tested, I'm really sensitive to smell and was very conscious of the smell of blood

my partner never minded particularly but I really did so I'd not have sex with him either during that time

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By *appytaffWoman
26 weeks ago

blackwood

I wouldn’t feel comfortable having period sex . The downside of the time of the month is that it makes me feel really horny and I can do nothing about it lol

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By *umalotagainMan
26 weeks ago

a town called malice

"I couldn’t do it unless it was right at the end and with someone I’ve already played with.

Mine are heavier now than they’ve ever been.

It’s so frustrating as you can guarantee I’m always really horny at that time too "

That’s the key most women I know are incredibly horny at that time, so if they are game so am I

As has been said before by others oral is probably off the table, although one partner came on mid session, I won’t describe the shock and the scene

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By *lex0147Man
26 weeks ago

biggleswade

Would never play with anyone on their period, though i used condom always also, i don’t see healthy

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I have one friend who uses dental dams to give oral to casual partners then.

Because of the slightly increased risks. He's fine with the taste on an exclusive partner.

Most "relationship" type people I encounter are very chill. Even if not in an exclusive relationship.

Personally it's not my first choice of moment for a new partner and I have a preference for girl condoms over boy ones at that time. But if whoever is down with whatever then it's all good.

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By *ick a clit.comMan
26 weeks ago

Southsea

It's not going to hurt actually enjoy it

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By *aia-NyxWoman
26 weeks ago

North East

"Seems I (mrs) have a bit dodgy luck this year, for majority of the events we have lined up to attend I'm due on.

I always use protection, regardless but I just want to know the general scope as to whether men are still happy to play with women who are menstruating or whether they find it mega off-putting?

(Personally I LOVE it

Oh gosh, Ive been looking for a discussion like this last week! I was looking in the wrong thread of discussions.

Worry turned into an experience so heres mine - as a single femail at a club, people were reluctant when it came to sex. They were happy to play a different way tho. I love giving pleasure so the night wasn't wasted by all means - I just didn't have sex.

Otherwise, I love period sex and in my day-to-day, regular meets with people who know me I normally dont have a problem unless its super heavy (coil sorted that problem

) but I found that men are not as sensitive about it as I though theyd be. I find it very sexy.

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By *illxxMan
26 weeks ago

motherwell

I have had period sex quite a few times but it’s always been with someone I know and she is relaxed about it. Personally I love it but each to there own

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
26 weeks ago

West London

Absolutely, 100%, yes

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By *unner6969Man
26 weeks ago

London

"Seems I (mrs) have a bit dodgy luck this year, for majority of the events we have lined up to attend I'm due on.

I always use protection, regardless but I just want to know the general scope as to whether men are still happy to play with women who are menstruating or whether they find it mega off-putting?

(Personally I LOVE it

Definitely not for me - a real passion killer. But plenty of fun to be had with other parts of the body….

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Real men arent scared of it. Seeing a cute little tampon string hanging out is a turn on for me and when the girl is woman enough to not be phased by it

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By *hat.coupleCouple
26 weeks ago

Dartford

You can get over the counter drugs to postpone your period for a good few days. Also the good old fashioned contraceptive pill stops it almost immediately and you can stop taking it after the event. Also I have learned a trick to delay your period, after day 3 of your period mix a sachet of geletine with some hot water to dissolve it then add some cooler water so you can drink it (about half a pint of liquid in total after cool water has been added). For me it delays my period for a couple of days but is meant to delay it for about 6 hours, it only really works towards the end of your period however.

There's always a way around having your period.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"You can get over the counter drugs to postpone your period for a good few days. Also the good old fashioned contraceptive pill stops it almost immediately and you can stop taking it after the event. Also I have learned a trick to delay your period, after day 3 of your period mix a sachet of geletine with some hot water to dissolve it then add some cooler water so you can drink it (about half a pint of liquid in total after cool water has been added). For me it delays my period for a couple of days but is meant to delay it for about 6 hours, it only really works towards the end of your period however.

