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By *CBoy OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Tonypandy

I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt.

Am I correct?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it.

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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago

Welwyn


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it."

100% this

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By *tephanie63Woman
over a year ago

BRIDGWATER


"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt.

Am I correct?"

How about you just show a bit of respect for people and thier preferences.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it."

Yep this exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We r looking for bi guys fed-up with straight profile saying they are really bi.

Question is which one is a lie and what's truth

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I have had good luck with couples and single women even though I have bi-curious on my profile. I changed from straight to bi-curious about 5 years ago to reflect my honest sexuality. If ppl don't want to meet because of that, I am fine. Everyone has boundaries.. Live and let live everyone. This place is about enjoyment..

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Just be honest. I agree putting bi on profile has had me rejected a lot but that's ok. Even got blocked a lot too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had good luck with couples and single women even though I have bi-curious on my profile. I changed from straight to bi-curious about 5 years ago to reflect my honest sexuality. If ppl don't want to meet because of that, I am fine. Everyone has boundaries.. Live and let live everyone. This place is about enjoyment.."

This.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I don't mind a bi guy... I hate liars though

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

There are a lot of posts on here about bi guys getting rejected and putting straight rather than bi, but I very rarely see anyone reply to say that a guy being bi would put them off infact most respected nses usually say they like meeting bi guys...

Wonder whether guys are assuming they're being rejected because they've got bi on their profile but actually it's because of something else OR the people who 'reject bi guys' are like those pesky middle lane drivers and will just never admit to it...it's certainly a mystery to me.

Personally, I turn down people who have 'straight' on their profile but tell me they're bi, I'm not going to entertain anyone who is dishonest from the begining.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt.

Am I correct?"

You’re correct some don’t want to meet due to out of date opinions. But what would you want to meet someone with that opinion in the first place!

Also, if they hold that opinion and you don’t tell them you’re bi, then you’re lying to get sex. Which is morally repugnant!

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By *orkswatcherMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Plenty of profiles from females and couples that say no bi guys

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.


"Plenty of profiles from females and couples that say no bi guys "

Also said plenty that actively look for it too.

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough


"Plenty of profiles from females and couples that say no bi guys "

I think I've come across one profile where I've read that so far...and I'm not saying that means there is only, I'm sure there are more. But that isn't 'being rejected for having bi on your profile' either is it? That's someone stating their preferences on their profile, so why would anyone who is bi even contemplate messaging them?

For example, I'm a biiiig girl. If I read a profile that says 'we like athletic body shapes' I don't go and delete all my my pictures, change my profile to athletic and then message them in the hopes they won't notice - people are allowed their preferences and I wouldn't want to waste my time by meeting up with someone knowing I'm not part of their preference.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross.

Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"Plenty of profiles from females and couples that say no bi guys

I think I've come across one profile where I've read that so far...and I'm not saying that means there is only, I'm sure there are more. But that isn't 'being rejected for having bi on your profile' either is it? That's someone stating their preferences on their profile, so why would anyone who is bi even contemplate messaging them?

For example, I'm a biiiig girl. If I read a profile that says 'we like athletic body shapes' I don't go and delete all my my pictures, change my profile to athletic and then message them in the hopes they won't notice - people are allowed their preferences and I wouldn't want to waste my time by meeting up with someone knowing I'm not part of their preference."
biggest thing about you is your smile... That shines through...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it."
exactly this

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough


"Plenty of profiles from females and couples that say no bi guys

I think I've come across one profile where I've read that so far...and I'm not saying that means there is only, I'm sure there are more. But that isn't 'being rejected for having bi on your profile' either is it? That's someone stating their preferences on their profile, so why would anyone who is bi even contemplate messaging them?

For example, I'm a biiiig girl. If I read a profile that says 'we like athletic body shapes' I don't go and delete all my my pictures, change my profile to athletic and then message them in the hopes they won't notice - people are allowed their preferences and I wouldn't want to waste my time by meeting up with someone knowing I'm not part of their preference.biggest thing about you is your smile... That shines through... "

Nice sentiment but a little creepy as you won't have ever seen my smile and also not true - my ass is much bigger and I'm not ashamed of that!

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Plenty of profiles from females and couples that say no bi guys

Also said plenty that actively look for it too. "

There are plenty of females and couples that are curious to try some light bi fun I am finding out too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of couples looking to meet bisexual men, so no need to deceive couples like ourselves who aren’t .

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck. "

But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.

But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck

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And those people are disrespectful and not an example you should follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.

But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck

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Do they? Why would you need to?

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

I love fucklicking and cleaning up after a husband to earn his wifes rewards.

Im more than happy to suck a husbands cock too

I wouldnt take or give anal (even to a women) nor kiss another man

I put my status as being bicurious as i like meeting bicurious couples.

I do find though that a lot of straight profiles reject people like me in their text

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think if someone doesn't want to meet bi guys, you're probably better off not bothering with them. There are plenty more people where you can be yourself and not rely on deception.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.

But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck

Do they? Why would you need to? "

Age,body shape,experience all things that people lie about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.

But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck

Do they? Why would you need to?

Age,body shape,experience all things that people lie about

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Never had anyone we meet lie about what they look like all seemed pretty genuine

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Can't we all just be what we are ? If you are Bi or Bi curious say that you are and stop hiding behind a straight label.

