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By *atalie.. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

and was chatting to them and docking their cam when you were not home but caught them in the act...what would you do how would you feel...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he hadnt told me first, and it had been done 'behind my back' Id take it as cheating! Plain and simple.

Dont know how strongly id react until faced with it. Id like to think id kick him into touch??

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By *edriderCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

It really would depend on trust, it could be innocent chat but tbh honest if they hadnt told me about it i would see it as a betrayal

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"and was chatting to them and docking their cam when you were not home but caught them in the act...what would you do how would you feel..."

Kick him in the balls ..............

Seriously, that kind of betrayal would make me look at what he's not getting at home that makes him 'dock' her cam.

I'd also stop the swinging and work on the relationship.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"and was chatting to them and docking their cam when you were not home but caught them in the act...what would you do how would you feel..."

Caught them in the act of chatting? in a cam room ?

I would say they are still friendly after splitting up and as long as it was just chatting whats the harm.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

kev has his exes on facebook and may well chat to them there, they are exes for a reason, i dont see why anyone should feel threatened because their partner has a past.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Check the dildo shadowboard see if any were out of place. .. If so waterboard her ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and was chatting to them and docking their cam when you were not home but caught them in the act...what would you do how would you feel..."

the fact its a ex dont seem to make any differnce to me

putting a cam on and finding you partner fucking another person is that same ex or first time meet

the trusts gone there for the relationships gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id ask why he feels the need to only do.this when your not at.home........is he just chatting??

? If he is just chatting why hide it....if the trust isnt there then.to.me theres no relationship .....

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

I don't see why it should be seen as betrayal. I am friendly with guys I have had relationships with in the past but it doesn't mean that I want to restart anything with them. To me it sounds like the female has some insecurities which need to be addressed.

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and was chatting to them and docking their cam when you were not home but caught them in the act...what would you do how would you feel..."

hang on i think i read this wrong first time round

i read it as you cought them on cam together, as in you viewing them on the same cam but reading it again you mean you cought him just viewing his ex on her cam while he was at home?

in which case it wouldnt bother me at all, its a swingers site people will view cams, is it the fact thats its an ex that bothers you or do you just not like him looking at women on cam full stop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and was chatting to them and docking their cam when you were not home but caught them in the act...what would you do how would you feel...

hang on i think i read this wrong first time round

i read it as you cought them on cam together, as in you viewing them on the same cam but reading it again you mean you cought him just viewing his ex on her cam while he was at home?

in which case it wouldnt bother me at all, its a swingers site people will view cams, is it the fact thats its an ex that bothers you or do you just not like him looking at women on cam full stop?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If he hadnt told me first, and it had been done 'behind my back' Id take it as cheating! Plain and simple.

Dont know how strongly id react until faced with it. Id like to think id kick him into touch??"

i'm quite sure the air would turn blue with the range of insults you's know . . . . .

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