FabSwingers.com forum: my friend now think she is miss world .

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As new and got 100s of posts in two days ... Beacuse she say her pics Hot , lol i said hate to tell you this but most single woman get 100s 10000s no matter how that look its fab and most men just looking for the next shag .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she'll learn soon enough

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

lol, think single women must get loads of messages every day....

Who is she, must message her

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I bet that made her feel good about herself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"lol, think single women must get loads of messages every day....

Who is she, must message her

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lol well all the local men who meet me now maling her .. lolol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I bet that made her feel good about herself

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yes she cant get over how just a normal pic ... not full on sex one could do this here ....

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

I think I would have put it a little more subtly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think I would have put it a little more subtly

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well i was just saying the truth .. most men here are after fast lane sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I bet that made her feel good about herself

yes she cant get over how just a normal pic ... not full on sex one could do this here ....

I was being sarcastic Jo

If one of my friends told me the same id be thinking what a bitch if im honest

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

And you are her friend?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"I think I would have put it a little more subtly

well i was just saying the truth .. most men here are after fast lane sex ."

Oi, i play in the left hand lane. It gets scary once you get over 70.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" most men here are after fast lane sex ."

Tried that once but her ass got in the way and i nearly crashed the fookin car xx

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

" most men here are after fast lane sex .

Tried that once but her ass got in the way and i nearly crashed the fookin car xx

Put a coupla booster cushions in then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I bet that made her feel good about herself

yes she cant get over how just a normal pic ... not full on sex one could do this here ....

I was being sarcastic Jo

If one of my friends told me the same id be thinking what a bitch if im honest

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well i have other friend ladys just show a tit or a leg get 100s of mail .. i was just saying how it is here ... can show very little dont need full of sex pics ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what?

you mean all these messages i get arnt because im gorgeous?

sulking now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you are her friend?"

And why not be honest with a friend, some people cant even be honest with themselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And you are her friend?"
yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

what?

you mean all these messages i get arnt because im gorgeous?

sulking now

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you are so dont worrie xxx inside and out. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh well another week or two, and she will moved onto the next stage of hating all their guts for non stop harrassing her

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And you are her friend?

And why not be honest with a friend, some people cant even be honest with themselves"
not saying it to be nasty at all ... we had a lafe about it all ..... she said she is putting up pick of her lovely long nails just hand see if it works too ,, i said it will , lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

And you are her friend? yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx"

Oh good. Glad your comment made her day.

Being honest can include tact though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And you are her friend? yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx

Oh good. Glad your comment made her day.

Being honest can include tact though

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well known her years so she must know me well .... we was just having a bit of fun ... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you are her friend? yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx"

actually some women on here do need bringing down a peg or two

I mean come on the way some go off like they something gorgeous just because they get loads of messages, anyone who does not realise thats 90% of the guys who mail them have block mailed the whole site needs a reality check

Confidance is one thing but some get to the point of arrogance on here

they give us genuine women a bad name lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you are her friend? yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx

actually some women on here do need bringing down a peg or two

Confidance is one thing but some get to the point of arrogance on here

they give us genuine women a bad name lol

genuine woman ffs i've seen ya cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you are her friend? yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx

actually some women on here do need bringing down a peg or two

Confidance is one thing but some get to the point of arrogance on here

they give us genuine women a bad name lol

That's a good point lots of people get far too carried away at times.

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

actually some women on here do need bringing down a peg or two

Confidance is one thing but some get to the point of arrogance on here

Not just women though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bet that made her feel good about herself

lmfao

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

C'mon ladies, it's our duty as red blooded males to send a "Welcome to Fabs" e-mail to all ladies who appear on the new gallery page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you are her friend? yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx

actually some women on here do need bringing down a peg or two

Confidance is one thing but some get to the point of arrogance on here

they give us genuine women a bad name lol

genuine woman ffs i've seen ya cock

not you aint, i wouldnt show you my wanger your not my type

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And you are her friend? yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx

actually some women on here do need bringing down a peg or two

Confidance is one thing but some get to the point of arrogance on here

they give us genuine women a bad name lol

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well i was starting to feel bad about posting this here ... as was thinking it was just a bit of fun .. i know most men mail and move to next one , lol fab for you ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you are her friend? yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx

