FabSwingers.com forum: Erection Problems

By *aleangel OP Couple
48 weeks ago

To heaven and back

I'm hoping that my Fab friends and family can help, I suffered a stroke in early March last year and thankfully I seem to be ok with no lasting side effects but since the stroke I can't maintain an erection, don't get me wrong our sex lives are still healthy as my wife has 4 regular lovers who visit for the weekend or we travel to their homes and she has great fun and I love watching them and each time they finish clean them both up sucking his cock and balls clean and then licking her well fucked pussy clean and enjoying the taste of her juices and their cum, but I want to start joining in with them again and watch the joy on her face as she gets DP and DVP and spit roasted, we do try and I can get an erection but as soon as I penetrate her it goes soft and I'm left feeling useless so I just have to watch and clean up after. We have tried Viagra but it doesn't help me it just gives me palpitations, my question is are there any other options.

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
48 weeks ago

west london

I had this problem too...I joined a gym and found it helped.

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By *m3232Man
48 weeks ago

maidenhead

There are some health supplements that have a slim effect to viagra. You may want to do some research on that as it is not meant to give you the same downside.

Can’t remember the name of it.

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By *valiceslutTV/TS
48 weeks ago

London

Sorry to hear this OP - hope you’re getting better. To maintain an erection, I find a cock ring does wonders. Once you’re hard, it constricts the flow of blood out so you stay hard. Just a thought. Lots of types out there so try simple and experiment xx happy playing x

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By *armale69Man
48 weeks ago

warrington

You may need to be careful with the viagara after a stroke. Go with the cock ring

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By *ldschoolfunCouple
48 weeks ago

Knebworth

You can take cialis every day, after medical advice give that a go?

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By *ootnootboopCouple
48 weeks ago

Cheshire

"You can take cialis every day, after medical advice give that a go?

In addition to Cialis, there's some more medication that the GP/specialist can prescribe that induce erections. There used in spinal injury patients and work differently to Viagra and the like. Maybe they might work for you OP?

There's almost always a solution and I hope you find it

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By *umbriaman1962Man
48 weeks ago

outside of penrith

Need to talk doctor.

I had a good lady doctor last year before I had a turps opp on prostate. Going over posible side affects and what to do if was any side affects. Luckily things still work maybe less volume when come ..

She was saying as well as viagra

Was a tiny pill you put inside penis few mins before need erection and a cream that rub on penis ( with cream should avoid immediate oral ). She was good at just openly talking about maintaining sex life after opp.

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By *AnthonyMan
48 weeks ago

SHELDON

Had the same problem, tried viagra no good this week tried cialis together had an erection for hours no joke maybe this might help but check with your GP first to see if it's suitable for you

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By *ickD80Man
47 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Are you able to stay hard if you don’t penetrate her OP? You said that you’re able to get hard but the moment you penetrate her it goes soft which implies that you don’t have any problems staying hard until you penetrate her. If that is the case then it’s very unlikely to be a medical issue and more likely to be a physiological issue as there is no medical condition that causes a penis to go soft only after penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Hey OP,

Sorry to see you’re having a tough time here, which I know doesn’t even give the issue any justice at all by saying tough.

Long story short here, a close friend of mine recently had erection problems and it was emotionally shattering. Turned out he had damaged the blood vessels that take the blood into the penis (cycling too much).

I did a fair bit of research into the uses of the pills and the side effects alongside the psychological impact.

You might find that you are getting hard enough and everything works, but the mental issue/ stress of going soft is what is the main issue. I know I have been there when it’s not worked, I panicked and then was really nervous the next time.

Have a look at Mojo, it’s an app for iOS and Android, they do a free trial then you pay the monthly fee. If you do the trial, then cancel choosing the options that say you feel it’s too expensive, they offer 50% off for a year. It’s full of mini therapy sessions and things, absolutely amazing!!

For pills, try the cialis daily 5mg. You can do the HIMS thing but it’s £55 a month, youl get 5mg cialis (non branded) from Dr Fox for pennies

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I wish you all the best mate

Your Fantastic couple

Belfast calling

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By *ilva69Man
47 weeks ago

stockport

"I'm hoping that my Fab friends and family can help, I suffered a stroke in early March last year and thankfully I seem to be ok with no lasting side effects but since the stroke I can't maintain an erection, don't get me wrong our sex lives are still healthy as my wife has 4 regular lovers who visit for the weekend or we travel to their homes and she has great fun and I love watching them and each time they finish clean them both up sucking his cock and balls clean and then licking her well fucked pussy clean and enjoying the taste of her juices and their cum, but I want to start joining in with them again and watch the joy on her face as she gets DP and DVP and spit roasted, we do try and I can get an erection but as soon as I penetrate her it goes soft and I'm left feeling useless so I just have to watch and clean up after. We have tried Viagra but it doesn't help me it just gives me palpitations, my question is are there any other options. "

Might be worth trying tadalafil I don’t find it has the same use effects as viagra, don’t seem to get stuffy nose flushed face and lasts much longer

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By *ethefabtwoCouple
47 weeks ago

coventry

very useful thread, thanks everyone

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By *eachcplCouple
47 weeks ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

Before taking any advice from anyone on here, perhaps in view of the fact you have had a stroke a visit to your GP to discuss things would be a better option. Taking other medications without medical advice could cause further problems.

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By *elkieWoman
47 weeks ago

Durham

"Hey OP,

Sorry to see you’re having a tough time here, which I know doesn’t even give the issue any justice at all by saying tough.

I did a fair bit of research into the uses of the pills and the side effects alongside the psychological impact.

For pills, try the cialis daily 5mg. You can do the HIMS thing but it’s £55 a month, youl get 5mg cialis (non branded) from Dr Fox for pennies

Also, is it possible that you’re holding yourself back because you’re scared of another stroke?

There’s a load of medical treatments available, but if you’re getting hard and losing your erection, it might be worth sorting your head out. Scary medical stuff can affect all aspects of our lives, after all, even sex.

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