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"i think seeing as your a white south african calling yourself mixed race is pushing the boundaries a little your white! going by what you have said im mixed race lol and i can honestly say ive never been turned down for being a white woman, infact ive never even had anyone question my race and im suprised you have as you just like like any other white guy deffo confused on this one" You're confused! Well indeed i am more white but then parts of me ain't Technically i am mixed race. | |||
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" Well indeed i am more white but then parts of me ain't Technically i am mixed race. " The real problem is that you're the only one who really cares about it. In swinging we play with people we fancy and that's the only qualifying criteria. Creed doesn't come into it if the attraction is there but we can't be all things to all people. Learn that and you'll do much better. | |||
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"i think seeing as your a white south african calling yourself mixed race is pushing the boundaries a little your white! going by what you have said im mixed race lol and i can honestly say ive never been turned down for being a white woman, infact ive never even had anyone question my race and im suprised you have as you just like like any other white guy deffo confused on this one You're confused! Well indeed i am more white but then parts of me ain't Technically i am mixed race. " what i mean by confused is you just look, by your pics, like a white guy so i cant see why your race would even be bought up in conversation, unless your the one that brings it up? so if some peoples reactions to the fact your 'mixed race' bothers you why bring it up? my dad from sicily so tho im white i am slightly darker than most but ive never had anyone be rude to be for it, most dont even notice or mention it, some will say you look like you have something in you (pardon the pun lol) but ive never been turned down for it, so seems odd that you seem to be having problems with it when its something ive never had a issue with But at the end of the day people with like you or they dont, im not really attracted to asian guys thats just my choice, like its anyone choice to turn down anyone for whatever reason they see fit, all because its a swingers site that does not mean our likes and dislikes should be expected to be thrown out the window and we should shag anyone of fear of offending if we dont | |||
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"i think seeing as your a white south african calling yourself mixed race is pushing the boundaries a little your white! going by what you have said im mixed race lol and i can honestly say ive never been turned down for being a white woman, infact ive never even had anyone question my race and im suprised you have as you just like like any other white guy deffo confused on this one You're confused! Well indeed i am more white but then parts of me ain't Technically i am mixed race. what i mean by confused is you just look, by your pics, like a white guy so i cant see why your race would even be bought up in conversation, unless your the one that brings it up? so if some peoples reactions to the fact your 'mixed race' bothers you why bring it up? my dad from sicily so tho im white i am slightly darker than most but ive never had anyone be rude to be for it, most dont even notice or mention it, some will say you look like you have something in you (pardon the pun lol) but ive never been turned down for it, so seems odd that you seem to be having problems with it when its something ive never had a issue with But at the end of the day people with like you or they dont, im not really attracted to asian guys thats just my choice, like its anyone choice to turn down anyone for whatever reason they see fit, all because its a swingers site that does not mean our likes and dislikes should be expected to be thrown out the window and we should shag anyone of fear of offending if we dont " The main reason for the post is that on the basis of my profile i have been knocked back once for not being black/mixed and once for not being white! What would happen if someone like George Clooney was on here?! | |||
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"too deep for me at this time of the night " Yeah it does look like iy could be right up ya im the avitar pic to be honest | |||
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"What would happen if someone like George Clooney was on here?!" Admin would have to buy more bandwidth.... lots of it! | |||
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"What would happen if someone like George Clooney was on here?! " he would get loads fo shags by women who dont like white guys just because of who is is..but thats just life Ive been turned down for being over weight but how many guys who dont like big women would meet Dawn french if she was on here? | |||
