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"You’re on a year with no meets. And you’re demanding face pics . Think that’s about it "Confused - how are him being here a year unverified and asking for face pics linked? | |||
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"Can’t seem to strike up a conversation with anyone I like, please give your thoughts on my profile and any tips you can recommend on improving it , try to be kind ! "On here, you are outnumbered thousands to one, you are a tiny percentage. But enter the real world of socials and clubs, it flips on its head. You become one of the very small group who actually go out and meet, giving you a far better chance of fun. You will meet ladies and couples who also actually meet, which is a very good start. Or, you can stay online and moan, it's up to you. Whatever you decide, good luck. | |||
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"your a man they are plenty so until someone is interested in you nothing will happen " Aka, give up and quit then? Because it really seems like fuck all interested in me lmfao. | |||
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"You’re on a year with no meets. And you’re demanding face pics . Think that’s about it "I don't see the problem there, it's perfectly acceptable when a woman or couple demand pics in their profiles. What's the difference? Ohhhhhhh. He's a single guy.... that's why. | |||
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"Can’t seem to strike up a conversation with anyone I like, please give your thoughts on my profile and any tips you can recommend on improving it , try to be kind ! "To be fair bud, I feel exactly the same, effort put in, people read - take 1 look at my ugly mug and they don't even bother to reply. Honestly I'm not sure why most guys on here subject themselves to the complete mind fuck of a woman's world, Yes men are majority but women control who what when! That said, imagine a world where guys said "No" and didn't bother to message or chase. I wonder how that would work out lol. A woman chasing a Man for sex - God forbid. Lmao | |||
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"Can’t seem to strike up a conversation with anyone I like, please give your thoughts on my profile and any tips you can recommend on improving it , try to be kind !
To be fair bud, I feel exactly the same, effort put in, people read - take 1 look at my ugly mug and they don't even bother to reply.
Honestly I'm not sure why most guys on here subject themselves to the complete mind fuck of a woman's world,
Yes men are majority but women control who what when!
That said, imagine a world where guys said "No" and didn't bother to message or chase. I wonder how that would work out lol. A woman chasing a Man for sex - God forbid. Lmao "This has just a sniff of misogyny about it. | |||
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"Maybes move out of your parents house too, that might help! "And you mate | |||
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"Can’t seem to strike up a conversation with anyone I like, please give your thoughts on my profile and any tips you can recommend on improving it , try to be kind !
To be fair bud, I feel exactly the same, effort put in, people read - take 1 look at my ugly mug and they don't even bother to reply.
Honestly I'm not sure why most guys on here subject themselves to the complete mind fuck of a woman's world,
Yes men are majority but women control who what when!
That said, imagine a world where guys said "No" and didn't bother to message or chase. I wonder how that would work out lol. A woman chasing a Man for sex - God forbid. Lmao "Can I ask what the problem is? | |||
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"Maybes move out of your parents house too, that might help!
And you mate "Haha so you do lol, I was just messing but you shoot, you score  | |||
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"Sometimes the "cannot accommodate " puts people off but the reality is that of the 36,000 people currently online probably 30,000 are single guys so you need to be really selective to find good matches. Good luck and as others have said, try clubs and socials." That’s a sobering figure...... 30,000 single men! | |||
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"Sometimes the "cannot accommodate " puts people off but the reality is that of the 36,000 people currently online probably 30,000 are single guys so you need to be really selective to find good matches. Good luck and as others have said, try clubs and socials. That’s a sobering figure...... 30,000 single men!" And probably only 60 or 70 from 30,000 who would be seen as all round fuckables | |||
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"Maybes move out of your parents house too, that might help!
And you mate
Haha so you do lol, I was just messing but you shoot, you score "Yes mate you are right, I do live in my parents house , it’s just that they are no longer alive …. | |||
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" Yes mate you are right, I do live in my parents house , it’s just that they are no longer alive …." Shame you can't accommodate in it. | |||
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" Yes mate you are right, I do live in my parents house , it’s just that they are no longer alive …. Shame you can't accommodate in it. " Oooh caught you out there!  | |||
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" Yes mate you are right, I do live in my parents house , it’s just that they are no longer alive …. Shame you can't accommodate in it. Oooh caught you out there! "Nor can you? | |||
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"From a misandry point of view, by all means explain??" Oblivious to spell check too? | |||
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" Yes mate you are right, I do live in my parents house , it’s just that they are no longer alive …. Shame you can't accommodate in it. Oooh caught you out there!
Nor can you?"Shhh showpan, my mammy doesn't like me bringing people home! | |||
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"You’re on a year with no meets. And you’re demanding face pics . Think that’s about it "Demanding is a really strong word. People are allowed to see what others look like when speaking to see if the attraction is there | |||
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"From a misandry point of view, by all means explain?? Oblivious to spell check too? " Lmao, Learn to read. Misogyny - male view. Misandry - female view!!! Sooooo not sure what you are referring too. | |||
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"From a misandry point of view, by all means explain?? Oblivious to spell check too? Lmao, Learn to read. Misogyny - male view. Misandry - female view!!! Sooooo not sure what you are referring too. " That's not what those words mean. | |||
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"Can’t seem to strike up a conversation with anyone I like, please give your thoughts on my profile and any tips you can recommend on improving it , try to be kind ! "Actually a nice profile with lovely pics x | |||
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"Can’t seem to strike up a conversation with anyone I like, please give your thoughts on my profile and any tips you can recommend on improving it , try to be kind !
