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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i know some of you may know by now, as things get around. i wanted to say thanks for all the times that was needed i dont quite know what to say but from the start the support i had of here was wonderful and i will never got that.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"i know some of you may know by now, as things get around. i wanted to say thanks for all the times that was needed i dont quite know what to say but from the start the support i had of here was wonderful and i will never got that."

Kitty, you have my number, you ring me whenever you need to.

Chin up hun and remember the good times with your gorgeous boy.

We all love you and I am sure I speak for all of us when I say.......... you need us...... we will be there.

All my love to you.

Maddie. xxxxxxxxx

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

words are inadequate kitty

just know people are here for you , just let us know whatever you need and whenever you need it

much love and strength xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

You know already we are thinking of you and are here for you if you need anything and I mean anything ((((XXXX))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Haven't heard anything but I can guess. My love and respect for you are heartfelt and genuine and sent all speed to you. xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again, not heard anything, but I think everyone will be sending strong, positive, loving thoughts your way, I know I am

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love you babes and my heart is breaking for you.

I keep looking at that gorgeous pic of him you sent all wrapped up in feathers and it makes me smile. He was beautiful and always will be.

No words seem sufficient at the minute my darling but I know everyone here will share your loss.

A very special little boy who in a small way touched all of our lives.

Mwah xxxx Always xxxx

Sara xxxx

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london

Anything, anytime.

Please just ask.

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my thoughts are with u kitty xxxxxxxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Words are probably not enough right now but we are thinking of you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All our thought are with you Kitty so sorry xxxx

Kate xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kitty ....

My thoughts are with you at this very sad time for you..

got a text to say, so popped back to give you a million hugs and a special hug to a new shining bright star xxx

puts all the other stuff that goes on into perspective

lots of love garry xxx

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

my thoughs are with you kitty

at such a hard time

time does not remove the feelings but does takes the sharp edges off the hurting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kitty hun im so soz words arent enuff 2

fill wat uve lost but u are in all our

thoughts hun i mite be miles away kitty

but im here hun u just need 2 shout

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts are with you Kitty keep ya head up and take care.

Alfie was a shining star and his memory will shine forever bright.. xx

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Thinking of you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sorry for your loss and my thoughts are with you xxxx

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

deepest sympathies from here, sorry to hear of your loss, chin up kitty all your forumites are with you always XXXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heart goes out to you hun.

our thoughts are with you.

kat n kev x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry for your loss.

God Bless.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our thoughts are with you kitty

lots of love richyngayna xxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so very sorry to hear of your loss

patrick & jan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kitty hunni ...so sorry to hear of your loss...anything we can do to help just holler

jim and jan xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our thoughts are with you kitty, if you need anything or just wanna chat giz ring night or day

Janet n Carl xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have seen your comments here many times..though i dont know you or your little boy...i read this sad news with tears in my eyes.....

stay strong and true and hugs from a stranger

clare xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kitty,

never met or spoken sweetheart,

my heartfelt condolences to you and your loved ones

Phill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kitty we're shocked, stunned and so sorry ..

Thinking of you ..

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

I just realised what has happened. Kitty our thoughts are with you and the rest of your family

much love

scarlet sparks xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i should not be at the computer, but i dont know what else todo i have no boy to look after now so i am lost, i cant speak i am dead now my boy my darling boy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooh babes wish i was closer to you I wouldbe round like a shot.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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My thoughts are with you

Yvonne

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kitty u dont need 2 talk hun

but 2 know ur friends are here

sending u HUGS xxx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Nothing we say or do can ease the pain and suffering you're experiencing, apart from, we've been there, and know what a testing time this is for you.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

so very sorry to hear of your loss..my thoughts are with you xCherylx

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By *hristalCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Kitty,

I dont know you and we have never talked but i had to send a mail.

I just wanted to say how sorry i am and that sometimes words are totally inadequate to express sorrow.

Stay strong and the pain will ease i promise you that.

Take care

Christalx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god kitty

Im so so sorry to hear about your loss.

Words wont dull the pain or make it go away.

Were here in away you want us .

peaches12 aka elly

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't begin to imagine what you are feeling, things like this should never happen.

My deepest sympathy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My deepest sincerest sympathy goes out to you.

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear Kitty,

We are devastated by the news in his short life he had the most supportive mum anyone could wish for and we are sure your bravery and his life will serve as an inspiration to others who undergo what we can only assume must be the most painful thing anyone can go through. If we can give you a help with anything, lifts, arrangements whatever please just drop us a line.

all our love

Di and Pete xxx

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By *utty tartWoman
over a year ago

the house of sin

kitty hun

sending my deepest condolences to u and ur family

at this time words are not enough but im sending hugs to you all and you got ma msn if u ever need a chat, a scream or anytihng else just nudge me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess god needed another little angel babes our thoughts are with you always xxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kitty - so so sorry for you and your family - I have never met you but even so I feel your pain and if I could take it away I would. Take care of yourself xxxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im not sure what to say, except my heart is with you

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Oh Kitty,

I am so sorry for your loss.

You have shown superb strength over the last few months, and have been a star.