actually some women on here do need bringing down a peg or two

Confidance is one thing but some get to the point of arrogance on here

they give us genuine women a bad name lol

genuine woman ffs i've seen ya cock

not you aint, i wouldnt show you my wanger your not my type

oooooooooooooooo ouch i'm wounded and there was me thinking you lusted me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you are her friend? yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx

actually some women on here do need bringing down a peg or two

Confidance is one thing but some get to the point of arrogance on here

they give us genuine women a bad name lol

well i was starting to feel bad about posting this here ... as was thinking it was just a bit of fun .. i know most men mail and move to next one , lol fab for you .."

nah, thing is it is a confidance boost, i mean ive met some really good looking guys who i know damn well wouldnt give me a second look walking down the street, but this isnt real life is it and a lot of guys will go for women they wouldnt normally in order to get a shag

Some women just dont realise that and think all these guys really do fancy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the kinda response the ladies get onhere will only go to the heads of those that have pretty poor self-esteem to begin with i reckon

i think confidence is something you gradually build and arrogance is more a front/facade

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Purely in the interest of research, i had a gander at the New Gallery pics, and all i can say is :

By eck, Fabs must feed 'em well thereafter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only people i look at these days are either forumites or people who don't hide when they look at me, so newbies and people posting for fun tend to pass me by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men are just looking for the next shag, of course they are thats why they are on here. But maybe her pictures are hot too.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

what she wants world peace?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what she wants world peace?"

no, she wants to marry bruce forsythe

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"what she wants world peace?

no, she wants to marry bruce forsythe "
fucking fruit loop as well then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you are her friend?"

Lol talk about knock her duck off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And you are her friend?

Lol talk about knock her duck off.

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yes good friends known her over 10 years and now swopping notes here , lol its good fun ,

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

And you are her friend?

Lol talk about knock her duck off.

yes good friends known her over 10 years and now swopping notes here , lol its good fun ,"
swapping notes about future miss world comps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tut tut don't burst her bubble

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By *orkieLassCouple
over a year ago

York

Single fems get 100's of messages? lol

Not in my experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And you are her friend?

Lol talk about knock her duck off.

yes good friends known her over 10 years and now swopping notes here , lol its good fun ,swapping notes about future miss world comps?

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no about men here ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a bit of a loss as what benifit there is in denting a friends confidence and lowering her feelings of worth never mind putting a thread up about it. It seems a very negitive thing to do to me.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

And you are her friend?

Lol talk about knock her duck off.

yes good friends known her over 10 years and now swopping notes here , lol its good fun ,swapping notes about future miss world comps?

no about men here ..

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nowt like a good gossip

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

And you are her friend?

Lol talk about knock her duck off.

errr beastitality isn't allowed !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am a bit of a loss as what benifit there is in denting a friends confidence and lowering her feelings of worth never mind putting a thread up about it. It seems a very negitive thing to do to me.

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well she is lovely .. and i was just saying the truth .. some here get 100s of mail and just have a pic of the leg or somthing ... lol x

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Have you advised her Jo to go the whole hog and put up a status line asking for more people to fab her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh who who ??!!!! i want to be next to send a 3 worded message !! aww please pick me !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Have you advised her Jo to go the whole hog and put up a status line asking for more people to fab her?"
well she was on about us today having a couples profile you never know , lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a bit of a loss as what benifit there is in denting a friends confidence and lowering her feelings of worth never mind putting a thread up about it. It seems a very negitive thing to do to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am a bit of a loss as what benifit there is in denting a friends confidence and lowering her feelings of worth never mind putting a thread up about it. It seems a very negitive thing to do to me.

+1"
well i never done this post for negitive things just for a bit of fun x Thats what its about here Fun x

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

"what she wants world peace?"

no just peace on the political threads

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"I am a bit of a loss as what benifit there is in denting a friends confidence and lowering her feelings of worth never mind putting a thread up about it. It seems a very negitive thing to do to me.

