FabSwingers.com forum: Thinking of organising a social for Indian cpls only

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thinking of organising a social evening for verified Indian cpls in Midlands

Intially it will be only for cpls and if the interest rises may include singles too .

Would that be interesting?

Any takers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Il keep an eye out for when singles are allowed.

Not enough south Asian events going on so good thinking OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Il keep an eye out for when singles are allowed.

Not enough south Asian events going on so good thinking OP"

Always felt like Asians need to start their own events lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of us have, but you get the credit for actually doing something about it. Don’t forget us single guys lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

Hopefully we get some genuine response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to join if singles are added. Nothing beats a dsi get-together!

Btw lovely pics FabIndians

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By *ighbank63Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

Love a naughty Indian Princess

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By *ubicon MangoMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Interested...my ex and me in another profile use to organise these...more than happy to help out and advise.

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By *anny_jMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

If u need a single guy I'm here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a single female would love to come, totally agree not enough planned for Asians

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If only we can get some interest from more cpls and women .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed

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By *one swap cplCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hi we would deffo be interested x

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

Thinking of organising a social for Indian cpls only. isn,t that a bit racist?. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thinking of organising a social for Indian cpls only. isn,t that a bit racist?. x

Lol , you are free to assume whatever you want .

And let's not digress the topic to racism and bullshit .

Anyone is free to organise anything or to meet anyone .

Don't think too much hun, relax

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

I did a search seems theres not many about, couples or Single Fems but good luck with that innovative idea.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Thinking of organising a social for Indian cpls only. isn,t that a bit racist?. x

Thinking that. If we posted something like that we'd be bombarded, not that we would as we don't have a racist bone in our body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking of organising a social for Indian cpls only. isn,t that a bit racist?. x

Thinking that. If we posted something like that we'd be bombarded, not that we would as we don't have a racist bone in our body.

Lol....what?!

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Thinking of organising a social for Indian cpls only. isn,t that a bit racist?. x

Thinking that. If we posted something like that we'd be bombarded, not that we would as we don't have a racist bone in our body.

Lol....what?!"

Can you imagine. Organised social, white British only...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

???? There are lots of white only events happening. Normal people don't care. It's preferences. Give it a rest will you lol

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"???? There are lots of white only events happening. Normal people don't care. It's preferences. Give it a rest will you lol"

There a lot of people campaigned to stamp this our over the years

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Makes us sad and angry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes us sad and angry

Stop complaining. You can easily have another white only event if one doesn't come to fruition.

An Indian only event is not common & hard to organise.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Makes us sad and angry

Stop complaining. You can easily have another white only event if one doesn't come to fruition.

An Indian only event is not common & hard to organise."

Would never do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway, FabIndians, hope you guys can get something happening, even if no singles are allowed

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By *exPeopleCouple
over a year ago

near Rushden Lakes

So Indian couples and females only? How about mixed couples, such as Indian female/white English male?

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By *xotic guyMan
over a year ago

west midlands

There’s underhanded racism everywhere in this world and you guys are just being part of the problem, just be clever about it. Me personally I see the person and not bothered about the colour, only people who have a few brain cells missing see the colour first and panic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's not the colour, but the culture? Ever crossed your mind?

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By *xotic guyMan
over a year ago

west midlands

"Maybe it's not the colour, but the culture? Ever crossed your mind?"

I’m sure people do mix and match colour and culture don’t you think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thinking of organising a social for Indian cpls only. isn,t that a bit racist?. x

Thinking that. If we posted something like that we'd be bombarded, not that we would as we don't have a racist bone in our body.

Lol

Relax guys , just take it as a preference . simple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So Indian couples and females only? How about mixed couples, such as Indian female/white English male?"

Can do yeah .lol

We just thought of it so more Asian cpls come forward

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

I'd probably suggest doing a party for those interested in meeting Indian couples/women. Like a bbw party.

If you say Indian people only that's kind of segregating a group of people who would probably be interested in the event.

