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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys right my gf who i have been with for the last 7 years now we have 2 kids and had a very good sex life but last few years been kind of dry.my mrs was watching a program and she was like oo i would love to fuck him you could join in or watch ,with that it tunred me on the thought of this other guy fucking her and then me joining in double pen double vag and me sucking her clit while shes riding his big cock and then cleaning up the creampie from her pussy anyways back to it i said to her 4 days later after she said she would like to fuck him (the actor in the program) that i had a dream of of a mmf threesome and that guy was in it and we done all of the above plus more and she was like oo u dirty boy an that was it left at that. A few months go by and i mention another dream of a mmf threesome and she smiled and was like do u like guys i said no not really but it would turn me on seeing you getting fucked and me joining in on the fun as well and cleaning up she said them days are long gone. She dont feel comfortable with her current body as we had kids etc. But then i was on her phone and she was watching bbc cuck porn and lots of gay porn she also said would be a fantasys seeing me with another guy so i dunno what else really to do about it so any help or anything let me know thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you want the cock more than her

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

If she's not comfortable with it, then nothing.

Sometimes the idea of something is hotter than when it feels like it could be a reality. Sounds like you'd be pushing her towards something she's not comfortable doing in real life.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I think you are in the right place buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just talk to her properly and see what happens lay it all out and make sure your relationship is strong 1st

+ why are you on here as a single guy and not a couple maybe that would help

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

What would happen if she started then eventually loved it, and left OP behind?

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"Just talk to her properly and see what happens lay it all out and make sure your relationship is strong 1st

+ why are you on here as a single guy and not a couple maybe that would help "
I just read is profile and it says single guy are u sure the fantasy not yours as uve had meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To summarise...

Single, bisexual guy who has a girlfriend that wants to sleep with other boys but also doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may want to keep it simply as a fantasy, and not see it as something she actually wants to do xViv x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did try to read op with the aim to offer some advice but the complete lack of structure and punctuation in your post just hurt my eyes tbh. Good luck with it though x

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

pmsl ..... the bit where he wrote his missus said "oo you dirty boy" did anyone else read that bit in a Kenneth Williams voice ??? latest carry on film "carry on swinging"

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Just ask her outright if she would be interested in exploring her fantasies and go from there.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does she think of you being on fab presenting as single?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Chloroform usually works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does she think of you being on fab presenting as single?"

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does she think of you being on fab presenting as single?

My thoughts exactly "

He cannot accommodate. So I think she doesn't know..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like this is more your fantasy than hers. Also you being on here as a ‘single’ guy makes me not want to offer a decent response.

Hope she finds someone that won’t go behind her back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pmsl ..... the bit where he wrote his missus said "oo you dirty boy" did anyone else read that bit in a Kenneth Williams voice ??? latest carry on film "carry on swinging""

(Puts on Sid James laugh)

Wo hahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you want the cock more than her "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do nothing. She said no. Respect that.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Don’t push her on the issue just see how things pan out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to her and find some mutual threesome porn to watch, if you want to try being with another guy then buy some toys for yourself first. Also get talking to some guys with her and see if that fantasy can be a reality, no harm in trying anything at least once in your life, you will only regret never trying it

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

There is no her, he is a fantasist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use a dildo during sex, that should get her interested in a second penis.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok yea i see but shes the one who said about it an watching alot of bbc cuck porn i see on her phone

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Wrong forum mate, you want the stories section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few years ago I read a book I found online called How to Turn Your Partner Into a Swinger (or something like that - can't remember the author). Worked for us!

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

It’s good fun showing them this lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you want the cock more than her "

1000 percent !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok yea i see but shes the one who said about it an watching alot of bbc cuck porn i see on her phone "

And? She said no.

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

They all say no at first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They all say no at first "

‘At first’

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By *nicornholderWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

[Removed by poster at 04/05/20 08:44:13]

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By *nicornholderWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

So does your GF know that you have been joining in with other couples? and have been with guys, and also do the people you have been with know you are in a relationship as it says single on your profile? Can’t be doing with people who say they are single and they are not!

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By *edGMan
over a year ago

Daventry

suggest a porn cinema or swingers club on the proviso you don't necessarily expect anything to happen and it's ok either way.

