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"Please tell me how much more clarity i could put in my profile to say.. Im not gonna shag you just cos you asked... Its not instashag.. In fact new statis tonight.. " Your profile sets out what you want and are looking for... clearly. Do you think that some maybe reading it differently | |||
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"Please tell me how much more clarity i could put in my profile to say.. Im not gonna shag you just cos you asked... Its not instashag.. In fact new statis tonight.. " Don't mind these messages. Instant indication they're not for me and I am a big fan of the block button x | |||
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"Please tell me how much more clarity i could put in my profile to say.. Im not gonna shag you just cos you asked... Its not instashag.. In fact new statis tonight.. Your profile sets out what you want and are looking for... clearly. Do you think that some maybe reading it differently " I think most don't read permanently. Only look at pictures | |||
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"Please tell me how much more clarity i could put in my profile to say.. Im not gonna shag you just cos you asked... Its not instashag.. In fact new statis tonight.. " We've chatted on and off since you joined, never met, mostly due to you being busy and me not putting in any effort to meet anyone right now! If I do decide to meet on here again, I'd definitely up the bants with you to hopefully meet and hope that due to the way we've chatted and how I am on here, you'd be happy to, your profile is perfect, any genuine swinger and not just a chancer hoping for a quick shag will read it, follow it and he'll be the one worth chatting and meeting with, the rest just block, block, block | |||
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"I'd ditch the *INTERESTED IN MEN ONLY* guys are only seeing that " Its gone..lets see if it makes a difference. Think after a few (read many) vodkas last night, the instashag blokes just really got on my nerves x | |||
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"I'd ditch the *INTERESTED IN MEN ONLY* guys are only seeing that Its gone..lets see if it makes a difference. Think after a few (read many) vodkas last night, the instashag blokes just really got on my nerves x" Instashag... I am now copyrighting that for my new dating and hook up site | |||
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"I'd ditch the *INTERESTED IN MEN ONLY* guys are only seeing that Its gone..lets see if it makes a difference. Think after a few (read many) vodkas last night, the instashag blokes just really got on my nerves x Instashag... I am now copyrighting that for my new dating and hook up site " I stole it from someone in another thread so fill yer boots | |||
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"Delete and block the best way. At least you know when that happens you’ve no chance lol " Cannae get rid of you that way though can I pal... . Hehehehe You know me.. If it was real life.. Id not be backwards at coming forwards and saying p*ss off | |||
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"Delete and block the best way. At least you know when that happens you’ve no chance lol Cannae get rid of you that way though can I pal... . Hehehehe You know me.. If it was real life.. Id not be backwards at coming forwards and saying p*ss off " Oh I know you wouldn’t lol. Def just block tho saves your breath haha x | |||
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"Please tell me how much more clarity i could put in my profile to say.. Im not gonna shag you just cos you asked... Its not instashag.. In fact new statis tonight.. " Tbh it doesn't matter what we put in our profiles, so few people bother to read them. I could probably say I'm a human praying mantis who kills their partners after sex and I'd still get messages asking when I'm free | |||
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"Please tell me how much more clarity i could put in my profile to say.. Im not gonna shag you just cos you asked... Its not instashag.. In fact new statis tonight.. Tbh it doesn't matter what we put in our profiles, so few people bother to read them. I could probably say I'm a human praying mantis who kills their partners after sex and I'd still get messages asking when I'm free " Might try that line out for the laughs.. | |||
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"Please tell me how much more clarity i could put in my profile to say.. Im not gonna shag you just cos you asked... Its not instashag.. In fact new statis tonight.. Tbh it doesn't matter what we put in our profiles, so few people bother to read them. I could probably say I'm a human praying mantis who kills their partners after sex and I'd still get messages asking when I'm free Might try that line out for the laughs.. " Let us know how you get on | |||
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"This is an interesting post,the reason I say that is that so many women state quite clearly in the forum's that in actuality they check out a males profile before even thinking about opening the mail they have received from them. If you wish to do that...you can. If a male wants to send you mail...he can. We all can do what WE wish (to a degree)." It’s all about geometry | |||
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"Istashag seems a close cousin to cupasoup. You get a craving and it sounds like a great solution then realise is flavourless and full of zero goodness. " Hahaha this might be fabquoteoftheyear | |||
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"If not clear.. Please give me advoce folks" Its clear and concise but i never got a reply | |||