It does slightly rankle when people send you a message and it says straight on their profile and say they are happy to do Bi stuff. What on earth is that all about ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it."

Absolutely this

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

People can and do write anything they want on their profiles and there's no way to know if it's true or not. The only thing you can be sure is that they wrote it to maximise the opportunity of a meet.

People edit and filter their photos and take them from the most flattering angles.

Many people lie about their age.

Even more lie about their marital status.

I've met more than one woman who looked nothing like her photos and to be honest I'd rather find out that there is more to her sexuality than realise she's a decade older than she looked or has stated.

My opinion is that no one is under any obligation to disclose anything about themselves that they don't want to and their reasons for doing so aren't really anyone's business.

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset


"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.

But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck

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We don’t and have never met anyone who does.

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington


"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt.

Am I correct?"
totally correct,,, i get a lot of straight guys asking for oral and anal sex at my place each week and had 3 today,,, they all state they are bi but if they are on here as bi no females or couple will talk or meet them

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.

But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck

Do they? Why would you need to?

Age,body shape,experience all things that people lie about

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And those people usually get caught out and to be honest I would have zero respect for anyone who lies just to get a shag.

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By *ymo80Man
over a year ago

grimsby

I think it’s better to be honest the amount of single guys on here there’s plenty of choices for people whatever someone is looking for but best being honest you might never know what you’re missing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it."

Yep exactly this! It seems weird to be dishonest just to get meets. Though tbh I do have sympathy with those who do it. It’s just not something I’d do.

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By *onicZMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


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For example, I'm a biiiig girl. If I read a profile that says 'we like athletic body shapes' I don't go and delete all my my pictures, change my profile to athletic and then message them in the hopes they won't notice - people are allowed their preferences and I wouldn't want to waste my time by meeting up with someone knowing I'm not part of their preference."

That cracked me right up. You've hit the nail on the head there. Live and let live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.

But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck

We don’t and have never met anyone who does."

Ok

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By *iscreetfuncpl12Couple
over a year ago

Somerset


"They are disrespectful and will lie to get a fuck.

But most people on here lie to a certain extent to get a fuck

We don’t and have never met anyone who does.

Ok "

Why the doubt? Everyone we have met looked just like their pics, was as enthusiastically bi as they said they were if indeed they did, so didn’t lie about their sexuality, they were the age they stated and enjoyed the things they said they did and didn’t push for anything not agreed. We are exactly as described on our profile. Why is it so difficult to believe people can be honest here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has gotta be the biggest "self own" on the forums I've ever experienced. Wow.

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By *unlovin72Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

I would rather be blocked for telling the truth

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

It only takes 5 minutes of being on fab guys to understand why people are hesitant to meet bi guys.

I don't agree with your original post, but I understand what you're saying.

As far as I'm concerned, it's reasonable to say you won't play with a bi guy.

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France


"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt.

Am I correct?"

Think a lot depends on whether your a bi single or part of a couple.

Personally, if people are so specific about not wanting to meet bi guys, then they’re a big no-no for us.

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea


"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross.

Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic "

Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt.

Am I correct?"

Best to be honest... Reverse is i get so many messages from straight guys.,.its fucked up as best to be honest imho x

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt.

Am I correct?

Best to be honest... Reverse is i get so many messages from straight guys.,.its fucked up as best to be honest imho x"

If your not bi...no Hi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could be right or you haven't connected with the ones you need to. Maybe rewrite what you're looking for?

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

I will stick to being honest x

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"You could be right or you haven't connected with the ones you need to. Maybe rewrite what you're looking for?"

...said the person that hid profiles.... Gotta love the advice x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

If for whatever reason it ends up being in court you'd have a lot more explaining to do as cases go on

So just be honest with yourself and others for safety reasons

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"If for whatever reason it ends up being in court you'd have a lot more explaining to do as cases go on

So just be honest with yourself and others for safety reasons "

Ok..cheers xx

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By *udie NudieMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it."

This

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"You could be right or you haven't connected with the ones you need to. Maybe rewrite what you're looking for?

...said the person that hid profiles.... Gotta love the advice x"

Yes but they haven’t started a thread asking for advice.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

As for your original question perhaps just be honest and stick to the couples/ladies looking for bi men of which there are a lot. Many of them seem to find it hard to meet real bi guys as many lie to in order to meet and when it comes to it aren’t really bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross.

Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic

Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue."

The boy band?

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By *leepwalkerMan
over a year ago

greater Manchester


"You could be right or you haven't connected with the ones you need to. Maybe rewrite what you're looking for?"
im always looking for something special

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields


"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross.

Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic

Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue."

Pretty sure that's incorrect. Given that not telling someone about your Hiv status doesn't remove consent, I doubt very much the CPS would have any interest in someone who lied about their sexuality.

https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal-guidance/rape-and-sexual-offences-chapter-6-consent#:~:text=Ostensible%20consent%20can%20be%20vitiated,the%20broad%20circumstances%20surrounding%20it

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I can’t tell you the reasons why people don’t want to meet bi guys as everyone has their own reasons I don’t really care anyway if I’m honest.

We openly say on our profile that we are only are interested in bi couples .so if they say straight on their profiles we don’t even message them ,even tho we have couple’s message us with straight men that say they are actually bi we are not interested in people that can’t be honest with themselves.

It’s wrong for you to have a straight profile just in the hope that you will get your leg over people have the right to their preferences regardless of if you think it’s right or not.

