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By *host25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

caerphilly

I'm wondering if therws any anonymous meet kind of things going on, as in where you can't see each others face. I kind of find it kinky and I'm shy but more I have a job that meets lots of people and works with it and or rather not complicate it ( you know how people can be) I dont know what exactly I'm asking for, not hole in the wall scenario ?? it makes it awkward for a good pounding. But idk, I know you can go to balls etc masked up but I'm only free school hours which complicates things again. Ugh!

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By *oriarty99Man
over a year ago

London

I’ve done this before. So hot.

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By *host25 OP   Woman
over a year ago

caerphilly

Done which part?. There's something liberating about being more anonymous isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really good blackout curtains make darkroom type meets during the day very very doable

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

A daytime masquerade ball is so niche, it is very unlikely to exist. Their website suggests they are only open Friday evenings, but does Chams in Newport have a dark room? You could keep your face covered until you're in the dark room. Otherwise it may require traveling elsewhere.

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By *arklong88Man
over a year ago

portslade /porthmadog

Gloryhole..

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By *onballer9Man
over a year ago

west midlands


"I'm wondering if therws any anonymous meet kind of things going on, as in where you can't see each others face. I kind of find it kinky and I'm shy but more I have a job that meets lots of people and works with it and or rather not complicate it ( you know how people can be) I dont know what exactly I'm asking for, not hole in the wall scenario ?? it makes it awkward for a good pounding. But idk, I know you can go to balls etc masked up but I'm only free school hours which complicates things again. Ugh! "
. Now this sounds like fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love an anon meet and have not been disappointed yet x

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Dark rooms?

Been wanting to try one for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dark rooms?

Been wanting to try one for a while "

I adore Dark room play. It is so erotic feeling a body lettung your mind draw the picture

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Dark rooms are incredible for this! We've both felt much more liberated in a busy darkroom in a club. Then there's the fun part of trying to work out who you were wanking off when you all get back to the bar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gloryhole.."

Remember that thing about nor reading…?

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By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago

DXB / SG / Thailand Krabi

Recently at Bar Sameplace in Amsterdam, the dark room is another level, it’s huge and absolutely pitch dark from maybe half a metre inside away from the door; they have dots on the floor akin to braille so you ‘feel’ your way around if barefoot.

I’d never experienced anything remotely akin to it within the UK club scene, it’s worth the visit just for that, amongst many other upsides

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By *winging Sally SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border


"Dark rooms are incredible for this! We've both felt much more liberated in a busy darkroom in a club. Then there's the fun part of trying to work out who you were wanking off when you all get back to the bar "

We entered one once, and saw two 'dicks' floating through the air. A couple of guys were wearing glow in the dark condoms. It caused quite a few giggles within the room. We were being shown around the club so didn't stay long enough to see what happened.

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By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago

DXB / SG / Thailand Krabi


"Dark rooms are incredible for this! We've both felt much more liberated in a busy darkroom in a club. Then there's the fun part of trying to work out who you were wanking off when you all get back to the bar

We entered one once, and saw two 'dicks' floating through the air. A couple of guys were wearing glow in the dark condoms. It caused quite a few giggles within the room. We were being shown around the club so didn't stay long enough to see what happened. "

My favourite thread contribution of the week so far

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By *arklong88Man
over a year ago

portslade /porthmadog


"Gloryhole..

Remember that thing about nor reading…?"

Oh yes,thanks!

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Dark rooms are amazing. But I've never heard of any open during the daytime though, would probably be a minority

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"Dark rooms are incredible for this! We've both felt much more liberated in a busy darkroom in a club. Then there's the fun part of trying to work out who you were wanking off when you all get back to the bar

We entered one once, and saw two 'dicks' floating through the air. A couple of guys were wearing glow in the dark condoms. It caused quite a few giggles within the room. We were being shown around the club so didn't stay long enough to see what happened. "

I REALLY hope there was a lightsaber fight

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

Never show our face before a meet

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

I have met a few couples where women is blind folded in room. Hub or partner takes you up to room and play without seeing you. Sometimes take mask off at end. Others times not. Both are really horny. Have also played with several guys with lady blindfolded and she had to guess who with her. Lot of fun

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

We often do blindfolded meets as sub’r’ really gets off on having strangers enjoy her holes while she is blindfolded so she has no idea who enjoyed her afterwards.

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By *ilverfox for youMan
over a year ago

Hull

One of my kinks also !!

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By *luttTV/TS
over a year ago

Duns

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I'm wondering if therws any anonymous meet kind of things going on, as in where you can't see each others face. I kind of find it kinky and I'm shy but more I have a job that meets lots of people and works with it and or rather not complicate it ( you know how people can be) I dont know what exactly I'm asking for, not hole in the wall scenario ?? it makes it awkward for a good pounding. But idk, I know you can go to balls etc masked up but I'm only free school hours which complicates things again. Ugh! "

You don’t have to go to a ball to wear a mask…if you’d feel anonymous enough being at a ball with a mask on then I assume you’d feel anonymous enough meeting someone 1 to 1 with a mask on.

