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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would you meet a straight man who has men or tv's on his friend's list or verification summary?

If not why not?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Newsflash they're not Straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newsflash they're not Straight."
why not it may be a friend?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes I would. They may have met them at socials. In any case, I'm happy to meet bi men and I'm not fussed how they describe their sexuality on their profile.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

I'm only interested in what they're going to be doing with me, not what they've done before that.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I personally would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actively seeking guys for a bi MMF so yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friend list I would give the benefit of the doubt as you can be friends with people or want them for connections to parties/socials etc. If they were verified by men or TVs in an obvious sexual way with confirmation that they’ve played then no I wouldn’t meet them.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

This is an interesting point - I veri’d a single male who I have known for about 3 years through swinging scene. He had to hide is verification because people wouldn’t play with him because they thought he played with a single guy

No issues for me as I am straight and I will chat to anyone and their uncle

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Newsflash they're not Straight."

So guys cant have guy pals on here and be straight really !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.. have and will if there's a connection.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"This is an interesting point - I veri’d a single male who I have known for about 3 years through swinging scene. He had to hide is verification because people wouldn’t play with him because they thought he played with a single guy

No issues for me as I am straight and I will chat to anyone and their uncle "

I have a TV veri, and I've been told it'll hurt me. I get it's different for guys, but anyone who thinks I'm lesser because I interacted with a TV can shove off.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend?"
I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

yes

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse."

There would be no confusion if they made it perfectly clear it was just a social,I think it's very easy to see if someone was a sex meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I would. They may have met them at socials. In any case, I'm happy to meet bi men and I'm not fussed how they describe their sexuality on their profile. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you meet a straight man who has men or tv's on his friend's list or verification summary?

If not why not?"

Only if he promises to bum me straight

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.

There would be no confusion if they made it perfectly clear it was just a social,I think it's very easy to see if someone was a sex meet."
If they go Unlos what then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.

There would be no confusion if they made it perfectly clear it was just a social,I think it's very easy to see if someone was a sex meet. If they go Unlos what then? "

Hide your summary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer straight men personally. Why? Because I do I guess. That preference thing again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Friend list I would give the benefit of the doubt as you can be friends with people or want them for connections to parties/socials etc. If they were verified by men or TVs in an obvious sexual way with confirmation that they’ve played then no I wouldn’t meet them. "

ditto

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.

There would be no confusion if they made it perfectly clear it was just a social,I think it's very easy to see if someone was a sex meet. If they go Unlos what then?

Hide your summary"
And that wouldn't look suspicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really see it as any of my business as to who anyone else has or hasn't met with and what they did or didn't get up to.

As long as I have a mutual connection and attraction to the person I don't see what relevance there is as to who they've met with before.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.

There would be no confusion if they made it perfectly clear it was just a social,I think it's very easy to see if someone was a sex meet. If they go Unlos what then? "

Simply explain on your profile.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I don't really see it as any of my business as to who anyone else has or hasn't met with and what they did or didn't get up to.

As long as I have a mutual connection and attraction to the person I don't see what relevance there is as to who they've met with before. "
You can't give blood if you have slept with a bisexual man.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.

There would be no confusion if they made it perfectly clear it was just a social,I think it's very easy to see if someone was a sex meet. If they go Unlos what then?

Simply explain on your profile."

Does it still show when they've left?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.

There would be no confusion if they made it perfectly clear it was just a social,I think it's very easy to see if someone was a sex meet. If they go Unlos what then?

Simply explain on your profile."
A lot of cynical people on here, I wouldn't believe that myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really see it as any of my business as to who anyone else has or hasn't met with and what they did or didn't get up to.

As long as I have a mutual connection and attraction to the person I don't see what relevance there is as to who they've met with before. You can't give blood if you have slept with a bisexual man."

I can't give blood anyway so it makes no difference to me.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.

There would be no confusion if they made it perfectly clear it was just a social,I think it's very easy to see if someone was a sex meet. If they go Unlos what then?

Simply explain on your profile.

Does it still show when they've left?"
Yeah it would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me if he had straight on his profile and had had sex meets with tv's and men.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"It wouldn't bother me if he had straight on his profile and had had sex meets with tv's and men."
It's a pretty big lie though. Seems like a red flag to me.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse."

You have a verification from a man though

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.

You have a verification from a man though "
It was from a couple who split up and it became a single male profile. Veris should stay as they were done at the time. Annoying that is.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If the veri isn't shown but others are and the summary is I'd ask them about it. If it was an obvious play meet I wouldn't meet them, not because I have an issue with bi men but because I get a little irked if someone can't own their sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wouldn't bother me if he had straight on his profile and had had sex meets with tv's and men. It's a pretty big lie though. Seems like a red flag to me."

If the verification is showing they aren't lying about it. I have licked a pussy and I've ticked straight. I don't want bi women or couples with bi women asking to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect various responses here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements."

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.

You have a verification from a man though It was from a couple who split up and it became a single male profile. Veris should stay as they were done at the time. Annoying that is."

So you can be straight and have a verification from a man then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements."

Guys who are bi aren’t manly?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.

You have a verification from a man though It was from a couple who split up and it became a single male profile. Veris should stay as they were done at the time. Annoying that is.

So you can be straight and have a verification from a man then "
It's not funny, ruined my symmetry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we wouldn’t , we are only interested in meeting straight guys ..

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Think i will sit back and enjoy this!

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By *ycra loutMan
over a year ago

york/Scarborough


"Would you meet a straight man who has men or tv's on his friend's list or verification summary?