You should just concentrate on meeting people that you don’t have to lie to about who you are.

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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago

Manchester Area


"Plenty of profiles from females and couples that say no bi guys

I think I've come across one profile where I've read that so far...and I'm not saying that means there is only, I'm sure there are more. But that isn't 'being rejected for having bi on your profile' either is it? That's someone stating their preferences on their profile, so why would anyone who is bi even contemplate messaging them?

For example, I'm a biiiig girl. If I read a profile that says 'we like athletic body shapes' I don't go and delete all my my pictures, change my profile to athletic and then message them in the hopes they won't notice - people are allowed their preferences and I wouldn't want to waste my time by meeting up with someone knowing I'm not part of their preference.biggest thing about you is your smile... That shines through...

Nice sentiment but a little creepy as you won't have ever seen my smile and also not true - my ass is much bigger and I'm not ashamed of that! "

Smile is on your pics... ??But yep with hindsight does seem a weird thing to say

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt.

Am I correct?"

Wow really

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

We are bi and frankly OP you give us a bad name. If we ever cross paths we will not be playing on general principle.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross.

Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic

Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue."

I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.

I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.

To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.

What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross.

Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic

Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.

I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.

I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.

To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.

What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross.

Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic

Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.

I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.

I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.

To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.

What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside?"

Print a spreadsheet of who you fucked to give to potential meets.

Then drop the soap.

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere


"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt.

Am I correct?"

Nope you're wrong 100%. Never read so much shite in my life. Lying about who you are to get a shag...red flag. Why bother with straight couples when you're bi and have way more play options than us straights.

Mrs M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m bi-curious and won’t be changing that for anyone or any reason.

I do get rejected but that’s up to them, there loss.

I’d be better having another profile as a younger guy, age discrimination is worse than sexual orientation.

Lol xx

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross.

Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic

Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.

I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.

I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.

To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.

What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside?

Print a spreadsheet of who you fucked to give to potential meets.

Then drop the soap. "

I kissed a man 20yrs ago. Now I'm not sure if I should change my bio or not.

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross.

Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic

Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not someone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue."

Whilst I support the sentiment of being honest....this is factually utter nonsense. It is not a criminal offence to be dishonest about your sexuality. The misinformation spread on these forums never fails to amaze me.

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By *orridgeCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Torridge

Labels and boxes are shite!

Why can't consenting adults get up too whatever, with whoever?

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Having alternative profiles is lame, just stick to your true sexuality and engage with people who understand and desire that.

I wouldn’t engage with anyone that says no Bi (but have had loads of play at clubs with these people because they take you as they find you)- there’s so many single women and couples that know that Bi men can play straight, that Bi men can be very masculine, we’re uninhibited, heteexible and we are perfect plus ones for DP / DVP type MMF interactions - we won’t flinch if our cocks touch or our balls start slapping together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt.

Am I correct?"

You just put a big red flag on your profile and any new straight male profiles in your area

Honesty is the ONLY policy here.

Rethink your life

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea


"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross.

Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic

Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.

I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.

I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.

To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.

What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside?"

I think it's a fine line. Not telling someone who hasn't stated a preference, or them not asking is somewhat different to lying to someone who has made it clear that they won't sleep with someone who is bi.

I'm not exactly sure where the law stands on this, but would you really want to risk finding out?

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I’m bi-curious and won’t be changing that for anyone or any reason.

I do get rejected but that’s up to them, there loss.

I’d be better having another profile as a younger guy, age discrimination is worse than sexual orientation.

Lol xx"

Yet the young guys are always starting threads about not being able to get meets because of their age!

Mr DD

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By *erri_kissesTV/TS
over a year ago

Islington

Nice self-cockblock, dude.
"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt.

Am I correct?"

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We have LOADS of straight guys who message us, declaring that they are really bi. We don't meet with them. We definitely wouldn't meet with an individual who had two profiles.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"We have LOADS of straight guys who message us, declaring that they are really bi. We don't meet with them. We definitely wouldn't meet with an individual who had two profiles. "

It's an insta-nope from us too, being bi isn't something to be ashamed of and the few people that don't play with bi couples we are OK with.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

There are a few local guys with straight and bi profiles. I'm not sure if they think they're being sneaky but it's really obvious that they're the same person in their bi and straight profiles.

Rob's on fabguys and sees so many on there who are "100% straight, no guys plz'on here

Just be honest with yourselves and others. Some people are bigots and wont meet you for it. We lost some good friends on here after Rob accepted his sexuality. There was never any mention of bi guy play with the male half and we were only ever soft play with them as a couple.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields


"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross.

Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic

Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.

I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.

I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.

To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.

What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside?

I think it's a fine line. Not telling someone who hasn't stated a preference, or them not asking is somewhat different to lying to someone who has made it clear that they won't sleep with someone who is bi.

I'm not exactly sure where the law stands on this, but would you really want to risk finding out?"

100% not an issue legally. Even lying about your Hiv status isn't illegal unless you reckless expose someone to hiv. Ie using a condom and telling them you're hiv negative even if you're positive is perfectly legal. (see link in my previous posts)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reckon there's enough guys on this site without existing ones creating extra profiles. If I ever do meet anyone from here I wouldn't want them to pretend to be a sexuality they weren't or vice versa.

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By *abriellajackCouple
over a year ago

Newport


"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross.

Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic

Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.

I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.