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"What would happen if someone like George Clooney was on here?! he would get loads fo shags by women who dont like white guys just because of who is is..but thats just life Ive been turned down for being over weight but how many guys who dont like big women would meet Dawn french if she was on here? " Fame and all it brings alas is one of those sad facts of life! I like big women but there are far better ones on here that i would choose anyday over Dawn French! | |||
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" I like big women but there are far better ones on here that i would choose anyday over Dawn French! " was just an example | |||
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"race isnt an issue, if people arnet turned on by what you are, it's a minor i like black, white and oriental girls but not mixedrace/asian not saying there not good looking too just not a preference, there's nothing wrong with that?" Well race is kind of an issue if you're not sexually attracted to that race of people, but i know what you mean. I can see beauty in all ethnicities, i've nearly had a woman from every continent! Just missing North America. Any sexy Cherokee women on fab? | |||
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"When looking at many ladies profiles - Alot of them specify either White or Black Men - I am proud to be mixed race English/South African - Yet mixed race seems to be left aside - Also the poor Indians get a bad deal as many Women specify that they actually do not want to meet Indians/Asians at all! Just tonight a Woman said i was 'the wrong colour' in response to a message? It's insane! Why are so many women on here (particually in the Greater London region) going for skin colour/racial background preferences? What about Mixed Race Men?!!!!" Mate you need to get a grip and realise that rejection is a part of life. For every person that rejects you, there's at least two that will accept you. And also allow people to have a choice about who they play with. I have many prejudices about various races but it doesn't make me evil, it just makes me a product of my environment. | |||
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"What would happen if someone like George Clooney was on here?!" i can guarantee george clooneys chatup lines dont start hi, im george clooney, im mixed race' of course not. nobody gives a fyling arseflap about whether you are mixed race or not, and why? because you appear to be white. YOU are making it an issue, no one else. if you never mentioned it, how many people do you think would ntice, or even care? not many i can guess. people find different things a turn on/off, deal with it. i personally like oriental girls, but em has no interest. suck it up. apartheid is supposed to be over. dont bring it onto fab lol | |||
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" I like big women but there are far better ones on here that i would choose anyday over Dawn French! " And that would be your preference/choice. Why is it any of your business what peoples preferences are, and why are you moaning about it? I do wish Admin would ban all those threads where the OP has a hangup about their colour and not getting a shag! | |||
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"When looking at many ladies profiles - Alot of them specify either White or Black Men - I am proud to be mixed race English/South African - Yet mixed race seems to be left aside - Also the poor Indians get a bad deal as many Women specify that they actually do not want to meet Indians/Asians at all! Just tonight a Woman said i was 'the wrong colour' in response to a message? It's insane! Why are so many women on here (particually in the Greater London region) going for skin colour/racial background preferences? What about Mixed Race Men?!!!!" It's more about culture than colour for us. | |||
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"...The main reason for the post is that on the basis of my profile i have been knocked back once for not being black/mixed and once for not being white! ..." Ohhhh I see. I'm going to contact a few fit guys who say they are not interested in overweight women. Do you think it will work if I tell them I am thin, I just don't look it. | |||
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"...The main reason for the post is that on the basis of my profile i have been knocked back once for not being black/mixed and once for not being white! ... Ohhhh I see. I'm going to contact a few fit guys who say they are not interested in overweight women. Do you think it will work if I tell them I am thin, I just don't look it." i will contact all the couples who do not meet bi couples...after all we don't look bi | |||
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" I like big women but there are far better ones on here that i would choose anyday over Dawn French! And that would be your preference/choice. Why is it any of your business what peoples preferences are, and why are you moaning about it? I do wish Admin would ban all those threads where the OP has a hangup about their colour and not getting a shag!" I am merely stating the experience i have had with a few people on this site - the OP attacked again - no surprise there! | |||