If not why not?"

Yes why not . I have a very good ts friend that I often see for a a cuppa and chat. Everyone is human and needs human company

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By *ung_londonMan
over a year ago

London

You could look at it that by someone displaying (sexual) same-gender verifications even if they define themself as straight, they are giving honest information to those who have a different definition. I’m not denying that some people on fab don’t tell the truth about their sexuality (or their age, body parts or capacity to act like a human being) but the evidence of those forums is that there are a lot of folk on here who define the sexual labels available very differently. Someone may not be lying - they may be honestly using the term in the sense they understand it. The more ferociously the labels and boundaries are policed is, perhaps, likely to lead to less honesty, rather than more?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.

You have a verification from a man though It was from a couple who split up and it became a single male profile. Veris should stay as they were done at the time. Annoying that is.

So you can be straight and have a verification from a man then It's not funny, ruined my symmetry "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really see it as any of my business as to who anyone else has or hasn't met with and what they did or didn't get up to.

As long as I have a mutual connection and attraction to the person I don't see what relevance there is as to who they've met with before. You can't give blood if you have slept with a bisexual man."

What happens if you have slept with bi men and didnt know and still gave blood. How would they know they then dont want it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse."
sometimes u dont get a choice guys verify girls all the time even without meeting them

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.sometimes u dont get a choice guys verify girls all the time even without meeting them"
If you have filters you do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't really see it as any of my business as to who anyone else has or hasn't met with and what they did or didn't get up to.

As long as I have a mutual connection and attraction to the person I don't see what relevance there is as to who they've met with before. You can't give blood if you have slept with a bisexual man.

What happens if you have slept with bi men and didnt know and still gave blood. How would they know they then dont want it? "

I've often wondered this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Guys who are bi aren’t manly?"

That's what I said. I know plenty who are, and some straight men who are very feminine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would probably ask him about them, If I had thought to even register looking at the veris, just as he classes as straight, but I doubt it would put me off if I was keen anyway. Rather the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? "
I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Guys who are bi aren’t manly?

That's what I said. I know plenty who are, and some straight men who are very feminine. "

Of course...I’m just interested in Red’s taken on this- I’m a bit surprised at her comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?"

Lumping you in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?"

I have met Bi- men, but not those that play with Tv's.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I don't really see it as any of my business as to who anyone else has or hasn't met with and what they did or didn't get up to.

As long as I have a mutual connection and attraction to the person I don't see what relevance there is as to who they've met with before. You can't give blood if you have slept with a bisexual man.

What happens if you have slept with bi men and didnt know and still gave blood. How would they know they then dont want it? "
I think they probably wouldn't take swinger blood if they knew either to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really see it as any of my business as to who anyone else has or hasn't met with and what they did or didn't get up to.

As long as I have a mutual connection and attraction to the person I don't see what relevance there is as to who they've met with before. You can't give blood if you have slept with a bisexual man.

What happens if you have slept with bi men and didnt know and still gave blood. How would they know they then dont want it?

I've often wondered this. "

Surely the blood is tested no matter what rather than go on say so written on a form. What a waste of donor oppurtunities if not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?"

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.sometimes u dont get a choice guys verify girls all the time even without meeting them If you have filters you do."
didnt know that good call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer straight men personally. Why? Because I do I guess. That preference thing again. "

That wasn't the question though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

I have met Bi- men, but not those that play with Tv's."

Surely a Tv/TS is a very different type of experience to a woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem

The kind of people who might have an issue with it are probably those I wouldn't see eye to eye with anyway

So the status quo would remain set to polite indifference

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Men can have a vari from a man it just needs to be clear it was a social . I am totally straight but in the normal world 2 of my friends are TV and if I saw either of them on here or met at a social I would veri them as I've known 1 10 years and the other 20 years both before they came out . they are who they are and I am who I am and I don't care what people think they are close friends and there is a line that would never be crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enough devils whats its face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!"

Nope. I'm confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer straight men personally. Why? Because I do I guess. That preference thing again.

That wasn't the question though "

Ok socially yes. For anything else no. Reason - preference. Better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused."

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!"

I wouldn’t bother trying to if I were you. This is what this thread was for. Anyone who says no is going to be subject to questioning. I get where you’re coming from.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused.

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity."
They might be disappointed when they see you aren't packing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused.

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity."

Wow, if I wanted to meet you it would be because I fancy the pants off you. Anyone else I’d met wouldn’t in my thinking.. i’d Be meeting you because your femininity turned me on so much.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the veris from men were play meets then I would ask why they were listed as straight and then decide if I trusted them or respected their answer.

His sexuality isn't an issue for me, honesty is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer straight men personally. Why? Because I do I guess. That preference thing again.

That wasn't the question though

Ok socially yes. For anything else no. Reason - preference. Better?"

Not really - the question wasn’t would you prefer straight or bi men. It was would you meet a straight man with a veri from a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused.

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity."

Do you think bisexual women see other women as manly?

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.

You have a verification from a man though It was from a couple who split up and it became a single male profile. Veris should stay as they were done at the time. Annoying that is.

So you can be straight and have a verification from a man then "
That's the funny thing about the verification system on here. You can have a verification from a man or TV and be straight. Just read the verifications, some people verify after meeting in a club socially. Verifications (the clue is in the name) is a way to prove that someone is who they say they are.

Some people don't bother reading the verification's, they just go down looking at gender. We have a verification from a TV we met and chatted to in a club and we had a giggle with her. She chose to verify us and we are proud to display that verification on our profile.

