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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't like valentines day its depressing when you are single. There was this bloke in sanisbury's that brought his missus a huge bunch of flowers and some champers and I caught myself doing a huge awwwwwwwww. He heard me and I said she is one lucky woman...

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


"I don't like valentines day its depressing when you are single. There was this bloke in sanisbury's that brought his missus a huge bunch of flowers and some champers and I caught myself doing a huge awwwwwwwww. He heard me and I said she is one lucky woman... "

Now dear, remember what you got told last time you were caught stalking round Sainsburys!

Sod the flowers, it's over commercialised crap invented by Hallmark to push their card economy between Christmas and Mothers Day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont go in for it.

i show Em i love her every day of the year (or at least tell her and show her when we are together) dont see why leaving it until one day a year would make it worth any more.

give me your address and i'll send ya a rose, pet. lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I don't like it because I lost my son to still birth, 13 years ago on Valentine's Day. It can be depressing whether you are married, partnered up or single!!!

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

You single bi-fems just don't get the attention you deserve.

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By *harax1985Man
over a year ago

Edlington

It is depressing, especially as I'm one of the guys who loves sending flowers.

but isn't the point that you send them to someone you're trying to woo?

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

we dont do valentins,,oh we buy a card,but nothing extravagant as we have js birthday and our anniversary next week,and she picked her pressies for them,lol,,

i agree that its being pushed too much,the same as every other holiday,,

our local tescos had easter eggs out 2 weeks ago,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The good thing about buying Valetines stuff over the years is that when you discover they have been cheating it's quite fun ripping them all up and pulling tails of little kitties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh... not REAL kitties

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Cant understand why it would be depressing just for it being one day in the year. Im in a relationship but i wont be seeing jay, just another day.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Cant understand why it would be depressing just for it being one day in the year. Im in a relationship but i wont be seeing jay, just another day. "

Because sometimes things are missing and a certain day brings the feelings that are surpressed and put to the back of the mind. We all find different things depressing....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Cant understand why it would be depressing just for it being one day in the year. Im in a relationship but i wont be seeing jay, just another day.

Because sometimes things are missing and a certain day brings the feelings that are surpressed and put to the back of the mind. We all find different things depressing.... "

I disagree, we might find things sad or we might be miserable but depression is an illness

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Cant understand why it would be depressing just for it being one day in the year. Im in a relationship but i wont be seeing jay, just another day.

Because sometimes things are missing and a certain day brings the feelings that are surpressed and put to the back of the mind. We all find different things depressing....

I disagree, we might find things sad or we might be miserable but depression is an illness"

Fair enough I know what depression is as I have suffered from it.

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By *harax1985Man
over a year ago

Edlington


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I disagree, we might find things sad or we might be miserable but depression is an illness"

An illness some of us have, the symptoms of which can be set off by little things like being alone on a day where people are conspicuously showing their love for one another.

I find alcohol and/or the company of hot single friends helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant understand why it would be depressing just for it being one day in the year. Im in a relationship but i wont be seeing jay, just another day.

Because sometimes things are missing and a certain day brings the feelings that are surpressed and put to the back of the mind. We all find different things depressing.... "

We met on valentines day and got married the following Friday 13th July. This year is our 5th anniversary and our actual wedding anniversary falls again on Friday 13th!. We don't much bother with Valentine day, its just another way of extracting money through crass commercialism.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

That was very sweet of you Diamond, bet it made his day.

Sounds like you miss having something more than nsa on here though x

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"That was very sweet of you Diamond, bet it made his day.

Sounds like you miss having something more than nsa on here though x

"

Oh god no I know why I am on here and know excatly what I want from fab. I am not here to find love I use other means for that. I am on here to have fun until that day mr almost right comes along.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

He'll come. He's behiiiiiiiiiiiind you

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"He'll come. He's behiiiiiiiiiiiind you "

Hahaha nah I am enjoying my life at the moment it will happen when its meant to happen.... xx

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"He'll come. He's behiiiiiiiiiiiind you

Hahaha nah I am enjoying my life at the moment it will happen when its meant to happen.... xx"

it does have a habit of catching you when your not looking

It did with us,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must admit.

us too.

both had decided that was it.

been messed around too much.

wanted to be alone for a while.

etc etc etc, but then BAM!!! we just fell over each other. was awesome

Em still reminds me now how i was wearing a t shirt with a hole in it when we first met. lol.

i was late and just threw summat on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't bother me to the slightest, it is just another day.

To say it is a sad day because I have no one to spend it with is to say my life is miserable because I do not have another person to share it with, which is not true.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I have once again done very well from the Valentines craze.....long may it carry on...and prosper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's over commercialised crap invented by Hallmark to push their card economy between Christmas and Mothers Day!"

