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How important is sex in your relationship

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I know where on a swingers site and all talk about sex but how important to you is it in a relationship ( i mean proper relationship) could you quite happily go with out if for whatever reason one of you doesnt/cant have sex.

I dont mean go and play with someone else with there consent i mean would you struggle without it or would you be happy as long as everything else was fine within the relationship

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I imagain there are a lot of people on here who are happy with their partner and relationship but are sadly lacking sex. Very hard to cope when one enjoys it and the other doesn't. I can understand why people play away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh thats a deep one diamond , i dont know really lol

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My answer would be, i could live without the actual act of sex but couldnt live without intimacy. For me its the kisses and cuddles that means my partner loves me and is attracted to me, i would struggle with "coldness"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

struggle lol

i know im not in a relationship but if i could happily go without sex i wouldnt be here would i?

If i was in a relationship and they went off sex i dont think i could go without we'd have to come to some sort of agreement

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I imagain there are a lot of people on here who are happy with their partner and relationship but are sadly lacking sex. Very hard to cope when one enjoys it and the other doesn't. I can understand why people play away. "

I love my husband but no sex for 18 years

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"I imagain there are a lot of people on here who are happy with their partner and relationship but are sadly lacking sex. Very hard to cope when one enjoys it and the other doesn't. I can understand why people play away.

I love my husband but no sex for 18 years"

I know the feeling. We came to our 'agreement' 4 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to have sex... alot! He's been poorly this week and I can't wait till he's better so i can ravish him! But it's not so important, if we could never have sex again it wouldn't make me love him any less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagain there are a lot of people on here who are happy with their partner and relationship but are sadly lacking sex. Very hard to cope when one enjoys it and the other doesn't. I can understand why people play away.

I love my husband but no sex for 18 years "

do you think you would still be with him tho if there wasnt sites like this and not having se with your fella for 18 years really ment you hadnt had sex for 18 years, or does the fact you meet men off here make a sexless life copable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be cranky as feck, that's for sure

Wolf

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By *entscotscplCouple
over a year ago

falkirk ish

we have been married almost 35 years and yes we do have an actice sex life between us both

and at times we enjoy fun with others

we always play as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

VERY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to me it wouldnt be a proper marriage without sex, me and my hubby are good friends but i want sex more often than he does, so he lets me see other men, we do cuddle but not as much as i want to.

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By *Sensual40Man
over a year ago

South Woodford


"I imagain there are a lot of people on here who are happy with their partner and relationship but are sadly lacking sex. Very hard to cope when one enjoys it and the other doesn't. I can understand why people play away.

I love my husband but no sex for 18 years"

I am curious, how does that work for you. Patience and understanding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lived without sex for 18 years. Was fine until I realised I could not spend another 18 years with him. Now catching up on the sex I missed....

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Sex is important but not the be all and end all....intimacy is far more important, so im with Diamonds on this

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I imagain there are a lot of people on here who are happy with their partner and relationship but are sadly lacking sex. Very hard to cope when one enjoys it and the other doesn't. I can understand why people play away.

I love my husband but no sex for 18 years

do you think you would still be with him tho if there wasnt sites like this and not having se with your fella for 18 years really ment you hadnt had sex for 18 years, or does the fact you meet men off here make a sexless life copable?"

Up until 4 and a half years ago didn;t know sites like this existed, how niave was I, but a chance meeting opened my eyes. I'd thought that I was frumpy and unattractive and that no man would ever want me again.

People on here may not approve and have demonstrated that both verbally and physically.

I guess that if I hadn't had this chance meeting and didn;t know about Fab, yes I would still be with him, just the frumpy lady I was then.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I imagain there are a lot of people on here who are happy with their partner and relationship but are sadly lacking sex. Very hard to cope when one enjoys it and the other doesn't. I can understand why people play away.

I love my husband but no sex for 18 years

I am curious, how does that work for you. Patience and understanding?

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Yes and the fact that I love him, just in a different way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What relationship?!

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn


"My answer would be, i could live without the actual act of sex but couldnt live without intimacy. For me its the kisses and cuddles that means my partner loves me and is attracted to me, i would struggle with "coldness""

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have unfortunately had two relationships that became sexless and I know there is no way I would want to do it again. So, to make sure I am not villified by the majority of people, I just have the sex now, not the relationship.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"I imagain there are a lot of people on here who are happy with their partner and relationship but are sadly lacking sex. Very hard to cope when one enjoys it and the other doesn't. I can understand why people play away.

I love my husband but no sex for 18 years

do you think you would still be with him tho if there wasnt sites like this and not having se with your fella for 18 years really ment you hadnt had sex for 18 years, or does the fact you meet men off here make a sexless life copable?

Up until 4 and a half years ago didn;t know sites like this existed, how niave was I, but a chance meeting opened my eyes. I'd thought that I was frumpy and unattractive and that no man would ever want me again.

People on here may not approve and have demonstrated that both verbally and physically.

I guess that if I hadn't had this chance meeting and didn;t know about Fab, yes I would still be with him, just the frumpy lady I was then."

You didn't join this website to seek approval, you're an adult and don't need anyone's permission. Don't let other's comments get you down, they haven't walked in your shoes. Chin up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My answer would be, i could live without the actual act of sex but couldnt live without intimacy. For me its the kisses and cuddles that means my partner loves me and is attracted to me, i would struggle with "coldness""

I (mrs) feel exactly the same. I love intimacy and kissing, cuddling, holding hands and the usual things that couples go through together like looking after each other when one of you is poorly etc... It works both ways though, and as long as you are both open and honest with each other you will find what works best for you

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

we love sex between ourselves and cant get enough when we are together.

we arent getting any younger, however, so the time will probably come.

i was in a sexless marriage before we met, so its possible for me to go without sex, as was Em, so we could do it, however, how long the relationship would continue is anyones guess

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Oh great........

Jason and I aren't even going to get the kisses and cuddles bit for 7 months.

I'm off to slit my wrists!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagain there are a lot of people on here who are happy with their partner and relationship but are sadly lacking sex. Very hard to cope when one enjoys it and the other doesn't. I can understand why people play away.

I love my husband but no sex for 18 years

do you think you would still be with him tho if there wasnt sites like this and not having se with your fella for 18 years really ment you hadnt had sex for 18 years, or does the fact you meet men off here make a sexless life copable?

Up until 4 and a half years ago didn;t know sites like this existed, how niave was I, but a chance meeting opened my eyes. I'd thought that I was frumpy and unattractive and that no man would ever want me again.

People on here may not approve and have demonstrated that both verbally and physically.

I guess that if I hadn't had this chance meeting and didn;t know about Fab, yes I would still be with him, just the frumpy lady I was then.

You didn't join this website to seek approval, you're an adult and don't need anyone's permission. Don't let other's comments get you down, they haven't walked in your shoes. Chin up x"

So agree with all the above

Peli I am the same, it's hard and those who look down noses don't know how it is. Thank fab for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am single not in relationship have a lot going on in personal life. Totally lost my sex drive. That is one of the reasons I left. why be on a swingers site with no interest in sex but know it sounds funny but missed the banter and the chat on the forums thats why I came back.

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