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"It never ceases to amaze me how precious some people can be. Once you realise you'll NEVER appeal to everyone, that others have preferences that exclude you the happier you'll be. I struggle to understand why people start threads like this, it seldom shows the op in a good light. A sense of entitlement on a swinging site is ugly. Get over yourself. " Another attack on the OP! Your Profile has a colour preference as well | |||
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"A word of advice.... a 'victim mentality' is rarely appealling." this is merely a question i have 'thrown into the ring' i am neither a victim nor seeking any sympathy i am simply stating facts for discussion. People are very quick to judge here without knowing the person. | |||
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"A word of advice.... a 'victim mentality' is rarely appealling. this is merely a question i have 'thrown into the ring' i am neither a victim nor seeking any sympathy i am simply stating facts for discussion. People are very quick to judge here without knowing the person." When we throw something 'into the ring', we should expect people to spar. You have a number of choices when you don't like a reply: 1 - ignore it 2 - chellenge it from an alternative perspective 3 - come back at them with 'I'm being attacked'.... this would be the 'victim mentality' | |||
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" People are very quick to judge here without knowing the person." Welcome to the forums, or 'they only bite if you feed em' | |||
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"A word of advice.... a 'victim mentality' is rarely appealling. this is merely a question i have 'thrown into the ring' i am neither a victim nor seeking any sympathy i am simply stating facts for discussion. People are very quick to judge here without knowing the person. When we throw something 'into the ring', we should expect people to spar. You have a number of choices when you don't like a reply: 1 - ignore it 2 - chellenge it from an alternative perspective 3 - come back at them with 'I'm being attacked'.... this would be the 'victim mentality'" Maybe i should have said 'i'm being challenged'! - Option 1 is not an option for me as i ain't that type of person - Anyway - Words on a page are open to interpretation. Hey it gives people something to talk about! | |||
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" People are very quick to judge here without knowing the person. Welcome to the forums, or 'they only bite if you feed em' " As in the Football chant "Feed the Goat and he will score....Feed the goat and he (Shaun Goater) will score......" | |||
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"When looking at many ladies profiles - Alot of them specify either White or Black Men " That is their PREFERENCE "- I am proud to be mixed race English/South African - Yet mixed race seems to be left aside" Why not ask admin to put a mixed race section on profiles so people can tick the box. " - Also the poor Indians get a bad deal as many Women specify that they actually do not want to meet Indians/Asians at all!" Again, that it their PREFERENCE " Just tonight a Woman said i was 'the wrong colour' in response to a message? " Yes, she put it badly (if in fact that is exactly what she said)...... but again, its her PREFERENCE " It's insane! " Why is PREFERENCE insane? " Why are so many women on here (particually in the Greater London region) going for skin colour/racial background preferences? " You said it...... PREFERENCE " What about Mixed Race Men?!!!!" Don't know. Maybe you are too black for some and too white for others. I personally only fuck white men, that is my PREFERENCE and that is normally on our profile. You would not be to MY taste and therefore, my PREFERENCE would be not to fuck you if it were offered. | |||
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"Right, lets look at your original question broken down. When looking at many ladies profiles - Alot of them specify either White or Black Men That is their PREFERENCE - I am proud to be mixed race English/South African - Yet mixed race seems to be left aside Why not ask admin to put a mixed race section on profiles so people can tick the box. - Also the poor Indians get a bad deal as many Women specify that they actually do not want to meet Indians/Asians at all! Again, that it their PREFERENCE Just tonight a Woman said i was 'the wrong colour' in response to a message? Yes, she put it badly (if in fact that is exactly what she said)...... but again, its her PREFERENCE It's insane! Why is PREFERENCE insane? Why are so many women on here (particually in the Greater London region) going for skin colour/racial background preferences? You said it...... PREFERENCE " | |||
