FabSwingers.com forum: What have you lied about to get a meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever told a fib to get a secure a meet on here?

Did you get away with it or were you found out?

Would you fib to get a meet? I think i’d defo tell a small lie about musical taste or liking radishes but not huge woppers like being a size 6 for example.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We haven't lied to get a meet but people have lied to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We haven't lied to get a meet but people have lied to us."

About what they look like or other

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I haven't

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I once said I had vaguely noticed his posts on here. That was a lie and a half.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've not lied but have been lied to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing and I never would...

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No, there's nothing I've ever felt the need to lie about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't, and wouldn't. I'm just not that desperate to meet people.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We haven't lied to get a meet but people have lied to us.

About what they look like or other"

Age, weight, marital status, preferences,height, in the case of couples willingness to participate, things like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you'd just be cheating yourself??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We lie about our location and exact date of birth although the general area and year are correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We lie about our location and exact date of birth although the general area and year are correct. "

Oh i am doing this too LOL ... I see it more as precautionary personal security than deliberate deceit

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I haven't lied to anyone and I'm not aware of anyone lying to me. I have chatted to people who I don't believe the age on their profile though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We lie about our location and exact date of birth although the general area and year are correct.

Oh i am doing this too LOL ... I see it more as precautionary personal security than deliberate deceit

Yep. Our pictures tell the story of body type etc and our age tells the story of wrinkles to expect

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By *forfun500Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Dont see the point in lieing tbh discretion is important to us hence limited pics and no names but if we where to find a genuine meet I'd tell you everything you wanted to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing thats why i havent met anyone haha. Getting a reply is hard enough

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Dont see the point in lieing tbh discretion is important to us hence limited pics and no names but if we where to find a genuine meet I'd tell you everything you wanted to know "

Everything!? We only talk in general terms about jobs and family if someone starts asking too many personal questions we back off

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I haven't lied to anyone and I'm not aware of anyone lying to me. I have chatted to people who I don't believe the age on their profile though. "

I normally just add a few years on once they reach a certain age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever told a fib to get a secure a meet on here?

Did you get away with it or were you found out?

Would you fib to get a meet? I think i’d defo tell a small lie about musical taste or liking radishes but not huge woppers like being a size 6 for example.

Do I look like a politician

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I haven't lied to anyone and I'm not aware of anyone lying to me. I have chatted to people who I don't believe the age on their profile though.

I normally just add a few years on once they reach a certain age.

I've had people claiming to only be a couple of years older than me and if they are they must have had a tough life

. The thing is I'm still attracted to them and they're still going to be within my age limits but I guess it's hard to admit your profile isn't accurate.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I haven't lied to anyone and I'm not aware of anyone lying to me. I have chatted to people who I don't believe the age on their profile though. "

I'm forever being told I look about 12

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit evasive about my job and the exact area I live in, but other than that I'm entirely honest. Lying about something to get someone into bed is pretty low.

The most common lie I've come across is guys exaggerating their height. Recently I went to meet a 6 ft 2 guy for a drink and I almost didn't spot the 5 ft 10 version.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I haven't lied to anyone and I'm not aware of anyone lying to me. I have chatted to people who I don't believe the age on their profile though.

I'm forever being told I look about 12

Haha same. A guy on the train the other day asked me if I was a student and then was surprised I was the same age as him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a few months when I was 40 I lied that my age was 39. But I cracked early on as the pressure of maintaining such deception was too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. What’s the point? Only get found out eventually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't lied about anything to get a meet but been lied to numerous times. Beasts age is slightly wrong but only by about 6 months.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

I have "white lied" not to get a meet (I am always worried about hurting peoples feelings) is that as bad?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I haven't lied and wouldn't do so to get a meet.

I don't see the point.

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By *ad steMan
over a year ago

Southport

I don't believe in lying just don't ask me a question you don't want to hear the truth to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't "

Oh yes you did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been lied to so many times and im happy to be just me what's the point in lying you get found out and then it gets uncomfortable on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have "white lied" not to get a meet (I am always worried about hurting peoples feelings) is that as bad?