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"Istashag seems a close cousin to cupasoup. You get a craving and it sounds like a great solution then realise is flavourless and full of zero goodness. Hahaha this might be fabquoteoftheyear " Aw bless. Shame I typoed on the instashag ffs. Off to do my lines. | |||
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"I'd ditch the *INTERESTED IN MEN ONLY* guys are only seeing that Its gone..lets see if it makes a difference. Think after a few (read many) vodkas last night, the instashag blokes just really got on my nerves x" The polkadot doesnt work either lol | |||
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"Istashag seems a close cousin to cupasoup. You get a craving and it sounds like a great solution then realise is flavourless and full of zero goodness. Hahaha this might be fabquoteoftheyear Aw bless. Shame I typoed on the instashag ffs. Off to do my lines. " I totally read it ok... | |||
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"I'd ditch the *INTERESTED IN MEN ONLY* guys are only seeing that Its gone..lets see if it makes a difference. Think after a few (read many) vodkas last night, the instashag blokes just really got on my nerves x The polkadot doesnt work either lol " It all about joining the “dots” and not poking them so much. And only then when the angles and perspective is right and tied together with a good compounded noun. I spot a threesome around the corner. (Stephen Fry’s got nothing on me) | |||
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"If not clear.. Please give me advoce folks Its clear and concise but i never got a reply " Probably messaged me at an inappropriate time for me where i didnt have time to reply as i work A LOT and then got lost in among all the instashag messages. I try to respond whenever someone actually reads the profile but sometimes cant keep up | |||
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"If not clear.. Please give me advoce folks Its clear and concise but i never got a reply Probably messaged me at an inappropriate time for me where i didnt have time to reply as i work A LOT and then got lost in among all the instashag messages. I try to respond whenever someone actually reads the profile but sometimes cant keep up" Youve know need to explain why you havent replied to a message that youve received. Anyone that thinks they deserve a reply to their message is ludicrous. IMHO | |||
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"We have met you and know you are a very genuine person your profile is fine imo there is a lot of people on here that are here cus tinder takes 2 long to get a match and think they will get one faster here plus pics are better over here the block button is your best pal you may also want to up msg filters such as no pics or not verified blocked that kinda s out the newbies looking for fast hook up And I also agree with folks that have said about the clubs as you know it's much easier to meet and get to know ppl faster in that setting xxx" Thanks hun. Will deffo need to up my filters.. Especially at weekends when it tends to get worse. Hope the holiday is going well? Ps...just seen your snap from saturday last night lol | |||
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"Used it so much recently. I really should learn not to look on here at weekends late on.... Nope.. Im not desperate when out. Pretty much guarantee the banter or ive turned it down... Profiles quite clear.. Dont follow it.. Well not my issue ????" I have to agree, and also Insta Shag isnt for me, I like something with connection and some meaning x | |||
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"Please tell me how much more clarity i could put in my profile to say.. Im not gonna shag you just cos you asked... Its not instashag.. In fact new statis tonight.. " with all respect though no should mean no. i dont read profiles as too many people dont reply and get offensive messages from people that i havent read profile. when told no i am respectful and there should be a button that stops you from messaging person again or receiving message without having to use delete button | |||
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"We have met you and know you are a very genuine person your profile is fine imo there is a lot of people on here that are here cus tinder takes 2 long to get a match and think they will get one faster here plus pics are better over here the block button is your best pal you may also want to up msg filters such as no pics or not verified blocked that kinda s out the newbies looking for fast hook up And I also agree with folks that have said about the clubs as you know it's much easier to meet and get to know ppl faster in that setting xxx Thanks hun. Will deffo need to up my filters.. Especially at weekends when it tends to get worse. Hope the holiday is going well? Ps...just seen your snap from saturday last night lol " I'm dying hun like so knacked its unreal but kids having a blast unlike my bank account haha xx | |||
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"Please tell me how much more clarity i could put in my profile to say.. Im not gonna shag you just cos you asked... Its not instashag.. In fact new statis tonight.. with all respect though no should mean no. i dont read profiles as too many people dont reply and get offensive messages from people that i havent read profile. when told no i am respectful and there should be a button that stops you from messaging person again or receiving message without having to use delete button" Private notes option comes in handy. And it also shows on your profile if you've messaged them before and how long ago. Or block em | |||
