FabSwingers.com forum: Thoughts on strap on play.

By *hoenix Couple 666 OP Couple
over a year ago

Dewsbury

So let’s hear it. We’ve had abuse from 2 couples on here today calling the male GAY for liking strap on play. We are a femdom couple and that’s part of what we do. It doesn’t bother us in the slightest to what others think but figured we could have a discussion on the topic.

what are your thoughts and do you like it or want to try it?

Happy Fabbing people. Xx

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

People get too hung up on labels. Not every man is bi/gay if he likes anal x

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I wouldn't say a man who enjoys toys for anal play is gay or bi.

Unless he is playing with other men he is straight.

At the end of the day as long as someone is happy with what they are doing labels don't matter anyway.

When I first joined this site I thought people would be more open minded but find they are so judgemental and can be rather rude and nasty with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore them. Its simple. We all know what being homosexual means and it isn't what you describe.

Block and delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to recieve anal play I am not in anyway gay or attracted to men

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

I think it was George Michael that said whether you're bi or gay depends on who you fall in love with, not who you have sex with. My take on the subject is, if it feels good we're gonna do it. Labels are unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And so what if hubby IS bi or even gay, whys that a slur.

I suspect the root is a bit of jealousy that you both are comfortable enough in your own skins and with each other to be able to enjoy such fun.

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By *hoenix Couple 666 OP Couple
over a year ago

Dewsbury

Oh we definitely deleted and blocked them.

We know there are some good people on here as we’ve met a few but this lockdown seems to have brought peoples idiocy levels through the roof.

We don’t care for labels just can’t understand why they would add us and chat to us for nearly a week to come out with some s**t like that. Xx

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

I would say he just likes to have fun and open to new ideas

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Guess you can add us to the “enjoy” list. It’s all part of our fun. We don’t push anything on our play friends that isn’t discussed about before meet... hopefully people who are downright nasty about an option of play are the guys that get nothing from site and are blocked constantly. ...

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By *hoenix Couple 666 OP Couple
over a year ago

Dewsbury

"Guess you can add us to the “enjoy” list. It’s all part of our fun. We don’t push anything on our play friends that isn’t discussed about before meet... hopefully people who are downright nasty about an option of play are the guys that get nothing from site and are blocked constantly. ... "

Completely agree with that and omg them toys ok scary haha x

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

We enjoy it too. The nerve endings there are the same in everyone. I fucking love anal, I would never judge a guy for liking it too, and I really enjoy pegging the Mr.

And as someone else mentioned, why would be being gay or bi be a slur anyway?

Leave the small minded people to it, we'll be over here having some excellent bum fun!

C (her)

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By *eepminds67Couple
over a year ago

crewe

We love the thought of two strap on"s for three way pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love using my strapon on... I have learnt to ignore the stupid comments about it

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Completely agree with that and omg them toys ok scary haha x"
lol. Very much doubt anything we have would scare you two. ... tho most our bdsm stuff isn’t on show. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want too she doesn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a strap on and enjoy its use on the odd occasion

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By *ohn110474Man
over a year ago

harrogate

I would love to find a femdom to give my ass some pleasure and stretching. I absolutely love it

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

it's no more gay than a lesbian who likes a penis shaped dildo. It's just a part of your body. It's only gay if you actually want a cock in there and you are a man.

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By *xtra4funMan
over a year ago

Ashford

In my experience there’s a large number of men and women that enjoy this regularly or fantasise about it frequently.

I’ve enjoyed receiving a lot of anal stimulation during foreplay and sex without the pleasure of a strap on. This is definitely on my wish list still.

I do not have any desires to kiss cuddle or have a relationship with another man however I do have a fantasy that includes a woman with a strap on and another man who will both penetrate me whilst the other sucks me off. Hence the bi-curious tag. It’s about giving and receiving pleasure and having a great mentally and physically gratifying experience.

Not everyone will agree and I respect that we are all different and some feel more comfortable with defined boxes to put people in.

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Meeting a lady with a strap on is on my wish list for sure!!

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Tina fucked me up the arse just last night as it happens.

Doesn't add much to the conversation but just thought I'd share it.

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By *rinity666Man
over a year ago

Away for work abroad long term,

Im starting work this Saturday morning with a delicious tenderness due to my wife reaching under our bed to our "Sex box" and picking her Doc Johnson with middle size dildo. she took control.. she wanted to take me..we play dress up sometimes when she needs her Bi fix other times..she wants to fuck her man..Good on you Phoenix cpl..xx and all here who love strapon play..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think using Gay as a slur says a lot about them. Lucky escape for you guys. We are also fans of strap on.