Whoever posted there are Caucasian only events I have not seen any but if there were they would be accused of racism so why isn't this the same? Just playing devil's advocate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You do have BBC parties or HWC parties

This is just a social with ppl who share common language, culture ,food, music . It's easy to get along.

It anyone assumes as it's racist then they should clean their heads .

Just think as a preference .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe it's not the colour, but the culture? Ever crossed your mind?"

Thanks.

When ppl write no Asian guys , they justify it by saying it's preference lol but they can't take a Asian only social . Ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anyway, FabIndians, hope you guys can get something happening, even if no singles are allowed

First lets get some interest from cpls, singles may also be included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd probably suggest doing a party for those interested in meeting Indian couples/women. Like a bbw party.

If you say Indian people only that's kind of segregating a group of people who would probably be interested in the event.

Whoever posted there are Caucasian only events I have not seen any but if there were they would be accused of racism so why isn't this the same? Just playing devil's advocate. "

Last time I'm gonna mention this. Getting away from the topic.... but look, white only events happen, they're just not advertised as "white only" because the organisers can pick & choose who they find suitable from many people that show interest, which given the demographics of the population, will be mostly white people.

The OP is stating "Indian Couples Only", because it's difficult to gain the interest of their target audience simply by saying "couples only" then sifting through hundreds of couples that aren't targeted for this specific event.

Oh, and that thing called "preference" too!

I hate all people that cry "racism" when it comes to preference. If I see a fellow South Asian guy complaining that a white woman doesn't want Indians, I think he's overreacting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't you just go to regular socials like everyone else ? You cant really complain then if people write on their profiles no Asians ,when you segregate this way .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why can't you just go to regular socials like everyone else ? You cant really complain then if people write on their profiles no Asians ,when you segregate this way . "

"This is just a social with ppl who share common language, culture ,food, music . It's easy to get along.

It anyone assumes as it's racist then they should clean their heads .

Just think as a preference ."

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Burnley

Why not just call it an Asian social for Asians and admirers. Allow non Asians to come to who want to learn more about you food, your culture, and your music. We should be breaking down barriers, not building them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why not just call it an Asian social for Asians and admirers. Allow non Asians to come to who want to learn more about you food, your culture, and your music. We should be breaking down barriers, not building them. "

Lol ,that's not the point of Asian social at all. It's meant for Asians to vibe along another Asian cpls .

Can organise another for non Asians to taste our food and music

some other day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why can't you just go to regular socials like everyone else ? You cant really complain then if people write on their profiles no Asians ,when you segregate this way . "

Hahahaha just assume that it's all about preference, and forget about it.

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By *xotic guyMan
over a year ago

west midlands

Well said mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please count me In ,,,,we should have separate social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello OP, please count me in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

Wonder how this pans out?

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By *tevieg88Man
over a year ago

coventry

If this is still going ahead and not sidetracked by the random talk I would like to help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it racist, it's is having sex after all and that's a very personal thing. It's not racist to choose who you meet sleep or play with,good luck hope you all have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The actual fuck am I reading lol?

People all have preferences. If people want to host just asians who are you to tell them otherwise?

People attend the bbw, and people attend bbcs, but guess what people might not like bbw or bbcs lol. They might just like asian people instead?

Non of this deviding people apart nonsense. If they want to host just for asians. Fucking let them lol.

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

I wish you guys all the best after all many go like this....im not into blacks or asians im not racist its just my preferrence....so go on guys its just your preferrence too

All the best enjoy it all x peace

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By *aj 123Man
over a year ago

ilford

Im interested if single men are allowed.

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By *assage_noirMan
over a year ago

1The Angel

I am black, newsflash but in response to those who think it's racist. So what happen to the many meets that says no blacks or Asians.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"I am black, newsflash but in response to those who think it's racist. So what happen to the many meets that says no blacks or Asians."

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By *abyjane555Couple
over a year ago

north west

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

"I am black, newsflash but in response to those who think it's racist. So what happen to the many meets that says no blacks or Asians."

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

"I am black, newsflash but in response to those who think it's racist. So what happen to the many meets that says no blacks or Asians.

