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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

question ? why do the so called BBW on here ask that you look pass their looks and size and not to judge them and when you do they read message and ignore or delete without reply is that not judging ? (kettle and black )any thoughts ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gets comfy,pours a brew and opens popcorn and choccy buttons for all to come.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gets comfy,pours a brew and opens popcorn and choccy buttons for all to come..... "

I'll have a couple 'o choccy buttons ta

*sat chompin*

Wolf

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"question ? why do the so called BBW on here ask that you look pass their looks and size and not to judge them ....... "

Do they?

I certainly don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the ones that get us are,,, when u open a mail, don't have time to reply there and then,,, you come back to a mail from same sender being rude cause you ain't replied on opening initial mail......wee buggers or people wink you, so you reply by saying hi.....they open mail and delete,,,how rude....lol

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

i dont i normally reply with a polite message if the message i recieve says more than fancy a fuck im just not meeting at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can judge me as much as you like, Im a fat bird...... deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply to everyone who takes the time to message me nicely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"question ? why do the so called BBW on here ask that you look pass their looks and size and not to judge them .......

Do they?

I certainly don't."

nor me

i get enough mail on here from guys who do want to meet me to not have to bother to try and talk those who dont into it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Because they might not take my fancy... I might be a plus size model don't mean I am desperate...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ask folk to look beyond my size. I state I'm a big girl on my profile. I'd like them to take a long hard look at the size of my arse. Then, if they fancy burying their cock in it they must charm me into allowing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly. Girls here must get hundreds of messages & I don't blame them for replying to every single one. Personally I don't get that many replies, I don't expect to to be everyone's (anyone's) cup of tea. I'm ignored by curvy girls as much as not so curvy girls.!!

A polite no ta often suffices.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt say to anyone, look past my looks or size, and not to judge me. you either like the look of me or you dont as there are plenty of slim women on here for you to contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont i normally reply with a polite message if the message i recieve says more than fancy a fuck im just not meeting at the moment."

Ok luv how about a blow job instead then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can judge me as much as you like, Im a fat bird...... deal with it "

I'd certainly do me best...

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"question ? why do the so called BBW on here ask that you look pass their looks and size and not to judge them and when you do they read message and ignore or delete without reply is that not judging ? (kettle and black )any thoughts ? "

End of day fella they all need lovin dont they

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury


"End of day fella they all need lovin dont they"

Yes we do

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury


"i dont i normally reply with a polite message if the message i recieve says more than fancy a fuck im just not meeting at the moment.

Ok luv how about a blow job instead then! "

seeing as you asked so nicely on one condition you bring your lil minx with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am thinking of a song now called girls talk. Think its by Dave Edmunds not sure will google it now and take a listen aint heard it in ages. Crackin song tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont i normally reply with a polite message if the message i recieve says more than fancy a fuck im just not meeting at the moment.

Ok luv how about a blow job instead then!

seeing as you asked so nicely on one condition you bring your lil minx with you"

haha we may just take you up on that one day soon my matey as we have already spoken of starting a couples profile off on here some time soon

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury


"i dont i normally reply with a polite message if the message i recieve says more than fancy a fuck im just not meeting at the moment.

Ok luv how about a blow job instead then!

seeing as you asked so nicely on one condition you bring your lil minx with you

haha we may just take you up on that one day soon my matey as we have already spoken of starting a couples profile off on here some time soon"

wahoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do get some guys who want us as there dirty little secret as in I am ok to fuck but would'nt be seen dead out with then you get the others who dont give a flying fig. I always meet socially first if the guy cant deal with it then its his problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do get some guys who want us as there dirty little secret as in I am ok to fuck but would'nt be seen dead out with then you get the others who dont give a flying fig. I always meet socially first if the guy cant deal with it then its his problem."

=1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never judge the book by its cover, i have met and spoke to some lovely BBW women on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would any girl need to apologise and ask a guy look past her looks and size?

I'm curvy and proud! I love my curves and if any guy doesn't like it that's his problem not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"question ? why do the so called BBW on here ask that you look pass their looks and size and not to judge them and when you do they read message and ignore or delete without reply is that not judging ? (kettle and black )any thoughts ? "

I certainly dont ask anyone to look past my looks and size as I would hope that anyone I met found me attractive.

Maybe your generalising a bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why are most bbw's portayed as bubbly never got that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do get some guys who want us as there dirty little secret as in I am ok to fuck but would'nt be seen dead out with then you get the others who dont give a flying fig. I always meet socially first if the guy cant deal with it then its his problem."