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By *hoenix Couple 666 OP Couple
over a year ago

Dewsbury

Thank you so much guys and girls. So glad to see a friendly thread on here

like I said we blocked them and ignored them anyway but a little boost is sometimes needed on here as we are still new so a massive thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried it , enjoyed it with a very sexy lady especially as I got to do her ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So let’s hear it. We’ve had abuse from 2 couples on here today calling the male GAY for liking strap on play. We are a femdom couple and that’s part of what we do. It doesn’t bother us in the slightest to what others think but figured we could have a discussion on the topic.

what are your thoughts and do you like it or want to try it?

Happy Fabbing people. Xx"
is he bi though just out of interest?

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

It seems like an outdated and narrow minded view to assume that a man being pegged is automatically bi or gay.

For most guys I guess it's about the power dynamic and role reversal, I suppose this may be why it's still quite taboo for straight guys??

Oh and I find the idea of being pegged by a sexy lady quite hot

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By *effrey45Man
over a year ago

Lytham

I really enjoy and have been lucky enough to have been indulged by a few ladies - for two of them it really became their thing

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By *erb51Man
over a year ago

northants/

I would love to try it, I'm surprised they're on this site with out dated attitudes like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show me the toys lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love strapon play, but can never done a woman or couple

there’s nothing gay about it, just a bit different. Women take it in the ass so why can’t men ?

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS
over a year ago

secret bunker

I’d see strap one and toys as foreplay not replacing sex .. but then I’ve not tried yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really is quite weird that for somewhere that should be so sexually liberal we still find so many outdated, ill-educated or short sighted views.

Whether it’s to do with power dynamics & role reversal, or to do with what a “real straight man” would do.. it just seems short sighted and, well bigoted. I can see an argument about power dynamics, but don’t see them saying the same thing to people into bdsm, so I’m guessing it’s a more basic “men should take it” argument.. which to me seems to say “deny yourself a possible pleasure” - maybe that’s why they come across angry...

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By *eed a changeMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I Hate labels, and on a site like this wow. i think they might be stuggling with there own sexuality. Gay, bi, straight is such a poorly fabricated explanation of feelings. Honestly the amount of so called straight guys on here who message late at night begging for some cock, has convinced me there is no such thing a straight guys just a bigotted society.

By the way i love a good strap on meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being bi or gay is an attravtion to males but simply enjoying the pleasure of anal doesnt effect your sexuality at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to find a couple into anal play , and have some strap,on fun !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C has given it to me a few times now like a good cuck should accept

She loves to run her clit on my tailbone too

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

Im a straight man but i do like the idea of a woman using a strap on on me(a small one) i do like a finger there when my cocks being sucked

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By *ngman70Man
over a year ago

Between Christcrch and New Forest

Top of my list to discover and has nothing to do with sexual preferences

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I'd love to meet a woman who likes to strapon a guy. It's on my wish list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too have never had it but definitely want it at some point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got in to ass play with my ex, never progressed to pegging but definitely want to at some point.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

stockport

I use toys on my husband same as he uses toys on me (what’s good for the goose and all that) but anal play is something we only do with each other and not with others. We brought a strap on for us to try. I’m shit with one with no hip action (used one on a girlfriend once too and was rubbish then too!) so as it just brings laughter we always give up! But my husband isn’t gay, bi or bi curious it doesn’t mean we can’t enjoy each other, it’s nothing to do with being gay!!

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By *_am_biMan
over a year ago

Letchworth

Definitely enjoy. I live the idea of being pegged by her while sucking him, or DP’ing another girl alongside her strap on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm orally bi with couples

But would love to be pegged. I wont have a cock in my rear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If guys knew how good a prostate orgasm felt every guy would be getting pegged rimmed and fingerfucked .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being pegged by the opposite sex doesn't mean you're gay. Quite the opposite

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By *uriousandnaughtyCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Both enjoy the dynamic. Seeing each others state of arousal just heightens the pleasurable erotic sensation and intense orgasms for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So let’s hear it. We’ve had abuse from 2 couples on here today calling the male GAY for liking strap on play. We are a femdom couple and that’s part of what we do"

You guys have been in my hotlist since I joined; I am very jealous of your husband and your dynamic, for me you share something special.

Anyone that messages you slurs like the above is an idiot and very likely sexually insecure. You just keep doing what you love doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow OP, sounds like you have quite a healthy sexual lifestyle, most would be jealous over!

p.s try to avoid the bigoted, narrow minded, boring sex lives of some on here!

Enjoy my lovelies!!!

