FabSwingers.com forum: Outdoor ettiqutte

By *onyMad123 OP Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

Ourselves and another couple that have been totally self isolated are potentially going for a drive to a nearby beauty spot.

We all have been clubs together and are really missing fun. In all honesty I'm a bit scared as love the security of a club, as much as we play as a group and enjoy being watched, are most outdoor watchers, if so happens, pretty respectful?

ie happy to just watch, I don't fancy the idea of pushy folk ruining our evening, any experienced outdoor persons give us an idea if this is possible as it's not just a free for all as you see on some vids, we want a fun time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bump........ we wouldn’t mind knowing ourselves

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

Unfortunately like society, in general, it can be hit and miss. Bets bet is to state your intentions and limits at the start. If you only want to be watched then tell anyone who approaches and don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want. Avoid busy locations with young lads in cars up to no good (unless that is your thing of course). Good luck and I hope you have a great time.

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

I forgot to add, in our experience Dodgers we have met have been amazing people from all sorts of backgrounds and most are delighted just to be able to watch.

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By *orkshirefucktruck3Man
over a year ago

rotherham

get in this truck lol u will be well safe

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By *onyMad123 OP Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

Actually went well all very respectful of our limits etc and think everyone enjoyed, would go again

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)

"Actually went well all very respectful of our limits etc and think everyone enjoyed, would go again

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i am glad it went well.

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By *ymruambythCouple
over a year ago

grantham

Yes just to echo for anyone else reading this, we found it quite daunting at first with a queue of cars following us around and suchlike, but found that parking up and letting the guys come over but then being friendly, chatty and explaining that we were just looking around for now meant we not only had a good natter with some interesting (and respectful) people, but we didn't get followed again which allowed us to explore properly.

Having been (years ago) on the dogging scene myself, I can safely say that its NOTHING like the 'take on all cummers' greedy-girl type 'dogging' videos you see on the porn sites. Most play is sporadic, often just exhibitionism rather than inviting involvement and most couples are fairly careful about making sure the situation is right, and the involved doggers usually uphold that balance.

Ok you sometimes do get someone who wants to take everyone on, but it's the exception not the rule

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By *onyMad123 OP Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

Yes we found it to be respectful and friendly just make your intentions known, no means no, I only had to say no thanks when one got to close and only played in our group of trusted persons what were with us, ps we had all been in personal lockdowns for weeks, all healthy anyone else was well over 2m away, it was 95% a social and 5% naughties, and looking forward to going again, something liberating about being in the woods sat having a drink, with bits and pieces on show, and just being generally social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes we found it to be respectful and friendly just make your intentions known, no means no, I only had to say no thanks when one got to close and only played in our group of trusted persons what were with us, ps we had all been in personal lockdowns for weeks, all healthy anyone else was well over 2m away, it was 95% a social and 5% naughties, and looking forward to going again, something liberating about being in the woods sat having a drink, with bits and pieces on show, and just being generally social "

We've been thinking the same thing wondering where to go as newbies.

We like the security of clubs and it'll be a while until they open we're ready for some fun after lockdown.

Where did you guys go ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do you go?

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By *onyMad123 OP Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

Other side of notts 2/3 well known areas, was just fun, we behaved more like we do in a club, it doesnt have to be like u see on the movies, but a goid spanking does kind of echo well in the woods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to go watch some outdoor fun but never know where to go

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By *onyMad123 OP Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

Google be your freind therebare there pretty notorious spots around 40 mins from us in woodlans areas, ensure you have the respect for nightfall to come as on our first non naughty drive we were a little early with dog walker's and families leaving the area, the police will check sometimes ensuring the ladies are not there under duress, that the gents behaving and the boy racers not doing drugs or other silly things, also have the respect to leave areas clean of litter, and any aquired waste and take it home with you. I just hope our next visit is as positive, we were lucky to take the plunge with people we knew from club times, we maybe are not what people used to and that's more of a show, and being watched than wanting more participants to our group, but it was fun.....

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