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By *am62 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtf

They’re clearly in the wrong.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Them for throwing them away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them. "

Whos house is it xx

And it is inconsiderate as you brought them and they are not theirs. They dont have to eat them just they are in the house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd make them replace the biscuits

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Cheeky shits I'd throw them out how dare they,it may only be biscuits but it's the principle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s just bloody rude !

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

They could always have had the will power not to eat them.

Fault is not with you.

Weird behaviour

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

That’s brutal. You need to piss in thier water bottles and lace thier smoothies with crushed jammy dodgers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Them. Just because they are in the cupboard it doesn't mean they have to eat them. Also do they not understand how bad unnecessary food waste is

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

You have to ask

I'd tell them if they don't like it find somewhere else to live

They don't have to eat the biscuits

Do they throw away your sanitary products because they don't use them?

What a pair of tossers!!

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

They are definitely in the wrong!!

If they don't want to eat them the don't have to

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Temptation exists, they need to manage it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow... how inconsiderate of you for thinking of everyone when buying those delicious custard creams... and how good of them for thinking of themselves when binning them

Id be having words with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're fitness fanatics then they should have the willpower to not eat custard creams if they don't want to. And they should have the general good manners to not throw out other people's things.

Start throwing out their protein powder because you don't want to eat it and see how they like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have them both shot at dawn

Throwing any biscuit is a waste, but a custard cream; nah, not on, not having it!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

27 and 28? With no manners it seems....

OP fill a cupboard up with biscuits of your choice for you and your guests, tell your nephews like it or lump it....and learn some respect for their aunty...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If they're fitness fanatics then they should have the willpower to not eat custard creams if they don't want to. And they should have the general good manners to not throw out other people's things.

Start throwing out their protein powder because you don't want to eat it and see how they like it"

Yes good idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what a biri is, but I'm guessing that's where your nephews belong.

Anyone disrespectted me in my home like that would be out on their ear.

NO second chances.

Totally disrespectful

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If they're fitness fanatics then they should have the willpower to not eat custard creams if they don't want to. And they should have the general good manners to not throw out other people's things.

Start throwing out their protein powder because you don't want to eat it and see how they like it"

Yup, don't want that over processed fake food in your house!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them. "

Omg Custard Creams as far as I am concerned that's a crime and they should leave and they are 27 and 28 old enough to do their own cooking and cleaning!!!! At 20 my two children had left home and look after themselves. Stop cooking and cleaning for them

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By *iking 777Man
over a year ago

wick

Them in the wrong. Get shot of there protein shakes and say you didnt want them in the house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wtf

They’re clearly in the wrong. "

What she said!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is a jaw dropping thread. Holy ..... what the hell do people think they are for goodness sake. What the hell makes them even begin to think they can go into someones house and just throw stuff in the bin? What's wrong with just saying no thank you? That really beggars belief!

Pam62, no way are you in the wrong and if you're upset, which obviously you are then you have every right to be, I'd be absolutely furious!

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By *am62 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them.

Whos house is it xx

And it is inconsiderate as you brought them and they are not theirs. They dont have to eat them just they are in the house. "
It's my house they live with me.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I do agree that custard creams belong in the bin though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's my house they live with me. "

Didn't realise that but it makes no difference at all, they could just say no thanks, maybe you wanted some, so they deprived you in your own home. If it was me they'd be either out on their ears or on a firm final warning

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By *am62 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

That's nothing I made a coffee and walnut cake the other week and they went bonkers, you shouldn't make cake as we will only eat it, yet muggins here buys all there yogurt and fruit, I dropped one at the train station this morning as he works in London till Friday, and all the way he was saying I was inconsiderate, so I stopped the car and threw him out in the rain,in his smart suit. Nows that's inconsiderate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Throw something of theres in the bin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them.