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"Right, lets look at your original question broken down. When looking at many ladies profiles - Alot of them specify either White or Black Men That is their PREFERENCE - I am proud to be mixed race English/South African - Yet mixed race seems to be left aside Why not ask admin to put a mixed race section on profiles so people can tick the box. - Also the poor Indians get a bad deal as many Women specify that they actually do not want to meet Indians/Asians at all! Again, that it their PREFERENCE Just tonight a Woman said i was 'the wrong colour' in response to a message? Yes, she put it badly (if in fact that is exactly what she said)...... but again, its her PREFERENCE It's insane! Why is PREFERENCE insane? Why are so many women on here (particually in the Greater London region) going for skin colour/racial background preferences? You said it...... PREFERENCE What about Mixed Race Men?!!!! Don't know. Maybe you are too black for some and too white for others. I personally only fuck white men, that is my PREFERENCE and that is normally on our profile. You would not be to MY taste and therefore, my PREFERENCE would be not to fuck you if it were offered." So what if a White Man goes on holiday and gets a Suntan so much so that he looks non white - you gonna turn him down too! | |||
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"Right, lets look at your original question broken down. When looking at many ladies profiles - Alot of them specify either White or Black Men That is their PREFERENCE - I am proud to be mixed race English/South African - Yet mixed race seems to be left aside Why not ask admin to put a mixed race section on profiles so people can tick the box. - Also the poor Indians get a bad deal as many Women specify that they actually do not want to meet Indians/Asians at all! Again, that it their PREFERENCE Just tonight a Woman said i was 'the wrong colour' in response to a message? Yes, she put it badly (if in fact that is exactly what she said)...... but again, its her PREFERENCE It's insane! Why is PREFERENCE insane? Why are so many women on here (particually in the Greater London region) going for skin colour/racial background preferences? You said it...... PREFERENCE What about Mixed Race Men?!!!! Don't know. Maybe you are too black for some and too white for others. I personally only fuck white men, that is my PREFERENCE and that is normally on our profile. You would not be to MY taste and therefore, my PREFERENCE would be not to fuck you if it were offered. So what if a White Man goes on holiday and gets a Suntan so much so that he looks non white - you gonna turn him down too! " He will just look like a white man...with a suntan. | |||
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" He will just look like a white man...with a suntan. " Or a red man with sun burn. | |||
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" He will just look like a white man...with a suntan. Or a red man with sun burn." Cherokee?..... | |||
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" He will just look like a white man...with a suntan. Or a red man with sun burn. Cherokee?....." Only after a few drinks and if I know the song. | |||
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" So what if a White Man goes on holiday and gets a Suntan so much so that he looks non white - you gonna turn him down too! " Are you accusing me of being racist? Because MY preference for white men is MY preference and why I prefer them is MY business. | |||
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" So what if a White Man goes on holiday and gets a Suntan so much so that he looks non white - you gonna turn him down too! Are you accusing me of being racist? Because MY preference for white men is MY preference and why I prefer them is MY business." Where is the Decency/Manners Factor here? | |||
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" So what if a White Man goes on holiday and gets a Suntan so much so that he looks non white - you gonna turn him down too! Are you accusing me of being racist? Because MY preference for white men is MY preference and why I prefer them is MY business. Where is the Decency/Manners Factor here?" YOUR post had insinuations of racism as has your original post..... That is how I read it. There is a phrase where I work. "Suck it up buttercup"..... YOU won't appeal to everyone. Learn to deal with it and as to why women prefer certain races/cultures....... PREFERENCE! | |||
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"oh it is tough on here being black... oh it is tough on here being white... oh it is tough on here being asian... oh it is tough on here being bi... oh it is tough on here being straight... oh it is tough on here being fat... oh it is tough on here being skinny... oh it is tough on here bring ect,ect,ect.... you make of it what you make of it... so rather than concentrating so much on people who don't like you rather than those who do... so rather than concentrating on what you dont have just be the best you... " | |||
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"oh it is tough on here being black... oh it is tough on here being white... oh it is tough on here being asian... oh it is tough on here being bi... oh it is tough on here being straight... oh it is tough on here being fat... oh it is tough on here being skinny... oh it is tough on here bring ect,ect,ect.... you make of it what you make of it... so rather than concentrating so much on people who don't like you rather than those who do... so rather than concentrating on what you dont have just be the best you... " Nice one Fabio! | |||
