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By *eetaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

South East

I know this has been asked time and time again. 'Whats wrong with my profile'?

Over two days I've had around 50 views but only one has shown any interest. Is this really how fab is, or have I missed something?

Honest opinions would be gratefully received.

TIA

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I’m not a couple but yes that’s how it is these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has been asked time and time again. 'Whats wrong with my profile'?

Over two days I've had around 50 views but only one has shown any interest. Is this really how fab is, or have I missed something?

Honest opinions would be gratefully received.

TIA

"

Your pics are old, poor quality and generic. Profile is OK, but nothing to really get the pulse racing is there?

You're in the biggest demographic on here, looking to meet the demographics with the most choice....

Got yourself to a couple of clubs and socials with the express intent of chatting and getting verified as a nice guy, it'll help. Change up your pics and add something that you offer tomthe people you'd meet.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with it, just the usual numbers game... I like your suit pic by the way

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By *eetaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

South East

Thank you both for your help..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The daytime meets on a weekend is incredibly restrictive and rightly or wrongly some will see that as a sign you might be attached and here to cheat on a partner so they will just move to the next profile.

KJ

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

What's wrong with your profile? Well other people might have spotted the inaccuracy around losing verifications

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"What's wrong with your profile? Well other people might have spotted the inaccuracy around losing verifications"
. Not sure what you mean. If he had verifications as part of a couple, but now he has a single profile, he will not have the verifications. Or are you suggesting he should ask those he had verifications from previously to verify him again to show he is real ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We feel that some swingers put themselves above everyone else. After all it is a swingers site. Sexy frolics is what we look for. But I leave it up to my partner if they want to play. But we also believe that experience comes with age.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"What's wrong with your profile? Well other people might have spotted the inaccuracy around losing verifications. Not sure what you mean. If he had verifications as part of a couple, but now he has a single profile, he will not have the verifications. Or are you suggesting he should ask those he had verifications from previously to verify him again to show he is real ? "

I'm suggesting that if the profile is changed from a couplebto a single the verifications are still there and the green tick are still there

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Profile seems pretty ok to us. Just keep trying x

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It may be that there aren't any of those 99 year olds on here that you are hoping to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with your profile? Well other people might have spotted the inaccuracy around losing verifications. Not sure what you mean. If he had verifications as part of a couple, but now he has a single profile, he will not have the verifications. Or are you suggesting he should ask those he had verifications from previously to verify him again to show he is real ?

I'm suggesting that if the profile is changed from a couplebto a single the verifications are still there and the green tick are still there "

Only if he was the account holder. Plus alot of folk do like to start from fresh. I don't show my veris because a lot were from my cpls profile. So they're hardly relevant now I'm on as a single

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"What's wrong with your profile? Well other people might have spotted the inaccuracy around losing verifications. Not sure what you mean. If he had verifications as part of a couple, but now he has a single profile, he will not have the verifications. Or are you suggesting he should ask those he had verifications from previously to verify him again to show he is real ?

I'm suggesting that if the profile is changed from a couplebto a single the verifications are still there and the green tick are still there

Only if he was the account holder. Plus alot of folk do like to start from fresh. I don't show my veris because a lot were from my cpls profile. So they're hardly relevant now I'm on as a single "

Yes but they are still there, in a summary and generating a green tick.

I may be taking his profile text too literally abd he may have started a new profile but that's not how it reads.

To me a profile thst claims previous meets but is unverified is always a red flag, more so if it claims multiple verifications

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By *ittle MonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Kimberley

Sounds like someone expects a profile on fab to give them access to guaranteed sex.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Try looking at the meets and message them couples actively looking.

( probably already tried)

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

Year old pics is the first red flag.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

My honest opinion:

Old, poor quality photos. The bedding looks awful in the pic with the red boxers - it might be cream, but it just looks dirty.

Your bio is a bit bland - it’s not witty, sexy or interesting, just quite dull and generic. Show some spark and personality. Sorry.

Best of luck!

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"I know this has been asked time and time again. 'Whats wrong with my profile'?

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Same thing that's wrong with every other singles guy profile.

Single guys make up at least two thirds of the fab user base.

Now we don't meet single guys (and are not who you are talking to anyway) but pure statistics alone dictate that those couples that do meet single guys have a large pool to choose from. No matter how good your profile is or isn't, its still a numbers game and relying on fab alone only offers a ever dwindling chance of success.

So up your game. Go to social events or try a club. Still a numbers game, you'll need to do the leg work for either and even then it's not a guarantee but it will up your chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to be the same trend with me lol really of window shoppers and non chatting people , give up at this stage unless some miracle happens ?? some females looking for males,couples, anything they chat then don't wrote back and even go on to block you even though you make an effort an chat ,

Seems like a big waster site

Escorts are far better in that case but not going down that road again lol there pure like robot / non sex people ??

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

OP what did you look for from singles when you had the couples profile

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By *iking_WitchWoman
over a year ago

Hinckley

Fab isn't a guarantee for sex. You are the most over saturated user demographic and your profile is super generic with no face pic or recent images.

I've made the mistake of meeting a few generic men and they've literally lasted a few strokes. I make no apologies for vetting strictly.

Women and couples are fussy, choosy and demanding and we can afford to be.

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