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"Please tell me how much more clarity i could put in my profile to say.. Im not gonna shag you just cos you asked... Its not instashag.. In fact new statis tonight.. with all respect though no should mean no. i dont read profiles as too many people dont reply and get offensive messages from people that i havent read profile. when told no i am respectful and there should be a button that stops you from messaging person again or receiving message without having to use delete button Private notes option comes in handy. And it also shows on your profile if you've messaged them before and how long ago. Or block em " I actually need to start using the notes function to remember why i blocked some of them | |||
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"I’ve started using notes too. I never used to then would end up replying to someone I’d stopped messaging and forgetting why. Thing is, if any one is like me, what you want at any given moment can be wildly different to what you fancy then next time. It makes it very difficult I think for people who do send messages. I mean, I say I dislike one word messages or the “nice tits love” type message but at the same time I don’t want your life story, or some flowery romance novel describing how you intend to get into my knickers. It confuses me, never mind those who message me lol " Very true but of both sexes, yes we ladies might be confusing but so are the gentlemen... I think is called the attraction of opposites yet like attracts like... my personal favourite description of attraction is the moth and the flame... pretty light... ouch burny burny.... pretty light ... ouch burny burny... repeat | |||
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"Please tell me how much more clarity i could put in my profile to say.. Im not gonna shag you just cos you asked... Its not instashag.. In fact new statis tonight.. with all respect though no should mean no. i dont read profiles as too many people dont reply and get offensive messages from people that i havent read profile. when told no i am respectful and there should be a button that stops you from messaging person again or receiving message without having to use delete button Private notes option comes in handy. And it also shows on your profile if you've messaged them before and how long ago. Or block em I actually need to start using the notes function to remember why i blocked some of them" Mr uses this. If I'm in need of a laugh I read his comments. Pretty sure I'd be chained to the naughty step for life if they were ever published! | |||
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"Please tell me how much more clarity i could put in my profile to say.. Im not gonna shag you just cos you asked... Its not instashag.. In fact new statis tonight.. Your profile sets out what you want and are looking for... clearly. Do you think that some maybe reading it differently " You are presuming some can read!! Oohh harsh fifey!! I've used the block button 3 times today | |||
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"Please tell me how much more clarity i could put in my profile to say.. Im not gonna shag you just cos you asked... Its not instashag.. In fact new statis tonight.. Your profile sets out what you want and are looking for... clearly. Do you think that some maybe reading it differently You are presuming some can read!! Oohh harsh fifey!! I've used the block button 3 times today" Only the 3 ?? | |||
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"If not clear.. Please give me advoce folks" I’ve just had a quick look at you profile. It’s pretty long lol. In fact one of the longest I’ve seen in a while. You must also get bombarded and so frustrated at peoples nativity and ignorance, as there are a lot of instructions and specific criteria given. I’ve noticed myself that unfortunately, a lot of people don’t even read our profiles/instructions on what not to do. Some don’t take note of whether they meet the criteria we have specified on our profiles. They will just message regardless because they like the look of our photos unfortunately. I know some people who have stopped fighting this loosing battle, gone back to basics, shortened their profile, taken off the don’t’s (because they mostly get ignored anyway), and without pondering, just block the idiots after their first few messages. It seemed so much easier that way that I’ve tried to follow suit and just keep it simple and quick to read and most of all positive That’s just my 2nd opinion;) | |||
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"If not clear.. Please give me advoce folks I’ve just had a quick look at you profile. It’s pretty long lol. In fact one of the longest I’ve seen in a while. You must also get bombarded and so frustrated at peoples nativity and ignorance, as there are a lot of instructions and specific criteria given. I’ve noticed myself that unfortunately, a lot of people don’t even read our profiles/instructions on what not to do. Some don’t take note of whether they meet the criteria we have specified on our profiles. They will just message regardless because they like the look of our photos unfortunately. I know some people who have stopped fighting this loosing battle, gone back to basics, shortened their profile, taken off the don’t’s (because they mostly get ignored anyway), and without pondering, just block the idiots after their first few messages. It seemed so much easier that way that I’ve tried to follow suit and just keep it simple and quick to read and most of all positive That’s just my 2nd opinion;)" A well worded assessment | |||