+1 well i never done this post for negitive things just for a bit of fun x Thats what its about here Fun x"

+1 for fun with Jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a bit of a loss as what benifit there is in denting a friends confidence and lowering her feelings of worth never mind putting a thread up about it. It seems a very negitive thing to do to me.

well she is lovely .. and i was just saying the truth .. some here get 100s of mail and just have a pic of the leg or somthing ... lol x

100s of mails indeed jo and only a leg picture guess it goes to show that men will try and get their leg over anything and thats quite easily proven by some of the sour and twisted posters on the various threads

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By *ath-N-DelCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow area

The friend will soon realise what Jo has said is true and her "feeling of worth" will not be dented in the slightest...

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"The friend will soon realise what Jo has said is true and her "feeling of worth" will not be dented in the slightest...

enhanced friendship too i shouldn't wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I would have put it a little more subtly

I agree x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I am a bit of a loss as what benifit there is in denting a friends confidence and lowering her feelings of worth never mind putting a thread up about it. It seems a very negitive thing to do to me.

well she is lovely .. and i was just saying the truth .. some here get 100s of mail and just have a pic of the leg or somthing ... lol x

You complained today that someone was being personal to you...and I replied then that you give it out just as much.

This post is just as bad and you really do need to stop attacking other posters the way you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a bit of a loss as what benifit there is in denting a friends confidence and lowering her feelings of worth never mind putting a thread up about it. It seems a very negitive thing to do to me.

I agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think I would have put it a little more subtly

I agree x"
maybe but i was not being nasty . We was just having some female panter that was all .

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I suppose only you know what you can say to your friend...and if you are both happy, there isn't a problem.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

So just how long was she allowed to feel good about herself for?

If a woman joins this site and is inundated to the point of pulling her hair out, she can probably work out for herself that there's alot of knob jockeys and desperado's out there.

There is no way I'd burst her bubble, just help her along with perhaps showing her how to le out the idiots.

When i joined this site as a single female, I was at a fairly low ebb and the interest I got was very good (remembering that this was when the site very first opened and there wasn't a huge amount of members)......... it gave me confidence and some much needed self belief.

If any 'friend' of mine had tried to shoot me down like the OP, I'd have been looking for a new friend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I suppose only you know what you can say to your friend...and if you are both happy, there isn't a problem.

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well i have known her over ten years and we play together at times its lovely to have a close friend i can trust .. just we was chating about mail on fab and i come of the phone and put it on here ... never thinking i had done wronge as seen posts about this before here ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose only you know what you can say to your friend...and if you are both happy, there isn't a problem.

well i have known her over ten years and we play together at times its lovely to have a close friend i can trust .. just we was chating about mail on fab and i come of the phone and put it on here ... never thinking i had done wronge as seen posts about this before here .."

I read your post as I thought it was intended Jo and didn't see any offence or malice in it.

I don't think you patronised your friend and had one of my close friends done the same with me, I would have taken it as no more than a bit of mickey taking.

It is nice to have someone on here that you can 'bounce off' and banter with.

As long as friends are afforded the space and privacy to spread their own wings and find their own feet, then, to me, all is good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I suppose only you know what you can say to your friend...and if you are both happy, there isn't a problem.

I read your post as I thought it was intended Jo and didn't see any offence or malice in it.

I don't think you patronised your friend and had one of my close friends done the same with me, I would have taken it as no more than a bit of mickey taking.

It is nice to have someone on here that you can 'bounce off' and banter with.

As long as friends are afforded the space and privacy to spread their own wings and find their own feet, then, to me, all is good

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well she and i go back a long time and it was me telling her about fab got her to come after she had been on the other sites years ... I trust her .. and i cant trust alot of people with out knowing them ... its lovely to have that . We chat on the phone alot and i like that too .. x

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

jo it was obviously you and your friend having a laugh and a bit of leg pulling

me and my best friend are the same dont worryxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, no offence intended, ok?

This thread just illustrates how thin-skinned so many people on here are.

This was 2 friends having a bit of fun and banter with each other, and 1 being frank and honest with the other. After all, if you can't be frank and honest with a good friend.............?