If i meet a man who is 30 years younger than me, i wouldnt expect him to want to be seen out with me.

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Because they might not take my fancy... I might be a plus size model don't mean I am desperate... "
PREACH! I looooooove big sexy women with mad confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why are most bbw's portayed as bubbly never got that."

Because they can be

They usually get me bubblin' anyway

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

erm i class myself as a big pan in the ass

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

some seem to have missed my point im not against BBW i like all women fat /thin /black or white it make no difference to me . read my profile . i take a person for who they are not what they look like . but when i read profiles of people asking not to be judged the least i exspect is for them to do the same a simple no thanks is enough if they have read the message it takes a few seconds to reply id rather get a fuck off ugly then be ignored x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"erm i class myself as a big pan in the ass "

What sort of pan do you put in your ass if you don't mind me asking? Sauce or frying?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"question ? why do the so called BBW on here ask that you look pass their looks and size and not to judge them and when you do they read message and ignore or delete without reply is that not judging ? (kettle and black )any thoughts ? "

Surely we are all judged by others to a degree on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why would any girl need to apologise and ask a guy look past her looks and size?

I'm curvy and proud! I love my curves and if any guy doesn't like it that's his problem not mine. "

i wouldnt say i was proud of what i look like but it certainly dont bother me enough to justify myself in order to get people to contact me on here

I have pics if people like me mail me if not i'll meet someone who does its really that simple for women so dont understand why any women on here would have to 'beg' for a meet

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"erm i class myself as a big pan in the ass

What sort of pan do you put in your ass if you don't mind me asking? Sauce or frying?"

I was thinking along the same lines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its BBW overkill on here. i demand to know what u`ve done with the other women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its BBW overkill on here. i demand to know what u`ve done with the other women! "

eaten them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its BBW overkill on here. i demand to know what u`ve done with the other women!

eaten them "

i so saw that one coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its BBW overkill on here. i demand to know what u`ve done with the other women!

eaten them "

Well we ran out of cake didnt we for some strange reason so needs must n all that ya no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't ask folk to look beyond my size. I state I'm a big girl on my profile. I'd like them to take a long hard look at the size of my arse. Then, if they fancy burying their cock in it they must charm me into allowing it "

Exactly couldn't have put it better!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its BBW overkill on here. i demand to know what u`ve done with the other women!

eaten them

i so saw that one coming "

haha well i dont like to disappoint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the bigger the cushion the better the pushin

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By *usty boobsWoman
over a year ago

studley

are you implying that because she is big and you gave her a look in she should be grateful.. i dont think so..the last time i checked bbw are humans too with feelings which entitles them to an opinion and if you dont appeal to them you dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When will people understand that fat does not equate to desperate ?

If fat is not your thing yet you choose to go there, it is you that is desperate not the other person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If fat is not your thing yet you choose to go there, it is you that is desperate not the other person."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When will people understand that fat does not equate to desperate ?

If fat is not your thing yet you choose to go there, it is you that is desperate not the other person."

very well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some seem to have missed my point im not against BBW i like all women fat /thin /black or white it make no difference to me . read my profile . i take a person for who they are not what they look like . but when i read profiles of people asking not to be judged the least i exspect is for them to do the same a simple no thanks is enough if they have read the message it takes a few seconds to reply id rather get a fuck off ugly then be ignored x "

i'm sorry but not sure if i'm understanding you right but its looking like your saying that it's cool for a slender lady to ignore ya pm's but should a wobbly one do the same they are ignorant as we should be gratefull to even recieve a pm oh boy i hope i'm wrong think i best walk away

watch the wobbles as i waddle off baby cause with that attitude its the only chance ya'll get to see the rolls roll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't ask people to look past my size, my age, or indeed anything. Its lilke drawing peoples attention to what you perceive as your negative points, expecting rejection in a way.

I see quite a lot of profiles too which state 'I'm a BBW, if that's not your thing move on'. I don't see the point in stating that, people will have seen pics and make an assessment or after receiving pics they will move on if not interested. To me I see it as apologising for your size. If you were happy with your appearance why assume someone whose messaged after looking at your profile wouldn't be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im honest in my profile i dont see myself as a bbw. but i know im a gobby girl with curves.

if people dont want to know me before of my curves so be it thats up to them like its up to us who we reply to and not x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

read the question 1st before you post a reply implying im having a go at BBW it ask about the ones who ask in their profiles not to be judged but then clearly judge others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't ask people to look past my size, my age, or indeed anything. Its lilke drawing peoples attention to what you perceive as your negative points, expecting rejection in a way.