Whos house is it xx

And it is inconsiderate as you brought them and they are not theirs. They dont have to eat them just they are in the house. It's my house they live with me. "

It's your house and your rules. Tell them to replace the biscuits and to leave things alone. It is not their place nor is it their right to remove or dispose of anything without your consent. Point out any of their proteins, shakes or any other stuff they may have around and tell them that you may not like such stuff cluttering up your cupboards or wherever they're stored, but you aren't so ignorant or rude as to just chuck the stuff away. Tell them to grow up and if they don't like things as they are they are free to leave at any time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s brutal. You need to piss in thier water bottles and lace thier smoothies with crushed jammy dodgers "

Omfg brilliant! Hahahahahahahaha

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

Disgraceful behaviour on their part - so rude

I’d demand an apology; replacement of the biscuits; and flowers for you before I’d ever invite them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's nothing I made a coffee and walnut cake the other week and they went bonkers, you shouldn't make cake as we will only eat it, yet muggins here buys all there yogurt and fruit, I dropped one at the train station this morning as he works in London till Friday, and all the way he was saying I was inconsiderate, so I stopped the car and threw him out in the rain,in his smart suit. Nows that's inconsiderate. "

Sounds like they need to learn to repeat other people's things. They need to understand that it's your house and you can do whatever you like in it, including buying food that they clearly can't help but eat; which by the way, is entirely their problem not yours! Give them a clip round the ear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s brutal. You need to piss in thier water bottles and lace thier smoothies with crushed jammy dodgers

Omfg brilliant! Hahahahahahahaha "

Swap the powders with weightwatchers meal replacements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them. "

They're not only inconsiderate but also idiots, who should provide their own roof if they want to dick around like that. Pair of shrubs.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Time to take back your power Pam.

You have been the servant too long and they see you as one. Your house, your rules, they can follow them or leave.

I bet they don’t pay rent.

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By *am62 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Throw something of theres in the bin "

Throw them in the bin

Then they'd be in the bin AND they'd have to resist eating thre custard creams in there!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them. "

Well I'm sorry that is totally unacceptable behaviour! Selfish ... as is living in your house as adults and not doing their share of cooking and cleaning! Plus you're giving them lifts? Wtf ... that to me would be a yellow card warning!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol. "

How long have they been living with you?

Withdraw all services and see how they cope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol. "

Does that include their food?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol.

Does that include their food? "

And if one of them works in London, you should charge London rates ... £100 is very cheap!!

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

It's your fucking house!

Cheeky bastards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol.

Does that include their food?

And if one of them works in London, you should charge London rates ... £100 is very cheap!!"

Omg totally!

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By *am62 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Thankyou so much for your comments very kind of you all. And you've given me good advice which I shall be dishing out.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Outrageous behaviour. Your house your rules and it's bullying.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Thankyou so much for your comments very kind of you all. And you've given me good advice which I shall be dishing out. "

Dish it out by writing the new rules on a big stick and beating them with it

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By *am62 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol.

Does that include their food?

And if one of them works in London, you should charge London rates ... £100 is very cheap!!

Omg totally! "
Yes food included and gas etc, and broadband.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol.

Does that include their food? "

Well it includes biscuits anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the ball is in your court here, you really need to sit them down and read them the riot act, honestly. They will only take more and more liberties if you let them get away with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol.

Does that include their food?

And if one of them works in London, you should charge London rates ... £100 is very cheap!!

Omg totally! Yes food included and gas etc, and broadband. "

Sounds like it's time to actually break down the costs and work out how much they REALLY owe you a month and then they can decide if they want to live by your rules in YOUR home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol.

Does that include their food?

And if one of them works in London, you should charge London rates ... £100 is very cheap!!

Omg totally! Yes food included and gas etc, and broadband. "

That should be the weekly charge to be honest with you! You're being taken for a mug and not actually teaching them the value of things and life.

They will only become responsible adults when made to be responsible for themselves.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol. "

Kick them out I'll give you £300 a month, do my own cooking, washing and I'll buy custard creams and chocolate biscuits as well

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol. "

You are being taken for a ride by two very selfish individuals...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"That's nothing I made a coffee and walnut cake the other week and they went bonkers, you shouldn't make cake as we will only eat it, yet muggins here buys all there yogurt and fruit, I dropped one at the train station this morning as he works in London till Friday, and all the way he was saying I was inconsiderate, so I stopped the car and threw him out in the rain,in his smart suit. Nows that's inconsiderate. "

Excellent good for you,I've done that to my daughter before now it wasn't raining though. When I'm taking the time and trouble to take you to your friend's when you're more than capable of getting on a bus don't sit there giving me gip girl,I pulled into a bus stop and told her to pop out she wasn't impressed and slammed my door. I honked my horn back,thankfully for her it was only a five min walk from there.

