FabSwingers.com forum: Why don't people read profiles?

By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Mine clearly says seeking women and couples, but oddly even though it's the first line it's been missed! Now I know the issues come about regularly been here long enough to see that but just been approached by a man looking for females and he wants to watch me on the toilet!! The mind boggles.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Perhaps he is bored and is taking the piss?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It’s fab welcome to the wonderful world where rulz don’t exist and where 70% can’t read Just ignore and move on we all get it op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell me about it mine says not meeting anyone yet im constantly petered by women and fanny pics ffs only fair tho i never read theres when i was hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there's nothing for them to lose in sending a message. At worst they get blocked in which case it's not loss to them, at best you reply and you're interested. Either way it's not exactly taken much effort to find out.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

As if they were to read the profile it may discourage them from messaging so just send out hundreds of messages like at driftnet.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

People ignore preferences all the time. And apparently reading is too much to ask of many.

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By *pitfiremk10 OP Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I'm not concerned but you have to laugh. In his profile he states he is straight. There's that old chestnut again. Yes I'm learning fast!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t fit the preferences of most of my friends on here.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"Mine clearly says seeking women and couples, but oddly even though it's the first line it's been missed! Now I know the issues come about regularly been here long enough to see that but just been approached by a man looking for females and he wants to watch me on the toilet!! The mind boggles.

If they read your profile it takes up time and they could have messaged at least 6 profiles in the time taken to do so. Its all about the numbers with many people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they read your profile it takes up time and they could have messaged at least 6 profiles in the time taken to do so. Its all about the numbers with many people.

You forgot to mention, messaging with same copy/paste message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not concerned but you have to laugh. In his profile he states he is straight. There's that old chestnut again. Yes I'm learning fast!!"

Then block men from messaging you. Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they read your profile it takes up time and they could have messaged at least 6 profiles in the time taken to do so. Its all about the numbers with many people.

Beat us to it....

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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

That's nothing. Wait until he offers to be your toilet...

I referred someone back to my profile last week which they had clearly ignored.

Response was. It's a fucking website who do you think you are. Then blocked me. Probably for the best. No skin off my nose.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

"That's nothing. Wait until he offers to be your toilet...

I referred someone back to my profile last week which they had clearly ignored.

Response was. It's a fucking website who do you think you are. Then blocked me. Probably for the best. No skin off my nose. "

KC...Just taken a peak at your profile, have to say there is rather a lot to read through. Just a comment.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"That's nothing. Wait until he offers to be your toilet...

I referred someone back to my profile last week which they had clearly ignored.

Response was. It's a fucking website who do you think you are. Then blocked me. Probably for the best. No skin off my nose.

KC...Just taken a peak at your profile, have to say there is rather a lot to read through. Just a comment. "

But so what?

More to read yes, but if someone hasn't got the time to read and understand a person's profile ... why should they invest any time in responding to any messages / requests received from that person?

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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

"That's nothing. Wait until he offers to be your toilet...

I referred someone back to my profile last week which they had clearly ignored.

Response was. It's a fucking website who do you think you are. Then blocked me. Probably for the best. No skin off my nose.

KC...Just taken a peak at your profile, have to say there is rather a lot to read through. Just a comment. "

I know. It's probably the second longest profile I've come across (it's a 5 minute read, if that). It's mostly a reaction to the inane drivel I used to receive. I dont really see a point in listing my likes and thereby what I'm looking for because then the promises and assurances would abound. I'd rather just go with the flow.

I get more compliments on my profile and how its written than anything else. And it acts as a further filter if anything. I no longer recieve 100s a day. More like 10 or so, so its easier to manage.

The more that's written on someone's profile the more I tend to be attracted. Because for me its the mind first.

Although by reference to the particular bloke I referred back to my profile. It was more a reference to the first line surrounded by asterisks. Why bother asking me to meet when I say I'm not meeting anyone new.

What I can say is my approach works for me.

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By *hebritukCouple
over a year ago

London

Most don’t get past the pictures ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I love to see if I'd get a response with a message that has nothing to do with the profiles

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By *izzymonkeyMan
over a year ago

Hiding In A Bush

Easy.....

Laziness.....

Just,here to perv and chance it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pics are more appealing than the text.

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By *oney_Bee_xTV/TS
over a year ago

Teesside

I Block people who don’t read my profile....

I normally give them another chance to read my profile and lure them by asking them something to respond about my profile.

If their response proves they haven’t read anything on my profile again, I just Delete their message and Block them.......

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