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Petulant and childish behaviour on here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Put against a wall and shot...or is that too far?

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?"

Naughty step

D.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are people in all walks of life who behave childishly. Temper tantrums, inability to hold a discussion without resorting to insult, sulky behaviour and inability to deal with any emotion but happiness. I've worked with plenty of 'em and it's not pretty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Put against a wall and shot...or is that too far? "

Shot with what?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Put against a wall and shot...or is that too far?

Shot with what? "

Rifles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folks just dont like being told no hence the tantrum/brat behaviour.

They should get a time out on the naughty step or a spanking!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It’s FAB life I’m afraid ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put against a wall and shot...or is that too far?

Shot with what? "

A Nerf thingy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What should be done with them? Hmm. I think they should be ignored when they throw their toys out of the pram and no idea about the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?"

Some people can't handle rejection and sometimes lose their head over it. It happens to the best of us, women would understand better if they were the ones getting constantly rejected

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"It’s FAB life I’m afraid ... "

I think it's just life, not fab life. Some people can't handle rejection (which while I can understand it, don't lash out at others).

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

A damn good spanking should sort them out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are people in all walks of life who behave childishly. Temper tantrums, inability to hold a discussion without resorting to insult, sulky behaviour and inability to deal with any emotion but happiness. I've worked with plenty of 'em and it's not pretty."

I get it some people get frustration but do people think if they get aggressive or abusive its gong to help them on here in any way more likley the opposite as people have friends and lets be honest talk both positively and negatively about other users so they gain noting as I see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like children having a tantrum, just ignore it. They want any form of attention even if it’s negative, so if you bite you’ll play into them.

Just block and delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put against a wall and shot...or is that too far?

Shot with what?

Rifles "

Some of them definitely deserve it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll quite happily volunteer for dishing out some short sharp punishment with my whip.

Won't work on me though when I'm childish I like it too much

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I'll quite happily volunteer for dishing out some short sharp punishment with my whip.

Won't work on me though when I'm childish I like it too much "

Lucky bastards

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Blows raspberry.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

It’s the same in the online dating world. I was advised right at the start:

Only believe a fraction of what you see / read

Never take offence or indeed offend

Never take rejection personally

Develop a thick skin - quick

All good advice and relevant to Fab. Despite knowing this, sometimes you still get someone that will piss you off!

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

In all walks of life some people just don’t like being told no or being rejected. Very childish I agree.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"It’s FAB life I’m afraid ...

I think it's just life, not fab life. Some people can't handle rejection (which while I can understand it, don't lash out at others)."

Absolutely true Meli

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By *andlingswingersCouple
over a year ago

Woodbridge

A reporting button would be good. Four reports from different people and you'd be off Fabs.

There ought to be a special button for total timewasters too.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Like children having a tantrum, just ignore it. They want any form of attention even if it’s negative, so if you bite you’ll play into them.

Just block and delete."

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'll quite happily volunteer for dishing out some short sharp punishment with my whip.

Won't work on me though when I'm childish I like it too much "

Tell me more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A reporting button would be good. Four reports from different people and you'd be off Fabs.

There ought to be a special button for total timewasters too."

I would agree with that if you could stop it being misused for false reports I do think something needs to be done about aggregation though. The time wasting well people change their mind when they get to know someone so it may affect people feeling they have the right of choice.

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

no comment

Seems to be par for the course unfortunately.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A reporting button would be good. Four reports from different people and you'd be off Fabs.

There ought to be a special button for total timewasters too."

There is a report button.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blows raspberry. "

You wouldn't peg them with your light sabe then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll quite happily volunteer for dishing out some short sharp punishment with my whip.

Won't work on me though when I'm childish I like it too much "
maybe i should be naughty if you are willing to punish

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Blows raspberry.

You wouldn't peg them with your light sabe then? "

That's for special people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A reporting button would be good. Four reports from different people and you'd be off Fabs.

There ought to be a special button for total timewasters too.

There is a report button."

There is one for reporting for not turning up but I think a lot of people only class that as a small part of time wasting. Besides as most use kik/watsapp etc to do final arrangements it must be near impossible for admin to ascertain if its a real or bogus report.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"A reporting button would be good. Four reports from different people and you'd be off Fabs.

There ought to be a special button for total timewasters too.

There is a report button.