Flamin eck folks, lighten up a bit, eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once she learns how to use the filters and the block button she'll get less messages but more that might be a possible meet

Not sure the pics make much difference if the profile isn't read (as it obviously idn't in a lit if cases) do they look at the pics or just scatter send mails ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you are her friend? yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx

Oh good. Glad your comment made her day.

Being honest can include tact though

Coming from anyone else then I would have questioned whether it was perhaps a little bitchy.

But coming from Jo, who someone had to explain they were being sarcastic to, then I don't believe it was meant in a nasty bitchy way. I'd rather have Jo's way than the manipulative comments I've seen in the past

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

And you are her friend? yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx

Oh good. Glad your comment made her day.

Being honest can include tact though

Coming from anyone else then I would have questioned whether it was perhaps a little bitchy.

I think you will find I mentioned tact , I didn't comment on wether I thought the post was bitchy or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tact is one thing that i have major problems with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I would have put it a little more subtly

well i was just saying the truth .. most men here are after fast lane sex ."

aren't we all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do not know how the words were actually spoken do we, we only know how the OP has written her account of the conversation down. We also know from the OP that they are friends. Is the friend of the OP upset about what was said to her - apparently not, it seems to have been accepted in the way the OP intended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do not know how the words were actually spoken do we, we only know how the OP has written her account of the conversation down. We also know from the OP that they are friends. Is the friend of the OP upset about what was said to her - apparently not, it seems to have been accepted in the way the OP intended.

I think what you are saying is we have a one sided view on things as the other party hasn't commented as far as i can see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I would have put it a little more subtly

well i was just saying the truth .. most men here are after fast lane sex ."

Er No I and many others do happen to be selective and don't feel the need to enter the fast lane as you put it.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Of course it is a one sided view as the only person to post about it is the OP....people are commenting on what she has wrote.

If you think you should refrain because you only have one side of the conversation, then thats your choice...but others chose to comment on what was written.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AymDGLkyaHo&feature=related

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

I think what you are saying is we have a one sided view on things as the other party hasn't commented as far as i can see.

so dr,are you saying all future posts made by you,involving a 2nd party,will be corroborated,by that 2nd party.

otherwise we should view,any such post with scepticism and doubt.

okey dokey,i look forward to hearing from you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh youare so cynical, I only fab the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what you are saying is we have a one sided view on things as the other party hasn't commented as far as i can see.

so dr,are you saying all future posts made by you,involving a 2nd party,will be corroborated,by that 2nd party.

otherwise we should view,any such post with scepticism and doubt.

okey dokey,i look forward to hearing from you both.

It’s not really relevant as I haven’t, wouldn’t and have no intention of starting threads about another fab user. Now as I see it I spoke the truth and it is one point of view involving one party and so is only accurate from one viewpoint. I’m not sure of your IQ there but maybe you should stick to the thread instead of hypothesising about things than will never be. I hope you are clear now and go back to your deep fried marsbar and chips in peace and not have to worry your night away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Of course it is a one sided view as the only person to post about it is the OP....people are commenting on what she has wrote.

If you think you should refrain because you only have one side of the conversation, then thats your choice...but others chose to comment on what was written.

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I have seen post here about fems getting lots of mail i did not see nothing wronge ... we have a good giggle about it all today .. is that bad ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jo unfortunately some people who rarely use the forums and who are not familiar with you and your posts have taken this out of context

But many realise what you meant and that it was tongue in cheek and and not meant as offensive xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jo unfortunately some people who rarely use the forums and who are not familiar with you and your posts have taken this out of context

But many realise what you meant and that it was tongue in cheek and and not meant as offensive xx

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well it was meant tongue and cheek we was on the phone today over 2 hours chating and having a giggle about it .. i cant get over some peoples posts here ... its like others can say things but not me ...or i get jumped on ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jo unfortunately some people who rarely use the forums and who are not familiar with you and your posts have taken this out of context

But many realise what you meant and that it was tongue in cheek and and not meant as offensive xx

Does that mean I shouldn't comment then? You know that clique word, well.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jo unfortunately some people who rarely use the forums and who are not familiar with you and your posts have taken this out of context

But many realise what you meant and that it was tongue in cheek and and not meant as offensive xx

Does that mean I shouldn't comment then? You know that clique word, well.....

