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By *iveralandssklp OP Man
over a year ago

Turkey

How do I convince my wife that she is really sexy and gorgeous?

I keep telling her but she says I an biased.

She is very sexy and will do almost anything sexually.

I love her very much, but have trouble convincing her just how gorgeous and sexy she is.

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By *osta611Man
over a year ago

london

Hi , vey sexy what I would call a proper sexy woman x

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By *iveralandssklp OP Man
over a year ago

Turkey

Yes she is but the ptoblem I have is convincing her.

Thanks for your reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't make her feel what she doesn't feel and from experience, someone going on trying to convince me has the opposite effect. If she's not feeling it just now, allow her her own time to recharge her confidence. I find it hard sometimes, being older cause no matter what anyone says it's about how I feel not other folks opinions and I'm thinking your wife is maybe the same

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole

You won’t be able to convince her. How you feel about yourself comes from within you. She will only start to believe you when she thinks she is - sorry. My ex constantly told me I was sexy/gorgeous etc but I never agreed or believed him.

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By *iveralandssklp OP Man
over a year ago

Turkey

I forgot to mention that she has lost over 50kgs in weight and has gone from size 26 down to size 16.

I am so proud of what she has achieved and she looks fantastic now and is healthier and more active in her lifestyle

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By *iveralandssklp OP Man
over a year ago

Turkey

"You can't make her feel what she doesn't feel and from experience, someone going on trying to convince me has the opposite effect. If she's not feeling it just now, allow her her own time to recharge her confidence. I find it hard sometimes, being older cause no matter what anyone says it's about how I feel not other folks opinions and I'm thinking your wife is maybe the same

Thanks for your advice.

By the way I must say you look fantastic and would never have believed your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do I convince my wife that she is really sexy and gorgeous?

I keep telling her but she says I an biased.

She is very sexy and will do almost anything sexually.

I love her very much, but have trouble convincing her just how gorgeous and sexy she is. "

I'm having the exact same problem, except I'm the female and its the male who feels unattractive. Obviously I think he's hot!

Its a tricky one, I've no answer I'm afraid other than to keep showing/telling how you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I forgot to mention that she has lost over 50kgs in weight and has gone from size 26 down to size 16.

I am so proud of what she has achieved and she looks fantastic now and is healthier and more active in her lifestyle "

That is some achievement. She is a great looking woman and you both should be proud of her. Great looking body and one that deserves all the plaudits.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You probably won't change her mind.

Congratulations to her on achieving her weight loss

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

How about getting some bodoir photos done

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By *iveralandssklp OP Man
over a year ago

Turkey

"You probably won't change her mind.

Congratulations to her on achieving her weight loss

Thanks for your comments.

She knows that I am not doing it, so that she is up for meets.

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By *adbury girlWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

"You probably won't change her mind.

Congratulations to her on achieving her weight loss

Thanks for your comments.

She knows that I am not doing it, so that she is up for meets. "

Fantastic weight loss, well done I wish I had her will power

She may say she knows that but sub- consciously may think you are doing it for meets. As others have said it comes from within. I lost weight a few years ago (put it back on in lockdown!) and it was going to nights out with a nice dress on that made me feel sexier and improved my self worth so maybe that would help her with no thought of trying to look sexy just trying to generally feel good about herself. Not even sure if that makes sense - it does to me

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Try starting with any part of her that she does accept. She clearly has great legs so that might be a place to start.

It has to come from within. I understand her struggle as there are bits of me i will never see as attractive, so I have learnt to like other bits of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the best lessons I have learned is to be very thorough on the people we meet as it can take only one clumsy comment to damage my partners confidence. I try to make sure we only meet genuine admirers and not the anyone will do brigade.

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"How do I convince my wife that she is really sexy and gorgeous?

I keep telling her but she says I an biased.

She is very sexy and will do almost anything sexually.

I love her very much, but have trouble convincing her just how gorgeous and sexy she is. "
let her know I think she's extremely sexy

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By *inkyJamesMan
over a year ago

80020 Broomfield

"How do I convince my wife that she is really sexy and gorgeous?

I keep telling her but she says I an biased.

She is very sexy and will do almost anything sexually.

I love her very much, but have trouble convincing her just how gorgeous and sexy she is. "
let her know it's all about attitude and a strong sex drive which makes women the most sexy of all

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By *iveralandssklp OP Man
over a year ago

Turkey

"One of the best lessons I have learned is to be very thorough on the people we meet as it can take only one clumsy comment to damage my partners confidence. I try to make sure we only meet genuine admirers and not the anyone will do brigade. "

She only plays with my mate and his brother in law.

Both of them tell her how sexy she looks.

She has just had quite a lot of really sexy lingerie delivered today and looks amazing when she was trying it on. x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Sexiness and attractiveness is more an attitude thing IMO

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

How long have you crazy cats been together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sexy I’d fuck her and those tits are amazing x x

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By *iveralandssklp OP Man
over a year ago

Turkey

"How long have you crazy cats been together "

Been married 7 years but together for 20 years plus

Sexiest girl I have ever known

I am a really lucky man

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By *pace DoubtMan
over a year ago

Ilford

When I read "she says I'm biased" it made me think... well of course you are, and that's a positive. She got you, you adore her. Therefore she would be adorable to others too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do I convince my wife that she is really sexy and gorgeous?