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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

I have pegged several (married) guys with my 7" vibrating strapon. They have all enjoyed the experience. Just saying

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By *egmelpoolMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"People get too hung up on labels. Not every man is bi/gay if he likes anal x"
I completely agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d definitely use the wrist strap, so many broken tv’s when the wii first came out...

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

"I wouldn't say a man who enjoys toys for anal play is gay or bi.

Unless he is playing with other men he is straight.

At the end of the day as long as someone is happy with what they are doing labels don't matter anyway.

When I first joined this site I thought people would be more open minded but find they are so judgemental and can be rather rude and nasty with it. "
what ever you’re both happy and comfortable with , but it doesn’t make him bi/ gay ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love pegging, both giving and receiving.

Luckily we’ve never come across any negativity. We’ve hosted meets where they’ve had no experience of strap on play and they’ve left us as very happy converts!

Miss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also enjoy it

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Strapon play, hell yes!!!

Attracted to men, fuck no!!!

Attracted to woman, absolutely!!

Attracted to sexy womanly tv/cd/ trans lady, absolutely!!

My Label is," She, they, the womanly beauty before me is stunning, sensual, sexual, delicious, desirable, yes please"....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive recently discovered anal play for myself i love it actually considered maybe i am bi or curious and i know im neither just enjoy playing.... thought about being pegged one day

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
over a year ago

Ealing

I’d love to try it - definitely something on my sexual bucket list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great for me

I don't care what anyone thinks

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By *istress B and BrookeCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We love it and do it as often as we can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

give a listen to ruby ryders pegging podcasts ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all pleasure and fun! As long as everyone is consenting and having fun, fuck the labels and enjoy yourself

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By *ilks123Man
over a year ago

wf1

I would love to try it, ignore the idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to try! I consider myself straight, it's who you're with, not what you're doing! This day and age, do we need labels? Ignore!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it done to me once while on a meet from here and it was amazing

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

"It’s all pleasure and fun! As long as everyone is consenting and having fun, fuck the labels and enjoy yourself

Abso-fucking-lutely

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

We’ve always and allllllllll ways enjoyed our strapon fun as profile and pix clearly show

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By *ornyboy189Man
over a year ago

cheshire

Love step on fun

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over a year ago

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

what are your thoughts and do you like it or want to try it?

Happy Fabbing people. Xx"

Just another wind up merchant getting his jollies in their own bizarre way lol

Most likely just jealous of the horny fun you guys are having

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By *hyrushMan
over a year ago

denham

Strap on fun is great and why do you have to be gay, bisexual or even curious to have a go, and quiet honestly does it matter. Couples make their own decisions who they play with and a bit of strap on fun is just great

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

what are your thoughts and do you like it or want to try it?

Happy Fabbing people. Xx"

I think that's awful you having abuse like that...everyone has their own like and dislikes ... I dont mind strap on fun . I've had good fun with Male and females but I'm not bi it's quite a turn on really..need to get a bigger one

Foxy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just the educated arseholes. I would literally love women to peg my little ass..Haha so any women 'up' for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what are your thoughts and do you like it or want to try it?

Happy Fabbing people. Xx

Foxy x"

I would say I am jealous, but have you swen the size of your strapon's lol... still wonder if women can persuade me to try or take it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what are your thoughts and do you like it or want to try it?

Happy Fabbing people. Xx"

Not gay. Pleasure is pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what are your thoughts and do you like it or want to try it?

Happy Fabbing people. Xx"

I am in no way bi or gay but love meme rimming and using her fingers and strap on with me

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By *anmanABCMan
over a year ago

milton Keynes

Would love to try it can someone help me out ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"still wonder if women can persuade me to try or take it..."
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LOL!!

Is that a necessary part of your fantasy then?, kind of like then you don't have to admit it's you that wants a cock on your ass?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm straight. Love a finger, or toy in my arse. Would love a strap on.

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By *acky RacersCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

We love it....as for the label fixers....they can get right royally fucked. Or not, with small minded attitudes like that....Perhaps people should tell them that this is a sex site. The WI also have a website that they may be more interested in....

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By *oney_Bee_xTV/TS
over a year ago

Teesside

I Absolutely Love Strap-On Fun. It is Absolute Bliss !!!!!

I’m not attracted to men either. I wouldn’t say it was Gay lol.

Plenty is straight Men love Strap-on fun too.

I wouldn’t care what anyone else says or thinks, so long as you are having fun and not harming anyone .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with getting all dressed up and letting a good women use your bum for their pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy anal play and had fun with women with toys but defo dont fancy or any interest in other bloles

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By *eevee69Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Yeah i like it a lot cant get enough of it really. X

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