I see quite a lot of profiles too which state 'I'm a BBW, if that's not your thing move on'. I don't see the point in stating that, people will have seen pics and make an assessment or after receiving pics they will move on if not interested. To me I see it as apologising for your size. If you were happy with your appearance why assume someone whose messaged after looking at your profile wouldn't be "

ur great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"question ? why do the so called BBW on here ask that you look pass their looks and size and not to judge them and when you do they read message and ignore or delete without reply is that not judging ? (kettle and black )any thoughts ? "

I have three of them:

First, Remember - no one owes you a reply!

Second, on the field of play, first impressions count in this game- perhaps its your approach which is offputting.

Three, Perhaps a chipectomy is in order to remove the one off your shoulder?

Just a thought, or three!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"read the question 1st before you post a reply implying im having a go at BBW it ask about the ones who ask in their profiles not to be judged but then clearly judge others "

i read it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When will people understand that fat does not equate to desperate ?

If fat is not your thing yet you choose to go there, it is you that is desperate not the other person."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"read the question 1st before you post a reply implying im having a go at BBW it ask about the ones who ask in their profiles not to be judged but then clearly judge others "

but can you not see how it could be percieved that way as people of various shapes and sizes don't wish to be judged yet choose not to reply to a pm as the sender is not their bag but yet you only mention BBWs

when you break it down in all honesty you sent a pm to a fat bird that wasn't really your cuppa but you thought hey i'll give it a shot and when she didn't reply your ego was dented

in all seriousness your profile doesn't give anyone much to go on and your pic doesn't give anything away so most likely she looked at it and thought well if he can't be bothered why should i, it has nothing to do with judging

women on here get daft ammounts of messages regardless of size so obviously they can pick and choose carefully who they do and don't reply to as time can be precious to most so pick ya rattle back up and try and make ya profile more appealing then try to understand that fat birds can be just as picky as ya taute toned hotties so don't take a turn down (a no reply is seen as a polite no ty round here btw) so personally

happy swinging treacle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"read the question 1st before you post a reply implying im having a go at BBW it ask about the ones who ask in their profiles not to be judged but then clearly judge others "

if that is directed at me, two things :

name of thread 'BBW' - that didn't discriminate ?

i think it did - it wasn't aimed at all women who judge, just bigger ones

how do you know the person was 'judging' you ?

by being 'judged' do you mean that you looked past the fact they were fat so they should look past the fact they don't find you attractive ?

sadly, that's isn't the way it works

and again i refer you to my initial comment

if you lower your standards, it is you who is desperate not the person you have lowered them for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"read the question 1st before you post a reply implying im having a go at BBW it ask about the ones who ask in their profiles not to be judged but then clearly judge others

but can you not see how it could be percieved that way as people of various shapes and sizes don't wish to be judged yet choose not to reply to a pm as the sender is not their bag but yet you only mention BBWs

when you break it down in all honesty you sent a pm to a fat bird that wasn't really your cuppa but you thought hey i'll give it a shot and when she didn't reply your ego was dented

in all seriousness your profile doesn't give anyone much to go on and your pic doesn't give anything away so most likely she looked at it and thought well if he can't be bothered why should i, it has nothing to do with judging

women on here get daft ammounts of messages regardless of size so obviously they can pick and choose carefully who they do and don't reply to as time can be precious to most so pick ya rattle back up and try and make ya profile more appealing then try to understand that fat birds can be just as picky as ya taute toned hotties so don't take a turn down (a no reply is seen as a polite no ty round here btw) so personally

happy swinging treacle"

lol @ the treacle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"read the question 1st before you post a reply implying im having a go at BBW it ask about the ones who ask in their profiles not to be judged but then clearly judge others

but can you not see how it could be percieved that way as people of various shapes and sizes don't wish to be judged yet choose not to reply to a pm as the sender is not their bag but yet you only mention BBWs

when you break it down in all honesty you sent a pm to a fat bird that wasn't really your cuppa but you thought hey i'll give it a shot and when she didn't reply your ego was dented

in all seriousness your profile doesn't give anyone much to go on and your pic doesn't give anything away so most likely she looked at it and thought well if he can't be bothered why should i, it has nothing to do with judging

women on here get daft ammounts of messages regardless of size so obviously they can pick and choose carefully who they do and don't reply to as time can be precious to most so pick ya rattle back up and try and make ya profile more appealing then try to understand that fat birds can be just as picky as ya taute toned hotties so don't take a turn down (a no reply is seen as a polite no ty round here btw) so personally

happy swinging treacle

lol @ the treacle "