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"If not clear.. Please give me advoce folks I’ve just had a quick look at you profile. It’s pretty long lol. In fact one of the longest I’ve seen in a while. You must also get bombarded and so frustrated at peoples nativity and ignorance, as there are a lot of instructions and specific criteria given. I’ve noticed myself that unfortunately, a lot of people don’t even read our profiles/instructions on what not to do. Some don’t take note of whether they meet the criteria we have specified on our profiles. They will just message regardless because they like the look of our photos unfortunately. I know some people who have stopped fighting this loosing battle, gone back to basics, shortened their profile, taken off the don’t’s (because they mostly get ignored anyway), and without pondering, just block the idiots after their first few messages. It seemed so much easier that way that I’ve tried to follow suit and just keep it simple and quick to read and most of all positive That’s just my 2nd opinion;)" Great advice. Essay profiles are off-putting, impossible to digest, often contradictory, and obviously not worth the effort to craft if you're *still* being carpet bombed by the ignorant. | |||
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"If not clear.. Please give me advoce folks I’ve just had a quick look at you profile. It’s pretty long lol. In fact one of the longest I’ve seen in a while. You must also get bombarded and so frustrated at peoples nativity and ignorance, as there are a lot of instructions and specific criteria given. I’ve noticed myself that unfortunately, a lot of people don’t even read our profiles/instructions on what not to do. Some don’t take note of whether they meet the criteria we have specified on our profiles. They will just message regardless because they like the look of our photos unfortunately. I know some people who have stopped fighting this loosing battle, gone back to basics, shortened their profile, taken off the don’t’s (because they mostly get ignored anyway), and without pondering, just block the idiots after their first few messages. It seemed so much easier that way that I’ve tried to follow suit and just keep it simple and quick to read and most of all positive That’s just my 2nd opinion;)" What ive actually learned is to hide my profile late on at weekends cos thats when most of the instashag comments come. And in the business im in.. I do tend to be on late. The important stuff is at the top of the profile.. If nobody reads that far then they aint for me anyway. Dont send a cock pick and dont expect to meet straightaway.. Oh and that im not actually meeting right now is a recent addition. Started to note why ive blocked folk as well after some issues. | |||
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"Please tell me how much more clarity i could put in my profile to say.. Im not gonna shag you just cos you asked... Its not instashag.. In fact new statis tonight.. " Youre on a swinging site for NSA sex with consenting adults just like the guy who sent you the message. Maybe you found the guys message offensive and inappropriate which i do get your point.However the guy is well within the rules of the site too ask you for a fuck. Fab has given you the options in how you would like to control your profile. Im a bit tired in hearing females and couples expressing "Read my profile ..Read my profile." Most guys will tell you they cant be arsed reading a list of demands,checklists and long storybooks of arrogance.In my experience profiles never entirely reflect what they seek anyway.But everyone is quick too say .."oh mine does." The delete and block button is there for you to use at your convenience. | |||
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"If a guy was to have written this the replies would be way diffrent this isn't to say this is what your doing but your asking folk to check your profile which can come across as a diva moment.all you can do on fab is find your own way nothing wrong with deleting and blocking intact I'd encourage it. " Ive learned just to hide my profile when im on here late after work at weekends..as i said up the comments a bit. When the "just joined an hour ago when theyve came in from the pub" types are rife. Working so far for me. Everyones here for different things and different reasons so we're entitled to have an opinion on what we want and if that comes across as divaish to you or anyone else then so be it... But im definitely the furthest thing from a Diva you could get. I just know what I want. | |||
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"If not clear.. Please give me advoce folks I’ve just had a quick look at you profile. It’s pretty long lol. In fact one of the longest I’ve seen in a while. You must also get bombarded and so frustrated at peoples nativity and ignorance, as there are a lot of instructions and specific criteria given. I’ve noticed myself that unfortunately, a lot of people don’t even read our profiles/instructions on what not to do. Some don’t take note of whether they meet the criteria we have specified on our profiles. They will just message regardless because they like the look of our photos unfortunately. I know some people who have stopped fighting this loosing battle, gone back to basics, shortened their profile, taken off the don’t’s (because they mostly get ignored anyway), and without pondering, just block the idiots after their first few messages. It seemed so much easier that way that I’ve tried to follow suit and just keep it simple and quick to read and most of all positive That’s just my 2nd opinion;) What ive actually learned is to hide my profile late on at weekends cos thats when most of the instashag comments come. And in the business im in.. I do tend to be on late. The important stuff is at the top of the profile.. If nobody reads that far then they aint for me anyway. Dont send a cock pick and dont expect to meet straightaway.. Oh and that im not actually meeting right now is a recent addition. Started to note why ive blocked folk as well after some issues. " Ha ha I thought it was odd I couldn’t see your profile till I read this bit. | |||
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