She is a stroppy teenager though and I'd like to think she's grown out of that now.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol.

Does that include their food?

And if one of them works in London, you should charge London rates ... £100 is very cheap!!

Omg totally! Yes food included and gas etc, and broadband. "

£100 a week would be cheap tbh.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol.

You are being taken for a ride by two very selfish individuals..."

I'll say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One wonders how many star jumps they could do with a family sized twin pack of custard creams shoved up their arse...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I think the ball is in your court here, you really need to sit them down and read them the riot act, honestly. They will only take more and more liberties if you let them get away with it"

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By *am62 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Yesterday also I went out the front to put rubbish out, and that's how I found biscuits, and one cane running out, you shouldn't leave front door open as anyone could come in and pinch our bikes, OMG and in the back of my car was his other bike which he left in it overnight, so nothing said about someone could smash my car window and pinch it.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

It is of course none of our business and you doubt have to answer, there are many different family dynamics out there, but if they're your nephews, why are they living with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t cook and clean for them ,if they want to eat let them buy their own .

It is so disrespectful and rude, I would never have been so disrespectful to my parents . Kick them out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol. "

£50 a week for the pair of them? You're being too generous, they should be paying much more that. Utilties bills aren't cheap nor is council tax plus the cost of you being their chauffer and food you provide. Time to put your foot down with a firm hand and tell them to contribute more to the running of the household or ship out to bedsit land. That'd shake them up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t cook and clean for them ,if they want to eat let them buy their own .

It is so disrespectful and rude, I would never have been so disrespectful to my parents or the household I was staying in . Kick them out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them. "

Them.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Did you see the wrappers in the bin?

It's my guess they ate the lot.

£100 per month is £3.33 per day. That's not even subsistence money.

Stop treating them like children.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Yesterday also I went out the front to put rubbish out, and that's how I found biscuits, and one cane running out, you shouldn't leave front door open as anyone could come in and pinch our bikes, OMG and in the back of my car was his other bike which he left in it overnight, so nothing said about someone could smash my car window and pinch it."

Time to gently push them out of your door methinks and regain some sanity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol.

£50 a week for the pair of them? You're being too generous, they should be paying much more that. Utilties bills aren't cheap nor is council tax plus the cost of you being their chauffer and food you provide. Time to put your foot down with a firm hand and tell them to contribute more to the running of the household or ship out to bedsit land. That'd shake them up. "

God !!!! I paid £25 a week in the eighties and not in London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yesterday also I went out the front to put rubbish out, and that's how I found biscuits, and one cane running out, you shouldn't leave front door open as anyone could come in and pinch our bikes, OMG and in the back of my car was his other bike which he left in it overnight, so nothing said about someone could smash my car window and pinch it."

They're taking the piss.

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

Draw up new rules, put the rent up and get them to sign a contract. If they dont like it, they can go find somewhere else to live, a hit of reality might soon change their minds!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I think they ate them....

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Yesterday also I went out the front to put rubbish out, and that's how I found biscuits, and one cane running out, you shouldn't leave front door open as anyone could come in and pinch our bikes, OMG and in the back of my car was his other bike which he left in it overnight, so nothing said about someone could smash my car window and pinch it.

Time to gently push them out of your door methinks and regain some sanity."

And regain your house

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Draw up new rules, put the rent up and get them to sign a contract. If they dont like it, they can go find somewhere else to live, a hit of reality might soon change their minds! "

Yes, I'd double their rent, and tell them that they were no longer allowed to use your food, and say that living with you ends permanently in three months.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

£100 a month and they treat you like that? I'd be increasing their rent and removing privileges such as lifts and meals cooked etc - they want to behave like children, start treating them as such - they'll soon learn.

Change the wifi password too and tell them they won't be getting it until they start to show some respect and consideration.

Family or not, they're taking advantage plain and simple and you need to stop that - at today's rates they're paying well under the odds (£25/week) for accommodation - even in cheaper areas they'd be looking at triple that for a place - if they don't like it they know where the door is.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Your opinion please"

The pair of cheeky bastards

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Why do they not live at home with their parents??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"£100 a month and they treat you like that? I'd be increasing their rent and removing privileges such as lifts and meals cooked etc - they want to behave like children, start treating them as such - they'll soon learn.

