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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi as a 51year old guy new to the scene I have started off well as far as performance goes .but recently been having ED problems.i can be playing With a woman and in my head I'm really enjoying the moment but no singe of an erection so I pleasure with oral which I haven't failed yet.aparently I have a gift .my main concern is if I explained this to a woman in a club would she change her mind about play .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Only the individual woman can tell you that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would feel as though you didn’t find me sexually arousing so yes it would put me off.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

You could try explaining when first chatting with someone, before starting anything. In my case the combination of the anti-depressants I take, and my gender-dysphoric relationship with my body, cause me great difficulty in showing arousal. I try to be open about it. I'm still very strongly attracted to women, and do what I can to both give them pleasure and to receive pleasure from them. But I like them to know up front that whatever else, I'm unlikely to be the best shag of their lives...

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Your verifications would suggest you do fine in a club situation already fella

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

And first of all, go and see your doctor!

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By *ootnootboopCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire


"And first of all, go and see your doctor!"

Absolutely! You never know, there may be a physical reason for this that can be treated.

Also it's a bit of a vicious circle for guys... Have an erection, get nervous of loosing it, partner asks "do you not find me attractive?", your more likely to have ED in the future.....

It's all about treating a physical problem if there is one alongside breaking that vicious circle

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