Totally agree there is no place in society for racism. Only thing is this is not a meet where preference is key, its a social in a public forum. I remember a sign that used to be put in hotel windows back in the 60's as a preference to the customers they looked for. I can't even bring myself to repeating what it said 'NO BL###S, NO IR##H, NO D#G#. its was only a preference. So angry and disgusted this is still happening in society today. "
....i hear u but u got to understand that Asians in general do not play with black folks and i mean "in general" which is a reality that does'nt bother me tbh call it racist or prefference i really dont care im encouraging them with this coz alot of profiles say no asians but prefer blacks and many asian profiles say whites not into blacks(their preferrence)so do many white folks so if they choose it stick to their thats perfectly fine .

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

appreciate all people ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We don't think Asians or Indians only social will ever be a reality .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't think Asians or Indians only social will ever be a reality ."

It can be a reality, some people are fucking indenial. You want to organise a social event for Asian people only carry on. Do what makes you happy. Stop listening to others bullshit and nonsense

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We don't think Asians or Indians only social will ever be a reality .

It can be a reality, some people are fucking indenial. You want to organise a social event for Asian people only carry on. Do what makes you happy. Stop listening to others bullshit and nonsense "

But they should show some interest to start with .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What interests do you need? I'm pretty sure you both can organise one. Plenty of followers on here to help out.

I mean if you need a bartender I'm your guy lol.

Plus I like entertaining, fun to be around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit the bed

Seems we Indians/ Asians always get people’s backs up

How dare we state a preference, how dare we try and engage in the scene, how dare we ..... blah blah blah

I hope your social goes ahead, I’m whatever form you see fit, but please don’t give in to moaners

Whatever you do, somebody’s nose will always be put out, so enjoy yourselves and let the others ‘peek’ over fence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be interested could bring my partner too

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By *he Naughty PainterMan
over a year ago

Hitchin

I’d be interested if single Indian/Asian guys were invited.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We prefer Asian and black guys, it's our choice just like it's the ops choice to have a party with whomever they choose. Get a life and let them enjoy theirs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We prefer Asian and black guys, it's our choice just like it's the ops choice to have a party with whomever they choose. Get a life and let them enjoy theirs. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Power to you !!!

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

I'm in. I'll bring two beautiful asian girls

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Thinking of organising a social for Indian cpls only. isn,t that a bit racist?. x

Their social, their preferences. A lot of socials dont allow single males, is that sexist? Good luck OP's. X

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By *typical guyMan
over a year ago

wigan

Good luck arranging the social, hope you can make it happen.

Im not offended at all about not being able to attend, same as for bbc, lesbian or couples events. They are simply for certain demographics which i am not part of.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Good luck arranging the social, hope you can make it happen.

Im not offended at all about not being able to attend, same as for bbc, lesbian or couples events. They are simply for certain demographics which i am not part of.

Nicely put

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By *eedsasiansCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Count us in if and when u do .

Give it a desi theme or Bollywood theme that will be good

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By *eedsasiansCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I'm in. I'll bring two beautiful asian girls

Says the man with 1 verification from another guy .

Where u gonna get 2 asian women from u struggling to get 1

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm in. I'll bring two beautiful asian girls

Says the man with 1 verification from another guy .

Where u gonna get 2 asian women from u struggling to get 1"

Maybe he has Asian female friends either on or off fab? No need for negative comments really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Count us in if and when u do .

Give it a desi theme or Bollywood theme that will be good"

Thanks but need Asian cpls to come out more , too much hesitancy here lol

Trying to form a KIK group too .

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By *exPeopleCouple
over a year ago

near Rushden Lakes

Well we’re interested if you open it up to mixed race...

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By *abbrowneyesMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Interested if singles involved

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By *ce cream and custardCouple
over a year ago

Droitwich

I have never ever seen a white only event . Fab for one would not except it. We feel if colour or anything like that has no place in swinging and Not many are Indian I would like to feel they are British as most we know were born in the UK as were most of there parents. Such a shame to see this . But I hope you have a fantastic night xx

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By *ce cream and custardCouple
over a year ago

Droitwich

please read our profile ok we dont do people from mars . But its the one thing thats makes us sad are the people who put no blacks or asians. No place for it .