Actually a nice profile with lovely pics x"Thank you it’s appreciated and yours is too ! | |||
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"Can’t seem to strike up a conversation with anyone I like, please give your thoughts on my profile and any tips you can recommend on improving it , try to be kind ! "Same old men are in a huge majority on here and it really difficult for them to get a reply, never mind sex answer. | |||
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"From a misandry point of view, by all means explain?? Oblivious to spell check too? Lmao, Learn to read. Misogyny - male view. Misandry - female view!!! Sooooo not sure what you are referring too. That's not what those words mean." Misandry. noun dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against MEN (i.e. the male sex). Misogyny noun dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against WOMEN. Straight from the dictionary. Look it up for yourself. | |||
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"Can’t seem to strike up a conversation with anyone I like, please give your thoughts on my profile and any tips you can recommend on improving it , try to be kind ! "Your profile is fine, but unfortunately there are way more men on here than women so it can be difficult for men to get attention on here x | |||
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"You’re on a year with no meets. And you’re demanding face pics . Think that’s about it
I don't see the problem there, it's perfectly acceptable when a woman or couple demand pics in their profiles. What's the difference? Ohhhhhhh. He's a single guy.... that's why. "You don’t see a problem with someone who has been on the site for a year and hasn’t met anyone, even for a social, requiring face pics ? Ok then …… When we include “discreet” in our profile, we mean it. Sending face pics to a guy who’s been on site over a year and hasn’t met anyone doesn’t meet our definition of discreet. Each to their own though. | |||
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"Can’t seem to strike up a conversation with anyone I like, please give your thoughts on my profile and any tips you can recommend on improving it , try to be kind !
Your profile is fine, but unfortunately there are way more men on here than women so it can be difficult for men to get attention on here x"This is very true, I don't send dick pics and try to convey a bit of personality and decency in my messages, but they seem to be going unread as the females on here have another 200 in their inbox! Bit of a lottery really, so I'm going to look at dates for CJ's and start putting myself back out there. Anything that happens on here, I'll regard as a bonus! | |||
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"Same problem when I message. Tried humour, poetry, and something more direct depending on the profile. Being a gentleman I am never rude and ensure my messages are grammatically correct. Nothing. I don't mind no replies but lots of messages are not even read even though they are active on the site. I'm not really sure what many people want to read in a message. " There's no one single answer, because women aren't a hive mind. A message that one person would love, another might hate. And the main thing you're up against is sheer volume, which unfortunately means that no amount of grammatical correctness or skilled crafting will help if they simply never see it. | |||
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"You’re on a year with no meets. And you’re demanding face pics . Think that’s about it
I don't see the problem there, it's perfectly acceptable when a woman or couple demand pics in their profiles. What's the difference? Ohhhhhhh. He's a single guy.... that's why.
You don’t see a problem with someone who has been on the site for a year and hasn’t met anyone, even for a social, requiring face pics ?
Ok then ……
When we include “discreet” in our profile, we mean it. Sending face pics to a guy who’s been on site over a year and hasn’t met anyone doesn’t meet our definition of discreet.
Each to their own though. "If you received a mail from someone very local would you reply back 'hi how are you have you a face pic'. This happened to me this morning I accept nice to see who you are messaging .I wouldn't mind sending one after a few messages. | |||
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"You’re on a year with no meets. And you’re demanding face pics . Think that’s about it
I don't see the problem there, it's perfectly acceptable when a woman or couple demand pics in their profiles. What's the difference? Ohhhhhhh. He's a single guy.... that's why.
You don’t see a problem with someone who has been on the site for a year and hasn’t met anyone, even for a social, requiring face pics ?
Ok then ……
When we include “discreet” in our profile, we mean it. Sending face pics to a guy who’s been on site over a year and hasn’t met anyone doesn’t meet our definition of discreet.
Each to their own though.
If you received a mail from someone very local would you reply back 'hi how are you have you a face pic'.
This happened to me this morning I accept nice to see who you are messaging .I wouldn't mind sending one after a few messages."Absolutely not. We hold ourselves to the same criteria we hold others to | |||
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"Same problem when I message. Tried humour, poetry, and something more direct depending on the profile. Being a gentleman I am never rude and ensure my messages are grammatically correct. Nothing. I don't mind no replies but lots of messages are not even read even though they are active on the site. I'm not really sure what many people want to read in a message. " Not advocating it, but open a female profile with literally no pics! Put in a relatively boring profile text. Just see how many fuck me messages you get. Then - imagine what other women who actually have decent profiles get. 100 guys to 1 female. Maybe more. Lol | |||
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