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Struggling to leave swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Folks, I’ve Been a swinger near 20

Years. I’ve meet someone but I’m finding it hard to leave the scene totally. I’ve not played with anyone since myself and her went exclusive. Any help appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Delete your profile "
I’ve done that a few times. But I keep coming back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete your profile I’ve done that a few times. But I keep coming back

"

Hide it then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Delete your profile I’ve done that a few times. But I keep coming back

Hide it then "
ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typical stupid man letting women tell him what to do

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

U started when u were 17 ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be questioning why you find it hard to leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typical stupid man letting women tell him what to do"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Typical stupid man letting women tell him what to do"

Where does it say he was told ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Delete your profile I’ve done that a few times. But I keep coming back

"

You haven't met anyone. You don't come back to swinging. You come back to chat.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Typical stupid man letting women tell him what to do"

You one of those women haters we have around here from time to time

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Typical stupid man letting women tell him what to do"

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"U started when u were 17 ?"

It's obviously a fab 37

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete your profile

I’ve done that a few times. But I keep coming back

"

Ok, but this profile has many verifications as recent as two months ago, so you haven’t tried deleting this profile.

At the very least, hide it.

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

I try advise people this all the time. If you feel like you can't leave the swinging lifestyle then don't. Find someone who is equally interested in it.

Do you know what unhappiness leads to? Cheating. And that hurts more than just breaking up with someone because you want different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Folks, I’ve Been a swinger near 20

Years. I’ve meet someone but I’m finding it hard to leave the scene totally. I’ve not played with anyone since myself and her went exclusive. Any help appreciated "

What is preventing you from leaving?

What is the worst thing that could happen if you did leave?

What is the worst thing that could happen if you don’t?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I try advise people this all the time. If you feel like you can't leave the swinging lifestyle then don't. Find someone who is equally interested in it.

Do you know what unhappiness leads to? Cheating. And that hurts more than just breaking up with someone because you want different things. "

If she won't swing, dump her. Let her find someone else.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

So she's definitely not on here,does she know about this place? She may be thinking the samw you never know or perhaps it's something you can both come back to in the future.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"U started when u were 17 ?"
key word was near.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Typical stupid man letting women tell him what to do

You one of those women haters we have around here from time to time"
defo not a woman hater lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Typical stupid man letting women tell him what to do

You one of those women haters we have around here from time to time defo not a woman hater lol "

Not you silly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I try advise people this all the time. If you feel like you can't leave the swinging lifestyle then don't. Find someone who is equally interested in it.

Do you know what unhappiness leads to? Cheating. And that hurts more than just breaking up with someone because you want different things. "
I totally appreciate your message. The issue is not that I’m unhappy. I’m very very happy. I just miss the buzz of swinging

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By *ightLeeCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Hi Folks, I’ve Been a swinger near 20

Years. I’ve meet someone but I’m finding it hard to leave the scene totally. I’ve not played with anyone since myself and her went exclusive. Any help appreciated "

You need to find someone who wants to swing with you if this is what you are into and don’t want to give it up. If she doesn’t know you need to tell her and if you do and she isn’t into it then maybe she isn’t the one. You wouldn’t want to lie and deceive her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi Folks, I’ve Been a swinger near 20

Years. I’ve meet someone but I’m finding it hard to leave the scene totally. I’ve not played with anyone since myself and her went exclusive. Any help appreciated

You need to find someone who wants to swing with you if this is what you are into and don’t want to give it up. If she doesn’t know you need to tell her and if you do and she isn’t into it then maybe she isn’t the one. You wouldn’t want to lie and deceive her. "
I Defo don’t want to lie. But I am lying as we speak lol thank you x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Either have a conversation with your partner about the things you miss or don't. Whichever you choose has risks but nobody can make this decision for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete your profile I’ve done that a few times. But I keep coming back

"

Are you only on here looking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be stronger. It's just sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Delete your profile I’ve done that a few times. But I keep coming back

Are you only on here looking?"
no I literally just chat

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