FabSwingers.com forum: Where am I going wrong?

By *oliteplaymate OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

I’m getting frustrated. Everytime I think I have made contact with a seemingly nice girl I log on to a block. I don’t have this trouble in clubs.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I’m getting frustrated. Everytime I think I have made contact with a seemingly nice girl I log on to a block. I don’t have this trouble in clubs.

Hi op

If it's having that effect on you then maybe take a break and learn to control your emotions/feelings

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By *oliteplaymate OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

I am taking a break…think I’ve hit a wall or something

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Maybe you have more success in clubs as you're not just a silhouette there? Can't say anything more about your profile as it's hidden.

Also, I can see you are very active on the forum- even though only a small percentage of Fab profiles uses forum, maybe there was something you posted that raised some red flags? Or something in the message? On here, we're losing the body language part of the message and some messages can be interpreted in the way not intended by the sender.

If you have more success in clubs, maybe concentrate on those and use Fab just to keep an eye on events and to catch up with people you met in clubs?

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By *oliteplaymate OP Man
over a year ago

sheffield

Thank you. I guess it could be but I try not to be too controversial I actually like to make people laugh. Anyway taking a break for now.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

If you have more success in clubs, maybe concentrate on those and use Fab just to keep an eye on events and to catch up with people you met in clubs?"

This is exactly what we do and it works perfectly. Good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m getting frustrated. Everytime I think I have made contact with a seemingly nice girl I log on to a block. I don’t have this trouble in clubs.

Clubs are full of people who are there to meet people and quite probably have sex.

Fab is full of people who either don't meet at all or only occasionally and enjoy chatting about it. And if a lady is looking to meet at some point she has SO many options. That is not a criticism but reality.

So if clubs are working then enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where you’re going wrong is sending a message or losing a question and then hiding your profile.

Simple.

Is there a prize for the first correct answer?

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By *ootnootboopCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

If you have more success in clubs, maybe concentrate on those and use Fab just to keep an eye on events and to catch up with people you met in clubs?

This is exactly what we do and it works perfectly. Good luck OP."

Another vote for this use of fab! The only people we really converse with is those who we've met before in a club, or people who message us first, who meet what we're looking for.

Much more positive interactions that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m getting frustrated. Everytime I think I have made contact with a seemingly nice girl I log on to a block. I don’t have this trouble in clubs.

You're looking on the wrong website. Exchange "nice" for "nasty".

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