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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why do people read your messages but then dont reply or delete the message,Im a little confused by this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people dont reply to messages because theres nothing on the message thats cought their eye enough to want to reply i suppose and you delete them to stop your inbox being full of unwanted mail

seems a pretty obvious question to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no you mis understood,they arent deleting them thats the point

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"why do people read your messages but then dont reply or delete the message,Im a little confused by this."

Because they may want their partner to look at it later.

They may want to come back to it at some point.

Because they can't be arsed.

Because they can't decide if they want to enter into correspondence with you.

Because they have a life and it doesn't revolve round FABswingers.

etc........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

fair enough probally wasnt a good idea starting this thread.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"fair enough probally wasnt a good idea starting this thread."

You just need to learn some patience.

I have about 20 messages from single blokes in my inbox. All read, most not replied to.

However, I left them there for hubby to look at and possibly arrange a meet with when we got the time.

As it is..... they will all probably stay there now til I return at Christmas and the nearest meet will be Feb 2013.........

See what I'm getting at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no you mis understood,they arent deleting them thats the point"

ahh i see

i dont delete mail as i read it, suppose we all have our own way of doing things, i just do a block delete once a week to clear them all out, i dont delete as i go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"fair enough probally wasnt a good idea starting this thread.

You just need to learn some patience.

I have about 20 messages from single blokes in my inbox. All read, most not replied to.

However, I left them there for hubby to look at and possibly arrange a meet with when we got the time.

As it is..... they will all probably stay there now til I return at Christmas and the nearest meet will be Feb 2013.........

See what I'm getting at?"

i see your point,im just curious as to know .Trouble is if i get a message its a bit rare so i like to reply asap.

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By *..taijituCouple
over a year ago

00...Heaven...

For me - LOLLY,

I find that once i/we have been in the chat room, there are far too many messages to sort through after a session - once i wanna turn cam of, i rarely wanna go through messages, unless something guick has caught my eye. I do generally find though - with men, that they will get deleted - if they cannot be save enough to read the profile - then there is no point to me messaging them back. Also - with this new mobi app, it is a wee bit longer to individually delete the unwanted messages... x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people read your messages but then dont reply or delete the message,Im a little confused by this.

Because they may want their partner to look at it later.

They may want to come back to it at some point.

Because they can't be arsed.

Because they can't decide if they want to enter into correspondence with you.

Because they have a life and it doesn't revolve round FABswingers.

etc........ "

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham


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.Trouble is if i get a message its a bit rare so i like to reply asap."

Part of the reason I have temporarily stopped playing was because my inbox was so full having reached over 300 unread messages...god alone knows how many read ones...I have a very busy life (outside of swinging) so don't spend much time on the laptop and what should be fun had become stressful!! Now got 5 unread, no unread, one (and only one, for now) gorgeous bloke to play with and it's fun again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no you mis understood,they arent deleting them thats the point"

We do not delete messages as they eventually pass down the page into the ether, so no point really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fair enough probally wasnt a good idea starting this thread.

You just need to learn some patience.

I have about 20 messages from single blokes in my inbox. All read, most not replied to.

However, I left them there for hubby to look at and possibly arrange a meet with when we got the time.

As it is..... they will all probably stay there now til I return at Christmas and the nearest meet will be Feb 2013.........

See what I'm getting at?

i see your point,im just curious as to know .Trouble is if i get a message its a bit rare so i like to reply asap."

was gonna pm you but you have blocked couples only wanting singles but will say that a lot of people with no play with marrieds who are playing alone, us included.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"why do people read your messages but then dont reply or delete the message,Im a little confused by this."

There is no need to be curious.

It's simple. No reply = no interest at that point.

If they reply later great.

Do something else. Don't spend anymore time thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people read your messages but then dont reply or delete the message,Im a little confused by this."

could be the message is a pile of wank and they dont want to reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people read your messages but then dont reply or delete the message,Im a little confused by this.

could be the message is a pile of wank and they dont want to reply "

not feeling romantic yersel today then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people read your messages but then dont reply or delete the message,Im a little confused by this.

could be the message is a pile of wank and they dont want to reply

not feeling romantic yersel today then?"

im in a dam good mood and i was telling the truth

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"why do people read your messages but then dont reply or delete the message,Im a little confused by this.

Because they may want their partner to look at it later.

They may want to come back to it at some point.

Because they can't be arsed.

Because they can't decide if they want to enter into correspondence with you.

Because they have a life and it doesn't revolve round FABswingers.

etc........ "

Sad you have to state the bleeding obvious!

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By *ursevampsWoman
over a year ago

bucks

i get hundreds of messages daily and when i do get chance to reply to them then it usually later or if i have my friends on line i get chatting to them and the newer messages end up further down the page i do try and reply to all messages but some times it take too long im easily distracted unfortunately, but i try and deltete read messages once a week if im on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people read your messages but then dont reply or delete the message,Im a little confused by this.

Because they may want their partner to look at it later.

They may want to come back to it at some point.

Because they can't be arsed.

Because they can't decide if they want to enter into correspondence with you.

Because they have a life and it doesn't revolve round FABswingers.

etc........

Sad you have to state the bleeding obvious! "

sometimes you have to spell it out in simple terms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people read your messages but then dont reply or delete the message,Im a little confused by this."

You've possibly scrolled through replies,, still confused?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people read your messages but then dont reply or delete the message,Im a little confused by this.

You've possibly scrolled through replies,, still confused? "

confused i am

please message me so i can be unconfused pmsl

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"why do people read your messages but then dont reply or delete the message,Im a little confused by this.

Because they may want their partner to look at it later.

They may want to come back to it at some point.

Because they can't be arsed.

Because they can't decide if they want to enter into correspondence with you.

Because they have a life and it doesn't revolve round FABswingers.

etc........

Sad you have to state the bleeding obvious!

sometimes you have to spell it out in simple terms "

So it would appear.

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