FabSwingers.com forum: Less interest in younger profiles?

By *andJ_EXE OP Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hi all! I wouldn't say we are young really (both 28) but we find so many profiles turning us down because we are too young for them! Is there a preference to not be with younger couples? Or is it something to do with our profile? We'd love to know! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's some people's preference to not meet younger couples.

Other people will have preferences to meet younger couples.

Don't stress if you're not what someone's looking for, just move on.

You'll meet someone that you're suited to at some point, just be gracious and patient.

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By *nonymous95-2Woman
over a year ago

Northwich

Just keep going. I've found clubs to be a better spot. I often find that I'm out of the age range of the people I've met in the clubs when I try to verify them or reach out.

I'm sure you'll find the right people for you both. Your profile is very clear, good pics of both of you which is amazing to see. It's just about finding the right people and right fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We probably wouldn’t meet people more than 10 years either side of our own age range, purely because we feel like we wouldn’t necessarily click and wouldn’t want to waste their time.

Don’t give up though OP there are people out there for everyone x

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

This is really picky, OP, but your profile has your ages ranging from 25 to 28....

(Bry)

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Your age wouldn't be a problem for most people on this site. Older people think THEY don't get many messages because of their age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi its just peoples preferences i assume if you find it difficult maybe attend socials or the club scene hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re only couple years older and got a message calling us an old couple, wasn’t sure how to take that haha! Everyone’s different, maybe try clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all! I wouldn't say we are young really (both 28) but we find so many profiles turning us down because we are too young for them! Is there a preference to not be with younger couples? Or is it something to do with our profile? We'd love to know! X"

It’s quite amusing seeing you moaning about that, ironic really as you seem to have no qualms in being part of the upper age limits that are so prevalent on fab now.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

28 isn't really that young and are folk whom like to explore plus are many within your age group on here but whether within your own location maybe attend one of the club's near you when they hold social events as it can open doors. You don't need to do anything but a chance to meet like minded people

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

We've been occasional swingers for about 20 years now, started when we were about 23 still going at 43.

From our club experience it is more about attraction and fun. We played with couples in their 50s 20s as 20 year olds and 20-50 as 40 year olds.

Chemistry is the key, we used to have age limits but then found out we broke them without knowing as people don't walk around with birth certs in clubs.

On here people will use it as a way of filtering to get couples similar to them, but you never know how it will work until you meet.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Picking up on sonevof your other interests there are at least 2 under 35 kink munches in London which may be a good way of meeting people in your age range?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Obviously I don't know what you expected from fab or how you go about finding people you'd like to meet but couples and singles of every age complain that people aren't interested in their particular age group. This makes me wonder if there are some unrealistic expectations with regard to how many people will be interested.

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By *andk4fCouple
over a year ago

North cotswolds

Generally we have a lot of interest due to our age

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Age is not that important to us, we’ve played with people in their 20’s and 50’s. Why put a limit on it after all.

Mainly we need an initial attraction, then a decent connection, sense of humour, flirty banter and wham we are interested

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

We won't meet people in that ange range as we have children of that age, and would just feel very wring, it's certainly nothing personal toward them..Purley the age.

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