There is one for reporting for not turning up but I think a lot of people only class that as a small part of time wasting. Besides as most use kik/watsapp etc to do final arrangements it must be near impossible for admin to ascertain if its a real or bogus report. "

That's a risk of chatting outside of fab. Unfortunately

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A reporting button would be good. Four reports from different people and you'd be off Fabs.

There ought to be a special button for total timewasters too.

There is a report button.

There is one for reporting for not turning up but I think a lot of people only class that as a small part of time wasting. Besides as most use kik/watsapp etc to do final arrangements it must be near impossible for admin to ascertain if its a real or bogus report. "

My personal opinion is that if a misdemeanour happens on kik or WhatsApp that is the platform it should be reported to. Otherwise it's like complaining to Sainsbury's that your Tesco delivery hasn't turned up.

The report button is useful for abuse etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and delete

Fuck em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send em to bed early with no supper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People from north London are quality btw lol just saying

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Put against a wall and shot...or is that too far?

Shot with what? "

Cowpats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?"

Immature? Really???? Thank god this post never came up in conker season.. It'd have sent me over the edge!!!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Afraid so

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?

Some people can't handle rejection and sometimes lose their head over it. It happens to the best of us, women would understand better if they were the ones getting constantly rejected "

If a man cannot handle rejection on fab and behaves badly he should not be on here or his profile deleted for him by admin.Women don't need to understand anything of the sort. They are the ones abused by unsolicited cock shot photos in messages and inane messages.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?

Some people can't handle rejection and sometimes lose their head over it. It happens to the best of us, women would understand better if they were the ones getting constantly rejected "

Had a lifetime of it. On here you can say good riddance and block them. In meat space you have to keep living with these people, some of whom make your unrequited interest into sport.

I know taking rejection graciously very well.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?

Some people can't handle rejection and sometimes lose their head over it. It happens to the best of us, women would understand better if they were the ones getting constantly rejected

Had a lifetime of it. On here you can say good riddance and block them. In meat space you have to keep living with these people, some of whom make your unrequited interest into sport.

I know taking rejection graciously very well. "

Incredibly some men still try to make their bad behaviour a women's responsibility

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?

Some people can't handle rejection and sometimes lose their head over it. It happens to the best of us, women would understand better if they were the ones getting constantly rejected

Had a lifetime of it. On here you can say good riddance and block them. In meat space you have to keep living with these people, some of whom make your unrequited interest into sport.

I know taking rejection graciously very well.

Incredibly some men still try to make their bad behaviour a women's responsibility "

Yup. It's up to you to handle yourself as best you can. Whether you're rejecting, rejected, or dealing with a communication issue.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?

Some people can't handle rejection and sometimes lose their head over it. It happens to the best of us, women would understand better if they were the ones getting constantly rejected

Had a lifetime of it. On here you can say good riddance and block them. In meat space you have to keep living with these people, some of whom make your unrequited interest into sport.

I know taking rejection graciously very well.

Incredibly some men still try to make their bad behaviour a women's responsibility

Yup. It's up to you to handle yourself as best you can. Whether you're rejecting, rejected, or dealing with a communication issue. "

When it comes to understanding I think a lot of women understand certain behaviours only too well.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?"

I never have a problem with not for us thanks as it’s nice to get a reply. Rather than some that just seem to be picture hunters that don’t delete and don’t reply.

Not that I get the hump all I do is block and move on.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?

Some people can't handle rejection and sometimes lose their head over it. It happens to the best of us, women would understand better if they were the ones getting constantly rejected

Had a lifetime of it. On here you can say good riddance and block them. In meat space you have to keep living with these people, some of whom make your unrequited interest into sport.

I know taking rejection graciously very well.

Incredibly some men still try to make their bad behaviour a women's responsibility

Yup. It's up to you to handle yourself as best you can. Whether you're rejecting, rejected, or dealing with a communication issue.

When it comes to understanding I think a lot of women understand certain behaviours only too well. "

Absolutely.

Been dealing with it for a long time. Just because it's new to these conventionally attractive guys and I'm not holding their hand, doesn't mean I don't understand what they're going through. It means that they need to suck it up the way they expected me to.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

A profile rating system would be good whereby you get to anonymously rate any profile out of 5. Can be changed at any time but only one rate per profile.

Would make people more eager to please others and more hesitant6to act as if they're beyond accountability.

