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By *l1212 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Lincoln

You can all see my profile, would like some feedback as getting bored on here x

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By *teveAndHisMagicPicklenicMan
15 weeks ago

Ends

I dunno but hang about in the forums. It’s not boring in here

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By *ozzybear1981Man
15 weeks ago

preston

I could ask myself the same thing 😂😂😂

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By *l1212 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Lincoln

Cheers mate, just a lot frustrating when you have a chat then nothing lol

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By *outhstaffscoupleCouple
15 weeks ago

Cannock

We're very new, but I'd say you've got a good profile, it must be that there's so many guys on here, the ratio of single guys to couples and ladies is mad

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By *asterMeliodasMan
15 weeks ago

Newmill

Let's review:

"Looking for some fun" - There's nobody here who's looking for a miserable time. Except maybe Wonko.

"open to most things." - There aren't many guys on here who aren't.

"I’m very open and up for most things" - How many people here do you think have "I'm very closed off" in their bio? :P The other bit is just you repeating something you already said.

"like to think I know how to satisfy a woman !" - Again going by the metric of "who on the site wouldn't say this?" The day I see "I'm pretty shit in bed and have no idea what bit of a woman goes where" I'll eat my stylish steampunk hat.

"open to social meets or just pure dirty fun x" - This could have come from the bio of almost literally any guy on the site.

I'm not trying to be mean here, more tongue-in-cheekily pointing out that nothing you've said in your bio can't be applied to several hundred if not thousands of people who aren't you, and in an environment where you're trying to stand out, that won't be doing you any favours.

You've only got one photo as well; I'd recommend putting up some more, possibly body shots or tasteful teasing ones.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
15 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Add more pics and a lot more to your bio.

Doesn’t really scream sexy and as a single guy you have to stand out to have any chance.

Don’t put book of face type pics up on here - take some when you’ve got a sexy head on as it makes a difference.

K

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By *ilthycouple24Couple
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

You not doing anything wrong just be yiu those who like you will gravitate to you remove Rome wasn't built in a day

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By *l1212 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Lincoln

Thanks appreciate that and agree with the ratio x

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
15 weeks ago

Newcastle

You need more pictures and more (and more original) bio text - nothing stands out or is different from hundreds of other male bios. What do you have to offer, what do you like, what are you interests, what are you looking for.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
15 weeks ago

Tamworth

Your profile exists to show people if they’re compatible with you and if you’re what they’re looking for.

With just one photo and text which essentially says you’re up for anything, it’s impossible to do that.

Explain what you’re looking for and what you enjoy and give people an understanding of what you want and what you offer.

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By *l1212 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Lincoln


"You need more pictures and more (and more original) bio text - nothing stands out or is different from hundreds of other male bios. What do you have to offer, what do you like, what are you interests, what are you looking for. "

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By *l1212 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Lincoln

Thanks will take on board x

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By *l1212 OP   Man
15 weeks ago

Lincoln

How’s about I put I love my face sitting on? Xx

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
15 weeks ago

Tamworth


"How’s about I put I love my face sitting on? Xx"

If that’s what you like, it’s a start. I wouldn’t leave it at that unless that’s all you’re after.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Imagine reading your profile as someone else - would you want to meet you?

Think of your profile as your shop window - you want to entice people in, to get to know more and try the goods

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

OP please keep replies on the thread

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By *oney HoneyWoman
15 weeks ago

York

Your profile is very short and badly punctuated.

Also only one face pic and although it’s not bad, it’s definitely not the best angle for you. So a more detailed profile saying what you are into and what you want from the site/ a meet. What types of women you like and how you will impress them. If you have any particular kinks, then mention them, that way you are more likely to meet people who will be a match..

Photos, something more seductive, a couple of face pics, maybe black and white… something showing your body off, but NOT dick pics, make it classy.

Make sure your punctuation and grammar is perfect too… (mine probably isn’t on here but I am rushing!)

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By *anJenny 181Couple
15 weeks ago

Preston

It's a boring profile simple as, nothing stands out, you have to think of the profile as your shop window & make it inviting.

Just remember not everyone is going to want to come into your shop - pick your audience & market that kink

Eg genuine bloke loves the face sitting scene open to making this a reality with the right woman,

You really need to shout loud and proud if you want it to happen

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By *ilkchocdreamMan
15 weeks ago

Westminster

Go' dam' there's some hot women offering great advice on in here! I all of a sudden feel the need to upgrade my page, all feedback welcome!

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By *neeyedwillieMan
15 weeks ago

Darlington

Your using Fab is what you're doing wrong.

By that I mean youre on a site that is predominantly single men now and because of that you've got to have a profile that "wows" the people your seeking.

How you do that is going to vary from person to person and its an endless series of jumping through hoops to appease Internet strangers just to get a shag.

In short, market yourself accordingly, sit on your shelf, wait and hope someone's buying. Best photos, best profile etc

Or you can do what I do. Forget Fab, be assertive, go to clubs and social events and have the charm to make them sell themselves (figrativelly speaking, not litterally) to you.

Shy guys get nothing, you can't please everyone and women rarely fall into your lap just because you want one. You just going to have to learn how to grab their attention and that's very hard to do on here now.

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By *oxy jWoman
15 weeks ago

somerset

its simple if nobody is interested in you then nobody is interested in you thats how simple this site is ...

sorry its blunt but its the way it is there is NOT someone for everyone on this scene nowhere near with guys out numbering women by at least 100 to 1

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Hi there i am straight guy ,i am new in this ,looking for my first threesome with a couple ,never done this before ,i put all details here but nobody are interested ,many couple told me i need a,partner ,but can i do it if nobody want to meet ,make friends ,i have experience with normal girls but no one is swingers ,i live in northampton thanks !

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago


"Hi there i am straight guy ,i am new in this ,looking for my first threesome with a couple ,never done this before ,i put all details here but nobody are interested ,many couple told me i need a,partner ,but can i do it if nobody want to meet ,make friends ,i have experience with normal girls but no one is swingers ,i live in northampton thanks !"

You need to expand your profile. Two words don’t do it. And you say you’re a non smoker……

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By *airyboxMan
15 weeks ago

sheffield


"its simple if nobody is interested in you then nobody is interested in you thats how simple this site is ...

sorry its blunt but its the way it is there is NOT someone for everyone on this scene nowhere near with guys out numbering women by at least 100 to 1

"

Wow that sounds a hell of a lucky lady…

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By *oxesMan
15 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

You are straight guy trying to compete with the 75:1 other men. In this regards Fab is a women's world.

Your profile is small does not really states who you are. You have a good clear face pic. However you could have more public photos.

As sad as this sounds a lack of varies can impact your ability to meet people.

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By *urge72Man
15 weeks ago

oxfordshire & Hull

The best advice I can give to any guy, and this is coming from someone who's middle aged with a dad bod is get out to socials/clubs. The other piece of advice is when you are there treat it as a means of meeting people primarily and chatting to them and remember the partners of the ladies too.

If you're a decent guy and are genuinely respectful people will happily chat to you and will most likely gain a veri or two. These are worth so much to a single guy.

So many single guys think fab and swinging is all about the sex - it's not. It's a lifestyle and the social side plays a significant part of it. Once you've got that sorted the fun can quickly follow.

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By *rWhite4YouMan
15 weeks ago

Manchester


"You can all see my profile, would like some feedback as getting bored on here x"

Being born a white male and not having lots of €£$ .... unless your blessed down stairs and have at least a 6 pac youll struggle

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