With the amount of lying that goes on within profiles on this site we find the verifications as a good window on the authenticity of some claims. They are not just left after sex. If having a verification from a TV on our profile puts someone off then good, we don't meet judgemental people so that would be a good thing.

To answer the OP question, yes we would.

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By *lubcouple2Couple
over a year ago

newport

Being both bi it dosent bother us playing with bi or straight guys the thing is most single guys say straight on there fab profiles read our profile and message us when we say were bi they still want to meet theres more bi/curious guys who dont admit it on fab or in clubs but suprisingly a lot of these straight guys have profiles on fab guys too but in last few monthes there are alot more guys comming out as bi on fab either in couples and singles best of both worlds i say women are more open to admitying the bi than men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope so, as I have veris from both on mine, but none of them are play and never will they be.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements."

Manly man?! The guy I met for a bi mmf couldn't have been more manly if he had tried!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused.

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity.

Do you think bisexual women see other women as manly?"

No. Any more questions? Why? Do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Manly man?! The guy I met for a bi mmf couldn't have been more manly if he had tried!"

Was he drinking stout and smoking a cigar whilst lifting a barbell with his penis?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused.

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity.

Do you think bisexual women see other women as manly?"
I like a feminine woman. I wouldn't meet a butch woman. Similar sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused.

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity.

Do you think bisexual women see other women as manly? I like a feminine woman. I wouldn't meet a butch woman. Similar sort of thing."

Bi men aren't all feminine. She said being bi isn't manly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer straight men personally. Why? Because I do I guess. That preference thing again.

That wasn't the question though

Ok socially yes. For anything else no. Reason - preference. Better?

Not really - the question wasn’t would you prefer straight or bi men. It was would you meet a straight man with a veri from a man. "

OMG! No not if it was a sexual veri. Better now?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused.

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity.

Do you think bisexual women see other women as manly? I like a feminine woman. I wouldn't meet a butch woman. Similar sort of thing.

Bi men aren't all feminine. She said being bi isn't manly.

"
It may be a stereotype but met a few bi women who said they wouldn't meet bi men. They don't think it's masculine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused.

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity.

Do you think bisexual women see other women as manly? I like a feminine woman. I wouldn't meet a butch woman. Similar sort of thing.

Bi men aren't all feminine. She said being bi isn't manly.

"

I didn't say that. You are twisting it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Newsflash they're not Straight."

I bet you have been waiting all year for a thread like this so you could air your straight card...

Newsflash. Not every meet is a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused.

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity.

Do you think bisexual women see other women as manly?

No. Any more questions? Why? Do you?"

No need to get testy with me. No I see people for who they are. I don't throw preconceived ideas at them and dismiss them because of it. Some men are manly and love a cock; that doesn't put me off them.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Newsflash they're not Straight.

I bet you have been waiting all year for a thread like this so you could air your straight card...

Newsflash. Not every meet is a fuck. "
Yeah nearly 18 hours of the New Year haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Manly man?! The guy I met for a bi mmf couldn't have been more manly if he had tried!"

Exactly

I'm proper manly me

Unless you put a showtune on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused.

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity.

Do you think bisexual women see other women as manly? I like a feminine woman. I wouldn't meet a butch woman. Similar sort of thing.

Bi men aren't all feminine. She said being bi isn't manly.

"

I don’t think that is what she is saying- I think her actual reasoning is more subtle than that. But I think she has probably had enough of 20 questions so I’m leaving my curiosity there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused.

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity.

Do you think bisexual women see other women as manly?

No. Any more questions? Why? Do you?

No need to get testy with me. No I see people for who they are. I don't throw preconceived ideas at them and dismiss them because of it. Some men are manly and love a cock; that doesn't put me off them. "

I didn't say that either.

I think you are just creating an argument for arguments sake.

Enjoy your evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused.

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity.

Do you think bisexual women see other women as manly? I like a feminine woman. I wouldn't meet a butch woman. Similar sort of thing.

Bi men aren't all feminine. She said being bi isn't manly.

I didn't say that. You are twisting it."

You said you wanted a manly man, so wouldn't meet them. Isn't that the same thing? I'm saying bi because they meet men and tvs with cocks (although some tv's are very feminine and that is part of the attraction).

I was just going over the idea that men who like other men can be seen as not manly men by others. It happens and you don't have to justify it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer straight men personally. Why? Because I do I guess. That preference thing again.

That wasn't the question though

Ok socially yes. For anything else no. Reason - preference. Better?

Not really - the question wasn’t would you prefer straight or bi men. It was would you meet a straight man with a veri from a man.

OMG! No not if it was a sexual veri. Better now?"

Much - that’s answering the question

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have veris from guys from socials, also currently organising a social with a guy local to me just so he gets his first veri, we are meeting up at the weekend to go for a long cycle.

It is possible that guys can meet other guys just as friends and nothing more.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Manly man?! The guy I met for a bi mmf couldn't have been more manly if he had tried!

Was he drinking stout and smoking a cigar whilst lifting a barbell with his penis? "

You've met him as well then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused.

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity.

Do you think bisexual women see other women as manly?

No. Any more questions? Why? Do you?

No need to get testy with me. No I see people for who they are. I don't throw preconceived ideas at them and dismiss them because of it. Some men are manly and love a cock; that doesn't put me off them.

I didn't say that either.

I think you are just creating an argument for arguments sake.