I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.

To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.

What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside?

I think it's a fine line. Not telling someone who hasn't stated a preference, or them not asking is somewhat different to lying to someone who has made it clear that they won't sleep with someone who is bi.

I'm not exactly sure where the law stands on this, but would you really want to risk finding out?"

I'm 100% sure where the law stands on this. It's not remotely illegal.

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere


"Nice self-cockblock, dude. I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt.

Am I correct?"

This

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By *s-two-75Couple
over a year ago

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"Lying about yourself to trick people who wouldn't sleep with the honest you into bed is dishonest and pretty gross.

Consent should always be both informed and enthusiastic

Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.

I wasn’t aware of this, I’ve had sex with 2 men and I’ve slept with women who didn’t know that I’ve had sex with men in the past, i didn’t lie to them about it, I just didn’t tell them about it and they didn’t ask me if I’ve ever had sex with men. If they’d asked me then I’d have been honest about it but I didn’t know that I was required by law to disclose it to any woman I am about to have sex with.

I thought that all my sexual experiences have been consensual but now you’re telling me that they were non consensual as I didn’t tell them that I’d had sex with men in the past.

To be honest I’m ashamed of myself and i can’t carry on as normal now that i know I’ve had nonconsensual sex. The right thing for me to do is to hand myself into the police straight away and tell them that I had sex with a woman without telling her that I’ve had sex with men in the past.

What punishment am I facing? Am i looking at a stretch inside?

Print a spreadsheet of who you fucked to give to potential meets.

Then drop the soap.

I kissed a man 20yrs ago. Now I'm not sure if I should change my bio or not."

Wow now you’ve overstepped the mark, you donknownitsnonly gay if you kiss

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By *itillatingtigerMan
over a year ago

London

I don't see this as lying or being deceitful 'to get a meet'. No one has a right to someone's self-identification nuances and they are nuances. If you state that you are straight and meet with a couple under that pretext then you are straight and will act accordingly. The straight couple shouldn't have any concerns unless they ask you pre-party time and you lie, thats then deceitful.

HIV and StD's and ST'i's, PREP and PEP have nearly been eradicated at the expanse of HIV as these meds have been targeted to those that are far more sexually open and yes that generally means gay/ BI guys and the curious...interesting fact HIV and Gona spreads easily through straight (ish) couples as a genre as straight ( ish) couples feel less need to invest in sexual health practices per se.

Bi / Gay guys are generally far more aware and open to taking prep and pep.

Analogy...life expectancy of someone who is diagnosed with HIV today is +30 years and when placed on meds CANNOT give you hiv even if not using a condom as their bodies HIV loading is non-existent due to taking one pill a day.

HIV: I am reliably informed will have been eradicated within the next 5 years with a vaccine.

But you were diagnosed with cancer today, your life expectancy is far less...food for thought.

Politcs of bi-phobia, read BI- Dr julia shaw...why? because the last NATSAL big study founf that 56% of women had or would like a same-sex dalliance and 65% of males had also....and as Julia shaw states in her book and following on from the kinsey report ect...we might all be bi in some way, if not sexually, maybe emotionally...and on a scale all you women that 'perform' for your man...how 'BI' are you...and why is it that some men feel shamed to be 'BI' or on the 'BI' spectrum when statistically the majority are?

stats: Burrell st GUM clinic,London. Natsal study 2020.Et Al.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue."

Absolute nonsense. The police are already too busy dealing with real crimes, let alone someone being peeved about the sexual history of someone they've just had sex with.

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it."
i am a bottom bi guy and do know a lot of straight guys on here are also bi,,, i can get 4-7 guys a week asking to meet for fun,,, i normally say no thanks i dont meet straight guys,,,

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Why should bi guys like myself hide away and pretend to be straight just to get a meet if someone has a problem with me being bi then that's on them not me I'm not lying about being bi and more will I pretend to be straight just to get meets I'm proud of who I am

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham


"Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.

Absolute nonsense. The police are already too busy dealing with real crimes, let alone someone being peeved about the sexual history of someone they've just had sex with. "
you'd be surprised tbh

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Absolute nonsense. The police are already too busy dealing with real crimes, let alone someone being peeved about the sexual history of someone they've just had sex with. you'd be surprised tbh "

Yeah, very.

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"

Bi / Gay guys are generally far more aware and open to taking prep and pep.

"

The ones that are open about it are, but sadly not those sneaking around thinking their partners are completely unaware or just don’t give their partners health a second thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it."

Can only echo this. Much the same as we wouldn't want or expect people to change their preference to bi just to play with us either.

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By *earmegrowlMan
over a year ago

wolves

I don't agree with lieing about sexuality like so many guys do on here but I see why they do it sadly

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By *estat2000Man
over a year ago

Redhill


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it."

Spot on! I couldn’t have said it better myself.