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY


"Hey guys right my gf who i have been with for the last 7 years now we have 2 kids and had a very good sex life but last few years been kind of dry.my mrs was watching a program and she was like oo i would love to fuck him you could join in or watch ,with that it tunred me on the thought of this other guy fucking her and then me joining in double pen double vag and me sucking her clit while shes riding his big cock and then cleaning up the creampie from her pussy anyways back to it i said to her 4 days later after she said she would like to fuck him (the actor in the program) that i had a dream of of a mmf threesome and that guy was in it and we done all of the above plus more and she was like oo u dirty boy an that was it left at that. A few months go by and i mention another dream of a mmf threesome and she smiled and was like do u like guys i said no not really but it would turn me on seeing you getting fucked and me joining in on the fun as well and cleaning up she said them days are long gone. She dont feel comfortable with her current body as we had kids etc. But then i was on her phone and she was watching bbc cuck porn and lots of gay porn she also said would be a fantasys seeing me with another guy so i dunno what else really to do about it so any help or anything let me know thanks guys "

Suck the cock, you'll not regret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggest a club visit, go on a bi night and see how you get on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chloroform usually works "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does your GF know that you have been joining in with other couples? and have been with guys, and also do the people you have been with know you are in a relationship as it says single on your profile? Can’t be doing with people who say they are single and they are not! "

As your online atm any answers to these questions OP?

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Sounds to me like your gf has got you sussed and it is you that wants the cock.....

Fantasy is all very well, but sometimes it's best left that way..

Hope you both find what you want and always try and put gf and family first..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey mate it was her fantasy what has tunred into mine now. When i first got with her i asked for a mff threeesome and she said only if we have a mmf and i said no to it that was many years ago and now i wished i said yes. Lol

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By *RayMan
over a year ago

essex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So does your GF know that you have been joining in with other couples? and have been with guys, and also do the people you have been with know you are in a relationship as it says single on your profile? Can’t be doing with people who say they are single and they are not!

As your online atm any answers to these questions OP? "

Doubt it.

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By *erbyHotSwingCouple
over a year ago

Derby

You definitely want some cock lol.... if your in a relationship why are you presenting as single???

Immediate red flag for me to be fair.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always ask her if she wants to role play? Buy an extra dildo and pretend shes having fun with two men. The fantasy is different from the reality but if she/ you like it, you could talk about doing it for real - respecting her choices of course!

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London


"Use a dildo during sex, that should get her interested in a second penis."

Don't forget to give her a treat every time she touches it to reinforce positive behaviour

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"She dont feel comfortable with her current body as we had kids etc. "

Talk to her, and try to reassure her she's still attractive, and talk about what her worries would be in a threesome.

If that doesn't work, respect her wishes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok what u mean give her a treat what kind of treat?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks yea i am going to try tonight see if I can crack it

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ok what u mean give her a treat what kind of treat?"

I was not being serious. I was highlighting that the quoted post was acting like your gf was a dog to be trained.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much to read there. So what was the moral of the story?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe tell her about fab

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By *andlingswingersCouple
over a year ago

Woodbridge


"Too much to read there. So what was the moral of the story?"

Moral: Punctuation and proper sentences actually help. Who knew?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some right stuck up arrogant #unts on fab! The guy has come on asking for advice and all he gets is sarcasm and insults.

By the sounds of it buddy your mrs obviously likes the idea of exploring but is conscious of her appearance after having kids. Talk to her about it and be honest with each other thats what you need to be for this type of relationship to work. Also, she obviously likes porn, you guys could watch together and enjoy the fantasy and build from there..

Btw to everyone else on this thread there is nothing attractive in being a condescending smart arse!

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock


"Sounds like this is more your fantasy than hers. Also you being on here as a ‘single’ guy makes me not want to offer a decent response.

Hope she finds someone that won’t go behind her back. "

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Tell her how great the swinging life is... show her your verifications as proof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what I don’t get op has a gf and kids but does she know you meeting people or you doing it behind her back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all if you can watch some porn together as part of your sex play and you can focus in on what she likes watching. Never push it but gently ask what she likes watching. And after a while once she has become comfortable talking about her fantasies ask her if she would want to try some or all of it. You will probably need to reassure her that you are only asking to ensure she experiences things that will bring her enjoyment and you are not trying to catch her out. Its possible she is not confident that you would not be annoyed or consider it a sleight on your own performance. If she does want to try anything you should assure her thatvthe choice of partners would be hers and you wouldnt force her to meet anyone she didnt want to. You can suggest putting an advert on this site to test the water. The issue of body shape is often just a first line of objection because she feels she shouldnt admit to wanting to involve other people in your sex life. Dont take it as a no. Its actually a call for reasurance. You can easily show her photos of others on this site most of who are not supermodels but clearly have fun. This is an excellent site to show her that swinging is a very common and popular hobby and that thousands of couples similar to yourselves are enjoying themselves with other people.

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes


"If she's not comfortable with it, then nothing.

Sometimes the idea of something is hotter than when it feels like it could be a reality. Sounds like you'd be pushing her towards something she's not comfortable doing in real life."

What she said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok thanks yea i am going to try tonight see if I can crack it"

Are you still alive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you've got bisexual on your profile and shes watching gay porn. Just tell her you enjoy cock aswell best thing I ever did was tell my wife her answer was can I come and watch lol. Lasted about a minute before she got her knickers off and joined in ...

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