Plenty of that goes on here

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"Have you ever told a fib to get a secure a meet on here?

Did you get away with it or were you found out?

Would you fib to get a meet? I think i’d defo tell a small lie about musical taste or liking radishes but not huge woppers like being a size 6 for example.

Nope, never lied and never would. One, I’m a terrible fibber and two, it would only come out at some point and destroy any trust that has been built.

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By *ensual mMan
over a year ago

conwy

Always open and honest with people on here. No point telling lies just makes thing awkward when your found out i would imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been lied to so many times and im happy to be just me what's the point in lying you get found out and then it gets uncomfortable on a meet "

First meet I had he lied

Photo was 30 years old...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see the point in lying. I have been lied to though, and that’s also pointless as I realised straight away, and then it’s a no.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've lied about how ugly I am.

Apparently I'm not a munter.

Go figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have "white lied" not to get a meet (I am always worried about hurting peoples feelings) is that as bad?

Not at all. If you white lie am sure in the end you will come through with truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never. What’s the point? Only get found out eventually! "

So me whispering in your ear last night... Damn lol

Pants were on fire though lol

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'd never lead anyone on with false pretences. Everything begins with trust and if that's lacking from the outset, the end result is rarely a good one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever told a fib to get a secure a meet on here?

Did you get away with it or were you found out?

Would you fib to get a meet? I think i’d defo tell a small lie about musical taste or liking radishes but not huge woppers like being a size 6 for example.

Liar liar pants on fire... Is what a lot here do one way or the other

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Being genuine is the key to this life so for us we say it as it is and dont tell porkies....just hope other people we contact do likewise xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely get meets. Maybe I should start lying

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Lou) I dont tell lies because

1, it's written all over my face when I do lie, even a small white lie, and

2 you have to have a good memory, which I dont

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By *ister KinkyMan
over a year ago

Sussex

"Nope, never lied and never would. One, I’m a terrible fibber and two, it would only come out at some point and destroy any trust that has been built. "

Plus I should say I don’t understand people lying about their height. That is so easily going to be found out straight away.

Thankfully I am genuinely 6’04.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My skin colour and my race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'you want the truth! You can't handle it'.........

In general I think folk want some of the truth, where it suits their thinking.

Other things they are open to interpretation, and there's a lot they don't know how to process, so wouldn't care either way.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Ray)

Why would you ? You'll only get found out and as someone has already eluded to the only person you're really lying to is yourself

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Dont see the point in lieing tbh discretion is important to us hence limited pics and no names but if we where to find a genuine meet I'd tell you everything you wanted to know "

Your status Amazon wish list has a pic of (presumably) the male half, just FYI... Mr.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I don't reveal my exact location to anyone, that's purely because I value my privacy and safety. Other than that I choose to not give too much personal information regarding my job & family, for the same reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep we won't lie to get a meet but one guy in particular lied massively to us...

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Definitely not, why lie, you’ll only get caught out. Truth only way in here and normal life

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I'm deliberately vague about personal details for safety reasons...until someone wins my trust and then I'm an open book.

I'm not looking for one-off encounters, so why would I begin a potential friendship on the basis of untruths?

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I've never lied to get a meet, but I've lied to get out of one that wasn't going well. (Although I'm a really crap liar, you can read my face like an open book.)

I've been accused of lying about my age because I look mid twenties.

I've met men who have clearly lied about age, weight, height, smoking status, married status...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t believe I’ve ever lied but did meet a guy off here who told me he was into various sexual activities. When we met, this was obviously not true.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

I’m 49 not 50 but I just didn’t want to put my actual date of birth in

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"I don’t believe I’ve ever lied but did meet a guy off here who told me he was into various sexual activities. When we met, this was obviously not true.

Common!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d never lie to anyone on here. What would the point of that be. It just smacks of desperation.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I convince them I am a woman.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"I convince them I am a woman.

Does it work?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I convince them I am a woman.

Does it work?

Not really. My profile has the same rate of meets as the average single man's profile on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So weird to lie to get sex.