Enjoy your evening."

I'm not arguing. I'm interested in how people perceive others, that's all. It's your call as to who you meet and why you won't- which is what the OP asked. I just find it interesting as to how we look at people and their sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t knowingly meet a guy that’s sucked another mans willy or been fucked by another guy. The only exception to this is if I had a straight guy who was being held down whilst a bi guy sucked his dick but I had to sit on straight guys face and suffocate him with my cunt to get him through the ordeal of having his willy sucked by another man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about. "

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t knowingly meet a guy that’s sucked another mans willy or been fucked by another guy. The only exception to this is if I had a straight guy who was being held down whilst a bi guy sucked his dick but I had to sit on straight guys face and suffocate him with my cunt to get him through the ordeal of having his willy sucked by another man. "

You make the world a much brighter place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway? "

It's also really hard to explain sexuality preferences.

I meet and have met Bi- guys but that's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Manly man?! The guy I met for a bi mmf couldn't have been more manly if he had tried!

Was he drinking stout and smoking a cigar whilst lifting a barbell with his penis?

You've met him as well then?"

Yeah, he's one of the good guys. I look forward to next bi vs straight man off we have, you should come judge it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway? "

It doesn't, to us, just to the people it affects. I like knowing why people think how they do, but it can't always be explained.

Why do I like seeing two hot men kiss? Fuck knows, but I do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Men who have sex with tv's and men aren't manly? I suppose they could be but I would feel that my femininity was in question if they were lumping me in with others so would choose not to meet them. Does that answer it sufficiently?

Lumping you in?

I don't think I am explaining this very well!

Nope. I'm confused.

I don't want to meet men who have only slept with Tv's or TS because it would make me feel insecure about my femininity."

That makes sense to me. I don't think you need to explain further.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway?

It doesn't, to us, just to the people it affects. I like knowing why people think how they do, but it can't always be explained.

Why do I like seeing two hot men kiss? Fuck knows, but I do. "
It's a culture and societal thing.

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By *rs Myvanwy Scarlet-BlackTV/TS
over a year ago

Darlaston

Yes I just love playing with straight men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You all going crazy over nothing hahahaha

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Yes I just love playing with straight men "
"Straight"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Newsflash they're not Straight.why not it may be a friend? I wouldn't let 1 verify me from a social or anything so as not to confuse.

You have a verification from a man though It was from a couple who split up and it became a single male profile. Veris should stay as they were done at the time. Annoying that is.

So you can be straight and have a verification from a man then That's the funny thing about the verification system on here. You can have a verification from a man or TV and be straight. Just read the verifications, some people verify after meeting in a club socially. Verifications (the clue is in the name) is a way to prove that someone is who they say they are.

Some people don't bother reading the verification's, they just go down looking at gender. We have a verification from a TV we met and chatted to in a club and we had a giggle with her. She chose to verify us and we are proud to display that verification on our profile.

With the amount of lying that goes on within profiles on this site we find the verifications as a good window on the authenticity of some claims. They are not just left after sex. If having a verification from a TV on our profile puts someone off then good, we don't meet judgemental people so that would be a good thing.

To answer the OP question, yes we would."

That's one thing I do like about the verification system. Like attracts like. It also puts off incompatible people. I'm all for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway?

It's also really hard to explain sexuality preferences.

I meet and have met Bi- guys but that's it."

It is. I don’t get why people want reasons for everything. Why don’t you like big women, why don’t you like skinny men, why don’t you want to have sex with a bi guy, why are you cheating on your wife. Who cares. It’s your business.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I don't really see it as any of my business as to who anyone else has or hasn't met with and what they did or didn't get up to.

As long as I have a mutual connection and attraction to the person I don't see what relevance there is as to who they've met with before. You can't give blood if you have slept with a bisexual man."

You can't give blood if you've recently had a tattoo either.

Always confused me that gay/bisexual men could be in monogamous relationships for years yet if honest when questioned couldn't give blood....but hey - guess that's for a different thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway?

It's also really hard to explain sexuality preferences.

I meet and have met Bi- guys but that's it.

It is. I don’t get why people want reasons for everything. Why don’t you like big women, why don’t you like skinny men, why don’t you want to have sex with a bi guy, why are you cheating on your wife. Who cares. It’s your business. "

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Manly man?! The guy I met for a bi mmf couldn't have been more manly if he had tried!

Was he drinking stout and smoking a cigar whilst lifting a barbell with his penis?

You've met him as well then?

Yeah, he's one of the good guys. I look forward to next bi vs straight man off we have, you should come judge it. "

Shame he seems to have disappeared. That soundproofing in my cellar came in handy,just thinking out loud there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Manly man?! The guy I met for a bi mmf couldn't have been more manly if he had tried!

Exactly

I'm proper manly me

Unless you put a showtune on "

Saying nowt.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway?

It's also really hard to explain sexuality preferences.

I meet and have met Bi- guys but that's it.

It is. I don’t get why people want reasons for everything. Why don’t you like big women, why don’t you like skinny men, why don’t you want to have sex with a bi guy, why are you cheating on your wife. Who cares. It’s your business. "
Yeah you're shit out of luck if you're looking for a equal opportunities swinger. So sue them.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It is. I don’t get why people want reasons for everything. Why don’t you like big women, why don’t you like skinny men, why don’t you want to have sex with a bi guy, why are you cheating on your wife. Who cares. It’s your business. "

Because people are curious. Sometimes people are nosy. I think on a forum, people want to exchange and express ideas. Stands to reason that the people who care are those who read and answer the threads. Personally, I find other people fascinating and enjoy the insight this sort of question provides.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

All mine show is that ive met them at socials.

or by other sites and that ive shown up at the venues.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You all going crazy over nothing hahahaha "

It blows away the cobwebs. A good rant gets the blood and adrenaline flowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway?