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By *eicestermale1Man
over a year ago

leicester

Love to come along single Male ...

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"Thinking of organising a social for Indian cpls only. isn,t that a bit racist?. x

Lol , you are free to assume whatever you want .

And let's not digress the topic to racism and bullshit .

Anyone is free to organise anything or to meet anyone .

Don't think too much hun, relax

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Thinking of organising a social evening for verified Indian cpls in Midlands

Intially it will be only for cpls and if the interest rises may include singles too .

Would that be interesting?

Any takers ?"

It's very sad that threads like this get taken over by the pathetic 'it's racist' brigade.

Look if you want to organise a social for like minded people then go ahead. Your social, your rules. At no point has the OP said they hate individuals from other races, so get a grip! If you want to only include one legged, bisexual green people who speak russian then that is your choice. To anyone who has an issue - organise your own social, but let's not knock the OP for trying to arrange something that will benefit others.

Hope you get enough interest OP. Ignore the haters. They can't help themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You do have BBC parties or HWC parties

This is just a social with ppl who share common language, culture ,food, music . It's easy to get along.

It anyone assumes as it's racist then they should clean their heads .

Just think as a preference .

Exactly this

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By *ogamuffinMan
over a year ago

slough

As an Indian Male I fully support the idea.

A Bollywood desi theme night, to meet and mingle with fellow Asians.

A few kik groups already exist. Please add me, contact details on my profile

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By *are2bedifferentCouple
over a year ago

birstall

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By *tevieg88Man
over a year ago

coventry

Bollywood swingers night? Open to all but obvs targets certain individuals who love that sort of music.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - good luck with organising the event and taking initiative. These type of gatherings have been occurring in London for years and we have fond memories of desi parties in 2013 and 2014. Although we have formed some great real world friendships from these parties, the swinging aspect is sometimes a headache. We find swinging perhaps easier in a more cosmopolitan environment without the desi drama!

For those who are insinuating that this is racist then please give your views more thought. If Ab Fabs had a BBW or whites only event or a party organiser such as Black Man Fan Clubs then the point maybe stronger as they are profit driven events. For the record, I’m aware that black man fan club are quite responsible and state that the events are aimed for those who like black males but don’t ban others races. Nevertheless clubs and party organisers can and do stop certain people from attending but the reasons given may not always be honest. People of a certain body shape or perceived as not being handsome maybe prohibited from these for profit parties and club nights.

In the scenario for what the OP has posted, then they wish to have a gathering of south Asian folk in a private venue, which will be for socialising and possibly sex. I am sure that there is no appetite to make a profit. How is this any different to a mother and baby coffee morning, park run for OAPS, German language speaking coffee morning, retired military veterans dinners etc?!

We are south Asian ourselves and attend all manners of club nights and parties with all types of people in attendance. If we went to a South Asian focused one then why not? It is a private social invitation and we may see it as culturally enriching or nostalgic. It doesn’t mean we won’t meet non south Asians though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also

I’ve got a British mate who has been working in New York for the last decade. He’s part of a British ex pat movement for Liverpool football fans who meet in various NYC bars to watch game live. It gives my buddy a sense of community by being part of this group and that doesn’t mean he dislikes other team supporters. It’s just one of communities he’s part of including foody communities he has joined in New York.

Man United fans are not welcome, the racist bastard group that they are

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

Jeese are you still all harping on haha

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Jeese are you still all harping on haha

Your point being?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Let us know how you get on OPs. Best of luck to you and remember, it's your social, your rules. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im interested please let me know x

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By *anny_jMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Is this still happening?

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"Thinking of organising a social for Indian cpls only. isn,t that a bit racist?. x

Thinking that. If we posted something like that we'd be bombarded, not that we would as we don't have a racist bone in our body.

Would you like to attend ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Count us in if and when u do .

Give it a desi theme or Bollywood theme that will be good

Thanks but need Asian cpls to come out more , too much hesitancy here lol

Trying to form a KIK group too ."

