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By *ikingandMaiden2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West

We have a very nosey family that like to know where we are at all times. We are planning a few weekends away visiting clubs and we are a little bit stuck on what to tell them

Any ideas?

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"We have a very nosey family that like to know where we are at all times. We are planning a few weekends away visiting clubs and we are a little bit stuck on what to tell them

Any ideas?"

reunion of some kind, then you've got reason to revisit old friends you met there.

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By *ikingandMaiden2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West


"We have a very nosey family that like to know where we are at all times. We are planning a few weekends away visiting clubs and we are a little bit stuck on what to tell them

Any ideas?reunion of some kind, then you've got reason to revisit old friends you met there."

Could work

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

You've joined a re-enactment society and are off to get filthy

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"We have a very nosey family that like to know where we are at all times. We are planning a few weekends away visiting clubs and we are a little bit stuck on what to tell them

Any ideas?reunion of some kind, then you've got reason to revisit old friends you met there.

Could work "

It did for us, baring in mind it usually means catching a ferry, so it's never going to an early return home.

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

Pick a local popular attraction and say you're going there.

Then either blag it. Or maybe get their during the day over the weekend.

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

*there

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You're going for a weekend away. It may be London, Birmingham, Manchester, Blackpool, anywhere. You're going to have a look around and go to a bar in the evening?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say a weekend away. You don't have to give any more information.

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By *teph BitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

Don't tell them anything. Do they need to know?

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By *hat a PairXXXCouple
over a year ago

Bath

We like to tell them as close to the truth as possible. So for example we went to Chameleons on Friday and we knew we’d be meeting up with on other couple that night. So the story we told the family was we’re meeting up with some old friends Jack & Jill in the Midlands for a few drinks and staying over. It was essentially the truth, just left out the minor details of the club and the fact we’d be naked.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Just say your having a date night, nothing more.

Mrs

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

Just say you’re taking the other half away for a mystery weekend as you want some quality time together. They don’t need the ins and outs

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Tell them you’re off to Skegness

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Our (adult) children always wanted to know where we were gojng.

We told them we were going to a club to have sex with strangers. They just laughed at us. Never asked again.

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By *kpineappleCouple
over a year ago

Wimborne

We usually keep it quite vague ‘going for a spa weekend’ or we’ll tie it in with a football trip and say we’re going to an away day and spending the night so we can enjoy some drinks. The less detail you give, the less you can slip up with x

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By *ikingandMaiden2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West


"Our (adult) children always wanted to know where we were gojng.

We told them we were going to a club to have sex with strangers. They just laughed at us. Never asked again."

In a way we could see this working lol

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By *ikingandMaiden2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West


"We like to tell them as close to the truth as possible. So for example we went to Chameleons on Friday and we knew we’d be meeting up with on other couple that night. So the story we told the family was we’re meeting up with some old friends Jack & Jill in the Midlands for a few drinks and staying over It was essentially the truth, just left out the minor details of the club and the fact we’d be naked."

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By *elightful FuxCouple
over a year ago

Toytown


"Our (adult) children always wanted to know where we were gojng.

We told them we were going to a club to have sex with strangers. They just laughed at us. Never asked again."

This is an extremely high risk strategy and not recommended. Any follow up questions become *extremely* awkward

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

Start a ‘hobby’ something that sounds more vanilla than it is but that gives you the flexibility to take off when you like

Bike riding, Pokémon, idk lol, something that fits with your character and gives you reason to be off alone just the two of you without being questioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them you are going to a sex club, that's what we do and everybody laughs thinking we are joking

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By *ikingandMaiden2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West

Plenty of good suggestions here thanks, last time we said we stopped at a nice hotel and then were asked if we had any pictures?

Think we might need to drive around taking getting a photo album of nice scenery and hotels lol

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"We have a very nosey family that like to know where we are at all times. We are planning a few weekends away visiting clubs and we are a little bit stuck on what to tell them

Any ideas?"

Try redefining your boundaries!

You don't owe anyone an explanation family or not.

If you say you are going away that's all they need.

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By *_revMan
over a year ago

Birkenhead

Just do a city break as an excuse

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"We have a very nosey family that like to know where we are at all times. We are planning a few weekends away visiting clubs and we are a little bit stuck on what to tell them

Any ideas?"