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By *ossannCouple
over a year ago

London

I'd do it. I think it's hilarious that the same "straight" guy that one couple thinks meets their "no bi men" standards is in our inbox begging to suck my bfs cock

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By *mooth321Man
over a year ago

Tonypandy


"I'd do it. I think it's hilarious that the same "straight" guy that one couple thinks meets their "no bi men" standards is in our inbox begging to suck my bfs cock "

Well he does have a nice cock

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By *ossannCouple
over a year ago

London

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By *ossannCouple
over a year ago

London

He does

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I'd do it. I think it's hilarious that the same "straight" guy that one couple thinks meets their "no bi men" standards is in our inbox begging to suck my bfs cock "

It really is funny, if you’re verified by one single ‘straight’ guy on here there’s a 50/50 chance you’ve met a bi guy, whatever his profile says.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

if your a woman single or couple that look for guys to play with and you actually do play then its 100% certain that you have been with a bi guy 100% dont matter how good you are at spotting one will slip in ...

at one of our local clubs there are two guys who only play str8 their profiles are 100% straight yet these 2 guys you can see at local dogging spot sucking cock even seen one being fucked so yet very str8...

as a bi couple it does not bother us but the lying does theres no need for it they only do it out of greed cause they want all there options open its wrong and those who are bi who attack str8 couples and women for not meeting then well we block them because if they cant understand that people can have a preference without spitting the dummy out then they dont belong on this scene... but saying that i say carry on spitting the dummy out as it gives str8 and bi gay the chance to block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He does "

He does as it goes

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By *ristolmark87Man
over a year ago

Southsea

I believe honestly is best policy even tho I not had much luck but rather be honest and respect people preferences so anyone wanna chat feel free to message

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By *ony MannMan
over a year ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it."

I agree, the second account I had was 2 years as a couple. I closed it when we broke up. I'm bi, if I am rejected that's fine.

Tony

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By *ony MannMan
over a year ago

Las Gaviotos, Fuerteventura


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it.

I agree, the second account I had was 2 years as a couple. I closed it when we broke up. I'm bi, if I am rejected that's fine.

Tony"

...and I've been hit on by guys who say they are straight

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"Just be honest. I agree putting bi on profile has had me rejected a lot but that's ok. Even got blocked a lot too"

Best be honest

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"if your a woman single or couple that look for guys to play with and you actually do play then its 100% certain that you have been with a bi guy 100% dont matter how good you are at spotting one will slip in ...

at one of our local clubs there are two guys who only play str8 their profiles are 100% straight yet these 2 guys you can see at local dogging spot sucking cock even seen one being fucked so yet very str8...

as a bi couple it does not bother us but the lying does theres no need for it they only do it out of greed cause they want all there options open its wrong and those who are bi who attack str8 couples and women for not meeting then well we block them because if they cant understand that people can have a preference without spitting the dummy out then they dont belong on this scene... but saying that i say carry on spitting the dummy out as it gives str8 and bi gay the chance to block

"

Seen same at swinging festivals

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"if your a woman single or couple that look for guys to play with and you actually do play then its 100% certain that you have been with a bi guy 100% dont matter how good you are at spotting one will slip in ...

at one of our local clubs there are two guys who only play str8 their profiles are 100% straight yet these 2 guys you can see at local dogging spot sucking cock even seen one being fucked so yet very str8...

as a bi couple it does not bother us but the lying does theres no need for it they only do it out of greed cause they want all there options open its wrong and those who are bi who attack str8 couples and women for not meeting then well we block them because if they cant understand that people can have a preference without spitting the dummy out then they dont belong on this scene... but saying that i say carry on spitting the dummy out as it gives str8 and bi gay the chance to block

Seen same at swinging festivals "

...forgot about clubs n glory holes as a starter for 6...

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By *ossannCouple
over a year ago

London

I see no reason to respect pointless "preferences" like that.

If I'm a straight woman and the guy in front of me fucks like I need him to, why would I care if he has also fucked men?

I must be a weird bigot and my thoughts and opinions are therefore irrelevant.

Him wanting to fuck a guy in front of me might be an issue (not for me personally), him wanting to have a boyfriend while we are together might not be compatible with my relationship goals, but if its part of his sexual history and who he might fuck when we aren't together, it's ridiculous to care.

I don't care if those people are lied to. They don't even deserve sex.

What's annoying is that I would likely give some "straight" guys a shot if they were honest about being bi. But instead I ignore their messages thinking they are just het.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re bi and you set up a straight profile, then not only are you lying to potential meets, but more importantly you’re lying to yourself! You can’t possibly enjoy yourself with a straight male if you want but can’t, touch!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"I'm a bi guy which means I like sex with both women and men. But I've found in the years I've been swinging that to meet women or straight couples I've had to have a separate Straight guy profile. Straights don't seem to want to meet Bi's. I suspect there are two reasons. First. Hiv. They think man to man contact risks this and not prepared to risk it themselves . Second. One or other of the partners doesn't like the idea that the bi guy is going to be more interest in cock than cunt.

Am I correct?"

Just goto a club and no one asks your preference. So you can play straight.

More people meet away from fab than on fab tbh

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"If you’re bi and you set up a straight profile, then not only are you lying to potential meets, but more importantly you’re lying to yourself! You can’t possibly enjoy yourself with a straight male if you want but can’t, touch! "

You do know bi men don’t want to fuck every man ffs that’s up there with backs to the wall lads, the gays are here …

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

The notion that anybody has any obligation to disclose anything to anybody on here beyond practising safe sex is preposterous to me.

Nobody has any idea what anyone else is getting up to. And frankly it's no one's business.

Safe sex is the only thing that matters.

This is the internet.

I mean c'mon.

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By *ossannCouple
over a year ago

London


"If you’re bi and you set up a straight profile, then not only are you lying to potential meets, but more importantly you’re lying to yourself! You can’t possibly enjoy yourself with a straight male if you want but can’t, touch! "

I think you'll be safe, dude. He won't be into you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll stick with just the one.