Change the wifi password too and tell them they won't be getting it until they start to show some respect and consideration.

Family or not, they're taking advantage plain and simple and you need to stop that - at today's rates they're paying well under the odds (£25/week) for accommodation - even in cheaper areas they'd be looking at triple that for a place - if they don't like it they know where the door is."

This ^^^

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

I would also put a password on the wifi, charge them for it, change it every week.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"Why do they not live at home with their parents??"

Don't tell me, parents have thrown them out....

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I'm horrified!!

They sound like two spoiled, entitled, brats. At almost 30 years of age they should be out fending for themselves, not sitting in highchairs expecting to be fed whatever they want to eat, and throwing toys out of their prams. These two need to wake up to reality OP. Time they got out in the world and make their own way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your opinion please

The pair of cheeky bastards"

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I'd tell them it's not working out and they have a month to find somewhere else to live. They sound like bullies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s brutal. You need to piss in thier water bottles and lace thier smoothies with crushed jammy dodgers "

My kind of revenge

But seriously,that was very rude and unnecessary...I would be fuming...If they don't want to eat them they don't have to,but they don't have the right to throw them...The minimum they would get for me would be sending them to the store and buying the double amount of biscuits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"£100 a month and they treat you like that? I'd be increasing their rent and removing privileges such as lifts and meals cooked etc - they want to behave like children, start treating them as such - they'll soon learn.

Change the wifi password too and tell them they won't be getting it until they start to show some respect and consideration.

Family or not, they're taking advantage plain and simple and you need to stop that - at today's rates they're paying well under the odds (£25/week) for accommodation - even in cheaper areas they'd be looking at triple that for a place - if they don't like it they know where the door is."

Exactly

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Why do they not live at home with their parents??

Don't tell me, parents have thrown them out...."

I don't think that's the reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do they not live at home with their parents??

Don't tell me, parents have thrown them out...."

With that attitude I don't doubt it...If they want to give orders they should get their own place,but in other people's houses they must respect the way the owner lives and how stuff are done...I would have thrown them out already

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Why do they not live at home with their parents??

Don't tell me, parents have thrown them out....

With that attitude I don't doubt it...If they want to give orders they should get their own place,but in other people's houses they must respect the way the owner lives and how stuff are done...I would have thrown them out already "

Problem is ... we don't know so can't judge there. There may have been a family tragedy etc

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Why do they not live at home with their parents??

Don't tell me, parents have thrown them out....

With that attitude I don't doubt it...If they want to give orders they should get their own place,but in other people's houses they must respect the way the owner lives and how stuff are done...I would have thrown them out already

Problem is ... we don't know so can't judge there. There may have been a family tragedy etc"

But their attitude is worthy of judgement I hasten to add

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them.

Whos house is it xx

And it is inconsiderate as you brought them and they are not theirs. They dont have to eat them just they are in the house. It's my house they live with me. "

I would print off properties in right move and give them notice to move out! Disrespectful lads and they need teaching manners!!!!! My blood is boiling reading this....

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


" Problem is ... we don't know so can't judge there. There may have been a family tragedy etc."

Even if that is the case, it does nor excuse their appalling behavior. Selfish inconsiderate pair.

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By *coxy69Man
over a year ago

Stone


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them. "

First of all, obviously they are wrong for throwing anything away that didn’t belong to them!

But to mitigate it a little, i’m on a high fat low carb diet so I too would avoid those beautiful custard creams (although I do love them) I still wouldn’t throw them away

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


" Problem is ... we don't know so can't judge there. There may have been a family tragedy etc.

Even if that is the case, it does nor excuse their appalling behavior. Selfish inconsiderate pair. "

I did follow up that comment saying their attitude is worthy of judgement

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By *ambsLad2Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Surely at 27 and 28 they have the willpower not to eat the biscuits. They aren't children.

Frankly I'm staggered at their behaviour. I would insist that they replace them.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I would send them and their sense of entitlement in the same direction they sent your custard creams.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them.

First of all, obviously they are wrong for throwing anything away that didn’t belong to them!

