FabSwingers.com forum: Better safe than sorry?

By *on Ryans Express OP Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

What are the top things you should always do before meeting someone for the first time? Or should we just go for it and forget caution?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak on the phone and cam chat if possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them if they have stalking/murdering experience.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Ask them if they have stalking/murdering experience."

I somehow doubt they will tell the truth if they do

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I always gove them a standard security questionnaire.

Have you ever been a terrorist or been involved with terrorism? [Yes/no]

Have you ever tried to overthrow the government? [Yes/no]

Do you murder kittens in your spare time [Yes/no]

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"Ask them if they have stalking/murdering experience.

I somehow doubt they will tell the truth if they do

Are you saying that people...lie...on here?!

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Ask them if they have stalking/murdering experience.

I somehow doubt they will tell the truth if they do

Are you saying that people...lie...on here?!

Errrrrrrrr noooooooooooo ok yes! Well it is porky pie central in here at times.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

A Smegma check.....One doesn’t want any unpleasant surprises....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut your nails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the top things you should always do before meeting someone for the first time? Or should we just go for it and forget caution?"

Check verifications and make sure they’re not fake and talk on the phone.

If it’s too good to be true it usually is on fab.

always have a social meet first!

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By *miler6969696969Man
over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield

Send a safe text to a trusted friend of address your going to and text when back at home safe n smiling.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Cut your nails. "

No please, don't make me do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cut your nails. "

I always forget to do this. My toe nails are like talons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A Smegma check.....One doesn’t want any unpleasant surprises...."

One of my favourite words, smegma, kind of rolls off the tongue.

I have a bath and then a lower body shower half hour before their eta or I’m due to leave. Just to get rid of piss remnants and poo particles.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"A Smegma check.....One doesn’t want any unpleasant surprises....

One of my favourite words, smegma, kind of rolls off the tongue.

I have a bath and then a lower body shower half hour before their eta or I’m due to leave. Just to get rid of piss remnants and poo particles. "

Smegma - yep, ‘tis most definitely better to roll it off the tongue than to swallow it down the throat say I

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By *talian PassionMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Nice dress, shaved, bath, good smelling, clean anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet up for a social first. If things look promising and safe then take it from there.

Don’t forget to have some Rubbers handy just in case things advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A Smegma check.....One doesn’t want any unpleasant surprises....

One of my favourite words, smegma, kind of rolls off the tongue.

I have a bath and then a lower body shower half hour before their eta or I’m due to leave. Just to get rid of piss remnants and poo particles. "

I have a Smeg fridge and this always makes me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send a safe text to a trusted friend of address your going to and text when back at home safe n smiling."

So given how were told it makes women vunerable if they meet in thier own homes and they shouldnt do it.

Just to be clear you're saying the guy should violate her trust and text her address to a completley stranger without her knowledge?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Take your own axe to a meet. The odds on you both being axe murderers are very low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask if they own cat's.....if they do run

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I wear my lucky pants.

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By *miler6969696969Man
over a year ago

Doncaster/Sheffield

"Send a safe text to a trusted friend of address your going to and text when back at home safe n smiling.

So given how were told it makes women vunerable if they meet in thier own homes and they shouldnt do it.

Just to be clear you're saying the guy should violate her trust and text her address to a completley stranger without her knowledge?"

No. I'm saying it from the ladies safety if she's meeting a guy at his home.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

"What are the top things you should always do before meeting someone for the first time? Or should we just go for it and forget caution?"

If you are looknig to meet a woman it might be worth checking its one without extras.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always talk before hand it saves any confusion and you can be more sure they will turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take your own axe to a meet. The odds on you both being axe murderers are very low."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always check your exits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send a safe text to a trusted friend of address your going to and text when back at home safe n smiling.

So given how were told it makes women vunerable if they meet in thier own homes and they shouldnt do it.

Just to be clear you're saying the guy should violate her trust and text her address to a completley stranger without her knowledge?

No. I'm saying it from the ladies safety if she's meeting a guy at his home. "

So a guy should be happy with his address being shared to a complete stranger?

Possibly some friend zoned stalker type?

Again I'm amazed by the utter disrespect for safety and privacy of your meets

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"What are the top things you should always do before meeting someone for the first time? Or should we just go for it and forget caution?

If you are looknig to meet a woman it might be worth checking its one without extras. "

Those little extras are not the sort of thnig you can miss seeing!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ask if they have packed their suitcase themselves.

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By *on Ryans Express OP Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"Ask if they have packed their suitcase themselves. "

Im not taking them to Ibiza! Or should I be looknig to offer holidays?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full financial disclosure, prenup and medical

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By *on Ryans Express OP Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"Full financial disclosure, prenup and medical

Bloody hell I will have to disclose my pension details next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the top things you should always do before meeting someone for the first time? Or should we just go for it and forget caution?"

Make sure you have rubbers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never worried about it

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By *heffmMan
over a year ago

sheffield

don't go

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Carry a copy of Beano, then if there's no chemistry at least you've got something to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask them if they have stalking/murdering experience."

Experience as in giving or receiving...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Real answer - use your noggin and be realistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the top things you should always do before meeting someone for the first time? Or should we just go for it and forget caution?"

I speak on the phone, only meet in a public place first time out, and I have a safe buddy on the end of a phone if I need to bail or hail at any point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the top things you should always do before meeting someone for the first time? Or should we just go for it and forget caution?"

Wash you tail

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By *heEvilWithinWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

Just go meet them. As long as you can defend yourself it's unlikely someone is going to capture you. I personally don't require anything other than a phone number (I don't use kik) genuine people normally give out their number.. Then don't meet someone for the first time down a dark alley. But then again I do that too so I'm not really the right person to ask...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the top things you should always do before meeting someone for the first time? Or should we just go for it and forget caution?

I speak on the phone, only meet in a public place first time out, and I have a safe buddy on the end of a phone if I need to bail or hail at any point."
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Very good idea there hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t meet on a whim, I get to know people first & always trust my gut instinct ~ it’s a tried & tested method that works for me.

Alongside that I will always meet in a public place to start with, make myself known to bar / hotel staff prior to going / leaving with the person.

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