FabSwingers.com forum: Would they be shocked?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi All,

Would people in your workplace/every day life be surprised that you swing?

A while ago a guy from close to where we live went missing, it was raised in the press that he was on 'Fab'. One of our parents started referring to him as a right dirty bastard over the dinner table. We just sat there and grinned at each other! If only her dad knew!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes they would.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Definitely friends, family, work colleagues have no idea about this side of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t swing but everyone I know would pretty much die of shock if they knew I was on here!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes. I so don't seem the type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they would be but I don't see it as anyone else's business.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

They would be shocked by how little sex I have, for some reason they think I am knee deep in women every weekend.

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By *iyuWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I think they'd be shocked I swing. But when some friends/family members found out about the Bdsm they just said 'what a surprise' in an incredibly sarcastic way.

So actually I don't even think they would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the people in my workplace are too self absorbed to give a fuck what anyone else is doing.

And my few friends know that I don't live a conventional life.

And I don't have any close family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the would be surprised maybe but not shocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think they'd be shocked I swing. But when some friends/family members found out about the Bdsm they just said 'what a surprise' in an incredibly sarcastic way.

So actually I don't even think they would be.

Ah, Cheltenham, my uni town. I love visiting the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! At work I am the epitome of professionalism. Strictly keeping this and my work life separate.

In real life, yes! Fab is for me, not for anyone other than fab friends to know nothing about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, everyone I care about knows who I am and what I do, and those who don't know, I don't give a flying feck about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of them know already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my friends and family knew I used to be on here a few years ago. Only 1 person knows now and that's for safety reasons. If my colleagues knew they'd be very surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They might be a wee bit worried about my maid's dress

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I used to work on building sites, one there was this young lad (about 20), who used to ask me every Monday morning breaktime "Have you done any swinging this weekend Rich?"

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

They would have a fit lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pure sweet and innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My work colleagues would likely be shocked. Family and friends have known me to do much worse, thus - would not bat an eyelid.

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By *rated-BaconMan
over a year ago

medway

I work for different people everyday.. so pretty good odds of a resounding yes

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By *erry194Man
over a year ago

luton

Always have had to keep here totally separate from work, in the job I do and have had the odd tv appearance (nothing big I can assure you lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of my family know but they live far away. Couple of my workmates knew - one left job few years ago, other only works as a bank staff. She was curious about fab but left after a few weeks as it wasn't for her. She meets guys for fun from tinder though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My close friends know I'm here but not something I'd discuss with family.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We are retired now, so no workmates. I don't think my stepsons would be surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of my friends know but everyone else in my life would be shocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hide it so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All,

Would people in your workplace/every day life be surprised that you swing?

What happened to the guy? Did they find him or was he murdered on a meet?

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

Our family's, both sides parents and all our siblings know we swing. They just say whatever makes us happy. Most our friends know too xx

Lots of worrys about them finding out before and when they did. No issues at all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Friends and adult family know.

Work people would be surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't swing myself.. But I'm sure my friends and family would be very surprised if I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All,

Would people in your workplace/every day life be surprised that you swing?

Was that guy Corrie McKeague?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i'm not a swinger (and i'm single so it wouldnt matter either way

) but they'd probably be surprised to find me here.

I'm prett quiet/reserved so I definitely dont think I give off that impression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't.

I do wonder if anyone I know has seen me on here though....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm complex and straight forward. I surprise and delight but no great shocks as I've been there and done that. People are interested, some jealous I'm fairly sure - but they are capable of doing what we love, if they want to.

We'll never eradicate ignorance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Ah, Cheltenham, my uni town. I love visiting the place"

MrD

I went to that uni too. What year did you graduate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My granny would have a heart attack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mom knows I’m in a ‘dating’ site as I had to explain why I’m not available when she decides she wants my company, she thinks I meet up for a coffee or a drink but I’m far too fussy as I haven’t fallen for any of them yet.. or more like they did a runner

in all honesty I think she’s thinking at 50 I should be at least living with someone now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What happened to the guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What happened to the guy? "

what guy?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

They'd be shocked

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By *artyanna16TV/TS
over a year ago

seacroft

My dirty little secret isnt so astray from common knowledge any more most folk i socialise with know, and my housemate knows , i dont see my family but, even if i did , i dont discuss their intimacies with them so, as for work , if it came up , i wouldnt deny it,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What happened to the guy?

what guy?

The guy who went missing and they found out he was on here

I don't really care what everyone's family would think if they found out they were swingers

The story about the guy is far more interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My two best friends know....one wasn't surprised but the other one was both surprised and horrified, and still never asks about it or talks about it!! Lol!

My family....especially my son...would be horrified!!

PT x

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By *angerous123Man
over a year ago

Leeds

At this point no, they wouldn't be surprised.

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

Darlaston

No they are not shocked as I've just come out at work this week they are more interested in the real me now the only thing that shocked them was how good I look and that I was being stalked by a another work colleague

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They would if i did prob be a little ashamed too there quite judgmental old fashioned yorkshire folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm I don't think so they think in a bit of a pervert which I'm not. Just playing the game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I think my parents would be proud.... "Yay he's meeting girls finally"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Some would, some wouldn't and some already know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is nobody interested in the guy that went missing?

Does anyone read threads?

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