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"There is a catch 22 issue, if you're not verified most women wont even answer, but without meets you cant get verified." Go to a social or a club. You have Atlantis in Stoke not far from you and could be verified by several people in one evening. Go to the chat rooms and get verified by cam. Have you put up a meet request suggesting meeting for coffee or a drink? I've verified several new guys following a social. Check out meet requests and contact anyone local. Everyone on here started off with no verifications, so it's not that hard! Only contact people after reading their profile and you meet their criteria and be pleasant and non pushy. | |||
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"There is a catch 22 issue, if you're not verified most women wont even answer, but without meets you cant get verified. Go to a social or a club. You have Atlantis in Stoke not far from you and could be verified by several people in one evening. Go to the chat rooms and get verified by cam. Have you put up a meet request suggesting meeting for coffee or a drink? I've verified several new guys following a social. Check out meet requests and contact anyone local. Everyone on here started off with no verifications, so it's not that hard! Only contact people after reading their profile and you meet their criteria and be pleasant and non pushy. " This. ^ I managed a social meet on my first day here as a single guy. Coffee. Chat. Lots of laughs. Made a good friend, got verified. On this profile we went to a group social and got 4 verifications. We only created the profile 5 hours before the social. Winston | |||
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"There is a catch 22 issue, if you're not verified most women wont even answer, but without meets you cant get verified. Go to a social or a club. You have Atlantis in Stoke not far from you and could be verified by several people in one evening. Go to the chat rooms and get verified by cam. Have you put up a meet request suggesting meeting for coffee or a drink? I've verified several new guys following a social. Check out meet requests and contact anyone local. Everyone on here started off with no verifications, so it's not that hard! Only contact people after reading their profile and you meet their criteria and be pleasant and non pushy. This. ^ I managed a social meet on my first day here as a single guy. Coffee. Chat. Lots of laughs. Made a good friend, got verified. On this profile we went to a group social and got 4 verifications. We only created the profile 5 hours before the social. Winston" Where is the guffaw emoji!!!!!????? | |||
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"There is a catch 22 issue, if you're not verified most women wont even answer, but without meets you cant get verified." Get to a club on a Greedy Girls night mate and network. Don't go there expecting to play, but just meeting and chatting to fellow attendees will get you a verification or two. And if you're lucky, as I was with two gorgeous ladies one of whom I still see and play with at Jaydees, then you've hit the jackpot. | |||
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"There is a catch 22 issue, if you're not verified most women wont even answer, but without meets you cant get verified. Go to a social or a club. You have Atlantis in Stoke not far from you and could be verified by several people in one evening. Go to the chat rooms and get verified by cam. Have you put up a meet request suggesting meeting for coffee or a drink? I've verified several new guys following a social. Check out meet requests and contact anyone local. Everyone on here started off with no verifications, so it's not that hard! Only contact people after reading their profile and you meet their criteria and be pleasant and non pushy. This. ^ I managed a social meet on my first day here as a single guy. Coffee. Chat. Lots of laughs. Made a good friend, got verified. On this profile we went to a group social and got 4 verifications. We only created the profile 5 hours before the social. Winston Where is the guffaw emoji!!!!!?????" I use this one. Winston | |||
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"There is a catch 22 issue, if you're not verified most women wont even answer, but without meets you cant get verified." Go to a club or social. | |||
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"There is a catch 22 issue, if you're not verified most women wont even answer, but without meets you cant get verified." Most won't answer if you have a veri, it's not a magic wand. Getting a veri is easy though, just go to an organised social. | |||
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"There is a catch 22 issue, if you're not verified most women wont even answer, but without meets you cant get verified." Even if you are verified, many wont answer. That's just how it works. At least two thirds of the fab user base is single guys so the odds are not in favour and a verification is not a guaranteed way to get meets. You either catch someone's eye or you don't. The only thing you can do is take action to increase your chances. Go to social events and visit clubs. Honestly, I know it's going to vary around the country but ever since lockdown ended, we get more meets from socials and clubs than we do through Fab. | |||
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"Your profile says you’ve been on here before and been in the scene for several years. It seems odd that you can’t go to a club and meet people that may verify you or have a social with anyone willing to. " I was just about to say this | |||
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"Why don't you get your wife to give you a verification and in it explain that you give him permit ion to play!!! Or even meet together. " I thought this | |||
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"There is a catch 22 issue, if you're not verified most women wont even answer, but without meets you cant get verified." if you are a motor biker maybe another option is a pic dressed in leathers on your bike and asking for like minded bikers single biker ladies for a few social outings,,, | |||
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"Let me know if you find a solution, same issue here" Just do a thread search for profile advice, there's literally hundreds to choose from. Winston | |||
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"Just do a thread search for profile advice, there's literally hundreds to choose from. Winston " Probably 1000s by now | |||
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"Let me know if you find a solution, same issue here" What makes you believe that having no veris is the reason you can't get a meet? | |||
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"There is a catch 22 issue, if you're not verified most women wont even answer, but without meets you cant get verified." Question: if you started running out of oxygen and the level started dropping more, what would your focus be to the detriment of everything else? Would it create desperation? It’s not a good look. Especially in forum thread. I have a pair of cuff links that has Yoda saying, “do, or do not. There is no try”. | |||
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"For a start you've gotta account for how many messages a women gets from creepy accounts, or just people in general, verification is another thing that puts people at ease responding.. Or even opening a message, can't get a meet if you can't even get your message read.. " That's to do with poor profiles with rubbish photos or no text explaining about themselves. But attending a club , going to an organised social or chatting on cam does not even require a message...so " my messages aren't read" is not relevant. | |||
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"For a start you've gotta account for how many messages a women gets from creepy accounts, or just people in general, verification is another thing that puts people at ease responding.. Or even opening a message, can't get a meet if you can't even get your message read.. That's to do with poor profiles with rubbish photos or no text explaining about themselves. But attending a club , going to an organised social or chatting on cam does not even require a message...so " my messages aren't read" is not relevant. " Yes rubbish photos with no effort put into them and the same with a bio would be a no from me. | |||
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"Getting meets isn't always a guarantee for verifications either, no matter how well they go. Some single women on here are adverse to leaving any trace of their exploits for some reason." What bad luck to have two fantastic meets and neither will verify you. | |||
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"Why don't you get your wife to give you a verification and in it explain that you give him permit ion to play!!! Or even meet together. " Exactly this! The best veri ever For someone who has been on the scene for several years, I am surprised; a) you have to ask and; b) you haven’t got contacts to verify you already | |||
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