But to mitigate it a little, i’m on a high fat low carb diet so I too would avoid those beautiful custard creams (although I do love them) I still wouldn’t throw them away"

I'm on a diet where they're forbidden too. I'd chew gum and curse my willpower.

Maybe I'd put them out of sight, but like in a cupboard or something (and tell my aunt where), not in the bin.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them.

First of all, obviously they are wrong for throwing anything away that didn’t belong to them!

But to mitigate it a little, i’m on a high fat low carb diet so I too would avoid those beautiful custard creams (although I do love them) I still wouldn’t throw them away

I'm on a diet where they're forbidden too. I'd chew gum and curse my willpower.

Maybe I'd put them out of sight, but like in a cupboard or something (and tell my aunt where), not in the bin. "

Why when it’s her house.....hiding biscuits indeed!!!!

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By *am62 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Their parents split up when they were small, one stayed with me and the other with their mother, the eldest had always been a problem, he was a drug addict, unemployed and sectioned at one time, but I stood by him, now he's off drugs, working hard and fit as a fiddle, but has no manners. The other is with me as his mother moved and had no room for him. Yes it's been a very sad few months, my mum passed away, their grandmother, and my house caught fire because a phone charger blew up. We only moved back into house a few weeks ago. But I lost far more than them, yet I've had to remain strong, even though I've felt like jumping in the river. Seeing your home, and all your memories of forty years, burn is devastating. They are lucky they have still got a home. But they have no respect for anything, they are cycling round the world soon,and I think when they return they can find their own way in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their parents split up when they were small, one stayed with me and the other with their mother, the eldest had always been a problem, he was a drug addict, unemployed and sectioned at one time, but I stood by him, now he's off drugs, working hard and fit as a fiddle, but has no manners. The other is with me as his mother moved and had no room for him. Yes it's been a very sad few months, my mum passed away, their grandmother, and my house caught fire because a phone charger blew up. We only moved back into house a few weeks ago. But I lost far more than them, yet I've had to remain strong, even though I've felt like jumping in the river. Seeing your home, and all your memories of forty years, burn is devastating. They are lucky they have still got a home. But they have no respect for anything, they are cycling round the world soon,and I think when they return they can find their own way in life. "

Ouch can't begin to imagine that and sending hugs x

But your unwavering kindness and dedication deserves far more than how you are being treated ... sorry

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them.

First of all, obviously they are wrong for throwing anything away that didn’t belong to them!

But to mitigate it a little, i’m on a high fat low carb diet so I too would avoid those beautiful custard creams (although I do love them) I still wouldn’t throw them away

I'm on a diet where they're forbidden too. I'd chew gum and curse my willpower.

Maybe I'd put them out of sight, but like in a cupboard or something (and tell my aunt where), not in the bin.

Why when it’s her house.....hiding biscuits indeed!!!!"

If I'm struggling with willpower and the biscuits aren't for me, out of sight out of mind.

It's a compromise between what I want and what my aunt wants. "Hey Aunt those biscuits were driving me nuts, I took them off the counter and put them in the cupboard with the baking ingredients" is a damn sight more reasonable than "Omg you know I can't eat those, how dare you have them in my house (that belongs to you, where you buy all the food, and I pay a fraction of a pittance towards)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually if they treat people how they treat you when they are travelling then they won't be getting very far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone did that to my biscuits I’d be windmilling.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Best thing about visiting far flung relatives was the cake/biscuits/cups of tea in my day!

It was cheeky of them. I’d have given them a piece of apple pie and make them eat it in front of me as i wielded an electric screwdriver menacingly.

Now throw it in the bin you fuckers

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By *am62 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

Thankyou xx All xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your def not in the wrong. We had two daughters if either of them had thrown our stuff away for a reason like that I would of gone straight in their room and thrown something of theirs away. These two need to grow up and respect other people.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Replace them with a pair of fatties.

You'll probably find they eat your biscuits but it's better than them just ending up in the bin.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

They threw away CUSTARD CREAMS???

Only a jail term will suffice for this act of Treason!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re wrong and need teaching. I’m 100% against hitting kids but these men need a good kicking. Want to borrow my 18 hole, steel capped Doc Martens? A good aim would definitely hit the spot...