Oi I call everyone treacle nowt to laugh at I likes me treacle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol @ the treacle

Oi I call everyone treacle nowt to laugh at I likes me treacle "

pfft - and here's me thinking i was special !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"read the question 1st before you post a reply implying im having a go at BBW it ask about the ones who ask in their profiles not to be judged but then clearly judge others

but can you not see how it could be percieved that way as people of various shapes and sizes don't wish to be judged yet choose not to reply to a pm as the sender is not their bag but yet you only mention BBWs

when you break it down in all honesty you sent a pm to a fat bird that wasn't really your cuppa but you thought hey i'll give it a shot and when she didn't reply your ego was dented

in all seriousness your profile doesn't give anyone much to go on and your pic doesn't give anything away so most likely she looked at it and thought well if he can't be bothered why should i, it has nothing to do with judging

women on here get daft ammounts of messages regardless of size so obviously they can pick and choose carefully who they do and don't reply to as time can be precious to most so pick ya rattle back up and try and make ya profile more appealing then try to understand that fat birds can be just as picky as ya taute toned hotties so don't take a turn down (a no reply is seen as a polite no ty round here btw) so personally

happy swinging treacle

lol @ the treacle

Oi I call everyone treacle nowt to laugh at I likes me treacle "

next bbw willbe fun then

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"question ? why do the so called BBW on here ask that you look pass their looks and size and not to judge them and when you do they read message and ignore or delete without reply is that not judging ? (kettle and black )any thoughts ? "

I would not say that BBWs are necessarily desperate, nor are they asking their potential meets to not judge and look past their size. In fact I have seen profiles (and very attractive ones, I might add) where women are simply pointing out that they are larger than average. Reference to size is merely a bit of personal information, like blokes might state they are bold or unshaved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol @ the treacle

Oi I call everyone treacle nowt to laugh at I likes me treacle

pfft - and here's me thinking i was special ! "

You are special your my treacle tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBW

JUST ONE THING TO SAY

most of them are a waste of space .

mind cum t think of it most of the single girls on here are timewasters. anyone else pissed off with them lol

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"read the question 1st before you post a reply implying im having a go at BBW it ask about the ones who ask in their profiles not to be judged but then clearly judge others "

Did you honestly think for one second it meant they would fancy everyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol @ the treacle

Oi I call everyone treacle nowt to laugh at I likes me treacle

pfft - and here's me thinking i was special !

You are special your my treacle tart "

that's about right

incredibly sweet - just crumbly round the edges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because someone likes my profile does not mean he is entitled to a reply when he messages me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because someone likes my profile does not mean he is entitled to a reply when he messages me.

"

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP, how does someone not replying to your message, equate to them being judgemental?

All they are doing is excersing their right not to reply, to run their profile as they see fit.

Size shouldn't make any difference to the replies, unless you are saying that someones size should affect their decision making capability?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* exercising

And should be ability, not capability!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"question ? why do the so called BBW on here ask that you look pass their looks and size and not to judge them and when you do they read message and ignore or delete without reply is that not judging ? (kettle and black )any thoughts ? "

It's almost as though you are in despair if you believe they as you see it even the ugly people are deleting your messages.

I think you can ask what you like as others can on their profiles but you can't expect a specific response or a response at all for that matter.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"question ? why do the so called BBW on here ask that you look pass their looks and size and not to judge them and when you do they read message and ignore or delete without reply is that not judging ? (kettle and black )any thoughts ?

I have three of them:

First, Remember - no one owes you a reply!

Second, on the field of play, first impressions count in this game- perhaps its your approach which is offputting.

Three, Perhaps a chipectomy is in order to remove the one off your shoulder?

Just a thought, or three!"

Not replying means not interested...so yes they are judging you, do u expect everyone to say yes?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"question ? why do the so called BBW on here ask that you look pass their looks and size and not to judge them and when you do they read message and ignore or delete without reply is that not judging ? (kettle and black )any thoughts ? "

do you message every one that says that or do you decide whether or not you ant to chat to them? same difference really

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I don't look past what someone looks like.

We're on here to fuck single men, not to phychoanalysis their personality!

**Thats us cus we only do one offs, not generalising for all couples on here**

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