FabSwingers.com forum: question for couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many of you play solo? Do you tell the other half. How does he/she reacct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agreed when started on fab only meet as a couple never solo.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Always complete honesty and no secrets here

But generally ... no don't play solo ... we're here to extend our fun, together, not for the self gratification of the one or the other

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes we come on together hopein to expand our sex life so to speak. But doesn't really seem to be any one interested. With couples it's I like him but he doesn't like her and vice a versa. I really want a mmf but we have very little spare time together

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have mostly played together which as you've noticed op can be very tricky finding another couple where everyone finds everyone attractive! Add to that we're not in anyway a cuckold couple or hotwife and it limits our choices more! We found getting out to lots of group socials we can get to know couples better and find connections socially first. Occasionally we may meet solo but only after lots of discussion to ensure the other half is happy with it.

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have mostly played together which as you've noticed op can be very tricky finding another couple where everyone finds everyone attractive! Add to that we're not in anyway a cuckold couple or hotwife and it limits our choices more! We found getting out to lots of group socials we can get to know couples better and find connections socially first. Occasionally we may meet solo but only after lots of discussion to ensure the other half is happy with it.

Peach x"

We don't do cuckhold either but we have talked about the hotwife thing. To me that feels to much like cheating and worried it would cause problems he says he's cool with it but I'm not convinced

Mrscxxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It seemed easier to meet couples when we first started swinging. Not sure if its us who've changed or if there are fewer couples in our age bracket.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

We only play together but that's only really in theory anyway as finding meets seems ridiculously difficult.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It seemed easier to meet couples when we first started swinging. Not sure if its us who've changed or if there are fewer couples in our age bracket. "

Wish it was easy for us sigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peach x

We don't do cuckhold either but we have talked about the hotwife thing. To me that feels to much like cheating and worried it would cause problems he says he's cool with it but I'm not convinced

Mrscxxx"

We discovered more about how we feel in certain situations by going to clubs....and being very honest about how it made us feel. Swinging has really changed for us from when we first started out, we're no longer impatiently searching for the next meet just going with the flow and seeing where it takes us now!

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We only play together but that's only really in theory anyway as finding meets seems ridiculously difficult."

Very difficult its proving not sure i like the idea of a hot wife

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple
over a year ago

Greater London

No solo play for us everything is as a couple. We are on here to experience sexual adventures together and enjoy a hobby we both share lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We joined so we could get off watching each other, so meeting separately doesn’t do it for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We mainly play together, but finding the right time to get a meet can be difficult. We definitely aren’t a cuckold or hot wife couple. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But if I was to play with another man when he's not around what would that make me. there is one id like to play with..... But I really don't know what to do. Be nice if a couple could dm me so I'm not giving away to much information

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

M likes me to play with other men and women , completely his suggestion and his reaction afterwards shows how much he loves it. M doesn't play with others although we have been looking for a mmf

F x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"M likes me to play with other men and women , completely his suggestion and his reaction afterwards shows how much he loves it. M doesn't play with others although we have been looking for a mmf

F x"

Ffm is top of my list and mmf next but playing solo was never something i considered until last night

he is very hot

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"M likes me to play with other men and women , completely his suggestion and his reaction afterwards shows how much he loves it. M doesn't play with others although we have been looking for a mmf

F x

Ffm is top of my list and mmf next but playing solo was never something i considered until last night

he is very hot

Mrscxxx"

I'd love to see m with another man

I'd especially like to see his sucking skills

I had never thought a out playing solo either until m suggested it. It sends him wild. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"M likes me to play with other men and women , completely his suggestion and his reaction afterwards shows how much he loves it. M doesn't play with others although we have been looking for a mmf

F x

Ffm is top of my list and mmf next but playing solo was never something i considered until last night

he is very hot

Mrscxxx

I'd love to see m with another man

I'd especially like to see his sucking skills

I had never thought a out playing solo either until m suggested it. It sends him wild. Thanks

My Mr is straight and the thought of him with another man does nothing for me. But 2 men in having control over me definitely on my fuckbucet list

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Neither of us has any desire to play solo, we wouldn’t even consider it.

However, if that changed we would approach it with open and honest communication. We would decide rules and limits together.

I can’t imagine a time when we would want to play solo, and even further from that would be playing solo without each other knowing who we’re meeting.

Saying that though, if it works for you then enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Neither of us has any desire to play solo, we wouldn’t even consider it.

However, if that changed we would approach it with open and honest communication. We would decide rules and limits together.

I can’t imagine a time when we would want to play solo, and even further from that would be playing solo without each other knowing who we’re meeting.

Saying that though, if it works for you then enjoy"

He is aware about it I'm just not sure what to do lol

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We play both together and solo, when playing solo the other always knows about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many of you play solo? Do you tell the other half. How does he/she reacct"

I only play solo. We don’t play as a couple, and he doesn’t play at all. Yes I tell him, he loves it

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"How many of you play solo? Do you tell the other half. How does he/she reacct"

I was here first as a single, met someone & we now have a couples profile.

I could still meet alone, but he would know. I don't have secrets or need his permission, but his approval does matters.

I wouldn't meet someone, if he wasn't happy about it, for whatever reason.

Our friendship is more important than a bit of fun with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with most parts of our marriage, we do it together. We’re a team and in this because we both enjoy it, we don’t do anything we’ve not discussed at length beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We indulge in M/M or F/F meets individually simply because it's so darn exciting being at work occasionally wondering what the other is doing.