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"They’re wrong and need teaching. I’m 100% against hitting kids but these men need a good kicking. Want to borrow my 18 hole, steel capped Doc Martens? A good aim would definitely hit the spot..."
100% Agree . If anyone threw my Chocolate Digestives away I'd be in Proson . Cheeky Fuckers !!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"They’re wrong and need teaching. I’m 100% against hitting kids but these men need a good kicking. Want to borrow my 18 hole, steel capped Doc Martens? A good aim would definitely hit the spot... 100% Agree . If anyone threw my Chocolate Digestives away I'd be in Proson . Cheeky Fuckers !! "

* Prison

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Kick them out of your home.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

They are wrong OP. Not right that they are inflicting their views on everyone else

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them.

First of all, obviously they are wrong for throwing anything away that didn’t belong to them!

But to mitigate it a little, i’m on a high fat low carb diet so I too would avoid those beautiful custard creams (although I do love them) I still wouldn’t throw them away

I'm on a diet where they're forbidden too. I'd chew gum and curse my willpower.

Maybe I'd put them out of sight, but like in a cupboard or something (and tell my aunt where), not in the bin.

Why when it’s her house.....hiding biscuits indeed!!!!

If I'm struggling with willpower and the biscuits aren't for me, out of sight out of mind.

It's a compromise between what I want and what my aunt wants. "Hey Aunt those biscuits were driving me nuts, I took them off the counter and put them in the cupboard with the baking ingredients" is a damn sight more reasonable than "Omg you know I can't eat those, how dare you have them in my house (that belongs to you, where you buy all the food, and I pay a fraction of a pittance towards)" "

I get your point but Aunties house, her rules, her biccies. These two lads are taking the proverbial and I would not allow it. Custard creams are tempting though.....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"If they're fitness fanatics then they should have the willpower to not eat custard creams if they don't want to. And they should have the general good manners to not throw out other people's things.

Start throwing out their protein powder because you don't want to eat it and see how they like it"

Oh, good call.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Cheeky f*&CKers

Make them pay for more and tell them it is your body ( or families ) and you ( and they ) will do what you ( they )want

If it was fig rolls they would have been bin bagged within five minutes

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By *pitfiremk10Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Them in the wrong. Get shot of there protein shakes and say you didnt want them in the house "

Absolutely THIS!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignorant, bad mannered little shits.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

They would be swiftly ejected from my house and told to kindly feck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When C lived at home, in Scotland, in a cheap area (his parents pay £360 rent a month) he was paying £200 a month, plus bought all his own food, clothes, bedroom stuff etc. Paid all his own transport...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That’s brutal. You need to piss in thier water bottles and lace thier smoothies with crushed jammy dodgers "

Hahahahaha

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By *yrshiredude88Man
over a year ago

Irvine

You're 100% in the right. By their logic, does that give them the right to dispose of food in shops that they disapprove of, just because they don't want to buy them?

You deserve an apology and replacement custard creams....and bourbons, for the hassle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's nothing I made a coffee and walnut cake the other week and they went bonkers, you shouldn't make cake as we will only eat it, yet muggins here buys all there yogurt and fruit, I dropped one at the train station this morning as he works in London till Friday, and all the way he was saying I was inconsiderate, so I stopped the car and threw him out in the rain,in his smart suit. Nows that's inconsiderate. "

Are you taking in lodgers??? You got me at coffee and walnut cake!!!!!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them. "

Erm it’s your house , your rules

They sound like right charmers tbh ...

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

Would not allow my kids to dictate what food I can have at home, nevermind other people, my house my rules, full stop.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

I would have sent them down the shop to buy more. Then firmly told them just beause they don't want to eat them it doesn't mean no one else can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nephews? not even your own children, bang their bloody heads together, if they’re fitness freaks they have the will power to resist opening the packet, what a pair of bloody morons.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

My daughter and her husband live with me.

They pay £500 a month and they buy their own food.

I still do more of the housework, but you can’t have everything.

I wrote a list of all the household bills and showed it to them and then they agreed that they should be paying half. Maybe you could do the same with your nephews?