Asian are a bit shy so they won’t come out easily - best way is to start with 2-3 couples + Singles. Let the word of mouth spread out. I am all in to provide help in arranging the venue - even if as a single Male am not allowed in the party - I am really pissed off with culture bullshit that made us hiding our natural desires. Remember we gave this world a book on Kamasutra - we even have temples showing all forms of sexual positions. Shame that such an open society is taken over by cultural bullshit. I travel a lot and been to many parties across the globe - I am ashamed to say that most of the subtle racism is prevalent in UK. You can smell it easily in any swinger clubs or parties. Not talking about the profitable parties - where everyone is entertained. places where I did not experience any racism are Spain, US(California, Atalanta, Portland) and South America( Bogotá, Lima)

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By *immyhatz211Man
over a year ago

South East, London

"Thinking of organising a social evening for verified Indian cpls in Midlands

Intially it will be only for cpls and if the interest rises may include singles too .

Would that be interesting?

Any takers ?"

Excellent idea. Will get involved when you expand it to the singles!

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By *immyhatz211Man
over a year ago

South East, London

"Also

Man United fans are not welcome, the racist bastard group that they are

Damn right. Man U fans should not be invited (LFC fan here! Lol)

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By *immyhatz211Man
over a year ago

South East, London

"Bollywood swingers night? Open to all but obvs targets certain individuals who love that sort of music. "

It’s more about the clientele rather than the bulb changing, right?! Next you will be wanting a biryani and a paratha.

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By *immyhatz211Man
over a year ago

South East, London

"Shit the bed

Seems we Indians/ Asians always get people’s backs up

How dare we state a preference, how dare we try and engage in the scene, how dare we ..... blah blah blah

I hope your social goes ahead, I’m whatever form you see fit, but please don’t give in to moaners

Whatever you do, somebody’s nose will always be put out, so enjoy yourselves and let the others ‘peek’ over fence "

Well saidand agreed . If the OP invites people that are ‘brown friendly’ that is fair and good?!

Largely, in the world of fabs, it literally is a case of it being Black and White. Their is a stigma about Asian men. Maybe they think we are all freshies (no offence!) or terrorists!!! I don’t get it otherwise else. Most white people love to get a tan and ‘brown up’..damn, we got this going on naturally!! Of course I am not stigmatising all..just on fabs their is a prevalent attitude towards brown folk (especially the men).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So..... is this happening? Lol

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

I think what people were saying is that it should be a social for Asian couples/singles and THEIR ADMIRERS. Not that it was racist to say Asian people only. Although you can cover it up with preference but then (playing devil's advocate) if I was to write "white people only just my preference" there are a lot of black and Asian people who would be offended by this. Are Caucasian people not allowed to declare racism because 100s of years ago we segregated people because of their skin colour.

I personally don't have a preference I just don't like shitty people . And that can be white dicks, black dicks and Asian dicks... A dick is a dick - I don't mean in the literal term.

When someone mentioned BBC or BBW that's for bbc/BBW and their admirers. There are white and Asian men and women who go to these events.

Also if you're not going to accept difference of opinion my advice is don't post it on the forum. Shrug

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Also just to clarify I think a social for Asian couples, men and women and their admirers is a great idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think what people were saying is that it should be a social for Asian couples/singles and THEIR ADMIRERS. Not that it was racist to say Asian people only. Although you can cover it up with preference but then (playing devil's advocate) if I was to write "white people only just my preference" there are a lot of black and Asian people who would be offended by this. Are Caucasian people not allowed to declare racism because 100s of years ago we segregated people because of their skin colour.

I personally don't have a preference I just don't like shitty people . And that can be white dicks, black dicks and Asian dicks... A dick is a dick - I don't mean in the literal term.

When someone mentioned BBC or BBW that's for bbc/BBW and their admirers. There are white and Asian men and women who go to these events.

Also if you're not going to accept difference of opinion my advice is don't post it on the forum. Shrug "

Will you be interested in setting up something for Asians admirers - am more than happy to chip in for venue hiring + arranging logistics. PM me if you are interested

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