FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice

By *ayJay2269 OP Man
21 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Hi Fabbers, I think I could do with some advice with my profile. I've messaged a whole load of women but most times get left on 'read'

Any advice would be appreciated

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By *enk15Man
21 weeks ago

Evesham

More photos.

The "warning" at the bottom is pointless.

Overall it seems a bit generic.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

As was said above, but inject some personality into it. What makes you, you?

Have a look at my profile and you'll see what I mean about adding stuff like that

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

"More photos.

The "warning" at the bottom is pointless.

Overall it seems a bit generic.

Agree with this, it doesn't give me any idea of you tbh.

What can you offer meets, make yourself stand out and add some more pics.

What else do you like apart from filming a meet?.

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By *evon_Guy2022Man
21 weeks ago

Visiting

Didn't want to start a new thread...

But I'm here for the same reason.. I need to refresh my profile... certainly open to ideas or photo types... literally anything?

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By *ayJay2269 OP Man
21 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Thanks matey, I do have more pics but trying to keep it lokey because of the work I do.

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By *ayJay2269 OP Man
21 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"More photos.

The "warning" at the bottom is pointless.

Overall it seems a bit generic.

Agree with this, it doesn't give me any idea of you tbh.

What can you offer meets, make yourself stand out and add some more pics.

What else do you like apart from filming a meet?. "

Thanks Miss Morgan, thats really good advice? I'll have a think of what I can add to spice things up

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By *NLOS123Man
21 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

For me and acknowledging I’m not your target audience I have never heard Dominance and aggressive put together in a positive or negative way. Aggression is different, so different, to being a Dominant

Aggression implies that it’s out of control

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By *ayJay2269 OP Man
21 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

"For me and acknowledging I’m not your target audience I have never heard Dominance and aggressive put together in a positive or negative way. Aggression is different, so different, to being a Dominant

Aggression implies that it’s out of control "

Cheers Jack, yeah thats why I put "Dominant without being aggressive' I didnt want women who prefer sensual to be put off.

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By *lternativenerdMan
21 weeks ago

birmingham

Agreed with the comment about the warning - so many people have it on their profile and it literally doesn't have any power at all. There is zero point having it on your profile.

You're decent looking , far better looking than me. Have some more photos , especially of your face. and describe more about you on your profile too

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
21 weeks ago

Leeds

For me what is off-putting is

The age range.

The need to state you aren't aggressive.

The dominant isn't for me.

The useless disclaimer.

The lack of pics.

They would be why I wouldn't reply.

Mrs

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By *asterMeliodasMan
21 weeks ago

Newmill

Aggression implies that it’s out of control

Cheers Jack, yeah thats why I put "Dominant without being aggressive' I didnt want women who prefer sensual to be put off."

The thing is, it comes across as a suspiciously specific denial because most people would never see "dominant" and think "aggressive" anyway.

And yeah, regarding your age range: would you *actually* meet an 18-year-old or a 99-year-old? If not, you should specify the actual range of ages you would consider meeting.

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple
21 weeks ago

brighton

"Didn't want to start a new thread...

But I'm here for the same reason.. I need to refresh my profile... certainly open to ideas or photo types... literally anything? "

Start your own thread?

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By *ayJay2269 OP Man
21 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

So much great feedback! Thanks fabbers! Going to make some changes which hopefully work for the better

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