Christ did i say that??

No i didnt but you chose to see it like that

Why do people attack so bloody viciously??

And that bloody clique word again

See what you want to see most do anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jo unfortunately some people who rarely use the forums and who are not familiar with you and your posts have taken this out of context

But many realise what you meant and that it was tongue in cheek and and not meant as offensive xx

Does that mean I shouldn't comment then? You know that clique word, well.....

Christ did i say that??

No i didnt but you chose to see it like that

Why do people attack so bloody viciously??

And that bloody clique word again

See what you want to see most do anyway"

Soapy you really ask why? Read what you put before and think about it. You create the illusion of a "us and them" and it came across to me as insular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any woman that doesnt believe most men would shag a hole in a fence are a little naive to say the least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"any woman that doesnt believe most men would shag a hole in a fence are a little naive to say the least."

but only if there was a damp loaf fixed to the other side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jo unfortunately some people who rarely use the forums and who are not familiar with you and your posts have taken this out of context

But many realise what you meant and that it was tongue in cheek and and not meant as offensive xx

Does that mean I shouldn't comment then? You know that clique word, well.....

Christ did i say that??

No i didnt but you chose to see it like that

Why do people attack so bloody viciously??

And that bloody clique word again

See what you want to see most do anyway

Soapy you really ask why? Read what you put before and think about it. You create the illusion of a "us and them" and it came across to me as insular.

Why does it?

Im probably the one poster that tries hard with what i write not to piss anyone off but im only human

I see a lot of Jos posts and was just trying to say that i understood what she was trying to say

If thats offended you or anyone then IM wrong and appologise

So called cliques are just people you havent joined in with as far as im concerned

I havent actually met JO i just know the way she posts and to me shes inoffensive at best

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By *irty_bhamMan
over a year ago

birmingham

has she seen the state of the world lately ?

it's a fucked up place and she/s welcome to it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jo unfortunately some people who rarely use the forums and who are not familiar with you and your posts have taken this out of context

But many realise what you meant and that it was tongue in cheek and and not meant as offensive xx

Does that mean I shouldn't comment then? You know that clique word, well.....

Christ did i say that??

No i didnt but you chose to see it like that

Why do people attack so bloody viciously??

And that bloody clique word again

See what you want to see most do anyway

Soapy you really ask why? Read what you put before and think about it. You create the illusion of a "us and them" and it came across to me as insular.

Why does it?

Im probably the one poster that tries hard with what i write not to piss anyone off but im only human

I see a lot of Jos posts and was just trying to say that i understood what she was trying to say

If thats offended you or anyone then IM wrong and appologise

So called cliques are just people you havent joined in with as far as im concerned

I havent actually met JO i just know the way she posts and to me shes inoffensive at best"

I am pointing out the way it looks. to say "unfortunately some people who rarely use the forums and who are not familiar" is a bit out of order, for all you know people read but dont post, many only comment on threads of interest. To insinuate because they dont post regularly then they dont read is a bit.... well lets say it only points towards an us and them mentality. Personally I that's what it said to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok i apologise to you

It was not meant that way and im sorry you saw it like that

But unfortunately the written word is open to misinterpretation and basically thats a lot of the problem in the forum

People have one chance to put their point across and sometimes it goes awry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok i apologise to you

It was not meant that way and im sorry you saw it like that

But unfortunately the written word is open to misinterpretation and basically thats a lot of the problem in the forum

People have one chance to put their point across and sometimes it goes awry "

Fair enough I can see your point of view and I guess I can see mine. I like a lot will read and not post as life is busy. I do like some of the heated threads but have to be in the mood to join in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ok i apologise to you

It was not meant that way and im sorry you saw it like that

But unfortunately the written word is open to misinterpretation and basically thats a lot of the problem in the forum

People have one chance to put their point across and sometimes it goes awry "
well my wrighting crap .. and maybe things dont come across well at times .. i am no good at letters.. and most here can run rings around me thay know that ... its fine i am not up-set as i know i was not being nasty .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have read your posts with interest in the past Jo and you always come across as a really genuine and lovely person.