People would naturally stay away from profiles with 1 or 2 stars and prefer engaging with 4 or 5 star profiles.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A profile rating system would be good whereby you get to anonymously rate any profile out of 5. Can be changed at any time but only one rate per profile.

Would make people more eager to please others and more hesitant6to act as if they're beyond accountability.

People would naturally stay away from profiles with 1 or 2 stars and prefer engaging with 4 or 5 star profiles.

"

How would that work? What's to stop me giving you one star and the guys who think it will get them sex giving every woman in a fifty mile radius five?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"A profile rating system would be good whereby you get to anonymously rate any profile out of 5. Can be changed at any time but only one rate per profile.

Would make people more eager to please others and more hesitant6to act as if they're beyond accountability.

People would naturally stay away from profiles with 1 or 2 stars and prefer engaging with 4 or 5 star profiles.

"

Ahh but then you wouldn’t get to read the ‘real’ them. At the moment it’s easy to avoid those that behave badly.

Disgruntled people wouldn’t play fair either.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"A profile rating system would be good whereby you get to anonymously rate any profile out of 5. Can be changed at any time but only one rate per profile.

Would make people more eager to please others and more hesitant6to act as if they're beyond accountability.

People would naturally stay away from profiles with 1 or 2 stars and prefer engaging with 4 or 5 star profiles.

"
I think I would prefer to make my own judgement about people and someone's profile is only a starting point and often does not reflect who they really are.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?"

You will find many arrested development teens masquerading as adults here i'm afraid

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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It’s about so much more than just rejection though. Anonymity of online interactions make it easy for people to behave badly. Maturity has nothing to do with age and that is plain to see at times on here unfortunately.

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By *ent_couple2019Couple
over a year ago

canterbury


"A reporting button would be good. Four reports from different people and you'd be off Fabs.

There ought to be a special button for total timewasters too."

I'd take great pleasure in this

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?"

They should be banned from the site. IP address recorded so next time they create a new profile banned again. This way only the genuine nice people would remain as members.....there’s too many childish folk on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?"
detention

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"A profile rating system would be good whereby you get to anonymously rate any profile out of 5. Can be changed at any time but only one rate per profile.

Would make people more eager to please others and more hesitant6to act as if they're beyond accountability.

People would naturally stay away from profiles with 1 or 2 stars and prefer engaging with 4 or 5 star profiles.

Ahh but then you wouldn’t get to read the ‘real’ them. At the moment it’s easy to avoid those that behave badly.

Disgruntled people wouldn’t play fair either. "

Would be similar to real life, not the real them, just being nice not to make a twat of themselves. Having 0 accountability or repercussions for anti social behavior might allow you to see the real them but also makes it unpleasant for everyone.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ve had a petulant message then blocked. No idea why. Took offence I guess. At what is anyone’s guess.

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By *ent_couple2019Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

We've had abusive messages

Usually from those that haven't read our profile properly

Or those that have pestered

Or feel like they have been waiting for a reply despite saying we both work and have a young family.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"A profile rating system would be good whereby you get to anonymously rate any profile out of 5. Can be changed at any time but only one rate per profile.

Would make people more eager to please others and more hesitant6to act as if they're beyond accountability.

People would naturally stay away from profiles with 1 or 2 stars and prefer engaging with 4 or 5 star profiles.

Ahh but then you wouldn’t get to read the ‘real’ them. At the moment it’s easy to avoid those that behave badly.

Disgruntled people wouldn’t play fair either.

Would be similar to real life, not the real them, just being nice not to make a twat of themselves. Having 0 accountability or repercussions for anti social behavior might allow you to see the real them but also makes it unpleasant for everyone. "

I don’t have unpleasant messages luckily. I’ve seen one or two unpleasant things on the forums though - I think they are unpleasant things but the next person along may feel what they say is fine. Who would judge?

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By *lack UhuruMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?"

Block and delete

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?

They should be banned from the site. IP address recorded so next time they create a new profile banned again. This way only the genuine nice people would remain as members.....there’s too many childish folk on here. "

One problem, VPN's

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s all life unfortunately. Some just don’t take rejection well or even just being told the simple word ‘No’ in everyday working life, could result in their toys being thrown out of the pram

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to throw in my 2 cents as one of the childish folk around here. I'll be serious if a thread or post calls for it otherwise I'm here to have fun and my posts with reflect my nature. I'm not looking to offend anyone or act the maggot, I just like to have a laugh and a joke. If this place became super serious all the time it would lose much of its appeal in my opinion, I like the mixture of silly and serious folk. If anyone does your head in then block them, otherwise dont let it bother you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so many new post I have seen is of swareing, but yet when you reported it

The post stays.