Or meet people who don’t live locally to you who you’re unlikely to meet through work.

Or meet in a totally dark room.

Or meet someone who’s wearing a blindfold.

Or only meet people who are mature enough to be able to deal with meeting someone in a work/professional situation that they’ve had sex with without making it uncomfortable or causing drama.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

One of my biggest turn-ons ever was when, in a club, I was giving my partner a blow job when a guy who I hadn't seen suddenly fucked me from behind. I came instantly. My partner, who gave the guy the go ahead, told me later that the guy's wife had put a condom on him and guided him into me. This has left me with an as yet unfulfilled fantasy of being blindfolded in a club and taking a line of guys and later walking around the club without knowing which guys I'd fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds extremely hot!! I'd love this sort of scenario

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


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Or only meet people who are mature enough to be able to deal with meeting someone in a work/professional situation that they’ve had sex with without making it uncomfortable or causing drama. "

This

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By *lark_KentMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I love the idea of an anonymous meet

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By *andydan69Man
over a year ago

south west nr you mmm

Hot as hell love this very naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done something similar but it was facilitated by someone else so I felt like I had a layer of protection and he was there and it was totally controlled by him.

I wouldn't do a one on one meet like described I wouldn't be able to go through with it.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Try a club

That way you can go to the glory holes or dark room

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"We often do blindfolded meets as sub’r’ really gets off on having strangers enjoy her holes while she is blindfolded so she has no idea who enjoyed her afterwards."

I have a Dom and although we don't meet as a couple I'd love to do this with him to supervise.

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By *luns1Man
over a year ago

Preston

My partner has recently done just that. Put a status up saying who wants to fuck me (or something similar) and a chap duly came and sorted her insatiable need. I was away in London at the time and got a message of "I've done a thing" when she told me about it I thought it was the horniest thing I've heard this year.

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By *emilyCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"My partner has recently done just that. Put a status up saying who wants to fuck me (or something similar) and a chap duly came and sorted her insatiable need. I was away in London at the time and got a message of "I've done a thing" when she told me about it I thought it was the horniest thing I've heard this year. "

It was rather

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I have had a lot of blindfold meets. The lady arrived and went up to the bedroom to get ready. I waited downstairs in the lounge and when she was ready she called out and I went upstairs.

In those situations I am always aware of the trust imparted and treat her very carefully.

The blindfold usually comes off as she gets intrigued but it doesn't have to.

I leave the room, she showers and goes home.

Knowing my address was a layer of security that helped on top of the trust built by messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A face is what turns me on but equally off. So a masquerade night where only the hosts see the faces to verify could be very hot

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

One of the few fantasies I've not fulfilled was the "Stranger at the bar" but I think it needs the partner to act as a spotter. Woman stood at a crowded bar in a club, unknown man approaches from behind and fucks her against the bar, she doesn't look around to see who it is, then he just melts away into the crowd. Fulfils the anonymous aspect, exhibition, a bit of CNC.

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By *arleycplCouple
over a year ago

Leyburn

We had a hotel meet Andy organised, with 2 guys from fab, I was blindfolded and never saw them and have no idea who they were, was amazing, love go do it again Marie

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By *s1212Couple
over a year ago

Dorset


"Hot as hell love this very naughty "

You seem fairly local,looking for someone to do just this?

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By *launt Thy CurvesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025


"One of my biggest turn-ons ever was when, in a club, I was giving my partner a blow job when a guy who I hadn't seen suddenly fucked me from behind. I came instantly. My partner, who gave the guy the go ahead, told me later that the guy's wife had put a condom on him and guided him into me. This has left me with an as yet unfulfilled fantasy of being blindfolded in a club and taking a line of guys and later walking around the club without knowing which guys I'd fucked. "

You could also achieve that in a female gloryhole.... Pandora has them.... Huge party 12th Aug - Just sayin!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"One of my biggest turn-ons ever was when, in a club, I was giving my partner a blow job when a guy who I hadn't seen suddenly fucked me from behind. I came instantly. My partner, who gave the guy the go ahead, told me later that the guy's wife had put a condom on him and guided him into me. This has left me with an as yet unfulfilled fantasy of being blindfolded in a club and taking a line of guys and later walking around the club without knowing which guys I'd fucked.

You could also achieve that in a female gloryhole.... Pandora has them.... Huge party 12th Aug - Just sayin! "

They used to have female glory holes at the late, great La Chambre. The trouble is, as I mentioned recently in another thread, they looked too much like a traditional pizza oven. To me that was anything but sexy although I did wank off a guy who's face I'd never seen who was lying in one. Have a good time on the 12th, unfortunately we're out of the country.

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