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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you still meet someone if they said ‘you’ll do’? Being a ‘consolatory prize’ is better than nothing? Is it not…?

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By *urvyKattWoman
over a year ago

Dumfriesshire

Definitely not, I want someone to want to meet me for me. Not just cos I tick a box or someone else has let them down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they said "you'll do nicely" instead we might!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While we aren't so pretentious that we expect to be chosen over lots of other people, if anyone used that expression in a crass way then a meet certainly would not be happening.

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By *orth_hantscplCouple
over a year ago

camberley

No, not for us. That’s nearly as bad as somebody using “you’re really close to me” as an initial chat up line.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Unmmmm thinking no

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

I’d rather sit at home and do my ironing to be honest. May not be top prize but I have plenty of self worth and don’t need to wait for scraps from someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! I would rather wank... And I hate having to do that!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Would you still meet someone if they said ‘you’ll do’? Being a ‘consolatory prize’ is better than nothing? Is it not…? "

I would and be grateful too. After all what more should I expect

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"No, not for us. That’s nearly as bad as somebody using “you’re really close to me” as an initial chat up line. "

This I get so many messages especially late at night saying something similar to ‘I’m parked up nearby, any chance of a blow job ?’

Obviously I get dressed up and invite him around immediately for my 5 minutes of pleasuring him

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i am forever grateful for any morsel of attention flung in my direction....in fact, simply a sneer, a grunt and a head flick in the direction of a bed and i am wetter than an otters pocket and ready to go.

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By *inkipleasure4uCouple
over a year ago

Farnborough

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By *arty84Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"Would you still meet someone if they said ‘you’ll do’? Being a ‘consolatory prize’ is better than nothing? Is it not…? "

Normally no, but given my current circumstances... I think I would lean towards yes. Don't judge me!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Is he hot?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not for me no,

I don't like to feel an option or I've been 2nd best.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Is he hot?"

The most important consideration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not !!! One big massive turn off for me

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Would you still meet someone if they said ‘you’ll do’? Being a ‘consolatory prize’ is better than nothing? Is it not…? "

"You'll do" is insulting and degrading to the individual.

How to lower someone's self-esteem why don't you, eh. NO! next....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not! I won't be anyone's consolation prize

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By *harlotteBigBoobsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

My god no its just like , im nearby wanna fuck ? or come suck me off ?

Im not desperate

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By *ev257Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I would be more than happy with a "you'll do" at my age.

And yes I am desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you still meet someone if they said ‘you’ll do’? Being a ‘consolatory prize’ is better than nothing? Is it not…? "

Hahaha

Booby prize

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Depends who said it about me !

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By *arty84Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"Would you still meet someone if they said ‘you’ll do’? Being a ‘consolatory prize’ is better than nothing? Is it not…?

Hahaha

Booby prize"

Ha! Noice!

I never quite got why anyone would say a booby prize wasn't anything good, when everyone likes boobies

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By *andlingswingersCouple
over a year ago

Woodbridge

It's the same as "oh, go on then," when you offer someone a drink. As if they imagine they're doing you a favour.

Had to disabuse staff of this notion before they were allowed out in public. And before we offered them any more drinks.

(For our younger readers and definitely for American ones: it used to be the practice that on Friday night any decent business used to buy drinks for the staff. An American once suggested the company would be liable if one of them wrapped their car around a tree on the way home. I thought my ribs would break from laughing).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no, I value myself more highly than that (not in an arrogant way, but I’m no second best)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I think it’s a matter of semantics.

For a fuckbuddy, the “you’ll do” mentality is the equivalent of “we both want something no strings attached, you’re local and convenient for me, so you’ll do”. So I wouldn’t be offended by it especially if I want it too. Unfortunately for some reason “you’ll do” doesn’t mean what it says; it has a connotation of “actually you’re not that great” attached to it. So I really do think it’s just words. Correct me if I’m talking BS, this is just my opinion!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

No

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We had one today, I've cut and paste this message, to give me good coverage, was the start. Instant block.

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By *harlotteBigBoobsWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Fuck no, I value myself more highly than that (not in an arrogant way, but I’m no second best)"

Too right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you still meet someone if they said ‘you’ll do’? Being a ‘consolatory prize’ is better than nothing? Is it not…?

Hahaha

Booby prize

Ha! Noice!

I never quite got why anyone would say a booby prize wasn't anything good, when everyone likes boobies "

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you still meet someone if they said ‘you’ll do’? Being a ‘consolatory prize’ is better than nothing? Is it not…? "

Sure. And I'd make that meet very very memorable as well and not in a good way

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By *irmHandedMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Absolutely not.

Might as well fuck a robot, for all the sexual connection it would bring.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

In a club once, a guy asked my friend if she was interested in fun. She said no, so he turned to me and said 'well if your friend will watch, you'll do'.

My decline wasn't as polite as my friends was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NoI wouldn't meet. I deserve better. Unless it's someone you've got to know them and it's said in jest and in context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am forever grateful for any morsel of attention flung in my direction....in fact, simply a sneer, a grunt and a head flick in the direction of a bed and i am wetter than an otters pocket and ready to go."

"wetter than an otter's pocket" fantastic phrase

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

The charmers!

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By *litstimulousMan
over a year ago

Swindon

It's the same as if you're starving at 3am and the only thing left in the vending machine is ready salted crisps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a woman I would say never don’t do it... you deserve better

However as I am a man with cuckold tendencies and loving nothing better than a woman telling or showing me men she would rather fuck than me it would be a yes!

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