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"Condoms taste so horrid. meh meh meh" Agreed for the standard issue variants. I personally wouldn’t want to give a blow job with a condom but if it really came to it, I would look for one of the flavoured varieties. | |||
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"I've received that way... It's not great. I mean it's better than NOT getting a blowjob...but not by much" Totally disagree I'd rather go with out | |||
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"I've received that way... It's not great. I mean it's better than NOT getting a blowjob...but not by much" In a previous thread on here, loads of guys said they’d prefer not have a bj at all rather than have one with a condom. In all honesty I’d probably rather not give one that give one with too but each to their own. | |||
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"I've received that way... It's not great. I mean it's better than NOT getting a blowjob...but not by much In a previous thread on here, loads of guys said they’d prefer not have a bj at all rather than have one with a condom. In all honesty I’d probably rather not give one that give one with too but each to their own." Oh don't get me wrong, it's never been at my insistence. And I suppose to be fair I've only ever had it where there were other incentives. FFMs where the playmate wants it and it's not worth giving up an otherwise good play session over something like that. I don't think in a straight one on one situation if the woman insisted on covered oral that id be back to play again let's put it that way | |||
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"May we ask what your reason is for considering this? Is it fear of std? If so your risk is so low, esp as the one getting the blowjob, its almost pointless. I'm even kind of offended on the odd occasion I've been asked to give head with a condom on and it's always a no from me if I'm honest x " This is very bad medical advice. Gonorrhoea and herpes are easily passed on via oral sex. It is also possible, though less likely to pass on chlamydia, HIV, hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C and warts. I don't like covered oral sex and would prefer not to have a BJ rather than use a condom but I do know the risk and am prepared to accept it. That risk assessment is based on the prevalence of the disease in the population not the ease of transmission. I think it is important correct information is given when discussing health matters. | |||
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"May we ask what your reason is for considering this? Is it fear of std? If so your risk is so low, esp as the one getting the blowjob, its almost pointless. I'm even kind of offended on the odd occasion I've been asked to give head with a condom on and it's always a no from me if I'm honest x This is very bad medical advice. Gonorrhoea and herpes are easily passed on via oral sex. It is also possible, though less likely to pass on chlamydia, HIV, hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C and warts. I don't like covered oral sex and would prefer not to have a BJ rather than use a condom but I do know the risk and am prepared to accept it. That risk assessment is based on the prevalence of the disease in the population not the ease of transmission. I think it is important correct information is given when discussing health matters. " Well Dave sweetheart I wasn't giving medical advice, just expressing my point of view, I take my sexual health very seriously actually, I've sucked a lot of cock over the years and there's never anything wrong my test results, like never! it's a lottery that you're more likely to win than lose in my experience. Its widely accepted that hiv is not really passed on orally either. | |||
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" Well Dave sweetheart I wasn't giving medical advice, just expressing my point of view, I take my sexual health very seriously actually, I've sucked a lot of cock over the years and there's never anything wrong my test results, like never! it's a lottery that you're more likely to win than lose in my experience. Its widely accepted that hiv is not really passed on orally either." Just because you haven't caught anything doesn't make it safe. Herpes is very contagious and can easily be transferred by oral sex, in either direction. | |||
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" Well Dave sweetheart I wasn't giving medical advice, just expressing my point of view, I take my sexual health very seriously actually, I've sucked a lot of cock over the years and there's never anything wrong my test results, like never! it's a lottery that you're more likely to win than lose in my experience. Its widely accepted that hiv is not really passed on orally either. Just because you haven't caught anything doesn't make it safe. Herpes is very contagious and can easily be transferred by oral sex, in either direction. " Oh Dave you're so sexy, keep talking ![]() | |||
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"Hiv definitely can be transmitted by oral sex,even though its a low risk, and syphilis easily passed on. If you have multiple partners the risk increases. Bit like Russian roulette, but in msm community its a lot higher risk alround. " I don't think it's quite like Russian roulette in which there is a 1 in 6 chance that you die! Not even close! The evidence of hiv being passed on through oral sex is limited to non existent. Y'all need to get over yourself and start living! Life without risk does not exist. | |||
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"Hiv definitely can be transmitted by oral sex,even though its a low risk, and syphilis easily passed on. If you have multiple partners the risk increases. Bit like Russian roulette, but in msm community its a lot higher risk alround. I don't think it's quite like Russian roulette in which there is a 1 in 6 chance that you die! Not even close! The evidence of hiv being passed on through oral sex is limited to non existent. Y'all need to get over yourself and start living! Life without risk does not exist. " hiv definitely can be passed on by oral sex. If a man cums in your mouth, and you have cuts or lesions it can, and does transmit. This is a documented fact. Yes it's lower risk, but it can enter your blood that way. And syphilis can easily pass orally, as it's highly contagious, and is making a big come back, via oral sex,in the msm community. | |||