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" So what if a White Man goes on holiday and gets a Suntan so much so that he looks non white - you gonna turn him down too! Are you accusing me of being racist? Because MY preference for white men is MY preference and why I prefer them is MY business. Where is the Decency/Manners Factor here?" Dunno... Where did you last see it...? | |||
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"Right, lets look at your original question broken down. When looking at many ladies profiles - Alot of them specify either White or Black Men That is their PREFERENCE - I am proud to be mixed race English/South African - Yet mixed race seems to be left aside Why not ask admin to put a mixed race section on profiles so people can tick the box. - Also the poor Indians get a bad deal as many Women specify that they actually do not want to meet Indians/Asians at all! Again, that it their PREFERENCE Just tonight a Woman said i was 'the wrong colour' in response to a message? Yes, she put it badly (if in fact that is exactly what she said)...... but again, its her PREFERENCE It's insane! Why is PREFERENCE insane? Why are so many women on here (particually in the Greater London region) going for skin colour/racial background preferences? You said it...... PREFERENCE What about Mixed Race Men?!!!! Don't know. Maybe you are too black for some and too white for others. I personally only fuck white men, that is my PREFERENCE and that is normally on our profile. You would not be to MY taste and therefore, my PREFERENCE would be not to fuck you if it were offered. So what if a White Man goes on holiday and gets a Suntan so much so that he looks non white - you gonna turn him down too! " are you really claiming that a white guy with a suntan is black Seriously loose the chip and start to think | |||
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"When looking at many ladies profiles - Alot of them specify either White or Black Men - I am proud to be mixed race English/South African - Yet mixed race seems to be left aside - Also the poor Indians get a bad deal as many Women specify that they actually do not want to meet Indians/Asians at all! Just tonight a Woman said i was 'the wrong colour' in response to a message? It's insane! Why are so many women on here (particually in the Greater London region) going for skin colour/racial background preferences? What about Mixed Race Men?!!!!" phil lynott...say no more...genius | |||
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"When looking at many ladies profiles - Alot of them specify either White or Black Men - I am proud to be mixed race English/South African - Yet mixed race seems to be left aside - Also the poor Indians get a bad deal as many Women specify that they actually do not want to meet Indians/Asians at all! Just tonight a Woman said i was 'the wrong colour' in response to a message? It's insane! Why are so many women on here (particually in the Greater London region) going for skin colour/racial background preferences? What about Mixed Race Men?!!!! phil lynott...say no more...genius" Strangely enough Phil Lynott used to live about 2 roads away from me...say no more! | |||
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"Right, lets look at your original question broken down. When looking at many ladies profiles - Alot of them specify either White or Black Men That is their PREFERENCE - I am proud to be mixed race English/South African - Yet mixed race seems to be left aside Why not ask admin to put a mixed race section on profiles so people can tick the box. - Also the poor Indians get a bad deal as many Women specify that they actually do not want to meet Indians/Asians at all! Again, that it their PREFERENCE Just tonight a Woman said i was 'the wrong colour' in response to a message? Yes, she put it badly (if in fact that is exactly what she said)...... but again, its her PREFERENCE It's insane! Why is PREFERENCE insane? Why are so many women on here (particually in the Greater London region) going for skin colour/racial background preferences? You said it...... PREFERENCE What about Mixed Race Men?!!!! Don't know. Maybe you are too black for some and too white for others. I personally only fuck white men, that is my PREFERENCE and that is normally on our profile. You would not be to MY taste and therefore, my PREFERENCE would be not to fuck you if it were offered. So what if a White Man goes on holiday and gets a Suntan so much so that he looks non white - you gonna turn him down too! are you really claiming that a white guy with a suntan is black Seriously loose the chip and start to think " No, i am once again merely challenging someone.... | |||
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"I'm not everyones cup of tea...thats life! " Im not everyones glass of milk... Its only personal preferences...;-) | |||
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"Wow - Opions not allowed on here then - I guess it's better to say nothing here than actually having an opinion." opions???? do you mean ONIONS ?? | |||
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