Although their behaviour does sound rather controlling and abusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say they are arrogant, self righteous children, remind them that the world doesn't revolve around them and, what you should do is behave as they do, see how they react. Training of any description does release a chemical that give you a certain air of confidence, guilty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember years ago my mum said here's some cakes your auntie made and handed me the box. I ate them all, apparently they were one cake each but no one told me that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put them in the same category as the ones who drive slower than speed limit, drive in the middle lane of the motorway for no fucking reason, wait to be at the till to look for the fucking wallet they forgot at home.

No respect for those

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"That's nothing I made a coffee and walnut cake the other week and they went bonkers, you shouldn't make cake as we will only eat it, yet muggins here buys all there yogurt and fruit, I dropped one at the train station this morning as he works in London till Friday, and all the way he was saying I was inconsiderate, so I stopped the car and threw him out in the rain,in his smart suit. Nows that's inconsiderate. "

I'd be giving the little shits a month's notice to find somewhere else to live. Their behaviour is bordering on abuse. The more I'm reading this the more pissed off I'm getting on your behalf OP. I hope you get things sorted out sooner rather than later. Xxx

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"That's nothing I made a coffee and walnut cake the other week and they went bonkers, you shouldn't make cake as we will only eat it, yet muggins here buys all there yogurt and fruit, I dropped one at the train station this morning as he works in London till Friday, and all the way he was saying I was inconsiderate, so I stopped the car and threw him out in the rain,in his smart suit. Nows that's inconsiderate. "

Good on you, tell them it's your house, your rules, they can like it or go and find somewhere else to live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheeky shits I'd throw them out how dare they,it may only be biscuits but it's the principle."

What she says !

I’d have got a smack round the back of the head if I done something like that

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By *layfulpairsxCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"Nows that's inconsiderate.

I'd be giving the little shits a month's notice to find somewhere else to live. Their behaviour is bordering on abuse. The more I'm reading this the more pissed off I'm getting on your behalf OP. I hope you get things sorted out sooner rather than later. Xxx"

That isn't bordering on abuse,it IS abuse pure and simple. None of us know the back story,but maybe a word with their parents? They are ungrateful, obnoxious bullies. I wouldn't be changing their protein powders for biscuits I'd be filling them with laxatives.

Personally of it were my nephews, they'd be shown the door with no notice whatsoever. Expensive bikes and kit? Don't care. Your problem. Get out before the police are called.

They are eroding your self-esteem and self worth, and doing you harm. Please get some professional advice,CAB would be a good starting point. Hopefully all the comments on here give you the knowledge that you have support and are not in the wrong. They are. Ungratedul little shits taking advantage of your gentle nature. Don't let them. Much love xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they can’t resist a biscuit then they need to re-evaluate their priorities

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Your opinion please. I bought custard creams because family was coming and I thought it would be nice to offer them biscuits. I went into the kitchen and no biscuits, my nephews aged 27 and 28 had thrown them in the bin. I asked why and they said, we don't want them in the house as we don't want to eat them. They are both fitness fanatics and say I'm inconsiderate for buying them, it caused one Almighty argument, when I told them they are inconsiderate as I cook and clean up their mess. Who is right and who is wrong,me for buying them or them for throwing them away. What would you do or say to them. "

I'm 100% with them, custard cream's. YUK !

Now if it had been bourbons I would have dragged them into the street and made them live outside for ever more.

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By *uncpl187Couple
over a year ago

Ramsgate

Keep the biscuits and throw them out.

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By *eus n EuropaCouple
over a year ago

louth


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol. "

Pam pack their bags when they are out place bags on the drive and change the locks. These two twats are just abusing your good nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sell their expensive bikes on lieu of rent!

They need a lesson in tough love and to realise that they are taking the piss by paying a pittance and having so little respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish they could afford a place of their own, I get a hundred quid a month off each of them and they still moan, they think it should be free as I'm their Aunt. One asked me what he gets for his hundred quid a month, he soon shut his big mouth when I told him lol. "

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"That’s brutal. You need to piss in thier water bottles and lace thier smoothies with crushed jammy dodgers

Omfg brilliant! Hahahahahahahaha

Swap the powders with weightwatchers meal replacements "

Nah. Laxatives!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Give them a slap from me

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

That just takes the biscuit!

Chuck them out and tell their gym instructor what they have done.

I'd gladly buy you a box of giant sized custard creams and move in with you for more money than that.

X

Beast aka horny PT.

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