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

maybe the guy in question had beaten the holy shite out of said lady three weeks before and was trying to smooth it over?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

maybe he had just found out she had been having an affair and he was trying to get her to see sense?

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"maybe he had just found out she had been having an affair and he was trying to get her to see sense? "

Trust you

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I don't like valentines day its depressing when you are single. There was this bloke in sanisbury's that brought his missus a huge bunch of flowers and some champers and I caught myself doing a huge awwwwwwwww. He heard me and I said she is one lucky woman... "
DG things are not always what they may seem, certain days of the year can put you on a downer, think ....half full...xxx

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

blimey if I forgot valeentines day I wouldn't see 15th February ever again

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Stuff Valentine's day, i know where i'm heading on the 29th.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I don't like valentines day its depressing when you are single. There was this bloke in sanisbury's that brought his missus a huge bunch of flowers and some champers and I caught myself doing a huge awwwwwwwww. He heard me and I said she is one lucky woman... DG things are not always what they may seem, certain days of the year can put you on a downer, think ....half full...xxx"

I know my darling... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

((((((((((Big hugs Jess)))))))))

I know that being single at times when others show their unity publicly, like Christmas too, can feel very isolating, at times.

Just remember that you are loved, platonically, by your mates here on FAB, and are Not alone xxx

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Valentines Day is a big hype IMHO - I never cared for it much and as such my partner has it easy lol. I much rather have surprises when I dont expect them and just because he wants to....

Also, it is quite nice to think of other people we are close to... life is not just about twosomes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and another single female friend decided to have a girly night in with a nice meal on Valentines day. Just because you're single doesnt mean you have to be alone on Valentines

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"I don't like valentines day its depressing when you are single. There was this bloke in sanisbury's that brought his missus a huge bunch of flowers and some champers and I caught myself doing a huge awwwwwwwww. He heard me and I said she is one lucky woman... "

Come to my local Sainsburys, I will buy you the biggest bunch they have.

You are worth it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Considering its a day celebrating the martyring of a christian by the Romans, I'm never entirely sure why it got to be identified with love.

Not really fussed to be honest. I never got a sodding thing when I was attached, so I won't miss not getting anything when I'm single.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I don't like valentines day its depressing when you are single. There was this bloke in sanisbury's that brought his missus a huge bunch of flowers and some champers and I caught myself doing a huge awwwwwwwww. He heard me and I said she is one lucky woman...

Come to my local Sainsburys, I will buy you the biggest bunch they have.

You are worth it. "

pssst I said exactly the same in Sainsbury today. Honest guv

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"I don't like valentines day its depressing when you are single. There was this bloke in sanisbury's that brought his missus a huge bunch of flowers and some champers and I caught myself doing a huge awwwwwwwww. He heard me and I said she is one lucky woman...

Come to my local Sainsburys, I will buy you the biggest bunch they have.

You are worth it.

pssst I said exactly the same in Sainsbury today. Honest guv "

we have plenty in common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing that really bugs me about Valentine's Day is that it is 3 days after my birthday, and the price for all flowers are ridiculous this time of the year, and not just red roses, which I do not like.

Rant over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the reminder of it being valentines day depresses me too, makes me think am I destined to be a singleton for the remainder of my days.

I remember the loving gestures from my partner, he showed his love every day and in special ways throughout the year, but valentines day he made even more special for me.

However even in my saddest moments I smile thinking of those silly loving gestures and the love we shared.

I may have no valentine sweetheart now but I have a lifetime of memories to keep me smiling. I'm sure I'll survive yet another day without him and smile. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the reminder of it being valentines day depresses me too, makes me think am I destined to be a singleton for the remainder of my days.

I remember the loving gestures from my partner, he showed his love every day and in special ways throughout the year, but valentines day he made even more special for me.

However even in my saddest moments I smile thinking of those silly loving gestures and the love we shared.

I may have no valentine sweetheart now but I have a lifetime of memories to keep me smiling. I'm sure I'll survive yet another day without him and smile. xxxx "

xx Laine, feel very moved by what you have said. Kind of puts things into perspective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes the reminder of it being valentines day depresses me too, makes me think am I destined to be a singleton for the remainder of my days.

I remember the loving gestures from my partner, he showed his love every day and in special ways throughout the year, but valentines day he made even more special for me.

However even in my saddest moments I smile thinking of those silly loving gestures and the love we shared.

I may have no valentine sweetheart now but I have a lifetime of memories to keep me smiling. I'm sure I'll survive yet another day without him and smile. xxxx

xx Laine, feel very moved by what you have said. Kind of puts things into perspective. "

I'm a lucky lady to have had him in my life ..... not everyone flew me to Venice for a valentines day lunch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP!

http://www.blogcdn.com/www.joystiq.com/media/2006/02/mgs_valentine.jpg

Don't worry mods it's a harmless pic.

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