FabSwingers.com forum: Profile advice

By *xtraextra 2021 OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Hi all fabbers

I am struggling to find genuine people for meets. I have listed my preferences on my profile and have a face pic which I attach to messages I send. I try not to be too blunt on messages and make some sort of effort. I'm a decent looking guy but understand not for everyone.

Would be great to connect with local people I can have some kinky experiences with

Any help appreciated!

Alfie

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

You shouldn't need anyone to tell you what the main issues are with your profile.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of one of the dick pics.

Get a profile picture. Write a bit more bio.

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By *ub... girlWoman
over a year ago

worcester

If you're "back again," surely you'd know how to write your profile

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Get rid of the dick pics, set to friends only. Have a nice suited picture, doesn't need to show your face.

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By *xtraextra 2021 OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"If you're "back again," surely you'd know how to write your profile

Obviously not, hence the post

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By *xtraextra 2021 OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Thank you

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By *xtraextra 2021 OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Thank you

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Ok dick picks put in friends only or have one with other non dick pics. Your profile reads like a shopping list

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By *xtraextra 2021 OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

So are dick pics not popular to see?

I see they are very common and some like them and some don't

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By *xtraextra 2021 OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Ok dick picks put in friends only or have one with other non dick pics. Your profile reads like a shopping list"

Thanks for the advice.. I understand its listed but on this site it can be very hard to have a conversation to express interests so to have them on my profile atleast everyone can see right?

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"So are dick pics not popular to see?

I see they are very common and some like them and some don't "

One maybe is ok amongst other non dick pics but no us ladies want to see other things. This is where most men go wrong on here.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Ok dick picks put in friends only or have one with other non dick pics. Your profile reads like a shopping list

Thanks for the advice.. I understand its listed but on this site it can be very hard to have a conversation to express interests so to have them on my profile atleast everyone can see right?"

But it’s not working is it?

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By *xtraextra 2021 OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"So are dick pics not popular to see?

I see they are very common and some like them and some don't

One maybe is ok amongst other non dick pics but no us ladies want to see other things. This is where most men go wrong on here. "

Very true, I shall amend

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

No profile picture

Only dicks pics on show

Default age filter

Generic bio

Cannot accommodate while wanting to be discreet usually means someone is trying to play away.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP your profile says "I am educated and know what I like and don't like and love to please" but the contents do not reflect this statement and the only photo is your cock.

Women want to know about you and what you can offer.

Nita

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By *xtraextra 2021 OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Thanks all

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Better profile. A dick pic isn't attractive

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Picking unsuitable people like they're too far away and you don't fit their criteria.

Read forum posts similar to yours. As things get constantly repeated every day by same posts asking for same advice

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By *xtraextra 2021 OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Picking unsuitable people like they're too far away and you don't fit their criteria.

Read forum posts similar to yours. As things get constantly repeated every day by same posts asking for same advice"

Thank you. Great profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black silhouette…..as soon as I see that I don’t even look at the profile.

Falling at the first hurdle OP.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"So are dick pics not popular to see?

I see they are very common and some like them and some don't "

Not if it's the only pic we can see of you op,in a mix of other pics they're fine

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Take some more non dick pics op and set one as your profile pic,many of us will delete anything from a shadow.

Also you've listed what you're into,what can you offer anyone who meets you? .use your profile to show yourself in the best way you can.

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

"Hi all fabbers

Would be great to connect with local people I can have some kinky experiences with

Any help appreciated!

Alfie"

So.... You're attached?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s perfect mate.

It’s your profile.

Own it.

It definitely tells us everything we want to know about you.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Your profile is just a list of what you want. Try adding more about why ladies should chose to meet with you. What you offer. What makes you different than other guys ?

The idea of a profile is like a shop window, you need to interest people, so they are interested and want to find out more.

Missing profile picture is not helping too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s perfect mate.

It’s your profile.

Own it.

It definitely tells us everything we want to know about you. "

Absolutely this!

Perfect profile OP, definitely representative of what you are about and lets us know everything we need to

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By *xtraextra 2021 OP Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"It’s perfect mate.

It’s your profile.

Own it.

It definitely tells us everything we want to know about you.

Absolutely this!

Perfect profile OP, definitely representative of what you are about and lets us know everything we need to

KJ"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all fabbers

Would be great to connect with local people I can have some kinky experiences with

Any help appreciated!

Alfie"

After reading this type of popular question OP, I would say you cannot please everyone.

Going to a club is no different from being on this site except Fab is way, way cheaper.

The best way of finding adventure on here is to expect nothing.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Hi all fabbers

Would be great to connect with local people I can have some kinky experiences with

Any help appreciated!

Alfie"

Just from my pov

No profile pic

No pics except a cock

You can't accommodate but don't expand so I take it you're attached

You seem to only be bothered by what you want

Nothing about what others get

Certainly wouldn't message you or replay to your message after seeing a profile like that

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Hi all fabbers

Would be great to connect with local people I can have some kinky experiences with

Any help appreciated!

Alfie"

Hi op

If you're struggling on here would it be similar off the site. Bring whatever you have away from this site on too it

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

More photos needed

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