It’s really not worth lying for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everytime its a lifeskill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't think of telling anyone a lie on here. Maybe I should try it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't think of telling anyone a lie on here. Maybe I should try it. "
its all about thinking on ya feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 99 but lied about my age because I didnt want the website to explode on my next birthday

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I am 99 but lied about my age because I didnt want the website to explode on my next birthday

You lied about LMP! I still haven't forgiven you.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I am 99 but lied about my age because I didnt want the website to explode on my next birthday

You lied about LMP! I still haven't forgiven you.

This is a medical abbreviation that I hope isn't what you mean

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I am 99 but lied about my age because I didnt want the website to explode on my next birthday

You lied about LMP! I still haven't forgiven you.

This is a medical abbreviation that I hope isn't what you mean

Lemon Meringue Pie. I still haven't tasted his.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Nope, I’ve never fibbed to get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am 99 but lied about my age because I didnt want the website to explode on my next birthday

You lied about LMP! I still haven't forgiven you.

This is true, I have only made one LMP in 2019! It is totally crazy, why have I only made one!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I am 99 but lied about my age because I didnt want the website to explode on my next birthday

You lied about LMP! I still haven't forgiven you.

This is true, I have only made one LMP in 2019! It is totally crazy, why have I only made one!

'Mericans don't have lemon curd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Said I was funny. Got called out on that pretty quickly

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By *r lotharioMan
over a year ago

playa del ingles

never lie - it's not worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am 99 but lied about my age because I didnt want the website to explode on my next birthday

You lied about LMP! I still haven't forgiven you.

This is true, I have only made one LMP in 2019! It is totally crazy, why have I only made one!

'Mericans don't have lemon curd.

True I did spend a lot of the year on the road, even if I got the ingredients it would be a struggle to make it on a camping stove in a kettle

and I dont use lemon curd, I make my own filling from actual lemons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said I loved him but I lied....This is more than love I feel inside

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Location is a bit out but What you see is what you get, no point in lying as you will always get found out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does fibbing to the babysitter about where I'm off out to for the night count?

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"Does fibbing to the babysitter about where I'm off out to for the night count?

Not unless the babysitter is on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does fibbing to the babysitter about where I'm off out to for the night count?

Not unless the babysitter is on fab

But then I wouldn't have had to leave the house in the first place surely?

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By *wloverMan
over a year ago

evesham

Have never lied to get a meet and never would, what's the point in lying when the lifestyle is built around trust,how can you trust someone when they lie straight away?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't lied to anyone and I'm not aware of anyone lying to me. I have chatted to people who I don't believe the age on their profile though.

I normally just add a few years on once they reach a certain age.

Anyone aged 45 needs a good long looking at

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I haven't lied to anyone and I'm not aware of anyone lying to me. I have chatted to people who I don't believe the age on their profile though.

I normally just add a few years on once they reach a certain age.

Anyone aged 45 needs a good long looking at

I probably need carbon dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile is 100% accurate, but as most think profiles are 50% BS, it doesn’t do me any good!

I’ve lost a couple of meets on a former profile because I’ve been straight with people, when an untruth might have sealed the deal.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I am 99 but lied about my age because I didnt want the website to explode on my next birthday

You lied about LMP! I still haven't forgiven you.

This is a medical abbreviation that I hope isn't what you mean

Lemon Meringue Pie. I still haven't tasted his."

In my world it means last menstrual period

. Sorry!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Location is a bit out but What you see is what you get, no point in lying as you will always get found out"

Ooh! ooh! Are you really in Cumbria?

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"I'm deliberately vague about personal details for safety reasons...until someone wins my trust and then I'm an open book.

I'm not looking for one-off encounters, so why would I begin a potential friendship on the basis of untruths? "

This is exactly the same for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I use a little bit of white lie. I us one of my middle names instead of my frist name. But that mostly because I hate my frist name

so does that count ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't, and wouldn't. I'm just not that desperate to meet people."

Same

But been lied to about age, smoker, and marital statues. The later is soul destroying when you find out after the fact x

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

I said I was horny but i wasnt- until the meet

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