There's always a way around having your period. "

How does it delay it if you've already started? Day 3 is part way through the period, unless you mean gelatine pauses it for a bit?

Not sure how you'd know when your period was going to start, down to the hour, so you could delay it by 6 hours or whatever anyway.

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By *aulupforitMan
26 weeks ago

Corbridge

Yes I love Bloodsports.

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By *hesubtlegentMan
26 weeks ago

surrey

No thank you. Did it a few times with an ex gf as she was really horny but it’s not for me.. I’d rather wait until it’s all clear and can enjoy giving oral, using fingers, tongue and cock….

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By *hat.coupleCouple
26 weeks ago

Dartford

There's always a way around having your period.

How does it delay it if you've already started? Day 3 is part way through the period, unless you mean gelatine pauses it for a bit?

Not sure how you'd know when your period was going to start, down to the hour, so you could delay it by 6 hours or whatever anyway. "

You can delay your period mid way through. It really is as simple as taking the contraceptive pill and it stops. Also as I said the gelatine trick can be done on day 3 of your flow, so once your period starts on or after day 3 you drink the gelatine and it stops it. It works for me everytime. It comes back and carries on for the remaining time you had left. Simples!

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By *aughtyandnaughtiest OP Couple
26 weeks ago

Midlands

That's mad, never heard of that but will definitely give it a go in the future, thanks!

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman
26 weeks ago

Medway

"With a stranger? Oh no."

Same. Only with a long term partner.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
26 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

never fancied it

but each to their own

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By *apkingMan
26 weeks ago

Stockport

"Seems I (mrs) have a bit dodgy luck this year, for majority of the events we have lined up to attend I'm due on.

I always use protection, regardless but I just want to know the general scope as to whether men are still happy to play with women who are menstruating or whether they find it mega off-putting?

(Personally I LOVE it

I have played many of time when the female was menstruating and it doesn’t bother me. But Mainly with girls I have been intimate with. If I was in a scenario with a one night stand and we was playing/teasing each other then I got told your on your period I would be gutted thinking that’s it. But if she wants to carry on then can’t lie it deffo turn me on more

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Beppy sponge tampons are great for this

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By *egoMan
26 weeks ago

Preston

Weird turn on for me tbh. Remember to put a towel down though…

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By *ondiego85Man
26 weeks ago

nottingham

The first couple of days are a bit…too much. From there onwards if there is still some blood, it becomes my excuse to play with the other little hole

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By *apkingMan
26 weeks ago

Stockport

"The first couple of days are a bit…too much. From there onwards if there is still some blood, it becomes my excuse to play with the other little hole

“When the river runs red, take the dirt track instead “

-Steven Hawking

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

There's always a way around having your period.

How does it delay it if you've already started? Day 3 is part way through the period, unless you mean gelatine pauses it for a bit?

Not sure how you'd know when your period was going to start, down to the hour, so you could delay it by 6 hours or whatever anyway.

OK, so it doesn't delay it, it temporarily pauses it. You can't delay something that has already started.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"Seems I (mrs) have a bit dodgy luck this year, for majority of the events we have lined up to attend I'm due on.

I always use protection, regardless but I just want to know the general scope as to whether men are still happy to play with women who are menstruating or whether they find it mega off-putting?

(Personally I LOVE it

More than happy to, if the woman is absolutely comfortable with it. I find it highly arousing.

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By *kinmistressWoman
22 weeks ago

somewhere about

I adore period sex. Im always my most horny then

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
22 weeks ago

falkirk

Not for me but wife loved it

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By *teve and kateCouple
22 weeks ago

Sheffield

I love period sex, but with my husband. I can't understand why some men who are in a long term relationship are so put off by it and would want to wear a condom. I wouldn't with a stranger and oral would be off the table.

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By *oupleSeducedCouple
22 weeks ago

Canterbury/Greenwich

It's a no from us as the Mrs has to much pain and just doesn't feel sexy. It also makes for a nice little break as we're always at it and then the build up for when she's done. Always so good to feel her again when she's done and the session is usually very hot.