If someone chooses to exclude me because of my sexuality, that’s fine. I don’t need to change who I am to get people to meet me. There are enough people out there who DO wanna meet me.

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By *riveu2distractionMan
over a year ago

Nr Bridgend

I respect peoples preferences. I'm not gonna have two profiles cos im bi. I do believe there's biphobia out there and if you don't want to meet a bi person say, on your profile. I won't waste my time contacting you then.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1540445

Sadly the attitude shown on this thread is the reason why straight people can but put off by bi guys. I'm sure it's not the majority of bi guys but it doesn't help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being funny but just read profiles the amount of times I've had tell me who message me to judt read my profile is clearly says no single men. People just don't read profiles and it's annoying

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I’m a bi guy. I test and play safe. I don’t want to meet with bi-phobic women or couples. I’m not going to create a Straight account to improve my chances with people I would loathe being around, bleurgh…

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it.

100% this"

Best way i think...agreed

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal


"I’m a bi guy. I test and play safe. I don’t want to meet with bi-phobic women or couples. I’m not going to create a Straight account to improve my chances with people I would loathe being around, bleurgh…"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not interested in unsafe sex , I'm very situationally bi so I state this on my profile. There are so many people to meet on here that you'll find fun eventually looking for what YOU want, why settle ?

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By *teven_BeithMan
over a year ago

Beith

This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it."

absolutely

If people don’t like a bi guy don’t deceive them into it.

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By *enshun4Man
over a year ago

St Helens

Moral police will be all over this

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By *ossannCouple
over a year ago

London


"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why?"

They have a bad rep because straight men are so emotionally fragile and sexually repressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why?

They have a bad rep because straight men are so emotionally fragile and sexually repressed."

Unlike bi men who lie to get a fuck.

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By *oyo5053Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

I posted on my status last week on this..i had 10 + 'straight' guys wanting to suck, ride, play with my dick so made a point of messinging each back to ask if they were straight why were they interested ?..all responded that they lie cus women/couples might not like meeting with bi men ! ...as loads of others have already said, just be honest, its not ok to decieve others from making an informed choice x

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By *oyo5053Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Haha...3 'straight' men have already winked or messaged me already this morning !

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By *ice_fun_guyMan
over a year ago

Cranleigh


"If you’re bi and you set up a straight profile, then not only are you lying to potential meets, but more importantly you’re lying to yourself! You can’t possibly enjoy yourself with a straight male if you want but can’t, touch!

You do know bi men don’t want to fuck every man ffs that’s up there with backs to the wall lads, the gays are here …

"

Exactly this, I'm bi-curious but there are many guys I wouldn't play with.

I have only played with guys that are part of a couple and only when it all feels right at the time. In fact I've never played one on one with a guy, only with T Girls.

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By *ossannCouple
over a year ago

London


"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why?

They have a bad rep because straight men are so emotionally fragile and sexually repressed.

Unlike bi men who lie to get a fuck. "

Men lie to get fucked. You think straight guys won't say anything to get sex? Literally anything? What you're seeing is a guy thing, it's just that it's affecting other guys and that's why you think it's so awful.

What bi men do to men, all men do to women.

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By *ossannCouple
over a year ago

London


"If you’re bi and you set up a straight profile, then not only are you lying to potential meets, but more importantly you’re lying to yourself! You can’t possibly enjoy yourself with a straight male if you want but can’t, touch!

You do know bi men don’t want to fuck every man ffs that’s up there with backs to the wall lads, the gays are here …

Exactly this, I'm bi-curious but there are many guys I wouldn't play with.

I have only played with guys that are part of a couple and only when it all feels right at the time. In fact I've never played one on one with a guy, only with T Girls."

But like you could have am MMF with a straight guy who didn't want to have sexual contact with you, right? Your bisexuality doesn't mean you can't respect basic boundaries.

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By *ossannCouple
over a year ago

London


"I posted on my status last week on this..i had 10 + 'straight' guys wanting to suck, ride, play with my dick so made a point of messinging each back to ask if they were straight why were they interested ?..all responded that they lie cus women/couples might not like meeting with bi men ! ...as loads of others have already said, just be honest, its not ok to decieve others from making an informed choice x "

I'd never unload my sexual history past recent STD results so a couple can decide if they're into what sex I've had with other people. Get a backbone.

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By *ea wangMan
over a year ago

scunthorpe

Op if your worried people reject I because your bi then surely they're not worth meeting by changing to straight

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Op if your worried people reject I because your bi then surely they're not worth meeting by changing to straight"

Easy to say but it's hard enough to get meets!

Not being openly bi isn't a scam either - none of their business who else i sleep with really! Just what happens on our meet

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By *ammanMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

I've often wondered why/what it is that the folk that put that preference is about.

Is it the fear of Aids or something else.

Curious as to the possible answers.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

I get lots of straight guys messaging me so obviously they have a similar mindset as the OP.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

One of the most unattractive things imaginable is desperation, and pretending to be something you aren’t just to get laid is peak desperation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi is such an all encompassing term too.

Could be they are not adverse to having their cock sucked by a man but dont suck. Or they may be orally bi or they may be top or bottom or both.

What they are unlikely to be are sexual preditors waiting to commit sexual assult on any male that happens to be naked near them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why?

They have a bad rep because straight men are so emotionally fragile and sexually repressed.