I, for one, took what you said in the spirit it was clearly meant and saw the friendly banter aspect and I'm a little surprised and disheartened at the way you have been attacked by some on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have read your posts with interest in the past Jo and you always come across as a really genuine and lovely person.

I, for one, took what you said in the spirit it was clearly meant and saw the friendly banter aspect and I'm a little surprised and disheartened at the way you have been attacked by some on here

I didn't think it was that bad, no posts removed by the looks of it and its not been closed just a fair bit of opposite opinions and some fire damage action. I've seen far worse heated exchanges if we stopped peoples views it wouldn't create the mirth it does.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have read your posts with interest in the past Jo and you always come across as a really genuine and lovely person.

I, for one, took what you said in the spirit it was clearly meant and saw the friendly banter aspect and I'm a little surprised and disheartened at the way you have been attacked by some on here

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well some just need somthing to get there teeth into and its me , lol was just a bit of panter me and a friend had spilled over into my post .. we had a good giggle today chating about things ,,, i would hate her to see all this on fab put her off for life ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have read your posts with interest in the past Jo and you always come across as a really genuine and lovely person.

I, for one, took what you said in the spirit it was clearly meant and saw the friendly banter aspect and I'm a little surprised and disheartened at the way you have been attacked by some on here

well some just need somthing to get there teeth into and its me , lol was just a bit of panter me and a friend had spilled over into my post .. we had a good giggle today chating about things ,,, i would hate her to see all this on fab put her off for life ,

Come on It looks like you are trying to play the victim now. Ok you might not have thought about what you put up but you haven't been shy in perpetuating it. People give it and people should take it, Everyone has an opinion and they differ live with it we all do.

Personally most of it has made me smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have read your posts with interest in the past Jo and you always come across as a really genuine and lovely person.

I, for one, took what you said in the spirit it was clearly meant and saw the friendly banter aspect and I'm a little surprised and disheartened at the way you have been attacked by some on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have read your posts with interest in the past Jo and you always come across as a really genuine and lovely person.

I, for one, took what you said in the spirit it was clearly meant and saw the friendly banter aspect and I'm a little surprised and disheartened at the way you have been attacked by some on here

Personally most of it has made me smile. "
what you on about ? . i am no victim let me tell you no way lolol god you lot make me smile here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have read your posts with interest in the past Jo and you always come across as a really genuine and lovely person.

I, for one, took what you said in the spirit it was clearly meant and saw the friendly banter aspect and I'm a little surprised and disheartened at the way you have been attacked by some on here

Personally most of it has made me smile. what you on about ? . i am no victim let me tell you no way lolol god you lot make me smile here

Err saying "some just need somthing to get there teeth into and its me" its called playing the victim, looking for empathy its pretty common you know. Nothing wrong with it though it works for lots.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have read your posts with interest in the past Jo and you always come across as a really genuine and lovely person.

I, for one, took what you said in the spirit it was clearly meant and saw the friendly banter aspect and I'm a little surprised and disheartened at the way you have been attacked by some on here

Personally most of it has made me smile. what you on about ? . i am no victim let me tell you no way lolol god you lot make me smile here

Err saying "some just need somthing to get there teeth into and its me" its called playing the victim, looking for empathy its pretty common you know. Nothing wrong with it though it works for lots.

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All i can say is you dont know the forums very well ... alot like it when thay have somthing to go at ...i am not getting into this and will not get up=set as i think its all silly ,I know what i was on about thats all matters .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have read your posts with interest in the past Jo and you always come across as a really genuine and lovely person.

I, for one, took what you said in the spirit it was clearly meant and saw the friendly banter aspect and I'm a little surprised and disheartened at the way you have been attacked by some on here

Personally most of it has made me smile. what you on about ? . i am no victim let me tell you no way lolol god you lot make me smile here

Err saying "some just need somthing to get there teeth into and its me" its called playing the victim, looking for empathy its pretty common you know. Nothing wrong with it though it works for lots.