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"May we ask what your reason is for considering this? Is it fear of std? If so your risk is so low, esp as the one getting the blowjob, its almost pointless. I'm even kind of offended on the odd occasion I've been asked to give head with a condom on and it's always a no from me if I'm honest x This is very bad medical advice. Gonorrhoea and herpes are easily passed on via oral sex. It is also possible, though less likely to pass on chlamydia, HIV, hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C and warts. I don't like covered oral sex and would prefer not to have a BJ rather than use a condom but I do know the risk and am prepared to accept it. That risk assessment is based on the prevalence of the disease in the population not the ease of transmission. I think it is important correct information is given when discussing health matters. " ![]() | |||
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"Ok so something I’ve never tried, but has anyone here had any experience giving/receiving oral with a condom on? If so how different does it feel to without? Just thinking of possible safe sex options" If someone were to convince me wearing a condom for a bj would actually be a genuinely pleasant experience, I would be happy to try it at least once ![]() | |||
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"Hiv definitely can be transmitted by oral sex,even though its a low risk, and syphilis easily passed on. If you have multiple partners the risk increases. Bit like Russian roulette, but in msm community its a lot higher risk alround. I don't think it's quite like Russian roulette in which there is a 1 in 6 chance that you die! Not even close! The evidence of hiv being passed on through oral sex is limited to non existent. Y'all need to get over yourself and start living! Life without risk does not exist. hiv definitely can be passed on by oral sex. If a man cums in your mouth, and you have cuts or lesions it can, and does transmit. This is a documented fact. Yes it's lower risk, but it can enter your blood that way. And syphilis can easily pass orally, as it's highly contagious, and is making a big come back, via oral sex,in the msm community. " Why would you be giving someone oral if you have cuts in your mouth??? | |||
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"Ok so something I’ve never tried, but has anyone here had any experience giving/receiving oral with a condom on? If so how different does it feel to without? Just thinking of possible safe sex options" I have only made my play partner do it - had a forced-bi session at a club so did not want to take any chances as it involved strangers. It was really fun, judging from his face he did not like it at all but I am sure he appreciated the precaution afterwards. I wonder if it depends on condoms. Hanx (if they still make them) distinguish themselves by neutral smell and taste for example. | |||
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" Well Dave sweetheart I wasn't giving medical advice, just expressing my point of view, I take my sexual health very seriously actually, I've sucked a lot of cock over the years and there's never anything wrong my test results, like never! it's a lottery that you're more likely to win than lose in my experience. Its widely accepted that hiv is not really passed on orally either. Just because you haven't caught anything doesn't make it safe. Herpes is very contagious and can easily be transferred by oral sex, in either direction. " This includes kissing if you really want the facts! | |||
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"Ok so something I’ve never tried, but has anyone here had any experience giving/receiving oral with a condom on? If so how different does it feel to without? Just thinking of possible safe sex options" I would rather masturbate than have oral with a condom. | |||
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"If a man cums in your mouth, and you have cuts or lesions it can, and does transmit." The answer to this is don't be doing oral sex if you have any such mouth problems, not demanding condoms. By the way, it's nonsense that MSM are more likely to catch STIs from oral sex than anyone else. As far as I'm concerned, oral sex is safe enough. We all have to make our own determination. | |||
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"May we ask what your reason is for considering this? Is it fear of std? If so your risk is so low, esp as the one getting the blowjob, its almost pointless. I'm even kind of offended on the odd occasion I've been asked to give head with a condom on and it's always a no from me if I'm honest x This is very bad medical advice. Gonorrhoea and herpes are easily passed on via oral sex. It is also possible, though less likely to pass on chlamydia, HIV, hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C and warts. I don't like covered oral sex and would prefer not to have a BJ rather than use a condom but I do know the risk and am prepared to accept it. That risk assessment is based on the prevalence of the disease in the population not the ease of transmission. I think it is important correct information is given when discussing health matters. " Yep people always assume you can't get stds via oral but you can. Not saying I'd do oral with however people giving speeches on safe sex but then having oral without are deluded. Especially if you pre cum a lot. I would never do oral with because I can't have latex in my mouth. But other than that the sensation is awful and I would personally rather use my hand. ![]() ![]() | |||
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