It's also really hard to explain sexuality preferences.

I meet and have met Bi- guys but that's it.

It is. I don’t get why people want reasons for everything. Why don’t you like big women, why don’t you like skinny men, why don’t you want to have sex with a bi guy, why are you cheating on your wife. Who cares. It’s your business. "

We comment on forums to open up discussions don't we? It's why Steel Heels asked why. She asked for explanations. I don't always get what people are saying and like some more explanation. It's a fault in my personality, like the 5 year old who keeps asking why.

I can't always let it go, so people have to tell me to shut up and go suck a lollipop.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"You all going crazy over nothing hahahaha

It blows away the cobwebs. A good rant gets the blood and adrenaline flowing. "
Just blood that can't be donated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It is. I don’t get why people want reasons for everything. Why don’t you like big women, why don’t you like skinny men, why don’t you want to have sex with a bi guy, why are you cheating on your wife. Who cares. It’s your business.

Because people are curious. Sometimes people are nosy. I think on a forum, people want to exchange and express ideas. Stands to reason that the people who care are those who read and answer the threads. Personally, I find other people fascinating and enjoy the insight this sort of question provides."

Yeah fair enough. Probably just me. Just seems anyone who has a different opinion from the majority tends to get pounced on and I just find it a bit unfair that’s all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You all going crazy over nothing hahahaha

It blows away the cobwebs. A good rant gets the blood and adrenaline flowing. "

It's made me fancy a bi mmf.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"

It is. I don’t get why people want reasons for everything. Why don’t you like big women, why don’t you like skinny men, why don’t you want to have sex with a bi guy, why are you cheating on your wife. Who cares. It’s your business.

Because people are curious. Sometimes people are nosy. I think on a forum, people want to exchange and express ideas. Stands to reason that the people who care are those who read and answer the threads. Personally, I find other people fascinating and enjoy the insight this sort of question provides.

Yeah fair enough. Probably just me. Just seems anyone who has a different opinion from the majority tends to get pounced on and I just find it a bit unfair that’s all. "
You're just a bigot

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Frankly I find some of these comments really rather sad. As if the measure of a person is their sexuality.

Personal preference is fine and I understand that everyone has the choice to meet whoever they choose, however making assumptions about a person based on their sexuality is rather unsavoury and somewhat bigoted. If we were discussing bi women or women verifying women then the responses would be completely different.

The stigma associated with bi guys is clearly alive and well it would seem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It is. I don’t get why people want reasons for everything. Why don’t you like big women, why don’t you like skinny men, why don’t you want to have sex with a bi guy, why are you cheating on your wife. Who cares. It’s your business.

Because people are curious. Sometimes people are nosy. I think on a forum, people want to exchange and express ideas. Stands to reason that the people who care are those who read and answer the threads. Personally, I find other people fascinating and enjoy the insight this sort of question provides.

Yeah fair enough. Probably just me. Just seems anyone who has a different opinion from the majority tends to get pounced on and I just find it a bit unfair that’s all. You're just a bigot "

Buggar off you. I’m out of here now. Did so well not getting involved in these kind of threads too!!! Damn!! I shall make my way back to fuck kiss and avoid where I belong

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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish)


"That's one thing I do like about the verification system. Like attracts like. It also puts off incompatible people. I'm all for that. "
They certainly do that, we find them very useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It is. I don’t get why people want reasons for everything. Why don’t you like big women, why don’t you like skinny men, why don’t you want to have sex with a bi guy, why are you cheating on your wife. Who cares. It’s your business.

Because people are curious. Sometimes people are nosy. I think on a forum, people want to exchange and express ideas. Stands to reason that the people who care are those who read and answer the threads. Personally, I find other people fascinating and enjoy the insight this sort of question provides.

Yeah fair enough. Probably just me. Just seems anyone who has a different opinion from the majority tends to get pounced on and I just find it a bit unfair that’s all. You're just a bigot

Buggar off you. I’m out of here now. Did so well not getting involved in these kind of threads too!!! Damn!! I shall make my way back to fuck kiss and avoid where I belong "
avoid

Thats for earlier

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Newsflash they're not Straight."

I have TV/TS in my friends list and verifications from same.

I'm straight.

That's a pretty daft presumption.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It is. I don’t get why people want reasons for everything. Why don’t you like big women, why don’t you like skinny men, why don’t you want to have sex with a bi guy, why are you cheating on your wife. Who cares. It’s your business.

Because people are curious. Sometimes people are nosy. I think on a forum, people want to exchange and express ideas. Stands to reason that the people who care are those who read and answer the threads. Personally, I find other people fascinating and enjoy the insight this sort of question provides.