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By *renzMan
22 weeks ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I've had sex many times with women on their period. To me it's just another bodily fluid. As long as everyone is aware and consenting I don't see a problem.

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By *ine Time FontayneMan
22 weeks ago

Bracknell

Not a problem. You can still give her clit a good tongue lashing and anything else is her decision

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By *littleextraWoman
21 weeks ago

Lisburn

I’m always so horny on period

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

One thing no one has mentioned here is just how difficult each woman’s menstrual cycle is. Surely that’s going to play a huge part in whether you will feel comfortable having sex at that time?

Some are lucky enough to have only the lightest of bleeds where others bleed very heavily for days on end.

I can’t imagine in somewhere like a club setting the latter would be acceptable.

It’s certainly true that most women do feel incredibly horny during their period tho.

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By *allfromllandaffMan
21 weeks ago

Cardiff

It's all down to the woman and wether she wants to or not. I'm more than happy to have sex during mensuration. Even happy to go down on someone.

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By *inky grandadMan
21 weeks ago

Spain

When I was starting to spread my wild oats we welcomed period sex as we believed she couldn't get pregnant.

It worked well for us and I personally don't have a problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

"One thing no one has mentioned here is just how difficult each woman’s menstrual cycle is. Surely that’s going to play a huge part in whether you will feel comfortable having sex at that time?

Some are lucky enough to have only the lightest of bleeds where others bleed very heavily for days on end.

I can’t imagine in somewhere like a club setting the latter would be acceptable.

It’s certainly true that most women do feel incredibly horny during their period tho.

They let "squirters", and also men, into clubs... I'd rather fuck on a grim plastic covered mattress lightly wet wiped after period sex than lightly wet wiped after being pissed or cum on I think? The viscosity is higher than wee and volume lower than both...

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By *lim_bbcMan
21 weeks ago

barking

No from me

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By *avidagainMan
21 weeks ago

st.leonards on sea

"Real men arent scared of it. Seeing a cute little tampon string hanging out is a turn on for me and when the girl is woman enough to not be phased by it"

yes enjoy this and tampons x

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By *iss KinkWoman
21 weeks ago

North West

Bebby sponges

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I do it just as and when the mood takes you, just a bit messy that’s all a bit of satisfaction removing the tampon

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
21 weeks ago

wonderland.

I use the sponge tampons for days like that. No one realises... and I'm extra horny.... so all good x

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By *ppicplCouple
21 weeks ago

Glasgow

Mr and I love it, which is just as well considering how frequent and heavy mine can be. If my menstrual cramps are bad there are positions that help - or does it just take my mind off it : D Not so sure about period sex during casual meets but maybe more to do with not wanting to run up a dry cleaning bill for a stranger’s sofa! And wouldn’t want someone going down there so would miss the oral. Lovely to hear there are guys who would play at that time though - I like your ‘can do’ attitude

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By *orkshire UnicornWoman
21 weeks ago

Yorkshire

I had mine last longer than expected when I had a meet planned at an event. I let them know and used a sponge to eliminate mess. Worked a treat!

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By *riel13Woman
21 weeks ago

Northampton

Beppy sponges are a life/sheet saver... Unless your period is really heavy but still helps keep things less messy... Or you can get period delay tablets from the pharmacy too

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
21 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Not for casual/club meets but I will still shoot my shot with Hubby when I'm on.

He's not really keen but I am extra horny and super sensitive when I'm on so a girl can try.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Depends how bad it is for me, as women are all different in this, like most things 😂

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By *rangesmartieWoman
21 weeks ago

Devon

I'm super horny during my period, might not feel sexy, but definitely up for sex, and added bonus it can help ease any cramps and back pain. Don't expect sexy outfits.

Tend to find a lot of fab men are in the no column for period sex though, squicks them out. Although I hadn't considered it from a fluid/safety aspect as mentioned in this thread. That hasn't been the reason I've been given though.

Appreciate it can get messy, but we can shower afterwards, it all comes off. Chuck a towel down to protect the sheets.

