FabSwingers.com forum: Public hair... does swinging change what you go for? Or like?

By *rozac_fairy OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

So, I like to change up quite often... sometimes I'm shaved, sometime I leave a little fuzz, always carefully trimmed.

However, Saturday we went off to Xtasia. I actually opted to have a little heart shaped fuzz. Just to have something a little different.

I was actually amazed by how many people thought I was "brave" for daring to have abit of fluff! I mean, we're all adults so we all have hair right, shaving is just an option.

So, does swinging change you, in the sense of, are you more likely to shave if you swing? More likely to shave for private meets etc?

Personally, it hasn't really changed me or my preferences for other people, or perhaps I've just never really put much thought to it..

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By *lack Dynamite 100Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Body hair down below makes no difference to me, everyone has it. I think it’s silly to reject people on that basis. However, as long as it smells good, I’m fact it’d be fair to say I’m a fan of natural hair. LOL.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I have pubic hair, trimmed but definitely obviously there. I've lost count of the amount of people who comment on it, but it's approx a 50/50 split between astonishment and appreciation.

As for my armpit hair, which I also don't remove, people don't tend to overtly mention that one but it comes up occasionally. And nobody ever says anything about my hairy legs.

I'd never change my choices for other people - what I do with my own body hair is up to me. If people get funny about it, well they're under no obligation to fuck me so I'm quite happy for them to simply move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging has no bearing on us. We both prefer our dental floss minty flavoured and in the bathroom cabinet.

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over a year ago

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

I am trimmed and sweet in the pussy department and shaved in the armpits .. it is personal choice. We play with everyone but I do love a man with a hairy chest and some pubic hair ... wink x Anne

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We've always been shaved smooth even before discovering swinging so nothing has changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get waxed every 4 weeks and in between those 4 weeks I don't touch it

After a week or so I have a slight fuzz

But I always say when if I'm going to meet someone new as I know some people find it a deal breaker, which is fine

But shaving really irritates my skin so I'm not prepared to shave before a meet and then have to deal with a few days worth of sore skin afterwards

The guys I meet regular know that unless it's within that first week there will be a bit of hair there and thankfully they don't care

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By *rincess-PeachWoman
over a year ago

irrelevant

"I get waxed every 4 weeks and in between those 4 weeks I don't touch it

After a week or so I have a slight fuzz

But I always say when if I'm going to meet someone new as I know some people find it a deal breaker, which is fine

But shaving really irritates my skin so I'm not prepared to shave before a meet and then have to deal with a few days worth of sore skin afterwards

The guys I meet regular know that unless it's within that first week there will be a bit of hair there and thankfully they don't care "

Exactly the same ! I cannot shave it just does not work for me I get ingrown hair so not doing that. Waxing is my preference

I don't care what others do with their hair it's their body

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"Body hair down below makes no difference to me, everyone has it. I think it’s silly to reject people on that basis. However, as long as it smells good, I’m fact it’d be fair to say I’m a fan of natural hair. LOL. "

I think a bushy bush is very rare these days especially on the swinging scene, although wifey prefers to keep hers trimmed I have no aversion to a bush . As for under arm hair, she does grow hers for me sometimes. It’s a huge turn on for me. She says it’s the German in me haha

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

I have no problem with anyones personal choice as long as they are clean.

It's their body and nothing to do with me

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I always have pubic hair, swinging simply means it gets tidied up more often. I feel womanly with it.

Nobody has said no so far and nor would I go bald to please others and I still orefer hair on others, but ultimately as long as they're ckean all is good.

Nita

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

Edited to correct a typo
"It seems to be a problem for others rather than us. We’ve noticed an uptick in profiles demanding shaved nether regions. The irony is that most couldn’t take Mr to base vaginally let alone orally, so it’s a non-issue. But we err on the side of caution and mention he’s trimmed (I like a bit), and we’ve had people decline.

I’m an each to their own kind of girl. As long as it’s clean we’re both good with it.

Xx K

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By *un Times 1Man
over a year ago

coventry

I love a bushy landing strip. I find it a massive turn on.

I think pubes are back in vogue. ??

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By *rozac_fairy OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I love a bushy landing strip. I find it a massive turn on.

I think pubes are back in vogue. ??"

Pubes have been huge in the actual modelling/photography world since the mid 10's, it's a sought after look whoch is why I'm rarely fully shaved tbh. I get more work with a little hair

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By *ootnootboopCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

A is trimmed and Ess is waxed. It's our personal preference that we both had in terms of our own bodies before we started swinging and has just carried over.

We don't really think about the pubic grooming status of our swinging buddies, for us that's their complete decision on how their comfortable and that's just fine with us

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No, I'd never shave it all off for anyone. I really CBA with all that.

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By *onicZMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

For me personally I like to have mine smooth down there but I'm not at all against people having some fuzz (as you've put it).

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

Landing strip and smooth underneath for me (Mrs) and he is nearly trimmed...

We wouldn't ever demand a swing partner to be any other way than what suits them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally shave, always have done. It doesn’t bother T, but I just feel way more confident with it smooth.

Mrs

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

My public hair is on my head - it can get wild so I straighten it.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

As someone who has a hairy chest etc, I think it would look ridiculous being completely shaved below. Personally I think it shows individuality for a girl to be trimmed or shaped.

I've had people ask if I would shave for them, chest usually and my answer is always no. It's part of me and I'm not doing that for anyone. I do however shave my cock and balls. Many are surprised how soft my chest hair is and enjoy snuggling into it.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

For me, swinging has always been about connecting with other people with similar mindsets, attitudes, and imaginations as my own

And not a checklist of physical characteristics and grooming habits

I have preferences in that regard for sure - but if you want to push my buttons, you'll find them in my head

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