Yeah fair enough. Probably just me. Just seems anyone who has a different opinion from the majority tends to get pounced on and I just find it a bit unfair that’s all. You're just a bigot

Buggar off you. I’m out of here now. Did so well not getting involved in these kind of threads too!!! Damn!! I shall make my way back to fuck kiss and avoid where I belong avoid

Thats for earlier"

Haha I’ll probably get more of those now

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

We do but most of then ones we meet turned out to be bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i were a woman i couldnt be with a bisexual man .

i couldnt have him making love to me knowing he had been in a mans bottom

likewise i couldnt give him oral without thinking omg , im sucking this and its been in a dark place.

coat me off i'm sure , sorry its just the way i'm made

men are for women and vice versa in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You all going crazy over nothing hahahaha

It blows away the cobwebs. A good rant gets the blood and adrenaline flowing. Just blood that can't be donated. "

You're actually being funny tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we wouldn’t , we are only interested in meeting straight guys .. "
my kind of couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprised there's nowhere near as much homophobic comments as I thought, still a few though hiding it with justifications such as 'just my preference'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i were a woman i couldnt be with a bisexual man .

i couldnt have him making love to me knowing he had been in a mans bottom

likewise i couldnt give him oral without thinking omg , im sucking this and its been in a dark place.

coat me off i'm sure , sorry its just the way i'm made

men are for women and vice versa in my eyes

"

Bloody hell. Prepare to be stoned in the market square!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"You all going crazy over nothing hahahaha

It blows away the cobwebs. A good rant gets the blood and adrenaline flowing. Just blood that can't be donated.

You're actually being funny tonight "
I'm always funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway? "

Exactly that.. preferences are preferences and shouldn't need justifying. I hate some things most people love and feel no need to explain myself to anyone.. I just don't like it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway?

Exactly that.. preferences are preferences and shouldn't need justifying. I hate some things most people love and feel no need to explain myself to anyone.. I just don't like it.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You all going crazy over nothing hahahaha

It blows away the cobwebs. A good rant gets the blood and adrenaline flowing. "
not worth the vacations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway?

Exactly that.. preferences are preferences and shouldn't need justifying. I hate some things most people love and feel no need to explain myself to anyone.. I just don't like it.. "

. I was just leaving and now I’ve seen a comment about hiding homophobia behind preferences. Aaarghhhhhh. This place!!! Not biting. I’m off!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"You all going crazy over nothing hahahaha

It blows away the cobwebs. A good rant gets the blood and adrenaline flowing. not worth the vacations"
Vaccinations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway?

Exactly that.. preferences are preferences and shouldn't need justifying. I hate some things most people love and feel no need to explain myself to anyone.. I just don't like it..

. I was just leaving and now I’ve seen a comment about hiding homophobia behind preferences. Aaarghhhhhh. This place!!! Not biting. I’m off! "
i fear no man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway?

Exactly that.. preferences are preferences and shouldn't need justifying. I hate some things most people love and feel no need to explain myself to anyone.. I just don't like it..

. I was just leaving and now I’ve seen a comment about hiding homophobia behind preferences. Aaarghhhhhh. This place!!! Not biting. I’m off! "

Ha ha that sums up the point nobody will ever win.. opinions and preferences are so extreme.. back to the tame threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You all going crazy over nothing hahahaha

It blows away the cobwebs. A good rant gets the blood and adrenaline flowing. not worth the vacations Vaccinations?"
at least change what i wrote come on dude i thought better of ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Manly man?! The guy I met for a bi mmf couldn't have been more manly if he had tried!

Was he drinking stout and smoking a cigar whilst lifting a barbell with his penis?

You've met him as well then?

Yeah, he's one of the good guys. I look forward to next bi vs straight man off we have, you should come judge it.

Shame he seems to have disappeared. That soundproofing in my cellar came in handy,just thinking out loud there."

I was starting to wonder . Anyway sound proofing guy..... I could use a good one, is he straight though? Or is another man off in order?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"You all going crazy over nothing hahahaha

It blows away the cobwebs. A good rant gets the blood and adrenaline flowing. not worth the vacations Vaccinations?at least change what i wrote come on dude i thought better of ya "
Touché. It's hard to tell with your spelling at times though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You all going crazy over nothing hahahaha

It blows away the cobwebs. A good rant gets the blood and adrenaline flowing.

Just blood that can't be donated. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surprised there's nowhere near as much homophobic comments as I thought, still a few though hiding it with justifications such as 'just my preference' "

Another daft generalisation. Preferences that don't include bisexual on any side don't have to be homophobic. Nobody needs to justify any preference. We like what we like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Frankly I find some of these comments really rather sad. As if the measure of a person is their sexuality.

Personal preference is fine and I understand that everyone has the choice to meet whoever they choose, however making assumptions about a person based on their sexuality is rather unsavoury and somewhat bigoted. If we were discussing bi women or women verifying women then the responses would be completely different.

The stigma associated with bi guys is clearly alive and well it would seem. "

I think that people have the right to slept with whoever they want, and if that's straight men only then that's their prerogative however, I agree that it's pretty vile for people to be making assumptions and derogatory comments about a person because of their sexuality. Let's hope that none of these people work in management because there are laws against that sort of behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You all going crazy over nothing hahahaha

It blows away the cobwebs. A good rant gets the blood and adrenaline flowing. not worth the vacations Vaccinations?at least change what i wrote come on dude i thought better of ya Touché. It's hard to tell with your spelling at times though."
im not a wizard

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Manly man?! The guy I met for a bi mmf couldn't have been more manly if he had tried!

Was he drinking stout and smoking a cigar whilst lifting a barbell with his penis?

You've met him as well then?

Yeah, he's one of the good guys. I look forward to next bi vs straight man off we have, you should come judge it.

Shame he seems to have disappeared. That soundproofing in my cellar came in handy,just thinking out loud there.

I was starting to wonder . Anyway sound proofing guy..... I could use a good one, is he straight though? Or is another man off in order? "

He's only straight on a Sunday when the Lord is watching.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway?