All i can say is you dont know the forums very well ... alot like it when thay have somthing to go at ...i am not getting into this and will not get up=set as i think its all silly ,I know what i was on about thats all matters . "

If you care to look above I said that I do read often and dont feel the need to post, now I think that is acceptable isn't it. I have been polite, I was passing an opinion that's all as it has amused me which as long as its not offensive surely is acceptable.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

And you are her friend? yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx

Oh good. Glad your comment made her day.

Being honest can include tact though

well known her years so she must know me well .... we was just having a bit of fun ... xx"

i have to be honest and i read your initial post and was very very shocked, it sounded so nasty. And that didnt seem like you, i always reply to the op first, as i dont want to be drawn in by hijacks ect.

only on reading did i see u say it was banter between the two of u, the thing is, it is not fair to expect others to know that. i remember saying the same thing to cali when her master posted to embarrass her, we are not here for your amusement.

i am glad your friend wasnt offended, i would have been devastated, and maybe we all need to think about which things would be better in pm than on the forums.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I have read your posts with interest in the past Jo and you always come across as a really genuine and lovely person.

I, for one, took what you said in the spirit it was clearly meant and saw the friendly banter aspect and I'm a little surprised and disheartened at the way you have been attacked by some on here

the only thing that would do that is a friend using the forums to take the piss surely?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Of course it is a one sided view as the only person to post about it is the OP....people are commenting on what she has wrote.

If you think you should refrain because you only have one side of the conversation, then thats your choice...but others chose to comment on what was written.

I have seen post here about fems getting lots of mail i did not see nothing wronge ... we have a good giggle about it all today .. is that bad ? "

I am not sure why people keep picking my post out to twist, but yet again it happens.

I didn't say anything about your post being wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I am not sure why people keep picking my post out to twist, but yet again it happens.

I didn't say anything about your post being wrong."

I cant see why anybody picks on anybodys post out to twist.... But its its happening more and more...

How the hell does a "Jo" thread turn poisonous??

If anyone had bothered to actually read the OP... She wasnt laughing at her longstanding girlfriend... She was joking about the fact that a new single woman could get 100 responses if she only had a picture of her grandfathers beard on her profile...

Way to advertise what a fun group we are on here... Hope her friend doesnt abandon us... Nor any other potential new Fabsters...

Please keep posting Jo.... And please keep up the thankless task Ruggers. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A post is a post that we all see and perceive differently from each other. Perhaps this depends on our personality or our mood on the day. We can all read into something we see, digest it, then dissect it to suit.

I read the initial post and the following comment and to date am starting to form an opinion. Yes an opinion, we all have them on here.

I think initially yes the post was banter with a friend with a slight twist of the OP's status in Fab shining through.

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

I read the title........ "MY friend now thinks she is Miss World" and then the opening post ..........

and it read, to ME and MY opinion that the OP was actually stating that her friend, with a new account thought she was Miss World because her friend said her pictures were HOT because she'd got loads of messages from men, and the OP shot her down in flames.

Each post reads differently to different people, there is no tone of voice in a typed opinion. However, the original post, in MY opinion, was that of someone who thoughtlessly and less than tactfully shot down a 'friends' high spirits because the 'friend' had more messages than the OP.

That may be wrong, but thats how I and many many more read it. I've re-read the post and it still reads the same.

Now, post anything about another member of FAB on an open forum and expect a differing of opinions and possibly a backlash for being indiscreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the title........ "MY friend now thinks she is Miss World" and then the opening post ..........

That may be wrong, but thats how I and many many more read it. I've re-read the post and it still reads the same.

Now, post anything about another member of FAB on an open forum and expect a differing of opinions and possibly a backlash for being indiscreet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the title........ "MY friend now thinks she is Miss World" and then the opening post ..........

That may be wrong, but thats how I and many many more read it. I've re-read the post and it still reads the same.

Now, post anything about another member of FAB on an open forum and expect a differing of opinions and possibly a backlash for being indiscreet."

I have to say when I read the OP, my initial thought was "wow! That's not like Jo to be such a bitch!"...and to me, the comment WAS bitchy.

I comment on what I see and how I perceive what's written. I've never read a nasty comment from Jo, and I'm sure she didn't mean to cause offense, however, if she were my friend and told me don't think you're Miss World, the men on Fab will contact anything I'd be taken aback, but assume she was just being tactless.

