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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. " Because they aren’t very nice people, on the plus side it reassures you that the correct decision was made. I agree most people aren’t like that | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. " I have a theory that the usual suspects for this are those who themselves have self-esteem and body image issues, so they're trying to hurt you by going after something they know *they're* insecure about. If any of them actually stopped for a second to think about it, they'd realise how much of a shot in their own foot it is considering that not five minutes prior they'd been trying to get in about you. | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. " Because some people have problems with rejection. | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. " ...usually from men who haven't read your profile in the first place or they'd have known not to bother, and who then immediately block, presumably because they reckon they'll get a vile response in kind. If it helps, I just take it as validation my instincts were spot on. | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. " Some guys just can't take a polite knock back | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. " Do the right thing and block the idiot , pity you can't name and shame | |||
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"Do the right thing and block the idiot , pity you can't name and shame " I’m going to guess there are too many to name and shame. I think it is probably a common occurrence sadly. | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. " Probably because they are locked in a perpetual puberty, and can't grow up. | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. Because some people have problems with rejection. " Exactly this… | |||
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"I have a theory that the usual suspects for this are those who themselves have self-esteem and body image issues, so they're trying to hurt you by going after something they know *they're* insecure about. If any of them actually stopped for a second to think about it, they'd realise how much of a shot in their own foot it is considering that not five minutes prior they'd been trying to get in about you." ^^^ This is a good answer ^^^ | |||
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"And then they wonder why nobody wants to meet them! Then you get all the nice guys telling you that they're not like them... yeah, but THEY also said that so this is why we have our guard up, nice guy or not!!xx" Yeah, there's no point in *telling* anyone you're not like that; like you said, words are easy and everyone can use them. The only really reliable method of showing people you're not like that is just...not being like that. XD | |||
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"Personally never understood it. I'm wondering if it the "mars bar for coming last" generation. The people that are told they can be anything when in fact you wouldn't let them run a bath unsupervised. Just utter astronauts. I might start a service where if they insult you after a knock back, I get to go round and give them a high five. With a 2x4. In the face. All for the cost of 10 scottish pounds " So technically they will be getting some cosmetic surgery done for free, that might improve there chances of not getting knocked back in the future aswell.. It's a win win for all concerned | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. " Immaturity, bruised ego. | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. ...usually from men who haven't read your profile in the first place or they'd have known not to bother, and who then immediately block, presumably because they reckon they'll get a vile response in kind. If it helps, I just take it as validation my instincts were spot on." | |||
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"I always name & shame if I get uncalled for abuse,," Think your doing the right thing if they cant handke rejection probaly shouldnt be on here | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. " That's absolutely vile behaviour from them and I'm so sorry that's your experience. I'm having an absolute nightmare of a day today so might be something in the water as I'm only attracting the most toxic men on the site. | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. " Because you’ve probably dented their small dick energy ego? I wouldn’t entertain a profile I’m not interested in to start with, I don’t get why guys contact profiles they “don’t like the look of”. But then, I am very fussy who I play with whereas most guys on here will shag a fag burn in a fur coat. However, if for any reason things fall through and a meet doesn’t happen, depending on the reason I either just block and move on, or keep a pal. Don’t see the need for abuse etc, it’s hard enough on here without getting a bad rep. | |||
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"There is only so much rejection a man can take. I have gone through phases on here of spending multiple days off entirely devoted to finding a meet. Sending out loads of first messages with most not even being read. I consider a few messages back and forth a good result on here. I guess what I'm saying is not everyone is getting loads of fun but it's easier handing out the rejection that being rejected, time after time. " Where all grown ups if you cant handle being rejected probaly shouldnt be on here too be honest its part off everyday life never mind life on a swinging site thats probaly 75% male or more females and couples can afford to be picky if your not there type suck it up | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. Because you’ve probably dented their small dick energy ego? I wouldn’t entertain a profile I’m not interested in to start with, I don’t get why guys contact profiles they “don’t like the look of”. But then, I am very fussy who I play with whereas most guys on here will shag a fag burn in a fur coat. However, if for any reason things fall through and a meet doesn’t happen, depending on the reason I either just block and move on, or keep a pal. Don’t see the need for abuse etc, it’s hard enough on here without getting a bad rep. " A fag burn in a fur coat🤣🤣 | |||
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"I think some men think they are entitled to have sex with you because you are the on a sex site and obviously looking. Others it is a knee jerk reaction to rejection. Some males I know on here also think that as so many men to women. Women treat them not very nice as they get cocky. I personally feel bad saying no to someone but rather that than leading someone on thinking it is more than it is. I have made some very good male and female friends on fab and the large majority of men I have spoken to are very respectful just a minority who don’t know how to behave with a woman x" I think you hit the nail on the head with this 👌 | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. Because they aren’t very nice people, on the plus side it reassures you that the correct decision was made. I agree most people aren’t like that " This hits the nail on the head tbh?? Some guys just cant take rejection? Id say none of us like it, but theres a way to react and name callings just a little child that expects to get his own way. I just think quietly to myself 'ya cheeky bastard, how no? 🤣) reply with no problem, thank you. And go away in a rager. Ponder life, then come back. (Happens more than id like to admit) 😒 | |||