Exactly that.. preferences are preferences and shouldn't need justifying. I hate some things most people love and feel no need to explain myself to anyone.. I just don't like it..

. I was just leaving and now I’ve seen a comment about hiding homophobia behind preferences. Aaarghhhhhh. This place!!! Not biting. I’m off! "

*seductively pops open a can of Pringles*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Manly man?! The guy I met for a bi mmf couldn't have been more manly if he had tried!

Was he drinking stout and smoking a cigar whilst lifting a barbell with his penis?

You've met him as well then?

Yeah, he's one of the good guys. I look forward to next bi vs straight man off we have, you should come judge it.

Shame he seems to have disappeared. That soundproofing in my cellar came in handy,just thinking out loud there.

I was starting to wonder . Anyway sound proofing guy..... I could use a good one, is he straight though? Or is another man off in order?

He's only straight on a Sunday when the Lord is watching."

Perfect, tell him Sunday 20th

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"if i were a woman i couldnt be with a bisexual man .

i couldnt have him making love to me knowing he had been in a mans bottom

likewise i couldnt give him oral without thinking omg , im sucking this and its been in a dark place.

coat me off i'm sure , sorry its just the way i'm made

men are for women and vice versa in my eyes

"

Newsflash!

Not all bi or gay men have anal sex.

If you were a woman would you be happy knowing another woman had sucked a guys dick or had anal with them?

Because tbh a mouth and an arsehole are near as damn identical whether you're a guy or a gal.......

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was a cat I would be dead by now.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Manly man?! The guy I met for a bi mmf couldn't have been more manly if he had tried!

Was he drinking stout and smoking a cigar whilst lifting a barbell with his penis?

You've met him as well then?

Yeah, he's one of the good guys. I look forward to next bi vs straight man off we have, you should come judge it.

Shame he seems to have disappeared. That soundproofing in my cellar came in handy,just thinking out loud there.

I was starting to wonder . Anyway sound proofing guy..... I could use a good one, is he straight though? Or is another man off in order?

He's only straight on a Sunday when the Lord is watching.

Perfect, tell him Sunday 20th "

I'll tell him it's a date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Frankly I find some of these comments really rather sad. As if the measure of a person is their sexuality.

Personal preference is fine and I understand that everyone has the choice to meet whoever they choose, however making assumptions about a person based on their sexuality is rather unsavoury and somewhat bigoted. If we were discussing bi women or women verifying women then the responses would be completely different.

The stigma associated with bi guys is clearly alive and well it would seem. "

couldn’t agree with you more, bi women seem to the most sort after on this site, bi men are rejected

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"I don't really see it as any of my business as to who anyone else has or hasn't met with and what they did or didn't get up to.

As long as I have a mutual connection and attraction to the person I don't see what relevance there is as to who they've met with before. You can't give blood if you have slept with a bisexual man.

You can't give blood if you've recently had a tattoo either.

Always confused me that gay/bisexual men could be in monogamous relationships for years yet if honest when questioned couldn't give blood....but hey - guess that's for a different thread.

A"

The rules have changed on this . Being someone that has to give regular blood samples I have to be very open about my sexual activities . Men who have had sex with men can give blood if it’s been 3 months since their last risky sexual encounter . Also on this list are sex workers and swingers and people who have had various illnesses or been to certain countries . All Blood is tested for type and any diseases .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway?

Exactly that.. preferences are preferences and shouldn't need justifying. I hate some things most people love and feel no need to explain myself to anyone.. I just don't like it..

. I was just leaving and now I’ve seen a comment about hiding homophobia behind preferences. Aaarghhhhhh. This place!!! Not biting. I’m off!

*seductively pops open a can of Pringles* "
what happened to popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway?

Exactly that.. preferences are preferences and shouldn't need justifying. I hate some things most people love and feel no need to explain myself to anyone.. I just don't like it..

. I was just leaving and now I’ve seen a comment about hiding homophobia behind preferences. Aaarghhhhhh. This place!!! Not biting. I’m off!

*seductively pops open a can of Pringles* what happened to popcorn?"

Left that one in 2018, Pringles are also a little more festive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements.

Manly man?! The guy I met for a bi mmf couldn't have been more manly if he had tried!

Was he drinking stout and smoking a cigar whilst lifting a barbell with his penis?

You've met him as well then?

Yeah, he's one of the good guys. I look forward to next bi vs straight man off we have, you should come judge it.

Shame he seems to have disappeared. That soundproofing in my cellar came in handy,just thinking out loud there.

I was starting to wonder . Anyway sound proofing guy..... I could use a good one, is he straight though? Or is another man off in order?

He's only straight on a Sunday when the Lord is watching.

Perfect, tell him Sunday 20th

I'll tell him it's a date."

Excited much ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another thread where it gets completely blown out of all proportion.

I personally love bi guys.. other women don't get any kick from it, or are turned off by the thought. Again, their preference. Nobody else's business.

Fab profiles are like a shopping.. you simply make the best informed choice you can based on your preference. It's the simple.

The why's don't matter. You can argue till the sun goes down about masculinity and femininity but you'll never change minds. Generalisations are crazy regardless of what they're about.

Exactly. So predictable too. It’s gone down the exact route I knew it would. Easiest answer don’t give reasons for preferences. What does it matter anyway?

Exactly that.. preferences are preferences and shouldn't need justifying. I hate some things most people love and feel no need to explain myself to anyone.. I just don't like it..