However, if I then saw this thread I'd think "what a bitch" and drop her as a friend.

Just my view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you are her friend? yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx

actually some women on here do need bringing down a peg or two

Confidance is one thing but some get to the point of arrogance on here

they give us genuine women a bad name lol

i think this is true unfortuntely

when i first started on here as single girl i thought feckin hell when in chat and some guy said a what i thought was ok girl(just my opnion) was gorgeous in real life i do ok with guys but on here u could if u let it go to your head come away thinking u r kelly brook

but lots do let it go to there head and forget in real life they would be just another girl in a club so as a friend u did the rite thing

good to have friends who r honest xxxx

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

" I am not sure why people keep picking my post out to twist, but yet again it happens.

I didn't say anything about your post being wrong.

I cant see why anybody picks on anybodys post out to twist.... But its its happening more and more...

How the hell does a "Jo" thread turn poisonous??

Way to advertise what a fun group we are on here... Hope her friend doesnt abandon us... Nor any other potential new Fabsters...

Please keep posting Jo.... And please keep up the thankless task Ruggers. Xxx"

Argh i am going to use the C word...is it any wonder ppl believe there is a clique when u can say "How the hell does a "Jo" thread turn poisonous??

i take each post as it comes,there is one person on here i know well enough to say i could guess at motivation of posting, everyone else its only their words i have.

Should one poster be treated any differently to others?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As new and got 100s of posts in two days ... Beacuse she say her pics Hot , lol i said hate to tell you this but most single woman get 100s 10000s no matter how that look its fab and most men just looking for the next shag ."
we was saying this on the phone having a giggle about things on fab as other sites she is on dont get alot of mail ... I was saying as a mate haw things are here ... and how it is for me. We chat about loads of stuff ..She never see it as nasty at all ..

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"As new and got 100s of posts in two days ... Beacuse she say her pics Hot , lol i said hate to tell you this but most single woman get 100s 10000s no matter how that look its fab and most men just looking for the next shag .we was saying this on the phone having a giggle about things on fab as other sites she is on dont get alot of mail ... I was saying as a mate haw things are here ... and how it is for me. We chat about loads of stuff ..She never see it as nasty at all .. "

i think it goes back to my comment about being aware of which things are better in pm, and which made public.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And you are her friend? yes we are mates why i can .. be open ... i think its lovely as made her day xx

actually some women on here do need bringing down a peg or two

Confidance is one thing but some get to the point of arrogance on here

they give us genuine women a bad name lol

i think this is true unfortuntely

but lots do let it go to there head and forget in real life they would be just another girl in a club so as a friend u did the rite thing

good to have friends who r honest xxxx"
if you cant be honest to a close friend who can you be ... we play together go on holidays .. she knows more about me them my mum and sister on some things. And no way would my post .up=set her .. just i get alot of mail and she is on other sites where she dont get alot .. thats what we was having a giggle about and chating about stuff on here a girly chat. She was the one who said she now felt like Miss world made me smile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As new and got 100s of posts in two days ... Beacuse she say her pics Hot , lol i said hate to tell you this but most single woman get 100s 10000s no matter how that look its fab and most men just looking for the next shag .we was saying this on the phone having a giggle about things on fab as other sites she is on dont get alot of mail ... I was saying as a mate haw things are here ... and how it is for me. We chat about loads of stuff ..She never see it as nasty at all ..

i think it goes back to my comment about being aware of which things are better in pm, and which made public. "
I have been here on foums a long time seen posts on this before.. she was the one calling her self Miss world and i was loving it .. as made her feel good and happy .. When i posted it i never see it at all as being nasty . just saying how things are on here.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

And on that note, I think this has runs it's course.

I find the condemning ( for want of a better word ) of people posting a view on a thread to a regulars post uncomfortable.

No matter if you are a regular or a newbie, your post won't be read the same way by everyone and may well have different views on it.

If everyone agreed with a persons post just because they think they are nice normally, we would all be sheep so let's let others have their views without implying there is any malicious agenda.

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