FabSwingers.com forum: to my friends

By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

if your not my friend i know your just being nosey opening this thread. i just want to say thankyou for being my friends. it never seizes to amaze me why you bother. not just my normal friends but the ones i shag. swinging is nsa yet i love my male friends as well they go beyond shagging and could walk away anytime but dont. its no secret im bipolar but i never mention it on the forums i want people to like or dislike me for what they see not influenced by my illness. every day is a fight for survival. ive been really bad last few months and its getting worse every day i try and hold it together. im tied and introverted. but will never give in. i fight and campaign constantly for people with mental illness thank god theres not the stigma there was 37 years ago when i was diagnosed. was diagnosed. why i have i typed this thread in an open forum god knows. maybe i want people to see what lies behind a keyboard. this probley doesnt make sense what ive typed but thankyou to my friends for being you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I like you

Good on you for your honesty.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

xxDiamonds i love ya no matter whatxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And breathe gorgeous... We loves ya... Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Diamond you give just as much back as you think your friends give to you

We love you too xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww I thinksya great and I hope we gets to see you someday too

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats me caught being nosey then

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

said it before and i'll say it again, these forums can be a real crutch when you are feeling down or unwell. I probably tell you lot more about how i am feeling then my 'vanilla' friends

for some reason its easier being open on here. ok it can get a bit catty in here and some like to poke fun but there are a hard core few that always come through

long live fab and its forumites

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

aaaaaannnndddd!!

Diamond, you are a lovely lady and i hope you start to feel better soon x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yer lovely. x

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

diamonds,i consider myself lucky to have you as a friend,so thank you.

shine on you crazy diamond.xxxx

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Diamond.....you are a diamond.

enuff said.....

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Diamond remember if the rain is on your back and the sun on your face what more can you ask for

I know what you thinking lol

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

having bi polar can be a lonely place at times,but i dont think you will ever be lonely on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs to the OP.

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By *ush_tushWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

im just nosey per say but im glad I did because its a very honest thread.

Your posts, along with a few other great women on this forum, are a joy to read. Always makes me smile and think.

Thank you

Big hug

Toni x

Ps.....wouldnt it be great to have a forum social?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

To the lovely lady who brings us so many happy music threads

This one's for you darling....

James Taylor....'You've got a friend'

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l4XN1S7BEPg&feature=related

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Oohhh FFS Diamond....

You're gonna start me off..........

What the hell am I gonna do without our 2 hour telephone conversations for 7 months?

Nutty tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just nosey too sorry! I don't know you but I like reading your posts, you seem like a cool person. Hope you feel better soon... sending you hugs xx

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

Dont know you real well Diamondsmiles, but from what ive read in the forums in the 4 months is that you have a big heart and make many smile xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Diamond, u r amazing, I know I am not on ur friends list and probably never will be, but that said ur a lovely lady and deserve the utmost respect for living with what u do

The forum would not be the same without u

If I ever get to actually meet u in the flesh it would be a great honour xxxxxx

Feel better soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Aawww really feeling the love in this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xxxxxx there are people on here who know your pain, and understand but sometimes it is hidden. xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nosy person checking in...

Girl, you are way cool. Bipolar is just a name - loving a bipolar person is easy in some ways and hard in others.

Trust me, you are one of the easy ones!

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I am not what you would call a friend, more a follower.. We have never met and never chatted... But if life has taught me anything, it is never judge a book by the cover or heresay... Always read it yourself and judge!

I'm sure I knew about your condition (Not illness as it goes so much further than that!) from a while back, unless it was someone else, but if I hadn't have known, I wouldn't have guessed from you posts..

But, another of life's little truisms is that you can never be alone when you swing! No matter how acidic and harsh people seem, it really is a big family and when the chips are down, there is always someone there for you. (first hand experience!)

Lookin at the posts above, you have plenty of support and no, perhaps you shouldn't give in, but at least take time to lean a while on the friends you so obviously have

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Diamond big hugs and kisses from us. You really are a true gem and never forget that. xxxxxxx

P.s will give you big hug at the next social we meet at xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said i dont no you but i have 2 children and a step son with mental illness so i understand a bit bout bipolar and other illnesses.keep smiling and by the way just wanted to say hi.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never met you diamonds and paths only crossed on here, but i wish you good health and good wishes

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Hi. I sure if your ever down in the dumps the lovely people on here will support you best wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What all the other nosey people said

xxxxx

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By *nytimeadeMan
over a year ago

Skegness

"What all the other nosey people said

xxxxx"

PFFT Sympathy Votes ... just attention seeking ..i think ..

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"What all the other nosey people said

xxxxx

PFFT Sympathy Votes ... just attention seeking ..i think ..

Attention seekers and particularly the sympathy vote attention seekers get on my tits... mainly because they use whatever they can to feed from the giving and make whatever is happening to them the centre of the universe. They are truly self-centred needy people. They don’t give a second thought for people who are trying to get on with far more serious struggles in their life without milking it for all it’s worth.