But an individual hetero meet? No,never. Ever.

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By *aucycouple85Couple
over a year ago

Coalville

We only play as a couple, that's the fun it it for us

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"We only play as a couple, that's the fun it it for us"

Ditto we wouldnt want it any other way x storm x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would love to watch my hubby fuck another girl but I don't think hes all that keen on me fucking another bloke. O don't think this is going to work.

Sigh confused much

Mrscxxx

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

We have two accounts. A couples profile and this hotwife profile.

I play alone as a hotwife. I'd love for hubby to play alone but we all know how hard it is for guys to find women....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd really love for hubs to punish me for talking with another male

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I would love to watch my hubby fuck another girl but I don't think hes all that keen on me fucking another bloke. O don't think this is going to work.

Sigh confused much

Mrscxxx"

Oh well , can’t win them all .

Best call it a day if you want your marriage to work .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it really hard to find what we are looking for.. but finding that quality meet may happen soon.. fingers crossed..

We just don’t want to play solo the fun is being together..

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I have played solo but having experienced my man being present I find that's probably what we'll be looking for in the future.

I like how connected it makes me feel and the fact we are having the experience together albeit from very different angles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us wishes to play solo, the most fun we can have is being together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play solo, occasionally - depends on the people. It’s normally with people we know. My partner likes the idea of me coming on another woman and I like the thought that she turns a guy on enough to make him cum. Sometimes we watch both of the above, on the same night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are mainly looking for unicorn to share a moment with together, but it's hard to find a woman who would be interested, so I made a single account to look for girl on girl play. I'm chatting with a few but no luck in meeting any just yet.

Cute had a first solo meet a few months ago(not from fab) and occasionally I'm fine with him meeting solo. We just need to talk about every detail of the rules before it happens again because it made things between us fragile for some time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be tricky, can’t it. Even with people we know, sometimes it’s hard to split out the emotions from the physicality which (I think) we are all after ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both started with single profiles, met, got into an exclusive relationship then came back with a couple profile.

We would never play alone but as time has gone on we have become more honest about what we enjoy.

He enjoys watching her with other guys and even thinking about her with them while he's at work. He enjoys the banter and wouldnt mind a meet occasionally as long as its spoken about, but its so bloody difficult for guys.

We have both played alone but the preference is to play together. For us we enjoy seeing each other satisfied and having fun knowing this is something we are experiencing together.

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By *erfectlyPervertedCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We're synergystic, so you get both of us.

TG & SS

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We both need to be on the same page coz right now I feel like we are not. I run fab and I love interacting in the forum's.

We want a couple to have a full swap. But also a f to share but there hard to find where there is mutual attraction for all involved.

He told me I could message blokes coz I want mmf but he gets jelous so Idk what t do sighs

Mrscxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We agreed when started on fab only meet as a couple never solo. "

This is what we sed

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By *im and her 2017Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

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By *hezzie BikersCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Mrs plays alone and send pics so hot x

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

We used to meet as a couple but circumstances have led to us both meeting solo.

We agreed the time we now get together is just for us and never for sharing but we've not always stuck to that bit

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

For some the fun between them together after a meet is the primary reason for swinging . This may be a meet where they met together or separately . But you have to be 100% committed and strong as a couple to do this .

For the op , it seems they are way off being able to do the separate meet thing . They simply aren’t ready . She may be , but he’s not by the sound of things . That being the case , it’s daft to even consider it as going ahead ( as it seems she wants to ) will surely end the marriage .

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

"How many of you play solo? Do you tell the other half. How does he/she reacct"

Would be cheating??? Not swinging pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For some the fun between them together after a meet is the primary reason for swinging . This may be a meet where they met together or separately . But you have to be 100% committed and strong as a couple to do this .

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"We both need to be on the same page coz right now I feel like we are not. I run fab and I love interacting in the forum's.

We want a couple to have a full swap. But also a f to share but there hard to find where there is mutual attraction for all involved.

He told me I could message blokes coz I want mmf but he gets jelous so Idk what t do sighs

Mrscxxx"

It sounds like you both need to sit down and work out some ground rules that work for you both. To make this work you need to communicate lots. And when you think you’ve done that, sit down and do it some more! If you don’t talk things through, every step of the way, swinging has the potential to destroy your relationship.

Maybe hide your profile and just enjoy the forums for now. You can then I hide until you’re both happy to start looking for playmates

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We both need to be on the same page coz right now I feel like we are not. I run fab and I love interacting in the forum's.

We want a couple to have a full swap. But also a f to share but there hard to find where there is mutual attraction for all involved.

He told me I could message blokes coz I want mmf but he gets jelous so Idk what t do sighs

Mrscxxx

Maybe hide your profile and just enjoy the forums for now. You can then I hide until you’re both happy to start looking for playmates "

How do you hide your profile

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"We both need to be on the same page coz right now I feel like we are not. I run fab and I love interacting in the forum's.

We want a couple to have a full swap. But also a f to share but there hard to find where there is mutual attraction for all involved.

He told me I could message blokes coz I want mmf but he gets jelous so Idk what t do sighs

Mrscxxx

Maybe hide your profile and just enjoy the forums for now. You can then I hide until you’re both happy to start looking for playmates

How do you hide your profile"

Go to account, then privacy, then hide profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think it's done now

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"Think it's done now"

It is.

Good luck to you both, I hope you work out what’s best for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd second that sentiment.

Good luck with your upcoming discussions and hope it all works out.

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