I keep telling her but she says I an biased.

She is very sexy and will do almost anything sexually.

I love her very much, but have trouble convincing her just how gorgeous and sexy she is. "

I am truly not just saying this for effect - she is awesome - get her t read all the compliments here

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Probably not by starting threads titled unattractive wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her to get a load of tattoos, that seems to be the cure for mental anguish on this site

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By *olcockMan
over a year ago

Delph

She is desirable and lovely.

If you can't convince her,show her the replies.

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By *yes146Man
over a year ago

London / Bournemouth

Looks lovely in Red. X

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"Looks lovely in Red. X"
Tell her you love her with or without the weight and she will do the rest herself

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By *iveralandssklp OP Man
over a year ago

Turkey

"Looks lovely in Red. XTell her you love her with or without the weight and she will do the rest herself "

I never stop telling her that I love her so much and how lucky I am to have her as my wife

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By *iveralandssklp OP Man
over a year ago

Turkey

"Probably not by starting threads titled unattractive wife

If I headed it attractive wife No one would have looked at the thread x

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By *ikemilfloverMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"You won’t be able to convince her. How you feel about yourself comes from within you. She will only start to believe you when she thinks she is - sorry. My ex constantly told me I was sexy/gorgeous etc but I never agreed or believed him. "

That’s so true, always difficult to convince a woman when her mindset is elsewhere !

That said, you are a very attractive woman !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sexy

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

I am afraid that has to come from within, even the most beautiful woman think they are ugly ,And even some beautiful woman can be ugly on the inside .she has to try and build up her self confidence , just keep trying to reassure her

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By *iveralandssklp OP Man
over a year ago

Turkey

"I am afraid that has to come from within, even the most beautiful woman think they are ugly ,And even some beautiful woman can be ugly on the inside .she has to try and build up her self confidence , just keep trying to reassure her "

Thanks for your advice My wife has lost over 50kgs and gone from size 26 down to size 16 She looks fantastic and is sexier than ever.

Her loose skin is going to be removed soon and hopefully it will boost her confidence and she will see just how attractive she is.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"I forgot to mention that she has lost over 50kgs in weight and has gone from size 26 down to size 16.

I am so proud of what she has achieved and she looks fantastic now and is healthier and more active in her lifestyle

That is some achievement. She is a great looking woman and you both should be proud of her. Great looking body and one that deserves all the plaudits."
as someone who has been on here at all weights from a 28 to a size 10... I can tell you that it's hard to see yourself how others do

I've lost weight and yet still see myself as a size 28 * not saying you cant be sexy at that size btw.. just for me at times I don't feel it. Currently gone back up to a size 20/22 and no amount of telling me I'm sexy works.

Yet people that know me know that I dont normally worry... no matter my size. It comes from within

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By *iveittoher300Man
over a year ago

Southampton

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

I've got nothing to back up anything I'm about to stay or have any professional experience and I as far as I know havent been in your predicament.

Presumably you asked one or two close friends who know you both and in a good position to help you, or you thought asking for help from thousands of people who don't know you, being presented with tons of advice, some of it contradictory you will be able to analyse and come up with a plan. Saying she won't believe you because your biased is cop-out, is she needs help so do you,and I dont believe for one second that you'll take any advice anyway from here and put it into practice anyway because if you could that, you would have the sense to help her and know what to do and who to help. If I saw my partner put up a post like this any confidence or self esteem i had left would be shot to pieces that the person im with said something like 'she's willing do anything sexually' in the context of what your asking us for help with. Essentially what I'm saying is, and worth the tempoary forum ban I'm about to receive....your useless, and feel sorry this is the support she's got

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

"I forgot to mention that she has lost over 50kgs in weight and has gone from size 26 down to size 16.

I am so proud of what she has achieved and she looks fantastic now and is healthier and more active in her lifestyle

That is some achievement. She is a great looking woman and you both should be proud of her. Great looking body and one that deserves all the plaudits. as someone who has been on here at all weights from a 28 to a size 10... I can tell you that it's hard to see yourself how others do

Yet people that know me know that I dont normally worry... no matter my size. It comes from within "

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

"How do I convince my wife that she is really sexy and gorgeous?

I keep telling her but she says I an biased.

She is very sexy and will do almost anything sexually.

I love her very much, but have trouble convincing her just how gorgeous and sexy she is.

I'm having the exact same problem, except I'm the female and its the male who feels unattractive. Obviously I think he's hot!

Its a tricky one, I've no answer I'm afraid other than to keep showing/telling how you feel "

He looks a real hunk and you are a fine looking couple.

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
over a year ago

louth

Really confused as OP has a single guy profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really confused as OP has a single guy profile "

Because he meets alone, not with his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really confused as OP has a single guy profile

Because he meets alone, not with his wife."

Read the verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really confused as OP has a single guy profile

Because he meets alone, not with his wife.

Read the verifications"

Which are from 2016...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really confused as OP has a single guy profile

Because he meets alone, not with his wife.

Read the verifications

Which are from 2016..."

Exactly, and mention him meeting as a couple.

The thread was posted 42 weeks ago.

Anything could have happened between then and now.

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