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"Totally agree with this. I'm new on here and just had my first knock back as I wasn't the ladies type. Fair enough, that's the way it goes, no need to be a dick. I was chuffed to just get a reply tbh, given all the females on here have about 200 messages a day in their inbox 🤣 " That's how I see it when I get a reply saying I'm not what they're looking for, too. It could just as easily have been left unread or on read with no reply, so I appreciate that they took the time to respond. | |||
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"Totally agree with this. I'm new on here and just had my first knock back as I wasn't the ladies type. Fair enough, that's the way it goes, no need to be a dick. I was chuffed to just get a reply tbh, given all the females on here have about 200 messages a day in their inbox 🤣 " You're very fortunate. The 'no tails' get inundated as you know and I don't see it as rude if they don't reply to a message regardless of how much effort I put in. Aside from yesterday where I messaged a lazy one liner (and actually I got a nice response) I can't remember the last time I messaged first. But you get out what you put in I guess. | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. " • PM me and I shall give you an example of a gentlemanly knock-back. 🌿🌿 | |||
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"Recently I got: "Thank F you deleted my message last night. I've sobered up now and you're not all that anyway" It's a primitive reaction to their ego being challenged." It's funny how you're always attractive enough to send a message to until they don't get the result they wanted from it. | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. " I don't think it's gender specific, most people are cnuts! | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. I don't think it's gender specific, most people are cnuts! " Society has changed not for the better the worlds full of stupid cunts haha.cunts a great word you can be the worst cunt,a bad cunt, a great cunt,the best cunt,a good cunt only in scotland 🏴 | |||
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"Because they are talking with their keyboards and oxygen to brain function is used up by typing. " Not to mention the blood supply is probably somewhat diverted at the time, too. | |||
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"Because they are talking with their keyboards and oxygen to brain function is used up by typing. " The point is its not all guys that get angry when they get a KB its the ones that were brought up getting everything they wanted i was working for my money fae i was 12 and seen folk i grew up with and im not talking off rich parents but instead of time spent with kids they'd pay them too fuck off spoilt cunts never learned fron the school off hard knocks | |||
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"Hey all. I have a genuine question I’d like an answer to please Why, when a guy is knocked back - they reply with something vulgar like ‘you’re a fat cunt anyways’. I KNOW not all guys before someone calls the pc police. " At least you’re nice enough to knock back. Not been knocked back yet. Asked for a face pic then once I’ve sent it been instantly blocked. That can get quite demoralising and makes you think twice about even messaging in the first place | |||
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"Just received just now … I rest my case. From gfshared Them - Hi hun would you be interested in a night with us Me- Got any pics that aren’t screenshots? 55 minutes ago Them - You got any pictures of when your were slim? 4 minutes ago Save" Just fucking disgusting really. | |||
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"Just received just now … I rest my case. From gfshared Them - Hi hun would you be interested in a night with us Me- Got any pics that aren’t screenshots? 55 minutes ago Them - You got any pictures of when your were slim? 4 minutes ago Save" What an absolute shower of fannies. | |||
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"It's easy to slam guys when you have zero idea of there reasoning I think it says more the amount of white knights who jump at the chance to prove their integrity by downing another guy. Isn't it strange how guys attempt to knock other guys down while woman would build another female up well at least publicly " It's not knocking guys down to acknowledge their replies are disgusting when they are. Why would you build up someone who would send abuse back when being told they're not what someone is looking for? | |||
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"It's easy to slam guys when you have zero idea of there reasoning I think it says more the amount of white knights who jump at the chance to prove their integrity by downing another guy. Isn't it strange how guys attempt to knock other guys down while woman would build another female up well at least publicly It's not knocking guys down to acknowledge their replies are disgusting when they are. Why would you build up someone who would send abuse back when being told they're not what someone is looking for?" how do you know what's going on? Perhaps he was lead up the garden path in previous msgs perhaps there was vile msgs to him beforehand (op this is not a dig at yourself). | |||
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"It's easy to slam guys when you have zero idea of there reasoning I think it says more the amount of white knights who jump at the chance to prove their integrity by downing another guy. Isn't it strange how guys attempt to knock other guys down while woman would build another female up well at least publicly It's not knocking guys down to acknowledge their replies are disgusting when they are. Why would you build up someone who would send abuse back when being told they're not what someone is looking for?how do you know what's going on? Perhaps he was lead up the garden path in previous msgs perhaps there was vile msgs to him beforehand (op this is not a dig at yourself). " Okay, but "being led up the garden path" isn't a justification for sending abuse to someone. If they're sending you vile messages, you should just block them. There's never a good reason to tell someone they're "a fat cunt anyway" or ask them if they have pictures from when they were thin. It doesn't address any previous abuse that might have been sent, it just compounds it. | |||
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"The point is whightknighting with minimal information" It's not white knighting, though. There is no additional information that would retroactively make having sent an abusive message okay or logical. I'm saying this because it's my actual, real opinion on the subject. :P | |||
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