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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been here for a while but don't seem to be getting anywhere. Looking for some profile help from the more experienced out there.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where did you expect to get with the country in a state of lockdown for the last 4 months

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not expecting meets at the moment due to the circumstances, but even chat is limited.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here for a while but don't seem to be getting anywhere. Looking for some profile help from the more experienced out there....."

Profile is nice, are you sending messages and being seen on the forum and in chat rooms and going to munches (social meets) and swingers clubs. It doesn't just happen by itself for any of us. After lockdown that is...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not done socials due to COVID, and new to the forums, just a rookie and getting to grips with Fab lol - thanks.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" just a rookie and getting to grips with Fab "

But you have been here before !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah - unsuccessfully, never really got into it so gave up and left. Curiosity go the better of me so thought I'd give it another bash and try and stick it out this time.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

As you are looking for profile help, I would suggest not mentioning that you have been here before. Also a bit pointless saying you are 40 something when we can see your actual age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, makes sense.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

Your photos are all a bit samey, perhaps try taking a few more and mix them up a bit. But you text is the biggest issue. Many women will check out a profile in stealth mode before even opening a message. You really need to sell yourself here first.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Maybe take the time to write a profile? It doesn't say much really does it?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People have other priorities and people that they have been waiting to meet since before lockdown will be their focus, away from juggling care, kids, work, financial matters etc.y

Your profile doesn't say too much. It's the place that sells you and with competition from the thousands of other single men needs to make you more interesting than the others. Emphasise why you should be considrred. Have it reflect your attributes and with pics that allow people to imagine how you'd be if they met you in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you looking for a discreet fun?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Thanks, makes sense."

But you have not amended your text

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks, makes sense.

But you have not amended your text "

Oh - I have now....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are you looking for a discreet fun?"

I guess because I don't want the world knowing what I do in my private life.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think "fun" three times in one sentence is a bit excessive

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Where did you expect to get with the country in a state of lockdown for the last 4 months "

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By *FuckingDelightWoman
over a year ago

Sunny Bognor

A 2 line profile wouldn’t make me reply I’m afraid

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Hi guys could i have some feedback on my profile please would be great.

To be fair i do get responses to my messages and some interest but find it difficult to arrange meets, a lot say im not for them

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"Hi guys could i have some feedback on my profile please would be great.

To be fair i do get responses to my messages and some interest but find it difficult to arrange meets, a lot say im not for them "

Please start your own thread instead of hijacking this one. It makes things far simpler for all concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where did you expect to get with the country in a state of lockdown for the last 4 months "

Agree with this totally.

And also, one sentence does not make a profile.

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Sorry OP but on the strength of your profile I wouldn't reply, even for a bit of flirty banter.

It suggests a lack of effort and imagination, neither of which women are going to fall over themselves for.

I hope you take my feedback as constructive, it's not meant to be unkind

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Sorry OP but on the strength of your profile I wouldn't reply, even for a bit of flirty banter.

It suggests a lack of effort and imagination, neither of which women are going to fall over themselves for.

I hope you take my feedback as constructive, it's not meant to be unkind "

Exactly this and also I'm not adding anything as you don't seem to be listening anyway still a 2 lined profile no effort x

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