. I was just leaving and now I’ve seen a comment about hiding homophobia behind preferences. Aaarghhhhhh. This place!!! Not biting. I’m off!

*seductively pops open a can of Pringles* what happened to popcorn?

Left that one in 2018, Pringles are also a little more festive. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't really see it as any of my business as to who anyone else has or hasn't met with and what they did or didn't get up to.

As long as I have a mutual connection and attraction to the person I don't see what relevance there is as to who they've met with before. You can't give blood if you have slept with a bisexual man.

You can't give blood if you've recently had a tattoo either.

Always confused me that gay/bisexual men could be in monogamous relationships for years yet if honest when questioned couldn't give blood....but hey - guess that's for a different thread.

A

The rules have changed on this . Being someone that has to give regular blood samples I have to be very open about my sexual activities . Men who have had sex with men can give blood if it’s been 3 months since their last risky sexual encounter . Also on this list are sex workers and swingers and people who have had various illnesses or been to certain countries . All Blood is tested for type and any diseases . "

Swingers in the same risk group as bi men. That won't go down well.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"This is an interesting point - I veri’d a single male who I have known for about 3 years through swinging scene. He had to hide is verification because people wouldn’t play with him because they thought he played with a single guy

No issues for me as I am straight and I will chat to anyone and their uncle "

I am going to add to this. I spend a lot of time in straight male enviroments with fellow football fans. I have added them to social media, would people still meet me for sex, based on my social media - of course

If I added a single male and verified on here I would be treat from some circles like the 4 horse men of the apocalypse

I am going to be a devils advocate; I meet a straight couple. Today. 6 months later the man decides he is bi. Someone looks at my profile, oh you have met a couple where the male is bi, you must be secretly bi and your lying about your sexuality

I still think there is stigma with bi guys in the scene, and I must admit i have had a situation where I was playing with a couple, the guy was bi, I didn’t know and he touched my cock during play. I stopped play because that overstepped my boundaries. I had posted a thread about it a while back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is an interesting point - I veri’d a single male who I have known for about 3 years through swinging scene. He had to hide is verification because people wouldn’t play with him because they thought he played with a single guy

No issues for me as I am straight and I will chat to anyone and their uncle

I am going to add to this. I spend a lot of time in straight male enviroments with fellow football fans. I have added them to social media, would people still meet me for sex, based on my social media - of course

If I added a single male and verified on here I would be treat from some circles like the 4 horse men of the apocalypse

I am going to be a devils advocate; I meet a straight couple. Today. 6 months later the man decides he is bi. Someone looks at my profile, oh you have met a couple where the male is bi, you must be secretly bi and your lying about your sexuality

I still think there is stigma with bi guys in the scene, and I must admit i have had a situation where I was playing with a couple, the guy was bi, I didn’t know and he touched my cock during play. I stopped play because that overstepped my boundaries. I had posted a thread about it a while back

"

Perhaps your last paragraph is the main reason some people don't like bi men. Many men on here are rude and pushy (not all).

The perception of a bi guy may be that he's doubly rude and pushy with no boundaries.

I agree with all your other comments re: footie mates etc.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

If they are on your friends list can you catch the ghey?

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"If they were play meets then no- I want a manly-man so they would be unlikely to fit my requirements."

Stereotyping straight and non-straight men.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Yes I would. They may have met them at socials. In any case, I'm happy to meet bi men and I'm not fussed how they describe their sexuality on their profile. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i were a woman i couldnt be with a bisexual man .

i couldnt have him making love to me knowing he had been in a mans bottom

likewise i couldnt give him oral without thinking omg , im sucking this and its been in a dark place

coat me off i'm sure , sorry its just the way i'm made

men are for women and vice versa in my eyes

Newsflash!

Not all bi or gay men have anal sex.

If you were a woman would you be happy knowing another woman had sucked a guys dick or had anal with them?

Because tbh a mouth and an arsehole are near as damn identical whether you're a guy or a gal.......

A"

How can a mouth and arse be identical

We eat healthy food and talk via our mouth

An arse is our bodies waste disposal system and full of pooh !!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"if i were a woman i couldnt be with a bisexual man .

i couldnt have him making love to me knowing he had been in a mans bottom

likewise i couldnt give him oral without thinking omg , im sucking this and its been in a dark place

coat me off i'm sure , sorry its just the way i'm made

men are for women and vice versa in my eyes

Newsflash!

Not all bi or gay men have anal sex.

If you were a woman would you be happy knowing another woman had sucked a guys dick or had anal with them?

Because tbh a mouth and an arsehole are near as damn identical whether you're a guy or a gal.......

A

How can a mouth and arse be identical

We eat healthy food and talk via our mouth

An arse is our bodies waste disposal system and full of pooh !!!"

Pretty sure that isn't what he's saying.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Would you meet a straight man who has men or tv's on his friend's list or verification summary?

If not why not?"

Yes. Don't see the problem.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Interesting thread with some of the expected comments being made - to answer the original question though and sit on the fence at the same time - it depends.

As an openly bisexual man I wouldn't meet someone who identifies as straight for a bisexual meet as I think if someone can't be honest about their sexuality what else are they lying about - if they're "curious" then identify as bi-curious at least.

That said if it were just socially, or for a straight meet as part of a couple then I wouldn't have an issue with it which I know is a contradiction but it adds up in my head.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Would you meet a straight man who has men or tv's on his friend's list or verification summary?

If not why not?"

Depends what the verification said, as I assume you can be straight and be friends with a TV without fucking them.

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