Men who are not afraid to dip in the red ink are very sexy!

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By *andyman65Man
21 weeks ago

Chippenham

I would have no issue with period sex, so if you need me to pop to Devon once a month, just say the word lol

P xx

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By *ockybigMan
7 days ago

Westcliff

I am messier the better

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By *ockybigMan
7 days ago

Westcliff

Why i would I love it all natural lubrication even do bareback mmmmmm

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By *ockybigMan
7 days ago

Westcliff

Will give you oral orgasms and cock

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By (user no longer on site)
7 days ago

Not a problem form me

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By *enelope2UWoman
7 days ago

Doesn't matter cant block distances

Hygiene is essential and not something I'm willing to compromise with strangers..so no

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By *ockybigMan
7 days ago

Westcliff

And. Me

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By *evin90Man
6 days ago

London

I don't mind it, but I do find when your open to talk about it and everyone is comfortable it's not an issue.

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By *outhlondondudeMan
6 days ago

london

"Seems I (mrs) have a bit dodgy luck this year, for majority of the events we have lined up to attend I'm due on.

I always use protection, regardless but I just want to know the general scope as to whether men are still happy to play with women who are menstruating or whether they find it mega off-putting?

(Personally I LOVE it

Love it too ! A lady of mine cancelled a meet due her period coming on. I told her I love it. Waiting for her to call me during a future period.

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By *eb51Man
6 days ago

kings lynn

Love to try as something I have never done before.

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By *tudgboy1981Man
6 days ago

Wigan

I have no issue at all with it

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By *anonfire96Man
6 days ago

Mansfield

Plenty of towels on the bed , some of the best sex I've had was with a woman on her period.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
6 days ago

Leeds

"Seems I (mrs) have a bit dodgy luck this year, for majority of the events we have lined up to attend I'm due on.

I had Depo injections and never had periods, then after my last baby a coil fitted and I didn't have periods with that either.

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By *aramelChocolatecoupleCouple
2 days ago

Surrey

I couldn't. I'd feel very self conscious. It's annoying as can muck up plans for club nights and meets. I'm debating whether it would be complete torture to go to a club and not play with regards to full sex if my cycle clashes. 😭

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By *uzzleMan
20 hours ago

Hastings

When the red river flows, take the brown road home!

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By *tevenTellyCouple
19 hours ago

Newmarket

I am 100% yes, she is 100% no. Suppose she wins.

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By *ensualSwitchMan
19 hours ago

brighton

Yes would be happy to in a club setting as long as I could wash off after ...messy but so fun.

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By *ertcoupleCouple
19 hours ago

Hatfield

(Mr) doesn't bother me but wife doesn't like it, at the end she's ok but not in the middle.

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By *lasgowMinxWoman
18 hours ago

glasgow

No from me, between bloating and cramp pain sex is the last thing on my mind, not to metion the mess lol

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
18 hours ago

Edinburgh

No, it's too painful and messy

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By *oiluvfunMan
16 hours ago

Camden

I’ve done it on two occasions, with regular friends, because their husbands wouldn’t. It’s not something I would do with a random though….

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By *ularliWoman
46 minutes ago

Worcester

It’s the wrong time of the month for me right now and im horny as hell but wouldn’t have fun with anyone as it’s just to messy. So the poor wand gets it 🤣🤣

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By *eparated_galWoman
44 minutes ago

Salford

Depends how I feel, sometimes I'm really up for it and if the guy has no problem then I like a bit of mess

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By *arryandJinnieWeasleyCouple
26 minutes ago

Woking

Depends how both feel at the time,

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By *esmdMan
19 minutes ago

Woodhall Spa

I’ve fucked my wife a few times during her period and I love it

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By *hePervertedPlumberMan
3 minutes ago

Edinburgh

As with all aspects it's about open and honest communication. I'm completely unfazed by it but understand that some people are, aslong as the lady in question is completely comfortable and all parties are aware then put an extra towel down and get cracking!

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