For over five years we have been enjoying out weekend breaks around the South West. You could say that you fancy exploring this part of the world a little more and finding out what great places are right on your doorstep. You could also say that you fancy a short break to spend some time together and relight the fire, that should be enough information for them to look away embarrassed

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By *offee Cocktails and CumCouple
over a year ago

Waterlooville

We always tell Family that we are visiting friends for dinner, or for the weekend… Dinner, strangely as always sausage!

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport


"We have a very nosey family that like to know where we are at all times. We are planning a few weekends away visiting clubs and we are a little bit stuck on what to tell them

Any ideas?"

You joined a walking group?

Other kinds of hobbies that are not too heavy or you need lots of equipment or knowledge for...

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By *etWetWet453Couple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY


"Plenty of good suggestions here thanks, last time we said we stopped at a nice hotel and then were asked if we had any pictures?

Think we might need to drive around taking getting a photo album of nice scenery and hotels lol "

Just get them off the internet. That`s what friends of ours have done, when they`ve really gone to Gran Canaria, but have told their family they are going elsewhere.

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By *ikingandMaiden2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West

Some really good suggestions here, thank you all

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By *ebootCouple
over a year ago

Telford

We’ve gone as far as posting and tagging ourselves in places like bars and restaurants on social media, when in fact we’ve been on a meet or in a club

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By *ikingandMaiden2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West


"We’ve gone as far as posting and tagging ourselves in places like bars and restaurants on social media, when in fact we’ve been on a meet or in a club "

Thats a really good idea!

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Hit em with. You've joined a seibfers site and your off to a swingers party... they just wont believe it

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"We have a very nosey family that like to know where we are at all times. We are planning a few weekends away visiting clubs and we are a little bit stuck on what to tell them

Any ideas?"

We often have weekends away to visit clubs. The visit to the club only happens at night though so we can go and do tourist things during the day, we visit museums and historic sites, take pictures etc... then when you get home, you don't need a story, you can tell them all about everything apart from the club.

Cal

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By *heoneandonlyEJCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

You’ve joined a swimming club?

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By *hisismeXXXMan
over a year ago

Welsh Wales


"We have a very nosey family that like to know where we are at all times. We are planning a few weekends away visiting clubs and we are a little bit stuck on what to tell them

Any ideas?"

Why do you need to tell them anything more that “we’ve booked a weekend break in (whatever city)”?

Whatever weekend away I’ve ever had, single or married, vanilla or swinging, I’ve not seen the need to share the ins and outs. I don’t tell my family “it was a great weekend, 10 bars, loads of beer, a few vodkas and I pulled a lovely girl on Saturday night” when I’m on a lads weekend, so why would I share with them anything about a swinging weekend ?

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

Your both 45 and grown up just say you are going away for the weekend don't have to explain where and contact you on mobile for any emergency hope this helps x

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By *ikingandMaiden2 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Mid Cornwall, South West


"We have a very nosey family that like to know where we are at all times. We are planning a few weekends away visiting clubs and we are a little bit stuck on what to tell them

Any ideas?

We often have weekends away to visit clubs. The visit to the club only happens at night though so we can go and do tourist things during the day, we visit museums and historic sites, take pictures etc... then when you get home, you don't need a story, you can tell them all about everything apart from the club.

Cal"

This is something we are looking at, combining a weekend away somewhere with a club visit

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By *J and CBCouple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"We have a very nosey family that like to know where we are at all times. We are planning a few weekends away visiting clubs and we are a little bit stuck on what to tell them

Any ideas?"

Tell them to fuck off!

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By *unseeker6969Man
over a year ago

somewhere

The truth it might stop them being soooo nosy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How odd to be allowed no privacy as an adult.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I tell my neighbours I'm off to a friend's party.

She thinks I have lots of friends.

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By *haringiscaring1980sCouple
over a year ago

Kettering

If you like any music or comedy just look up a tribute show playing the night or next day you are away etc. Say you are going there etc.

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire


"We have a very nosey family that like to know where we are at all times. We are planning a few weekends away visiting clubs and we are a little bit stuck on what to tell them

Any ideas?"

Why do you have to tell them anything

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

You're in your 40s, you could tell them it's line dancing society, secret polka, comic-con, following your football team

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Or my personal favourite, none of your business

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By *abilousCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"We have a very nosey family that like to know where we are at all times. We are planning a few weekends away visiting clubs and we are a little bit stuck on what to tell them

Any ideas?

Why do you have to tell them anything

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Tell them you need to get away as you are feeling smothered by them!

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