Unlike bi men who lie to get a fuck.

Men lie to get fucked. You think straight guys won't say anything to get sex? Literally anything? What you're seeing is a guy thing, it's just that it's affecting other guys and that's why you think it's so awful.

What bi men do to men, all men do to women."

All men lie to get sex. Amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the most unattractive things imaginable is desperation, and pretending to be something you aren’t just to get laid is peak desperation."

And yet.......

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By *ice_fun_guyMan
over a year ago

Cranleigh

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By *ice_fun_guyMan
over a year ago

Cranleigh


"If you’re bi and you set up a straight profile, then not only are you lying to potential meets, but more importantly you’re lying to yourself! You can’t possibly enjoy yourself with a straight male if you want but can’t, touch!

You do know bi men don’t want to fuck every man ffs that’s up there with backs to the wall lads, the gays are here …

Exactly this, I'm bi-curious but there are many guys I wouldn't play with.

I have only played with guys that are part of a couple and only when it all feels right at the time. In fact I've never played one on one with a guy, only with T Girls.

But like you could have am MMF with a straight guy who didn't want to have sexual contact with you, right? Your bisexuality doesn't mean you can't respect basic boundaries. "

Yes absolutely and have done.

It's all about the dynamic at the time.

At the end of the day it's all about having fun and you can still have fun whilst respecting other people's boundaries.

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By *ossannCouple
over a year ago

London


"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why?

They have a bad rep because straight men are so emotionally fragile and sexually repressed.

Unlike bi men who lie to get a fuck.

Men lie to get fucked. You think straight guys won't say anything to get sex? Literally anything? What you're seeing is a guy thing, it's just that it's affecting other guys and that's why you think it's so awful.

What bi men do to men, all men do to women.

All men lie to get sex. Amazing. "

It's certainly not a bi or gay thing by any means. Ask any woman.

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By *ossannCouple
over a year ago

London


"If you’re bi and you set up a straight profile, then not only are you lying to potential meets, but more importantly you’re lying to yourself! You can’t possibly enjoy yourself with a straight male if you want but can’t, touch!

You do know bi men don’t want to fuck every man ffs that’s up there with backs to the wall lads, the gays are here …

Exactly this, I'm bi-curious but there are many guys I wouldn't play with.

I have only played with guys that are part of a couple and only when it all feels right at the time. In fact I've never played one on one with a guy, only with T Girls.

But like you could have am MMF with a straight guy who didn't want to have sexual contact with you, right? Your bisexuality doesn't mean you can't respect basic boundaries.

Yes absolutely and have done.

It's all about the dynamic at the time.

At the end of the day it's all about having fun and you can still have fun whilst respecting other people's boundaries."

Yep.

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By *L_DebaucheryMan
over a year ago

Manchester

No, you aren't correct - you're openly discussing trying to deceive people to get a fuck.

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By *ossannCouple
over a year ago

London


"No, you aren't correct - you're openly discussing trying to deceive people to get a fuck."

Why does it your attraction to other people matter? Do I have to say whether I like marmite? Or cavier?

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By *L_DebaucheryMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It clearly does matter to some people, so why would you try to deceive them?

If a culinary take mattered that much to an individual, then yeah, you should probably answer and be honest about it too.

Any more daft questions?

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By *luefire2Couple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here


"Can't we all just be what we are ? If you are Bi or Bi curious say that you are and stop hiding behind a straight label.

It does slightly rankle when people send you a message and it says straight on their profile and say they are happy to do Bi stuff. What on earth is that all about ?

"

Yes this ...genuinely get fu@@ed off with straight SGs saying "I'm bi...then you mention anal play they go "no I'm not gay" wtf??

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By *luefire2Couple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here


"Could also get you into a lot of bother if you get found out, because, essentially, someone you have lied to, will have consented to sleeping with a straight man, not soneone who is bi and you may find yourself getting a visit from the boys in blue.

Absolute nonsense. The police are already too busy dealing with real crimes, let alone someone being peeved about the sexual history of someone they've just had sex with. "

Exactly this...didn't know we had "Bi patrols"

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By *luefire2Couple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here


"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why?"

Wow that's a very sweeping statement there!!

I'm bi (Mr R) I don't deceive to get laid, straight or bi, I don't need to push any agenda to have sex

If we want straight sex we seek it out If we want bi sex we seek it out If I want guy on guy I use grindr

I never lie to get a fuck

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England


"I've often wondered why/what it is that the folk that put that preference is about.

Is it the fear of Aids or something else.

Curious as to the possible answers."

... and some people put they only want to meet white English male on their profile!?!??

I don't think people need to justify their preferences. Each to their own; live and let live.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why?"

Think you will find if you read the full thread the majority of openly bi guys disagree with the lies and deceit of the OP.

Why are you so averse to bi guys, do they threaten your fragile masculinity. Or is it too much competition for the fanny

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By *teven_BeithMan
over a year ago

Beith


"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why?

Think you will find if you read the full thread the majority of openly bi guys disagree with the lies and deceit of the OP.

Why are you so averse to bi guys, do they threaten your fragile masculinity. Or is it too much competition for the fanny "

For the reason I stated. Too much lies from so many of them. I did say it's not all bi guys, but a good number. Why I avoid them. As for too much competition, I'm 100% gay so no interest in that lol nice try though. But like most gay guys get a tad fed up with all the "straight" guys winking, messaging, fabbing. If they are straight why contact a gay man - it's ludicrous. And if they lie about that - what other things are they hiding. And as for threatining my masculinity - not a chance, masculinity is what I'm attracted to - nothing masculine about wearing womens nicks, which looking at this site and fabguys the vast majority who feminise themselves up are overwhelmingly bi guys.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"... and some people put they only want to meet white English male on their profile!?!??