Diamond is one of the most giving people I have had the pleasure to meet, even if she did scare me shitless with the car incident. And on this occasion Ade, I find your joke (I use the term loosely) to be in incredibly poor taste.

Diamond, never was a username more apt.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

WEll said Polo,ive typed and deleted about 6 posts in response to that and then I thought fuck it,it was'nt a surprise that one like that would appear on here nor was it a surprise who it came from

I doubt Diamond will find it a surprise either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AWWW !

Bussy luvs Diamonds

She loves country music, knows who Maya Angelou is and sends me healthy chip recipes

You just have to be wary of her plans to take over the world with a Meerkat Army !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

come give me a cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so you delete ades response but leave the intial comment that caused controvery? that seams fair... NOT

why not just delete all comments?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Diamonds, we all love you, bipolar is part of you, and we love every part of you.

It can be hell on that rollercoaster, but suffice it to say that you are not alone riding that train sweetheart and we are all here for you, in whatever capacity you need us xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope D can see from here how much she is liked and others read this and see you have to take life one day at a time and do you best to keep feeling positive and the mind can play all sorts of tricks with us if we give in to it at times when feeling low.. We choose our thoughts and at times our inner person we can drive us nuts if feeling negative and low .. but getting it out in the open helps . x jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so you delete ades response but leave the intial comment that caused controvery? that seams fair... NOT

why not just delete all comments?"

what comment was deleted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Like you D

You took the time to message me and welcome me to the forums which i thought was really nice of you to do. made me feel welcome and for that i thank you. You are most definitely a Diamond in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking of you sweetie and sending good vibes your way xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Diamond, I will always be your most fanatical stalker

I may not be on here much lately but I am ALWAYS perched in ya bush(es)

Lots of love to you and hope to see you again soon xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so you delete ades response but leave the intial comment that caused controvery? that seams fair... NOT

why not just delete all comments?"

I really hope you don't mean mine Sassy? there was nothing 'controversial' about my post, it was a genuine echo of all the nice things people have said about Diamond, I think she's lovely but don't know her well enough to assume myself a friend.

If Ade chose to post something stoopid on the back of my post it's hardly my fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What all the other nosey people said

xxxxx

PFFT Sympathy Votes ... just attention seeking ..i think ..

There is a difference between attention seeking and reaching out to your friends

That's the peculiar thing about FAB in general and the forums in particular.

The friends you do make aren't always in your email address book or in your mobiles phone book, but that doesn't mean they aren't in your thoughts or aren't there to catch you when you need to be caught !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a mod but can everyone just chill out and focus on the important thing here please, which is Diamonds......

Polo dealt with Ades daft comment, end of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im not a mod but can everyone just chill out and focus on the important thing here please, which is Diamonds......

Polo dealt with Ades daft comment, end of."

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so you delete ades response but leave the intial comment that caused controvery? that seams fair... NOT

why not just delete all comments?

If Ade chose to post something stoopid on the back of my post it's hardly my fault

nooooo wasn't your post. Think ade's reply to your post was uncalled for. But ade replied to polo in the forum with his reason for posting that comment but admin had removed it, was just wondering why they hadnt removed all of the comments that were perhaps distasteful and not the one comment that actually had explained his actions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WEll said Polo,ive typed and deleted about 6 posts in response to that and then I thought fuck it,it was'nt a surprise that one like that would appear on here nor was it a surprise who it came from

I doubt Diamond will find it a surprise either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell you what i find help when feeling low ... Meditation just 5 minuts to sit quietly observe my breathing and allow the thoughts to pass from my mind and i give them no more importance just let them pass .. it helps me .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nooooo wasn't your post. "

Oh sorry hunny, thanks for explaining x

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Like others have said i have never met diamond but i always look for her posts

we have a giggle in pm

and when im feeling down she always cheers me up

cant wait to meet the fine lady once she gets out of meerkat manor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best wishes to you Diamond. You may be struggling with your illness but you are not alone. Reach out for support in whichever way you wish, in times when you need to. Take special care of yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey hope you feel better soon Diamond you are one of he rays of light on here. reach out to your friends in times of need and they will be there for you I am sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from a couple of 'blips', I can honestly say that this is truely a heart warming thread for me to read. I do hope our Diamond feels the same way when she logs back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apart from a couple of 'blips', I can honestly say that this is truely a heart warming thread for me to read. I do hope our Diamond feels the same way when she logs back in

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Wonderful to see so much love for someone obviously so dear to many on here. Diamond, feel the warmth and know that you are special to many. Keep a nugget of that sunshiney love for when it's hard to see the light. xx

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Apart from a couple of 'blips', I can honestly say that this is truely a heart warming thread for me to read. I do hope our Diamond feels the same way when she logs back in

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

As Diamonds is fond of music , here's a bit of Billy Joel for you :

"I love you just the way you are."

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Il even buy her another fecking Meerkat as long as she gets her arse back here soon

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