Your little angel really touched all our lives, and only in a good way. He was a little fighter.

Hold them memories close darling, my love and prayers are with you,

Deepest simpathy,

Debz xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been about much lately so had no idea kitty .... words are meaningless babes and nothing said or done can ease the pain, our hearts go out to you and I will look at my own two boys in a different way tonight .... god bless xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our thoughts are with you at this sad time xxxx

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

kitty hun you know where i am if you need to chat. I am lost for words i am so very very sorry. Hope you can keep strong hun.

Really do not know what to say

jan xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs being sent to and ur family babe. He'll never be forgotten. Everyone is here for u including me even tho we've never spoke. Take it easy babe..thinking of u xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kitty

so sorry for you and god bless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kitty,

I have a good idea what has happened from the other posts and will say my deepest condolences. You can chat to anyone who posted here if you need to we are all here for you! Take care of yourself.

Mr O.

x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Kitty,

I can't begin to understand how you're feeling but I do wish you well, you will have a lot of love and support I'm certain to help you through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear kitty My thoughts are with you at this sad time xx chris xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in tears when I read this earlier and I had no idea what to say, because nothing anyone says will make it better its something you will learn to live with.

I know this cos I had a sister who died at 4 months old (cot death) and my mother never got over it but she did learn to live each day.

In the mean time hun dont shut your friends out cos they knew your beautiful boy.

Surround yourself with people who dont care if you have make up on and will hold you when you need a hug.

Shona

x x x

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By *assie4Couple
over a year ago

highlands

KITTY sorry 4 your loss i have lost a son to cot death...so i know in a way how you may b feeling ,,just hang in there, its so hard but you will come through but if like me you will always have him with you every single day xx

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

Time has taken me from you,

Although not very far.

I'll be watching through the sunshine

And through the brightest star.

I'll be watching all of you,

From the heavens up above.

So take good care of each other

And carry all my love.

If you're ever wondering

If I'm there, here's where you can start.

Take a look inside yourself

Deep within your heart.

I'll always be your baby,

Your child, your best friend.

So anytime you need me,

Close your eyes I'm back again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jan wow xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jan that was lovley hun xxxxxxxxxx

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Kitty,

My heartfelt sympathies to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've pondered what to write to this thread for hours, but adequate words won't come.

Only that my thoughts are with you

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By *ittylitterCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Sheffield

There are no words anyone can say to you that will make it any better but your special memories are always there to cherish and they'll comfort you through the tough times.

Our thoughts are with you, take care and stay strong xxxx

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

This has us devastated as we read the news of Darling Alfie.

We all seemed to go through the pregnancy with you hun and we were all rooting for the little fella when he was in hospital without you. Now we are all in shock to hear this sad news. Like many others on this thread, we know we cannot say anything to make it better, but rest assured that we are all with you and as long as we are alive, Alfie lives on.

Rest in peace now Alfie and God bless xxx

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By *1cebren4uWoman
over a year ago

clydebank

SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR SO SAD LOSS MY HEART IS WITH YOU GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY

BREN XXXX

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

Still thinking about you today, very much in out thoughts

jan n jim xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry for your loss Kitty X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like most on here its hard to find words ,,, why oh why does he take the good ones ,,, i have personaly asked that questions for over 20 years ,,,, my one consolation is that one day we will be together again ,,, best wishes kitty ,,, and if you need to chat to some one whose lil angel was here a very short time ,, then gimme a shout xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know we don't know eachother but I attach a poem that I know bought solace to a very dear friend of mine in her time of loss. Its a bit harsh in places but she said it helped her I hope you feel the same.

I'll lend you for a little while a child of mine God said,

For you to love the while he lives and mourn for when he's dead.

It may be for a year or so or forty two or three,

But will you, till I call him back take care of him for me.

He'll bring his charms to gladden you but should his stay be brief,

You'll have his special memories as a solace for your grief.

I cannot promise he will stay since all from earth return,

But there are lessons taught below I want you all to learn.

Ive looked this whole world over in my search for teachers true,

And from the things that crowd life's lane I have chosen you.

Now will you give him all your love nor think the labour vain?

Nor hate me when I come to take this lent child back again?

I fancied that I heard them say 'Dear Lord, thy will be done'

'For all the joys this child will bring the risk of grief we'll run'

'We'll shelter him with tenderness, we'll love him while we may'

'And for the happiness we've known, we will grateful stay'

'But should thine angels call for him much sooner than we planned'

'We'll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand'

I send this with love and strong thoughts to you all, take care, Raz x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"like most on here its hard to find words ,,, why oh why does he take the good ones ,,, i have personaly asked that questions for over 20 years ,,,, my one consolation is that one day we will be together again ,,, best wishes kitty ,,, and if you need to chat to some one whose lil angel was here a very short time ,, then gimme a shout xxxxx "

A question I've asked myself too........! Take heart from family and friends and you will get through this heart breaking time - and nothing can hurt you as much as losing a child! My thoughts are with you - and if you need to chat I'm here........Jx

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Just to let Kitty know.......

We are all thinking of her today.

All my love to you

Maddie xxx

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