I don't think people need to justify their preferences. Each to their own; live and let live.

"

Yeah, we give people who only want to meet white English people a wide berth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it goes the other way too. A couple with a straight male will contact you looking for something. normally they just want to suck you off but why don't they label themselves as bi ? Because it's their choice

People are most honest right after a huge orgasm.

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

We only meet bi guys and couples. But we do get a lot of straight guys who contact us and try to convince us that they are bi just to get a fuck. Normally we just delete their message but if we do chat then Milf puts them straight (no pun intended) by telling them that before they touch her, they have to suck my cock as she watches. It's amazing the amount of guys who suddenly lose interest

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By *L_DebaucheryMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *L_DebaucheryMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Yeah, see that sounds really quite predatory. It also doesn't sound like you hold much respect for single males at all; putting tests in place...

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I've too much self respect to try to pretend I'm something I'm not, just to fuck some backwards homophobe

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By *ylonattireTV/TS
over a year ago

Liverpool


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it."

SPOT ON.

I get more messages from " straight men " than bi.

If you aren't true to yourself, then you not going to be telling me the truth.

Honesty is a long forgotten standard

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Yeah, see that sounds really quite predatory. It also doesn't sound like you hold much respect for single males at all; putting tests in place..."

Well if straight men didn’t lie to get laid I don’t imagine they would have to put tests in place.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"This unfortunatley sums up why so many of us are averse to bi guys. Bi means Deceit, untrustworthy and an unhealthy obsess with womens underware. Granted not all bi's are like that but enough of a majority to be concerning. And what do we have here? a bi guy making a stand and trying to prove their worth? No one advocating more lies and deceit. If bi guys have such a bad rep - perhaps it's time to take a look at all the bi guys and their constant lies and other unsavoury behaviour to see why?

Think you will find if you read the full thread the majority of openly bi guys disagree with the lies and deceit of the OP.

Why are you so averse to bi guys, do they threaten your fragile masculinity. Or is it too much competition for the fanny

For the reason I stated. Too much lies from so many of them. I did say it's not all bi guys, but a good number. Why I avoid them. As for too much competition, I'm 100% gay so no interest in that lol nice try though. But like most gay guys get a tad fed up with all the "straight" guys winking, messaging, fabbing. If they are straight why contact a gay man - it's ludicrous. And if they lie about that - what other things are they hiding. And as for threatining my masculinity - not a chance, masculinity is what I'm attracted to - nothing masculine about wearing womens nicks, which looking at this site and fabguys the vast majority who feminise themselves up are overwhelmingly bi guys. "

Must learn to check profile before being cheeky My apologies

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By *tarcrossed_SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough/Ipswich

Our personal experience is that being bisexual as a man is one of Fab's biggest lies, regularly couples and singles where the man identifies as straight will message us saying they've all previously played bi or want to dabble in it.

We're honest on our profile, arguably we get penalised for it so that's why we ask for that honesty back in return..

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By *oomerangbobMan
over a year ago

stanhope

I think I would rather be honest about my preferences and accept I would not be to everyone’s taste.

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By *ticky69Man
over a year ago

Preston

For goodness sake just be honest. If they prefer a straight partner that is their right. I have a bi profile and the number of straight men that message me for a meet is bonkers. Having a second profile so you can tailor your personality to their needs is a failure on your part. My bi profile has never been a problem for me or the people I meet.

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By *luefire2Couple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

To be honest, most single straight guys never read profiles anyway, we state that we want to meet bi guys but still get straight guys messaging having not read our profile. It will never change.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Within the last 5 minutes we had a regular occurrence of a SM message

"Do you like bi guys"

Profile say straight, message back saying as much.

Will either get a message back saying some people don't like Bi which means they are lying on their profile.

Or, they won't message at all.

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By *unlovin72Man
over a year ago

BARNSLEY

I am Bi and my profile states that I pride myself on being truthful and I only play safe and have regular checks too for my health and others cannot start off with a lie they catch up eventually

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

The dilemma that bi guys are in, in putting straight on profiles, is that couples like us, who block males but search ourselves, will automatically dismiss anyone with straight on profiles. Same with 'straight' guys in couples, they'll be overlooked when searching. We hold partys every 5/6 weeks and are always on the lookout for add ons to our existing group. No straights, save certain conditions.

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Full disclosure of all salient facts, has to be the way. I’d rather be blocked than asked to leave a meet. I would certainly expect the same.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m bisexual and the only couples and ladies I meet are ones that like bi guys. It’s not an issue for me cos the ones that don’t want to meet me….don’t.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Couldn't one also say on the basis of been honest or not. How many single profiles on here are either married or cheating. Is that also been dishonest . Kinda leaves a very small proportion of honest people on here

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"No idea, all I know is if I was a bi guy I wouldn't deceive others just to get a meet. I would rather not meet people who didn't want to meet me for whatever reason, I wouldn't con them into it."

And thank you!! I'm not interested in a bi guy and to be tricked because he's trying to increase his reach pool is exactly why I'm not interested.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

End

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