Forum use to be good, but not any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s all life unfortunately. Some just don’t take rejection well or even just being told the simple word ‘No’ in everyday working life, could result in their toys being thrown out of the pram "
yes i agree lots of women are prone to this

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By *apiensWoman
over a year ago

glasgow


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?"

I rather think most of them already do suffer the ultimate punishment, which is to spend an eternity perving miserably on fab, without EVER getting laid.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"It’s all life unfortunately. Some just don’t take rejection well or even just being told the simple word ‘No’ in everyday working life, could result in their toys being thrown out of the pram yes i agree lots of women are prone to this "

In my experience it’s corporate men.... but horses for courses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 18 and know how to conduct think it’s the way brought up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s all life unfortunately. Some just don’t take rejection well or even just being told the simple word ‘No’ in everyday working life, could result in their toys being thrown out of the pram yes i agree lots of women are prone to this

In my experience it’s corporate men.... but horses for courses "
lol its even stevens

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It’s all life unfortunately. Some just don’t take rejection well or even just being told the simple word ‘No’ in everyday working life, could result in their toys being thrown out of the pram yes i agree lots of women are prone to this

In my experience it’s corporate men.... but horses for courses "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?

Some people can't handle rejection and sometimes lose their head over it. It happens to the best of us, women would understand better if they were the ones getting constantly rejected

If a man cannot handle rejection on fab and behaves badly he should not be on here or his profile deleted for him by admin.Women don't need to understand anything of the sort. They are the ones abused by unsolicited cock shot photos in messages and inane messages."

Exactly this.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Rejection isn't easy, but you get used to after a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?

I rather think most of them already do suffer the ultimate punishment, which is to spend an eternity perving miserably on fab, without EVER getting laid. "

While periodically deleting their account in a huff then coming back and doing the exact same thing as before and expecting a different result. Which is how Einstein defined insanity

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London


"Rejection isn't easy, but you get used to after a while. "

Why isn’t it easy? I disagree because we get rejected in all walks of life, jobs, dates, credit card, loan.

That’s just life. When I get rejected on here I simply thank them and move on, no point dwelling.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?"
send them down, take them to a place where they shall be hung by the neck, then their genitals removed and head out on a spike at the city walls, bit harsh?

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Quite happy to leave them to stew in their own juices. If they behave badly and deselect themselves it makes the good people shine by default. While it's really not nice to hear about it (and embarrassing if it's men) it also edges the cream slightly further to the top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally speaking I’ve never taken offence to a polite rejection, it’s all subjective after all, just because I may find someone attractive it doesn’t mean that they have to find me attractive too, after all, we all have our own personal opinions on what or who we find attractive. I’d go so far as to say that I’d rather be told, thanks but no thanks, as opposed to my message being read and ignored, after all, I took the time to message, surely it’s polite to do the same? I know ladies get many more messages than us, I just like good manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?"

Don’t stoop - ignore. Some people are only on here for the attention.

Genuine people know how to take rejection, always remember that.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Personally speaking I’ve never taken offence to a polite rejection, it’s all subjective after all, just because I may find someone attractive it doesn’t mean that they have to find me attractive too, after all, we all have our own personal opinions on what or who we find attractive. I’d go so far as to say that I’d rather be told, thanks but no thanks, as opposed to my message being read and ignored, after all, I took the time to message, surely it’s polite to do the same? I know ladies get many more messages than us, I just like good manners."

Unfortunately different norms exist here because good manners are exploited. If you don't get an answer, move on.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"The age limit is 18 that is clear, but so many people act in an immature way especially when rejected. Are some people really incapable of acting like adults and if not what should be done with them?"

Limited emotional development

Inability to accept negative responses

Unable to process honesty

Or a quick synopsis = there twats

Ray

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By *nowman_77Man
over a year ago

Weston

Interesting thread.

My take on this is that it’s merely a symptom of the increased use of computers and social media. Rejection is never an easy thing to deal with but in person sometimes it’s easier to handle, particularly if the person delivering message handles it sensitively. This whole Fab thing is totally impersonal and thus it’s easier for the rejected person to spout abuse from behind a keyboard as he/she can hide.

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